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 Author Thread: Compromise or no?
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Compromise or no?
Posted: 9/5/2009 8:56:16 AM
Op the Hair issue lets say its reversed and from you thumbnail you have medium lenght hair. What if she wanted you to either let it grow out to mid way of your back or get a crew cut??
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Double Urethra
Posted: 9/2/2009 10:03:03 AM
Is this similar to a 3 legged dog?
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 8:47:46 AM
Personally I like some of both. Variety is the spice of life.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
is falsifying one's profile age no longer taboo?
Posted: 9/2/2009 7:06:49 AM
Age thing well I was taught never to ask a womans age as it is not polite.

The thing with age I have noticed growing up that many in there younger years want to look older as pre-teens are wanting to look like teenagers and teens want to look 20 something but soon the age thing reverses.

Someone putting on there profile the much younger age could have other things there fudging on or just out lying about. Just takes time to let that person put out all there card to see what they really have.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
not exactly a sex question but it is physical
Posted: 9/1/2009 1:34:13 PM
Since its only temporary I wouldn't think anyone would mind. Now if it was a leg brace that you where going to have to live with the rest of your life that might be a different story.

From your Thumnail your attractive enough a real man that your looking to date won't mind.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
3 days... worth starting something?
Posted: 9/1/2009 12:57:28 PM
Oh Op your 23 and fit. Ain't going to be no way your going to be bad in Bed.

I'd say if he's better and your both wanting to get together let nature take its course.

Then one might want to hold out on your friend meaning if he has the means to reconnect with you at your neck of the woods by not letting him have you might be enough to keep him interested enough to spend the time and money to get to know you more.

But then you are 23 and living life to its fullest traveled to a far away land. This could put the Icing on the Cake to have a little naked time together for a lifetime of memories of Love in the Summer of 2009.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Genital piercings (good,bad,curious) what do you think?
Posted: 9/1/2009 12:44:04 PM
Personally I don't wish to decorate my body with any ink or links, bars or other hardware.

With the right woman with Ink or Hardware attached it can be a really nice come on!! But like the exposed midrif on the wrong person letting a big wall of fat roll out just ain't attractive at least in my book.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Whats up with all these Virgins
Posted: 9/1/2009 12:23:20 PM
Awhile back I date a lady that said she was a born again Virgin...

Then in today's world of Std's and even worse Aids Might be a good thing when one is yet a Virgin.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
The Spark
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:14:15 AM
oohlala ---> Personally that is or can be part of the start of meeting someone. After one gets over those 1st sparks and looks past the Lust and want then hopefully one can take it resposibly to the next level. I think your on the right track with the knowledge that thinking won't be clear when Lust is in charge.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 249 (view)
 
The shaving craze
Posted: 8/31/2009 9:10:58 AM
Being shaved or trimed is nice when a woman does it. Its just a pain when one goes down on a woman and ends up with a hair in the teeth or swallows a mouth full like a cat and fur balls.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 144 (view)
 
Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 8/31/2009 9:01:33 AM
There can be any number of reason us guys enjoy porn. Most or some.

Could be your not putting out enough or the type he wants, when he wants, where he wants. This could be a long, long boring list.

Or like so many things in life most want what they can't ever possibly have. That special vehicle, house, vacation, and yes Sex With That Girl In The Video...
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
acceptable time to ask man about sex?
Posted: 8/31/2009 8:54:39 AM
Seems funny to me that these men your dating wouldn't bring up sex if you've dated or gone on say 5-6 dates or dated over a couple months.

I would say if you've gone out say 4-6 times and nothing happened I'd bring it up. Maybe they have just been waiting for you to bring it up. Or maybe you've been sending signals that for what ever reason don't want sex until a certain time or involvement-commitments have been met.

I'm sure if you like the guy your dating if you cozy up to him and with or without words suggest sex you should have no troubles fulfilling your want.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
How much has your criteria changed?
Posted: 8/31/2009 8:43:49 AM
Oh yes my Criteria has evolved with time. Guess that's why I'm still single and looking on and off. Just speaking for myself it takes someone more that just a breathing hot babe anymore. As I think about this I now have this long list of things that other person must have, should have or I could take them if other things where different.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 133 (view)
 
narrowed dating pools?
Posted: 8/31/2009 8:34:42 AM
There is an old saying that oposites attract Op. So possibly you should look for a Right Wing Consertive leaning type. You both could have the times of your lives trying to change each others thinking and beliefs.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Love and sex: confused at 54!
Posted: 8/31/2009 8:31:54 AM
One has to weigh if the Sex is enough to stay with this person. The other thing is the level your wanting this relationship to go to. If your thinking Coupledom-Marriage-Living together those little things very well will become Huge. Been there an done that before.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
I have only one question, WTF?!
Posted: 7/30/2009 11:01:15 AM
Taking advice from others can be a bitter pill to swallow. One can change and grow from listening even if it wasn't asked for. Pick and choose what you want let the others go.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Length of time to heal after divorced before dating
Posted: 7/29/2009 12:19:05 PM
Some can successfully handle getting on with there lives right away's other's never get over a divorce especially if they where the one that were left. I've heard a rule of 1 year for every 5 years of relationship as well.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it?
Posted: 7/25/2009 8:31:21 AM
Well Op I think in the Anal Department that Let me Do You 1st then you could Strap On Your Strap-On and Do me Next!!
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
 
If a man or woman have a STD... should that person post it on their profile
Posted: 7/25/2009 8:28:26 AM
Hide your STD's at all cost then after an intimate encounter with your new love casually mention to them that you have Full Blown HIV as ask if they'd like to get together next weekend for dinner and a movie or maybe a sleep over...
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
what do you do when girls are too abrubt for sex?
Posted: 7/25/2009 7:42:36 AM
Op do like you do when your about to cross the street. Look both ways then have Wonderful wild kinky sex with your love kitten afterwards look your kitten straight into her eyes and say Thank You Love Kitten!!
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
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Why do you men always find your partners friends more attractive or appealing?
Posted: 7/25/2009 7:04:36 AM
Op not that I'd ever compare a human to the Animal Kingdom but I've found that with Horses & Cattle in a pasture will always stretch thru a fence to reach that blade of grass on the otherside. Grass is greener on the other side.

Or in human terms some desire the most what is just out of reach or unobtainable.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 99 (view)
 
Things I have experienced that are unpleasant when meeting someone...
Posted: 7/24/2009 8:35:53 AM
Some either there up bringing was bad or they forgot what there mother's & father's taught them to do with manor's and being polite.

Its one thing if someone in a business setting stands someone up. Do that to your Doctor and you'll be billed as though you sat thru the visit anyhow even if you didn't show without calling 24-48 hours ahead.

Then I think some just want to test if someone will meet them and just never had intentions of meeting. Some just want to do things to let people have it because someone did it to them so your fair game.

Suppose the meeting experience I've had with other is the age factor and size factor. One lady several years ago must have been tiping the scale upwards of 400-500 lbs wanted me to bed her within minutes. Ewww... Nasty.

I would think just taking time in getting to know whos on the other side of the pc, im, e-mail & phone. I've pretty much known what I was getting into just sometimes suprised by underestimations of sorts.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 1:19:47 PM
Well Damn Op maybe she was in Real Need of some sexual Release and she afterwards was quite satisfied and felt fulfilled??

Should have taken that as a compliment!! Services rendered much appreciated.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Define your terms, separated or just in another room
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:48:01 AM
Mmm, married is different in my 2 cents worth means unavailable. On previous threads many said well they couldn't move out because of the house & finances. And well they lived in separate rooms and different bedrooms.

Still if your married to one and want to commit to another you best I can tell have to end the 1st marriage contract prior to entering into the next.

separated still is married just separated
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Taking a Trip Down Memory Lane
Posted: 7/22/2009 1:53:45 PM
This is a funny thread meaning some just can't let go. For me there are somethings that just have to stay.

Good rule but not set in concrete is if you haven't used it in depending on what 30 day, 6 months year or 2 then its time for it to go.

Nothing like having superglue or batteries that in no way could ever work.

On the other hand just because I haven't boiled water in a pot or haven't used my favorite fishing pole in a while that its time to throw it out.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Younger men wanting sex chat
Posted: 7/22/2009 12:35:42 PM
Op you don't look like a prude. I think some like the attention of someone younger beings its a guy with a younger lady or lady with younger guy.

I'm kind of like you that words, pictures and such are OK but there ain't nothing like the real thing.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 134 (view)
 
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 7/20/2009 1:26:36 PM
Maybe your just to much of a Man for these Prettier girls.

Yea maybe they'd rather not have Don Wan or 007.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Are you trusting, optimistic, or both?
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:41:08 PM
Yes I trust everyone with some exception until the prove themselves otherwise.

It doesn't take long till you start to have question. Here the same story but it changes. Not to be mean but if you take your time, don't rush into things these types will grow impatient and lose interest in someone trying to do the right thing. And will soon fade away.

I agree dishonesty will and has destroyed relationships in the past.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Gambling, in any shape or form
Posted: 7/16/2009 11:34:27 AM
I can take it or leave it. Like the Video poker machines but when the smoke gets to burning my eyes or the more Mature Adults takes them over it can get a little much. Won a couple hundred a time or 2. I'd say its been at least a year or better since I played.

And those powerball tickets. Use to I'd win a dollar or so but I don't know when the last time Ieven got a free ticket.

Really like going to the Casinos to eat. Most have great food at reasonable prices.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 199 (view)
 
Breast Augmentation over 45
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:49:27 AM
Hope op has made up her mind as it looks to be going on 3 years.

Big or Small Breast don't matter to me. But I suppose for the ladies that want to turn some heads and attract a special attention from the guys then I'd say Go for it.

I prefer All Natural body parts!!
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Singles Cruise?
Posted: 7/14/2009 1:45:28 PM
Maybe I should try a Cruise but it sort of reminds me of a Bus tour or being on the old Greyhound Bus. Just not for me but with some exceptions.

When I was younger parents, grandparents and I spend 6 weeks on a bus tour thru Europe. Course being very young sometimes anything can be exciting. Now I like to fly to my destination and take a car on road trips.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/14/2009 1:34:45 PM
You know I've dated some 2 Bager's before but having said that they had a pretty smokin bod. Otherwise don't think I'd have been interested.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 70 (view)
 
How can BOB replace a man?
Posted: 7/14/2009 12:23:59 PM
Is this question like a comedian that talks about Stunt Pu$$y???

Now that might be something for some guys...
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 68 (view)
 
whack jobs! are they on the increase?
Posted: 7/14/2009 8:53:33 AM
Here we meet again to berate and complain about each other and gender's.

One persons Wack Job could be another's Prince or Princess.

Then What Really is Normal?? You might be normal to yourself but to you neighbor looking at you thinks Your Way out in Left Field.

I think reading your last paragraph that your not getting any responses to your messages sent out and that your profile isn't generating any messages back to you?? Well in this Pond the more you cast the more likely you'll catch a fish or at least get a nibble.

Break it down as to how many are already in a relationship of 1 type or the other. Or that just merely like to see if someone might bite on there profile. Or just out to post in the forums.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Anal Sex...he wants it, but I'm scared to try
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:36:00 PM
I can think of 1 suggestion.

You could get yourself a strap on and tell him that you'll let him do you just as soon as you do him.

Probably everyone else has suggested this one already.

Better one is get get yourself plenty of lube, then let him start slow and easy then just hold it there till your ready for some motion and pounding...
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Is no sex dating so terrible?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:16:10 PM
Its a thing taught in the past yet in today's world with all the goodies one can get from causual sex been brought back in teaching.

I look at it like buying a car without test driving it for a little while. If you don't turn the motor on and kick the tires then look under the hood you just don't know what you might be getting yourself into. Having said that while test driving your possible lifetime partner do use protection.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Poll for the guys, smell and taste of a woman's special part versus age
Posted: 7/13/2009 11:14:34 AM
Maybe a better way to state your case is what feels better younger or older??

Soft, Firm or fluffy??

Personally I like my meat aged, Beef hung for 30 days is really the way to go!!
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
role play
Posted: 7/13/2009 10:49:40 AM
How about those kiddy tatoos that wash off or better yet your local porn store would have all the supplies you would ever need.

Check it out!!! And don't forget to buy American Made Products... Spread the wealth!!
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 153 (view)
 
but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows?
Posted: 7/13/2009 10:42:25 AM
We know if she swallows she's now getting her Protein shot of the day. And if she spits well have a paper towel handy so she uses it instead of my bed, floor or other nearby items for a spit-toon
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 183 (view)
 
Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys
Posted: 7/13/2009 10:38:44 AM
Maybe op you've just ran across the wrong guy's.

Hmmm maybe you should just up front either prior to or on the 1st date state the fact that you will not consider oral sex of any sorts.

Some guy's will appreciate your up front frankness and honesty. Some will disapear and other's will respect you more for being up front. Not all enjoy getting a bj... Just saying...
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
How Long
Posted: 7/13/2009 10:08:02 AM
Its over when you say its over and are ready to move on to the next relationship. The Baggage from past relationship speaking for myself remain. The Good, Bad and Ugly. Its what you do with it that counts.

If you start on a new relationship and tell that new person well this is how so and so use to do, thing and want. Then you might not be so ready.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Why not happiness
Posted: 7/13/2009 8:45:27 AM
Hard to find a companion-friend to be there when one has a tough problem or crisis. Many will say I'll be there but when the time comes where are they??

To me by the time we've made it to "midlife" we should relize that we need to know how to take care of oursleves. Yes we will need help and help will come when you least expect it and from whom you'd least expect.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
am i boring?
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:32:51 AM
Sex is a 3 letter word you know.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Imopressive / Memorable Technology
Posted: 7/10/2009 7:32:39 AM
When I was younger Caculator's, Golly Seems they cost like $ 200 or so.

Now Cell Phones I mean Really has amazed and delighted me. My job takes me out of the Office a bit and to have the ablity to talk to other's from most locations, View websites, Take and send pictures is for me priceless.

Seems to me the Space travel has fallen way behind. Not being a scientist but watching it seems that the Space shuttle only going a couple hundred miles up even though its quite a feat in itself is such a small step since we've already been to the Moon. Really seems that we should have traveled to mars or having made it to light speed.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Do you tell a new partner about recent sexual encounters?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:12:14 PM
Inquiring minds want to know...
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
ex's
Posted: 7/9/2009 12:39:48 PM
From a guy's point an "X" of mine seemed to have dated several which really didn't bother me. However at times it seemed she just had hug and talk to some in such a way that Don't know if she was trying to relive the feelings she had with these guys or trying to get under my skin.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 238 (view)
 
Hassle free dating
Posted: 7/9/2009 11:04:48 AM
Me Leona "I have an uncle some years back that allowed that he felt a person should every 7 years turn in the old model woman and get a new one. He's lived what he preached but well need I say more???

Yes. I wanna know, how'd that work out for him?"

------------

Well Lets Last I heard he's on his 5 or 6th wife. Cheated on each. Multiple Children 1 or more with each. Still selfish and selfcentered the best we can tell. He doesn't come around our side of the family as I suppose where to judgemental... Everyone has to live there own life there way.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 222 (view)
 
Hassle free dating
Posted: 7/9/2009 8:25:43 AM
moraima

I had a little chuckle reading your post about some people looking at relationships in cycles. I have an uncle some years back that allowed that he felt a person should every 7 years turn in the old model woman and get a new one. He's lived what he preached but well need I say more???
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Being needed and making a contribution.
Posted: 7/9/2009 8:02:20 AM
I think there has to be a happy medium in this area of ones life. I know a family no one died good people but they finally dominated things to the extreem in there small town church. Doing and volunteering for others is great yet one just has to have balance in life.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
can't cum with a condom on
Posted: 7/8/2009 11:33:32 AM
When one ages the body changes and it could be age is causing this...

Also diet and medications or drinking could affect it as well...
 
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