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 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 6:29:51 PM
Practice? Age?
Shít, everyone gets better at what they do in time. Perhaps you don't like younger women as much as older ones?

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Sex ruining prospects.
Posted: 4/16/2007 2:00:02 AM
So.. the girls you've had in the sack sucked? Bad sex is bad sex... happens to all of us, sometimes we suck in the sack.

I think perhaps the problem is that you were not prepared, and weren't into this for just sex. My only advice would be, take your time with the next one. Make sure she's the one for you.. or, perhaps you have other preferences that haven't surfaced yet.

Christ, it's usually the women that have this problem!

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 43 (view)
 
How do you initiate a conversation about STDs and not using condoms?
Posted: 4/16/2007 1:48:16 AM
Go together.

It's the best way, especially if you are dating now. It's like a fresh start, and you will both have peace of mind knowing you are both clean.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
geting knocked up
Posted: 4/16/2007 1:34:01 AM
Hmm.. I mean, there is something sexy about pregnant women sometimes.. but that's a bit much. I think that is what he means.. perhaps it's time for you two to talk about another baby?

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 467 (view)
 
Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off
Posted: 2/4/2007 1:37:57 AM
Depends.

I've had mixed feelings depending on the girl, and the tattoo(s). If there are a lot of them, it can be a turn off, unless they are unique, and tasteful. I simply despite seeing tattoos that I've seen tonnes of times, I cannot believe that some people just go into a parlor and point at something in a book and say "that one" or "I saw this one, I want it too". To me, that expresses lack of creativity, and individuality, which to me is a huge turn off (and subsequently, why I don't prefer "girly-girls".) Body art is supposed to be a form of expression, and if you express the same thing everyone else does than why should you stand out?

On the topic of tattoos on women, why the hell do you say in your profile "Don't message me about my tattoos, they're real" and have pics of them? Christ, take them off your profile if you don't want someone to compliment/criticize them.

*Edit*If and when I get my tattoos, I've already designed my own, though I may get scarification instead.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Would you stop & help someone?
Posted: 2/2/2007 2:45:06 AM
I'dve stopped and made sure they were ok, that's how I roll. If it was the middle of the night, and I was the only person there.. I dunno, hard to say with some of the stories I've read man. That's a different situation though.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Promiscuous Men
Posted: 2/1/2007 3:56:09 AM
Perhaps on the average pervert.

I however, am faithful. There is little point to retaining a monogamistic relationship, if it's a one way street. Things don't work that way in my mind.

I like my sex, yes but I know when to turn to my hand to avoid complications.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Barbaro...a movie better than Seabiscuit?
Posted: 2/1/2007 2:52:36 AM
Eh, move to OT perhaps?... no need for deletion.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 62 (view)
 
meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 2/1/2007 2:49:13 AM
Yes, but sort of.

If by talking on the net, and meeting up nail each other.. not really. Not sex with a stranger, with someone I know but that's different I suppose.

One time I did see this girl in a store, she was a friend of a friend and we made eye contact, while we circled each other.. it was wierd, like we both knew that I'd be plowing her. Never before had I felt such an intense, arousing feeling fully clothed!

So... I thought I had just put her in my spank bank, and went on to party later that night. Well, turns out that she was at this party and, sure enough we tucked out down the hall back to my place to smoke (as I used to back then) and .. yeah.

heh, so if that was what you meant then yes.. if not then, enjoy the story? ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 62 (view)
 
LaVey Satanism
Posted: 12/27/2006 1:18:48 AM

Mr. Fr0, first you say you are open to hearing new things (in establishing your worldview) then you say it has been around for ages. You realize that is something of a contradiction don't you?


When you're this big, they call you Mr.. ;)

I am indeed open to new ideas, I'm anything but a biggot. I've listened to several religions, and this was the one I related with the most as I stated. I've simply stated that Satanism is not a "new" religion per say.. new to you perhaps, but I was just saying that Laveyism has been around for about 50 or so years. Sterotyped Satanism, the impression that the majority of the population has has been around as long as Christian based religions. Cos' we all know that I eat babies, and rape women and sacrifice animals.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Boxing Day!!
Posted: 12/26/2006 2:31:15 AM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boxing_day

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
LaVey Satanism
Posted: 12/26/2006 2:26:58 AM

Well that's just what the world needs, another religion....

What, opposed to swallowing the sh|t we're fed since we're old enough to talk? Yes please, I'm open to hear new things thank you very much. I'm very much at peace within myself, and have accepted who I am, and established my beliefs.

If you want a cookie cutter life, that's your decision. Don't act as though this is a new religion.. it's been around for ages.


Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
LaVey Satanism
Posted: 12/25/2006 3:56:57 AM
Relevant to what?

Existance? I think so.

My opinion;
You are the most important person in the world. Anything that can and will benefit you, is ultimately worth investigating. Do not step on toes, and do not let others step on yours without penalty - some grace permitted, shit happens.

I have the Satanic Bible, The Satanic Rituals, and Satan Speaks! Interested in reading The Devil's Notebook some day. I for one, do not embrace nor feel the magick aspect of it. Seems far too fictional, even as an avid WoW player. :P

I do agree with the general philosophies and the psychology behind Satanism. I relate with a lot of it. I also find it grossly amusing the misconceptions surrounding the religion. I don't consider myself a Satanist per say, I've taken many parts of it and developed my own religion which I've cleverly named Fr0ism.

;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Video games?
Posted: 12/25/2006 3:46:17 AM
There is a world of difference between having a hobby, and having an addiction/problem.

Moderation people.. like anything.

I've also found that if you don't ignore your girlfriend for video games all the time, she won't dump your ass for playing them. Priorities man.. priorities.

In conclusion, women don't detest video games per say, they see through it and know how guys get. :P

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Cashiers being hit on
Posted: 12/25/2006 3:32:49 AM
Cashier, letter carrier, Jehova's Witness ... it doesn't matter.

If I think she's cute, I'm probably gonna be flirty. As for a grocery store cashier, yeah there are a few cute ones at one of the stores here.. I don't go so far as to make a scene, perhaps a inconspicuous comment. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Threesomes
Posted: 12/25/2006 3:04:55 AM
Several.

In fact, I've have quite a few and they've really detracted from the way I feel about one on one sex, not quite as fun without the group. Not really the stories I'm gonna tell on a forum, better saved for when I'm trashed and the inevitable sex stories come out. ;)

Point being; If you have the chance, take it. Worst case scenario, you decide you don't like it.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Disconnection during sex
Posted: 12/25/2006 3:03:00 AM

If we are feeling like we MAY be approaching climax, we start thinking about other things...like baseball, or grandma, or washing the car, or anything that will get Mr.Happy to keep from going off


LOL

You think like me then eh? Makes this the second post I agree with you on. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Disconnection during sex
Posted: 12/25/2006 3:01:53 AM
lol

I told myself that this has to be related to cyber..

Imagine my sadness when I opened the thread to read it wasn't. /cry

Um, well if you don't want just sex, then don't go for just sex. Some people don't have it in them to just have sex with no attachment. I for one, can as can many people. You're probably not being 100% clear before you start with someone if that's what you're trying to do. I will admit that it started that way once, then we dated for three years but that was the exception to my rule. ;)

If you are looking for advice, I can only really tell you to accept the truth. You can't lie to yourself and try to make yourself do something you don't want to. You might not have it in you to just bone guys no strings. Nothing wrong with that.. but if you are trying to ... Um, practice makes perfect I suppose. Nail as many people as you can and suddenly you've lost all meaning to monogamy. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
he pulls out
Posted: 12/25/2006 2:56:28 AM
No.

I mean, if there were no biological side effects or STD's there would be no condoms imo.


and please don't tell if is to splash her all over or method of birth control. I know that.
I want to know the "emotional" reason why men think that way.


Facials, tummy sticks, and painting their tailbone tattoos is hot but I don't get what you are saying here. There is no emotional reason why I wont' ejeculate inside a woman. I don't care if you are on Depro-vera, even if we are dating.. the reason you do is for procreation.. so if that's the emotional part you were referring to.. I guess cos' I'm not ready for kids?

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Is that all women want is sex?
Posted: 12/25/2006 2:42:07 AM
lol says the guy.. :P

I learned years ago, and even more so over the course of the past few years women are just as bad as guys. We're human beings with carnal desires. I mean, you say it like it's a bad thing. I used to have this exalted impression of women.. until I lived with several, and by several I mean a few at a time, and just one. Slobs they be! As bad as men says I!

Eh, in terms of sex.. we're all human and all need our pipes cleaned once in awhile. Some of us just aren't so reluctant to hold out for the third date or later.. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 796 (view)
 
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 12/20/2006 4:25:31 AM
Doesn't bother me, unless she just perfomed on some other dude and had it in her mouth.

If you're talking about a deep french kiss after cumming in her mouth, then no thanks.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
spray on nylons
Posted: 12/14/2006 3:54:10 AM
Eh, Spray on toupee why not leggings?

;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/14/2006 3:52:29 AM

I think this is a tendency where sexual freedom is highest. It has NOTHING to do with having sex or drive at all. You are taught these things, it is seeded in your mind. Some people also prefer to wait for good dreams.
In these matters there is no difference between the genders either.


What?... I don't follow you here. Masterbation has everything to do with a high sexual drive, why else do you do it? Boredom? Periodically.. I'll give you that, but I was speaking completely on a general basis that I'm sure there are more men that masterbate than women, and I know a few of both gender that I've acertained do in fact, not masterbate for reasons such as religion, personal preference or just plain get laid all the time, and have no need for it.

Granted, masterbation has been stained in the past with being wrong but lets face it.. that was like, when my parents were younger. Times have changed sir.. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/13/2006 4:19:02 AM
Preference.

Some guys don't masterbate either. I have a hard time believing that, but frankly some people don't have a high sex drive, or get enough sex where they don't need to. I wish I was that lucky. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Do You Believe in Suicide?
Posted: 12/13/2006 4:04:07 AM
Yes.

You don't like this world, here's the exit.

Please exhaust all options, and should be your last resort. I love myself waaay too much to do it.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
spray on nylons
Posted: 12/13/2006 4:02:07 AM
It's called Nyce Legs, and from what I've seen it looks nice. I can't vouche for the quality though. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Do you prefer an educated partner?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:25:30 AM
I don't think it's fair to gauge how successful a relationship can/will be based on the education of the people.

You can, however say that your preference is educated women. I think I understand what you are saying though. I don't really think anyone wants to be stuck with a proverbial ball n chain that is seemingly not going the same way you are.

I prefer to have a relationship with someone I can have a conversation with, have relatively similar goals, and if not at least be headed a similar direction, share things in common and be sexually compatible. Just because a person has not attended a school, does not mean that they aren't educated per say.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
does it work both ways...girls?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:13:41 AM
Of course it works either way.. you have to be familiar with the whole double standard thing by now. ;)

Most guys I know think chick on chick is cool, myself included. Hell, do what you do I'll not judge it.

I do know several girls that think guys on guys is hot, but I know more girls that don't think that it is sexy at all.

To break up with a person because of their sexual history seems a bit preposterous, given that you really should know this stuff prior to dating someone and who the hell cares?

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
My pecker goes limp right before penetration
Posted: 12/12/2006 3:59:44 AM
Hey dude, just so you know.... I wasn't necessarily saying that you were or anything not that there's anything wrong with it (remind you of a sitcom? >.< )

Pressure, no doubt.. I happens. I know when you're just gunnin' to get in there you can lose focus fast and .. you know, or you get a bit of performance anxiety.

Both are perfectly normal, and go away with practice. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
If you send a compliment to someone, does that mean you're interested?
Posted: 12/8/2006 3:58:13 AM
Not always.

I often PM people, commenting on their pics, how awesome their hair or eyes look, or how much I like the pictures.

I think they assume I'm interested, as they don't always reply.. when in reality I'm just commenting one something I'd think would warrant a thanks or any kind of reply at best.

People are cynical, with is understandable to a point but some people just can't take the damn compliment and accept it as genuine. If I was trying to show interest, these aren't the type of people I'd be into anyway. :P

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 12/8/2006 3:54:24 AM
I smoked for 12 years, the habit is nasty. So glad I quit.

Anywho, I have read a bit about this before.. and can sorta relate to it. Seeing an attractive woman continually bring something to her shimmering, red lips is really stimulating. Trying to kiss that woman who tastes like an ashtray smells isn't so sexy.

My ex wanted to start smoking when I used to, and I wouldn't let her. After we broke up, she started ****ing around with some dude that smokes and now she does too... =/

Technically, smoking helps women curb weight and as sad as it sounds.. I know girls that insist this is the sole reason they smoke. So, I guess if being lean is sexy then yes.. smoking can be sexy. I for one find it a large turn off.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
My pecker goes limp right before penetration
Posted: 12/8/2006 3:49:24 AM

mabey your gay?


Aside from being grammatically incorrect in more that one way, she may be on to something. :P

You may not be attracted to her, or your are just putting too much stress on it. Sometimes in between putting a condom on and preparing for penetration you can go limp. It's happened to me, and I've found that you have to ease the transition. If there is no action happening, you lose your wood. Keep kissing, licking etc while rolling it on.. you will find (or, at least I did) that it's a lot hotter if it's progressive, rather than a moment of silence.. kinda strenuous on the pecker ya' know? ;)

Also, having her put it on works in my experience..

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 37 (view)
 
How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/23/2006 3:17:51 AM
How long for head?

Same type of question. It's foreplay, although you can get off on it it's primarily to titillate each other, ie. she gets wet and you get rock hard.

Usually, it's when she says "FUKC ME NOW!" that you know to stop.



Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 186 (view)
 
How to tell if a woman is horny??
Posted: 11/23/2006 3:13:59 AM
Hmm.. hard to summarize, of course it varies heavily upon the person. Body language will tell you a lot. There are a few key factors, and you kinda play off each other. You'll have to find out your own method of detection. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Would you tell the wife?
Posted: 11/23/2006 3:09:04 AM
Um, well to put it in reverse;

If I was messing with a married gal, I'd have to be completely oblivious. Take care of your sh|t, then start with a new person.

As for telling the hubby, that's not my concern. I'd feel a bit bad for him.. but the guilt is truly on her.


Would you have the gonads? Or would you just forget about it? Where does the "golden rule" apply here.

This isn't exactly your concern, but I think that if were asked you should fess up. Can't be p|ssed at someone who didn't know (though it happens no doubt). The guy is a douche, cheating is a bit redundant IMO.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
do you think its right to shield kids from the world of sex?
Posted: 11/23/2006 12:45:42 AM
No.

You can't pretend it doesn't exist, and if they don't learn the facts from you they will learn it elsewhere.

I say that from experience. My old man never said sh|t to me about sex.. I figured a lot out by myself (not always alone of course :P)


if we're watching a movie and a love scene comes on...i'll leave the room because it embarrasses me

I remember holding back laughter at sex jokes as it seemed to make the old man uncomfortable.. and myself (at 16).

Talk to your kids though.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 112 (view)
 
smell of semen...why do they smell the way they do?
Posted: 11/23/2006 12:39:42 AM
Heh, it's not so much of a bleach smell as it is protein, amino acid, hormones and salt.

Hey, I'm grateful if a woman is willing to pleasure me in that manner, so I never expect her to swallow.Truth be told, I'd rather they stop and stroke me to the end seriously. A bit too sensitive... or they are too good, I'm not sure.

Yeah, it's been said that diet affects the smell and taste of semen. Fruit is apparently a good one, and I found this stuff that stirs into water to alter the taste of your semen within 24 hours. I can't vouche for it, but I found it funny when I saw it.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
at what point does a friend become a friend?
Posted: 11/23/2006 12:24:16 AM
You'll have to clarify what you are trying to get across.

If I understand correctly, you want to know how to differentiate between friendship and partnership?

I mean, it's mostly chemisty right? You talk to someone, and get either tight jeans or warm gratification in conversation. This is how I do it myself.. I mean I won't lie.. I've slept with friends before (never queered the friendship) but my intentions are not always sexual when I meet a girl.

Anywho, the real challenge I suppose lies in telling someone how you feel or trying to see if they reciprocate the feelings. Not always easy. Communication is so key.


i consider her my friend even though i have never met her

Internet buddies. Don't shrug them off, they're real people too. :)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 188 (view)
 
Good Kissing = Good Sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 4:19:02 AM
I don't always kiss during sex.

I don't kiss someone I can't date. There is a world of difference between just sex, and the intimacy that kissing shows.

It's more personal than sex.. and yes, those deep, passionate kisses make for some insanely good sex. :D

Kissing + sex = more than sex IMO..

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 132 (view)
 
If you cannot feel sexual chemistry, should you continue to date someone?
Posted: 11/22/2006 3:57:55 AM
nipoleon;

As nice, and true your statement was, the issue at hand is can you date someone you have no chemistry with.

You're right though, I mean myself I don't just talk to women purely with sexual intentions.. so there is no need for sexual chemistry for friendship. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
how do you get to sleep
Posted: 11/22/2006 12:32:51 AM
I dont' have trouble sleeping fortunately.

Any time I've been wound up and needed to sleep... eh, I go blade as fast as I can for abotu 30 minutes, come home, shower, sleep then wake up about 12 hours later. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Combatting spam is easy
Posted: 11/22/2006 12:21:54 AM
Firstly;

For those who have suggested it get deleted, don't you think it should be moved not deleted? Perhaps a moderator/admin will move it.

I mean we have a forum for this kinda thing;
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingForum88.aspx

Anywho, thanks for the bit of insight.. on the contrary I've noticed significantly less spam as of late. I flag stuff as spam, and make sure I check my bulk folder and unmark stuff. Reporting like that helps too.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 58 (view)
 
why are all the goodones so far away!!
Posted: 11/21/2006 3:14:09 AM
Paul that's a bit harsh, and surely untrue. Though I suppose it depends on what you are looking for..

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
why are all the goodones so far away!!
Posted: 11/21/2006 1:19:38 AM
I've chatted and seen quite a few attractive and awesome people from UK on this site.

Sadly, I don't plan on going there for another year at least.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
routine
Posted: 11/21/2006 1:18:22 AM
Nope, the only think really routine about my life would be work and sleep.

I deviate from any type of conformity I set forth for myself. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Distance Cousin Attraction
Posted: 11/21/2006 1:02:11 AM
If by marriage.. then w/e. I wouldn't just due to the morality of it to me.. but I wouldn't really think down of someone if by marriage and not blood.

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 122 (view)
 
If you cannot feel sexual chemistry, should you continue to date someone?
Posted: 11/21/2006 12:59:25 AM
No.

The reason my last relation failed methinks. She lost the spark, and I started to get edgy ... withdrawl from FOUR fukcing months. Conditioned. :(

Sex is important.. how much closer can you get to someone than inside them/them inside you?

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 155 (view)
 
How much sex is too much sex
Posted: 11/21/2006 12:56:50 AM
Sex is great (usually =/ )

You can have too much of anything. I'd be lying if I said I could take a bj every hour, or sex 45 times a day. As much as I'd love to, physically I just can't. I don't have that much enduance, and I don't belive any person does.

I'm a fukcing pervert, in the sense that I love sex no doubt much like a lot people.. sex is good but as previously posted.. you can be physically and psychologically[/] addicted.

Also, each person has their own threshold. For me, nine times in a 24 hour span was quite enough. I've done those weekend warrior things too.. lying in bed for Saturday and Sunday railing each other.. that's different, and only nice like once per year. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 275 (view)
 
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 11/21/2006 12:43:09 AM
Heh, wait til the question comes up.. and you might get to names... and it turned out you did the same person...

/awkward. ;)

Fr0
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
THE BEST CONDOMS
Posted: 11/20/2006 3:59:53 AM
What are these condoms you speak of? :P

jokes

Trojan Ribbed Ultra Sensitive off the top of my head. Usually it's a random grab from the pick of different brands in my drawer, but w/e. They feel nice.

I'm a greedy **stard. I turned them inside out. ;)

Fr0
 
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