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 Author Thread: How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 230 (view)
 
How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 5/17/2008 7:42:09 PM
Wow, this is so true. It happened t me big time. But, it was only Friends w/ benefit. And he was such a cheat. A very smooth operator. He is so charmingly deceitful.
Why did i get so sucked into it. That's the big question for me...
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Do you believe God sends signs?
Posted: 5/17/2008 7:38:13 PM
I beleive in what you said. We do have free will to do what we choose to do in this world. And that God does send signs. Countless and numerous times he has sent me signs that my relationship was not right on. And afterwards Angels to help me heal. That is living proof there is a God that loves everyone here on earth. But, there is a devil who will cheat, rob, and steal to make your life miserable and he uses tools like your gf or bf to do the deed. Really sad...
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 162 (view)
 
How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 5/5/2008 5:28:19 PM
Yes, he just dropped me like a hot potato!!! Have no conscience at all. After 4yrs. My ex did the same they all moved on with a new lady in their life. Karma will get them in the end. Even though how much i want revenge. It always happen. When you hurt someone it will come back around and get you. More worse than what you did to that person.
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
how long
Posted: 4/22/2008 9:56:03 PM
I agree with you 100%. I was dumped after 4yrs with this guy. But, he took advantage/granted of me. He was the nicest of persons. His flaws was he would just have sex with anyone. And it hurt me so badly. His a liar/cheatin son of.... Have the nerve to tell me he never meant to hurt me.
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 427 (view)
 
Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 4/22/2008 9:42:18 PM
Just let them be. Go on with your life. It doesn't help any to cry over someone who doesn't love you back. Love yourself more.
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 248 (view)
 
I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 4/20/2008 9:14:44 PM
Wow, I had crying spells during my divorce and now with this last love. Why they took advantage of my love and took me for granted. I'm sorry to hear of your relentless cries at night. Life happens and hits us unexpectedly. Just accept it and stop being in denial. That is the cross I've been bearing til now.
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 116 (view)
 
Why Do People Cheat ?
Posted: 4/20/2008 9:11:46 PM
It happened to me twice. First my ex-husband and now my special friend. Life happens, the cheaters as you say "worthless". Why in the world would they want to hurt the woman that loves them. It may have stem from abuse in their childhood or some traumatic incident in their life.
 essence3
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
The 'L' word
Posted: 4/20/2008 8:45:18 PM
I would rather say, "I love YOU". Then I can die happy because I have said it to the one I love. It doesn't make a difference. The outcome of rejection or not. The only one to make a difference is you alone.
 
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