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jaynedoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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POF HAPPY HOUR PARTY DOWNTOWN Montreal Aug 10th Posted: 8/14/2006 9:32:15 PM
A get-together is not always an easy thing to plan out, and I think you all did a fantastic job at it. Congrats !!! I had a great time, glad I decided to go. Met my Jack_Flash1 that I'd been chatting online with for quite some time now. Was nice to finally see him and everyone else in person. I had a wonderful time and hope to some time do this again. Next get-together I'll probably be walking in with him, rather than meet him there...lol. Thanks again, Jane

jaynedoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 8/7/2006 11:15:11 PM
Wow, I never knew how strongly non-smokers felt about smokers until this thread. I started smoking when I was 11 (just a mixed up kid) and now TODAY is my 50th. birthday. Yeah, I still smoke. I've smoked longer than I haven't smoked. Funny thing, my mom died 3 months ago with colon cancer....she never ate anything that wasn't good for her, never smoked nor did she drink. but she passed away with cancer at the young age of 66. I would never bring down a smoker or a non-smoker, out of respect for my fellow man, but especially those who have quit, seem to easily bring down smokers. We know not what we will die from, so no need to say smoking will kill us........my mom is proof of that. If a non-smoker doesn't want to date me, well that's ok too, he can just move on as I intent to. No need to quarrel here......its just a thread to give our opinions. Jane www.freewebs.com/jaynedoe/

jaynedoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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From Quebec City to St. John Posted: 8/7/2006 10:04:58 PM
I don't know about the bus service from Quebec to Saint-John, but I know the train doesn't stop there anymore. I was born in Saint-John N.B. so travel often there. If I don't drive, I usually take Via Rail. It brings you to Moncton, and then you hop a bus that's included in the ticket and it takes you to Saint-John. Hope that helps ya out. Jane

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Dumped before Xmas Posted: 12/22/2005 8:54:48 AM
I can relate to your pain Karen, and my heart goes out to you. I had been dating a guy for 2 years, and he dumped me three days before Christmas of last year. I cried all of Christmas eve and day. My children had already made plans, so I was entirely alone for the holidays. I stayed alone for four months and he then came back, and like a fool, I took him back. But this time I had a gut feeling something was going to happen, so I made plans to spend Christmas with my children and grand-children. And, guess what? He dumped me again two weeks ago. He too, was divorced twice. I now think that if two marriages didn't work out, I wouldn't want to be his third divorce. These men don't change. I don't think they can ever make someone happy, because they themselves are not happy. Its just too bad that good women lose their hearts to these men that are afraid to be loved. I wish you a very Merry Christmas, and a great New Year !!! (And one for me too ) Jane P.S. Merry Chistmas and Happy New Year to all.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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O.K. guys,want to know why some women don't respond to your e-mails? Here's why.... Posted: 12/19/2005 8:15:14 PM
I only wish your attitude would work by osmosis to other women. One can only dream. One can only look for what they are looking for. For me, I am not looking for nothing, so I don't expect nothing....and in return, I find great friends. Ya know, friendship is worth more than a relationship sometimes. But a relationship with friendship is worth SO mudh. Jane

jayneDoe1956

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O.K. guys,want to know why some women don't respond to your e-mails? Here's why.... Posted: 12/19/2005 6:21:09 PM
I always reply to emails, even if they aren't my type from their pic. Out of respect for the person that took the time to email me. My favorite person I talk to in here, sent me an email, and his pic was in his profile...he didn't look my type, but he was such a sweetie, that I wrote back, and I still talk to him almost daily. He and I have become so close. He looks kinda like Dr. Phil...lol.....but he makes me smile. Someone making me smile means SO MUCH. For those that don't have a picture in their profile, nor email, should realize that we all want to at least get a glimse at who we are communicating with. Its just easier. It doesn't mean we'll not respond because of the picture. Friendships are important too, but is nice to see who is writing us. I have read some guys profiles cause I thought they were cute, and emailed them.......some answer, some don't. Who cares! The important ones are the ones that the email clicks. Its all in what we write I think. Its all about liking someone's humour, etc... I am not on this site to find a husband, but joined mainly to find friends...which I have, and happy I joined.....but if the right man comes along, well good for POF... Jane

JayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Class action against Yahoo Personals and Match.com for fraud Posted: 11/19/2005 8:33:25 PM
I don't answer any of the pay sites. I came to POF because it was free. I will NOT pay to find love and happiness...I'm not that hard up!!! The best thing about joining POF is all the friends I've made.....friendship is a great thing, and we shouldn't have to pay for it. And if I find more than friendship, well "hey", thats even better lol. I had once joined one of those sites with a free subscription in order to talk with a friend of mine, but then I kept on getting winks and couldn't view them without a paid subscription. So I just closed the free account. Why would I pay to read emails from a site when I can get plenty of emails for free in POF? Thank you POF for being true to the word "FREE" !!!

JayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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How do I make him fall in love with me? Posted: 11/4/2005 8:32:51 PM
Wait little blue eyes, he isn't there yet hun.

JayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil cookie in tampa bay area Posted: 11/4/2005 9:12:15 AM
^^^I don't know...lol...what did you read about interal "affairs"? Hey, tenbears hun, did you not get an email from the Prez? If not, email me and I'll fill you in sweetie. Ok, so I ain't getting nowhere with nookie in Canada neither. (must be something wrong with us redheads )

JayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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How do I make him fall in love with me? Posted: 11/3/2005 5:22:08 PM
But you're fvucking 30 years older than she is. Her age doesn't make it hurt any less, and I don't think that your response was the help she was asking for. little blue eyes, don't, please DON'T pay for the divorce...whether it be a loan or not. I have been through divorce, as many of the people on this site have been. I don't believe that him not having his divorce yet is the reason for him not wanting to commit to you hun. If he really was "in love" with you, he'd commit. Have you ever thought that just maybe he is using his "not having his divorce" as an excuse? I wish you all the best, and PLEASE think this one out before acting with your heart instead of your head.

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 11/3/2005 5:58:39 AM
Noro's in Cali.Her restrictions won't let anyone here to reach her unless they're favs. Was wondering where our redhead on that horse was lately.....ok, sent her an email....hope she responds, or gets her butt in here....she can cover nookie in Cali.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 11/2/2005 6:08:57 PM
Okay, what areas can/will you cover? Canada hun, Canada.......I'm in the province of Quebec. But I must tell ya, haven't had much luck with nookie here. Maybe I'll do my research in a different province or state...lol. Whatever works for us huh !!!

jayneDoe1956

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How do I make him fall in love with me? Posted: 11/2/2005 4:42:46 PM
darling_insomniac, re-read what sexyandbrainy wrote, it made a lot of sense hun. You cannot make somebody love you......take it from someone who has been there, its a waste of precious time sweetie. Sometimes the advice we get isn't necessarily what we want to hear, but from what I have read, what people here are saying, is the advice you should be taking hun. I wish you all the best

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 11/2/2005 3:43:23 PM
C'mon, y'all...don't make me ASSIGN you... Ok, my hand is up too!!! (pushy, pushy, huh? Hmmmmm Nookie Committee volunteer......ha,ha,ha...I love it!

jayneDoe1956

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How do you deal with an ex who wont let go? Posted: 11/1/2005 11:23:40 PM
You definately KNOW that HE DIDN't FRICKEN change overnight! I agree with coaster on that one....nobody changes overnight!!! Lolly... he's only been gone 3 weeks and you've told him ur with someone else already? I have to agree with her again.....you told him this after only 3 weeks of being apart? I don't think I'd have told him that, after such a short separation period, considering the arguements and violence in your past relationship with him. I hope things work out for you Lolly, especially for the sake of your little guy.....children deserve to grow up in a loving environment.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 11/1/2005 10:57:22 PM
Well the head of Internal Affairs is back. Went for my flu shot today.....was very interesting. Was glad I was all prettied up when I saw the doctor, but all he did was stick it in my arm.... Now, had Doogie been the doc, I may have gotten a thorough. Oh well, back to my search for nookie. P.S. Welcome back Prez, and thanks for not inviting your cabinet members on your weekend out.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/31/2005 8:39:06 PM
I have found nookie...right here in GA! Actually about 30 miles from me. Ok Bella, that's it !!! Weren't you supposed to let me know where to find the nookie? So you've found it and are keepin' it to yourself huh? That's ok, I'll go out nookie hunting myself, and I'm not tellin' ya where it is when I find it.......keepin' it to myself. And I thought us women were gonna stick together...yeah, right! Its ok, its really ok, I'll remember that.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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jimb77 Posted: 10/31/2005 8:30:57 PM
My oldest son, at 33, thinks I'm old at 49.....I'm 16 years older than him. But I don't get nasty when he says I'm old, because I know that in his eyes, I AM. Like this guy...he is 14 years older than the OP. When we are 21, a person of 35 yrs. old seems old. Chances are he was immature with his response, but who's to say what she really said to him. Just because she said she phrased it in a polite way doesn't mean she did You are making assumptions here. If she said she wrote it that way, why would you believe she didn't? You never saw her email. We can only comment on what she said she had said. In my eyes.. they were both immature! Maybe so, but considering his age, he should have been more the adult here, and blown it off as "That's a typical response from an immature 21 year old girl", and not freak out and start calling her "ugly". Not many comments have been posted here on how he reacted....why not?

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Unconditional Love Posted: 10/30/2005 4:35:18 AM
I notice that he is Catholic. I was born Catholic too...cause my parents were, and they baptized me that way...I don't think that when we're born we have a choice in what religion our parents were. So when rushwi stated about unconditional love towards his own kids, I asked if that would still hold true if his children were homosexual. To be honest, I am not sure if I had children how I would handle that one. I love my children "unconditionally" and it doesn't matter what their choices are in their lives. The day I gave birth to these children, I knew I loved them, and I can't turn my love for them off like a light switch. If they told me they were homosexual I would still love them, because it isn't gonna change my child, just his sexual preference. I accept my children for who they are (doesn't always mean I like their choices), but they probably don't agree with all my choices neither...but they love me just the same because it is "unconditional".

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/30/2005 4:21:48 AM
Ok that is it I am going on vacation(or to do research really). I am going to every state I can till I find a state that does not have a nookie dilema. While here in Georgia I am going to hit every southern city till I reach Tampa. There has got to be nookie somewhere damn it. Hey, Bella, when you find out where we can get the nookie, please let me know (I won't tell anyone else, so we can have it all to ourselves ) Almost desperate, Jane

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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What is with guys who are so old but act like they are five when they get rejected? Posted: 10/29/2005 9:03:35 PM
you guys are still replying to her post as if she was still around. If you haven't noticed, she seems to have deleted her profile, which is very unfortunated. Everyone attacked her since she politely said thanks, but no thanks to someone. There are plenty of women I've "rejected", attack me if you feel the need. It is far too apparent that some people's bitterness of rejection was taken out on this poor girl. I agree vp2. I also thought that some here came down too hard on this poor girl. Have they forgotten that she is only 21? She just started a thread on an email she'd recieved because she thought she was too old for a 35 year old, and she was treated like she had committed some violent crime....I do not understand why she was treated like that. For gawd's sake, she didn't tell the guy he was ugly, stupid, fat, or not her type, she just said he was too old for her.....what was so wrong about that? Did she deserve to be bashed so harshly? To the point of deleting her account? Ok, then why do we have forums? To tell of how handsome and good looking everyone is? Or how great or not great our sex life is? No, they are to discuss different subjects amongst each other. Well dang, I'll never post a thread here!!! Unless its a positive one.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Unconditional Love Posted: 10/28/2005 8:08:24 PM
Would you still love your kids if they were homosexual. That

jayneDoe1956

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Unconditional Love Posted: 10/28/2005 6:24:38 PM
^^^ Where did that come from????

jayneDoe1956

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jimb77 Posted: 10/28/2005 6:09:53 PM
I am trying to figure out WHAT Ginger said to this guy that was SO horrible that she deserves to be bashed like this. I read her profile, and she seems like a sweet 21 year old (we've all been 21 once upon a time) that said thanks, but you're too old for me. Most people would have just deleted the email, but Ginger, at least, took the time to answer him. I think what he answered back to her was much worse. Does she honestly deserve all this?

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/27/2005 7:35:17 AM
And now the no nookie has spred to the sincinnati area help me please Oh NO, it must be contagious.......omg I think I'm gonna cry...or or ...what to do? Jane

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/26/2005 6:42:56 PM
Makes ya look famous. Don't famous people in Tampa get nookie?

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Unconditional Love Posted: 10/26/2005 6:41:06 PM
oh my MMMBaby, is that your definition? ok

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/26/2005 6:36:25 PM
if this isnt' an email and a post would someone tell me quick??? Sorry Prez, but I think we all got that .... unless this is my email addy......lol. Just Focus Prez, just FOCUS

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/26/2005 6:26:03 PM
^^^She's gonna read it at some time.... ....be ready for the paddle Angie...ouch...

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/26/2005 6:19:59 PM
Bucs: The first rule of being put into a position of power is remembering the people who knew ya "when"...(wink). Well said.......ha ha ha

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/26/2005 6:15:46 PM
but forget American Express....leave home without it!! haha What is this lap dancing thing all about?? Whazzup Prez, can't you lap dance? lol....there may be nookie in Tampa if you do...

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/26/2005 6:07:21 PM
'Tis ok redmamma if you don't have a voice. You can type, can't ya? So Angie, if there is no decent nookie in Tampa, try Canada. Oh dang, just who am I kidding...lol. Been in Canada forever...haha....no nookie, no cookie. C'mon guys, get with it.... or bucs won't lap dance for y'all...

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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IN LOVING MEMORY OF SARA EASTON - EDM AB 10/21/87 - 10/21/05 Posted: 10/26/2005 6:00:25 PM
Thank you for letting us know of this terrible tragedy. I am sad that such a beautiful young life has been taken away without reason. To the friends and family of Sara Easton: In your hour of pain, may the memories of Sara keep you going, and may you find comfort in them. My heart goes out to you, Jane

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Unconditional Love Posted: 10/26/2005 1:48:32 PM
I kinda got lost in the person A and person B stuff....almost got a headache from reading it....but here goes. Unconditional love is what we have for our children. We will love them no matter what. I love my children and grand-children unconditionally, no doubts about it. As for love between a man and a woman, I don't believe in it. I believe we may love them at the time that we are are "in love" with them, but there is nothing unconditional about it. When it is over, it is over....no more love! Jane

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/26/2005 5:29:33 AM
hotlova07 my dear, have we not heard any comments from you because you're now getting nookie in Tampa thanks to this thread and your profile? I have to see that for my self Men!!!

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/25/2005 7:03:39 PM
My box doesn't have an X on it. ohhhhhhh nookie....ok, now I get it...

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/25/2005 5:57:28 PM
Well I can't say I didn't find any.....had two kids by the time I was 20. Oh, those were the days...

jayneDoe1956

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/25/2005 5:08:26 PM
So was I 20 (once upon a time) and didn't look for "nookie" on dating sites...lol. Oh yeah, I just remembered, I didn't have a computer back then...

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 10/25/2005 1:19:10 PM
hotlova07 I just checked your profile, and I can now see why you are on 0 members favorite's list. Come on now, do you really think with that profile, that all the girls are gonna jump at the thought of getting it on with you? And why are you, at 20, on a dating site? Oh yeah, I think I know why now, cause if this is how you are in real life, you can't get a date so you thought you'd try online dating instead. Is that it?

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Whats worse? Breaking up completely or suddenly being just friends? Posted: 10/21/2005 2:55:21 PM
If we were meant to look back we would have come with rear veiw mirrors. Gotta remember that one, its a great one Maven, and so true. Jane

jayneDoe1956

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Memorial to a true friend Posted: 10/20/2005 3:24:47 PM
jane aren t you way too young to have a granddaughter ??? Thank you for the compliment thestugatz, but I am very proud to say that I have 6 grandchildren. I love them all, but my oldest, which is not doing very well, has stolen my heart from the day she was born. I will definately be lost without her. Jane

jayneDoe1956

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Memorial to a true friend Posted: 10/20/2005 10:58:01 AM
Cotter, my heart goes out to you too. I couldn't imagine losing my son (he is also 22). And for thestugatz, you sent goose bumps down my spine while reading about your wife. I myself know that no matter how "ready" we are for it, it never makes it easier. With my daily visits to my grand-daughter, the smile that comes across her beautiful face when she sees me, is worth more than anything else in my life. Love is love, and death is so "final", and is NEVER an easy thing to accept. Jane

jayneDoe1956

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Memorial to a true friend Posted: 10/20/2005 7:39:39 AM
QueenBee, first of all I would like to say I am truly sorry for your loss. Now listen to me hun, you CANNOT beat yourself up because you didn't have time to talk to him when he called. We all have busy lives and sometimes a friend may call at a "bad" time. It doesn't mean you didn't have time for him, it just means that you had to get to work. This does not make you scum on the ground. Keep strong hun, and if you need to talk, just email me. I am living through something similar in my life right now, but it is not a friend that I'm losing, it is my grand-daughter. So I know how it feels to hurt inside, I do everyday. Here for you anytime, Jane

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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rejection on Speed Metal... Posted: 10/18/2005 6:09:53 PM
^^^ You're like me jimi, whatever my mood, is my music.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Sex with Co-Worker Posted: 10/18/2005 6:06:53 PM
My co-worker and I have been F..K Buddies now for a little over a month...It has been absolutely great!!! Now all of a sudden, out of the blue, after an incredible night of going at each other for what seemed like hours, out of no where, she says, I think I Love You... HELP I'm in BIG TROUBLE!!! Well, you made your bed, now lay in it. However NO ONE knew including his wife. It only ended because they moved. And just for the record this is the only time I have ever had an affair with a married man. Maybe one time too many.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Being JUST Friends in a Married Life is TOO Frustrating...For Dating, JUST Friends are OK Posted: 10/18/2005 2:33:34 PM
^^^ Sorry, you lost me somehow/somewhere.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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rejection on Speed Metal... Posted: 10/18/2005 8:46:26 AM
soulless spirit, wer'nt you a little hard on vampire sexygirl with that? I was just thinking the same thing.

jayneDoe1956

Joined: 7/25/2005

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age , is it that big of a thing???? Help me please Posted: 10/18/2005 6:29:05 AM
It is up to you, but you have to think about this. One day, she might wake up and realize that she has missed out on the big world out there. At 19, she is just starting life. You may be robbing her of great times she could have had (like most 19 yr. olds are supposed to have). That is the fun age in our life for partying, dating, hanging with our friends, etc... I am not here to judge anyone. Just asking you to think about what she may be missing. Think about what you were doing at 19. Jane

jayneDoe1956

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Whats worse? Breaking up completely or suddenly being just friends? Posted: 10/17/2005 5:39:15 PM
Thank you Ruby. I will definately think about what you said. Jane

jayneDoe1956

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Whats worse? Breaking up completely or suddenly being just friends? Posted: 10/17/2005 5:14:04 PM
How much time are we talking here Ruby?

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