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Hockeygirl777

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Aside from jumping off a bridge..any suggestions? Posted: 9/12/2006 12:58:23 AM
Try Himilayan Goji Juice, apparently it works for allergies like crazy. Want more info get back to me. B

Hockeygirl777

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Ulcers, Heartburn, Acid Reflux Posted: 9/12/2006 12:56:59 AM
Try Goji Juice, i've heard it works miracles.

Hockeygirl777

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Fibromyalgia - anyone got any handy tips or remedies? Posted: 9/12/2006 12:56:23 AM
I know someone who tried HImilayan Goji Juice, if you want me to get you in contact with them let me know. Brooke

Hockeygirl777

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Your experience with natural medicine & herbs that work/don't work Posted: 9/12/2006 12:54:57 AM
I actually found a newer product called HImilayan Goji Juice that has worked wonders for everyone in my family including myself. I had a serious problem with my lungs, as well I have been bipolar for many years. My mother actually started taking this product when her arthritis started to get really bad, I watched as she took this juice twice a day and within weeks I was amazed that she was gardening again, and typing on the computer, and cooking and doing all the things I hadn't been able to see her do for a few years. As well seh wasn't taking her arthritis medication after a month and hasn't since. So when my bipolar disorder got significantly worse she said maybe I should just try a little bit a day for a couple weeks, and go back to my doctor. I was amazed when I went back to my doctor to find that he wanted to reduce my dosage to half of what I had been taking on my anti-depressants. Within 3 months I was off of them completely and haven't felt better. As well my daughter who is 6 has ADHD, we have tried many drugs on her to try and get her concentration to be more focused and her high energy levels to a calmer level, but had no success. So I decided to try a little Goji on her. I was pleasantly surprised that after a semester of slipping 1 ounce of goji into her juice in the morning her grades had gone up and her teachers were beyond impressed. As well my roomate for a long time had a son, and he had Epilepsy and Autism. He was non-vocal and developmentally challenged. We started giving him Goji and he became more vocal mimicking what we would say and trying to speak. About 2 months after starting Goji, his doctor took him of Lamictal and he is progressing greatly, as well he has only had 1 seizure in 3 weeks!!!! That is amazing considering he used to have seizures 3-5 times a day. i'd definatly try this product, it's tried, tested, and true to what it says. Brooke

hockeygirl777

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Starting a relationship long distance? Posted: 7/6/2006 10:48:27 PM
DON'T DO IT, RUN FAR FAR AWAY FROM ANYTHING LONG DISTANCE!

hockeygirl777

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In Loving Memory Sara Easton Posted: 7/6/2006 10:41:56 PM
*****UPDATE***** July 4th/5th - A preliminary hearing was held to determine whether Wharry would be on trial for 2nd degree murder or manslaughter and thanks to a fair judge William Wharry will be held fully responsible for his actions and will go to trial on charges of second degree murder.

Hockeygirl777

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Tatoos Posted: 3/5/2006 9:24:52 PM
Not sure in Calgary but in Edmonton Fat Tats would be the place.

Hockeygirl777

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Another Test - What are the keys to your heart? Posted: 3/5/2006 9:23:55 PM
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free. In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring. You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please. Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something that will confine you. You are afraid of marriage. In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily.

Hockeygirl777

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Oscars Posted: 3/5/2006 9:19:12 PM
Just finished watching the Oscars and must say I'm disappointed that Walk The Line didn't win more Oscars

Hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Have you ever? Posted: 3/5/2006 9:15:21 PM
Your best bet at this point is to speak from your heart, tell her what you feel. Tell her you made a mistake. I have been through this and unfortunatly my story didn't have a happy ending as it was already too little too late, and that too may be the case for you so don't expect her to just jump up and take you back. Depending on the seriousness of the situation she may or may not give you a second chance. In my case I set someone free and it was the biggest mistake of my life. By the time that I wrote a script and figured out what to say and said it, it wasn't enough, and finally after I spoke from my heart it was way too late, he had moved on and now even though we are friends, it's hard to know that he was mine, and my own wrongdoings have caused me to be the lonely recipient of a lonely friend. Brooker

Hockeygirl777

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Dating.. Terrified but ready Posted: 3/5/2006 6:45:54 PM
You better understan NOW.. that you will be judged and guys wont like you due to your weight.... I always find comments like this hilarious, I have NEVER in my life had a problem with anyone not liking me because of my weight. I think it's funny when people comment on this and had to laugh out loud for real. I may not attract the same type of guy that a skinny broad may attract because i'm a bigger girl, but by no means am I so large that no one can love me. I have never had to worry about guys liking me or not which again is not the issue,I have to laugh at your comments becaue you do what so many people **** about all the time. You just generalized the world in one sentence. All guys will not like me because of my weight which means that you have generalized the world every single guy will not like a bigger girl. Ha ha ha is all I can respond to that silly and obviously immature comment. PS! OBVIOUSLY YOU SHOULDN'T BE GIVING ADVICE AT ALL ABOUT DATING OR RELATIONSHIPS, your marrital status = Divorced

Hockeygirl777

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Dating.. Terrified but ready Posted: 3/5/2006 6:36:24 PM
Again it comes down to the fact that I know I am ready to date, I just can't get over the hump of actually going on the date..... basically what i'm asking is how to get over the butterflies etc

Hockeygirl777

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Dating.. Terrified but ready Posted: 3/5/2006 6:21:29 PM
[But pure insanity to go out expecting to find someone because all of a sudden you want to date] This isn't what I am saying at all, and I take offense to this. I don't expect to find someone just because I want to date at all, it's that I have offers, want to go on these dates and get cold feet. You should properly read the question before answering thank you.

Hockeygirl777

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Dating.. Terrified but ready Posted: 3/5/2006 4:38:38 PM
So i've been in long term relationships ever since I can remember. My first relationship started in 9th grade and lasted 3 years, my next one was a few months after and just came to me and we were together for 4 years, and my last was 2 years long and long distance. I've never really taken part in the dating scene, it scares the crap out of me. It's been quite a while since I even went on a real date, I know that i'm ready to start meeting new people and getting into the game again, but i'm terrified of it so most of the time I just avoid it all together, any pointers on how I can get the ball rolling. I have lots of offers, and I accept them but once the time comes I get cold feet and cancel. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

Hockeygirl777

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Who Had First Dates This Weekend? Posted: 3/5/2006 4:19:08 PM
LOL, I've had lots of offers for first dates, but past events in my life have caused me to become very self concious and even though I have talked to many people and have gotten comfortable around them and even make plans with them, the idea of a first date scares the crap out of me to be completely honest and I end up cancelling on them. Which puts a severe stop to any dating at all. I really miss being in a relationship, and would love to get back into it but it's scary and I freak out all the time so no first dates here but wish me luck. Brooke

Hockeygirl777

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Has our thinking CHANGED.....would they still be your friend?. Posted: 3/5/2006 4:06:30 PM
I think that unless a friend confessed that they swing a different way and admitted that they were interested in me, then no it would not affect our friendship at all. I obviously loved that person as a friend for reasons other than thier sexual presence before, so why not now, the only thing that changes is that when we go out hunting for possible candidates they we would be looking for someone of the same sex for them... they don't change as a person, which means, I don't change how I feel about them.

Hockeygirl777

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can you be friends with a ex Posted: 3/4/2006 8:32:38 PM
Ultimatly, I say no. I thought for a while that it was possible, but even long distance it's hard to be friends with your ex. I dated this guy long distance for 3 years, and when we broke up he told me that I would always be his best friend, and I made the same promise. So, for a while things stayed the same and then we started to distance from each other and date other people and the insane jealousy that surfaced was the most hard times of my life. I started dating first and he would get so jealous it put a huge wedge into our friendship, recently he has started dating and now even though have had many happy relationships since he has started dating and my green monster has started to show. It is impossible for you to have a successful honest and truthful friendship with an ex, at least that's my opionion anyway :P

hockeygirl777

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Ralph Buck Ideas Posted: 2/12/2006 9:06:57 PM
We are taking a ROAD TRIP!!!! With our money I got back 1200.00 woot woot!!!!!

hockeygirl777

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Comming To Calgary Posted: 2/12/2006 9:01:00 PM
Hey everyone Me and a few friends are going down to Calgary Feb 18-20th, wondering if anyone knows of the best hotspots to party. B

hockeygirl777

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SHRED OF DECENCY - HEADLINES @ THE STARLITE Posted: 2/5/2006 11:15:49 AM
Hey Everyone!!!!! So my friends have a band called Shred Of Decency, it's an indie rock band and they just got thier first headliner show!!!!! Anyway they are playing Feb 11/06 @ the Starlite Lounge here in Edmonton. You should come check them out, they've got quite a following already but would always appreciate playing for a new audience. Can't wait to see you there!!!! Shred SUpporter

Hockeygirl777

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Here's To Healing A Broken Heart Posted: 1/15/2006 9:10:03 PM
So I always read through the threads, and it seems that a lot of people are looking for ways to "Heal A Broken Heart." So I took it upon myself to research what therapists, and doctors, and other broken heart survivors have said to do in order to "heal a broken heart." Hope they help all of you that are in need of a little tender loving care right now. 1. Do not keep in touch w/ his/her family in hopes of rekindling the flame, it only gives you a false sense of being close to him/her. 2. Do not torment yourself thinking about him/her with someone else. Once a relationship is over people are going to move on, and tormenting yourself for months isn't going to stop him/her from dating other people it's only going to make you more miserable. 3. Cease any behavour that propels you to him/her, don't call, don't go to places you know that he/she will be. 4. Stop imagining a reunion, you are only torturing yourself. 5. Focus on your future, every time you begin to think about your ex, STOP. Start looking into your future, what do you want it to hold. Imagine your career, your home, and even your perfect relationship. When you start to think about your ex, do something to help make your perfect future a reality. 6. Don't fall into the "revenge" mode. We know that you are in pain, and that you want the person who hurt you to hurt just as bad. But in all reality, most people who plot a revenge plan, just have it backfire on them, and they will end up more bitter and angry with you, and you will end up bitter and angry with yourself. 7. Allow yourself to feel the pain. Tears are a healing release, allow yourself to cry yourself to sleep, or sob in the shower, or get teary eyed when a romantic song plays. But don't allow it to consume you forever. Certain things will remind you of the pain, and when they do allow yourself to release the healing tears. 8. You still have the ability to fall in love, no one can take that from you. As much as it hurts, no one and nothing can take your ability to love and you will again be able to love. 9. Do something for someone else, volunteer at a soup kitchen, a hospital, or a nursing home or another organization that you support. 10. Pamper yourself, get a massage, get your nails done, buy tickets to your favorate sports team, or concert. Go on a weekend getaway to a beautiful mountain resort. 11. Adpt a pet, pet's give unlimited love and they will never break your heart. 12. Keep a breakup journal, write down what you learned from your past relationship and what mistakes you or your ex made to ensure you don't make the same relationship mistakes again. 13. Spend time with friends and family, it will keep you from feeling lonely. 14. For every good thought you have about him/her, contradict it with a bad thought. He/she was so cute - He/she was so messy 15. Give his stuff back, get your stuff back. It's easier to move on when you don't have a box full of his stuff to go through 20 times a day. Arrange a neutral location, and do it on your lunch break or another time crunch to ensure you don't spend too much time bringing up the past and torturing yourself. 16. Change your look, get a haircut, or dye your hair, get new colored contact or buy a new outfit. But the key is to not think about what him/her would think about it. Do it for you 17. Write down 3 things you are thankful every day, don't repeat yourself you will be able to find 3 new things every day. The day you write i'm thankful that my relationship with him/her is over you know that your heart is mended. 18. Accept every invitation given to you, you never know when your prince/princess will pop up and you don't want to miss that chance. 19. Find an outlet for your anger, take boxing classes, play sports, running whatever you choose, even if it's just using your pillow as a punching bag. 20. Learn to forgive yourself and your ex for allowing the relationship to fail. 21. Conquer your fear of being alone, understand that it's not abnormal for you to be alone. A lot of people in the world are single, and it's not the worst thing in the world. it's hard to go from constant companionship to being just you, but think abot all the positives. 22. Don't let them use you again, remember that you train people on how to treat you. Don't allow this person to take advantage of you and use you when they feel the need. You are better than that, send them the message your moving on with your life, w/out your ex! 23. Don't start thinking about being friends right away 24. Don't put yourself in a situation where you will embaress or humiliate yourself. 25. Learn to trust again, just because one person betrayed your trust, doesn't mean every guy/girl in the world is the same. These are the most common tips i've found.... for all you broken heart experts, please feel free to add your own tips.

hockeygirl777

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Truth about Sex! Posted: 1/11/2006 12:02:37 AM
Wow long post, sorry I couldn't read it all, shorten it and i'll consider replying to the post.

hockeygirl777

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Why are there so many beautiful women in British Columbia and Canada? Posted: 1/10/2006 11:55:48 PM
LOL, hun I hope you know that British Columbia is in Canada, and well we are just beautiful people up here. Have you ever tried contacting someone in Canada, never know you just might meet the right one.

hockeygirl777

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so my girlfriend is due next month(not my kid though) Posted: 1/10/2006 11:53:18 PM
All I can say is when you are a month away from popping a watermelon through a peahole, and you've been pregnant for 8 months, you don't feel well, you don't feel attractive, you don't feel loved. You feel like you want this kid out of you. Also, by some of your statements I see that you don't exactly embrace this baby. If you are going to be in a relationship with this woman, then you are going to need to embrace all of her and that includes the baby. Whether it is your baby or not, it is going to be a part of your family when you and her do get serious. I wouldn't distance myself or she could read those signs as you not wanting to be with her. Buy something for the new baby, surprise her w/ little things, and just ride it out until the baby comes. Keep in mind, just because the baby has been born doesn't mean she will go back to normal. There's always the chance of depression after having a baby. Just be there for her. That's my best advice to you.

hockeygirl777

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Some Of My Poetry,,,, Please Comment Posted: 1/10/2006 11:37:49 PM
Ummm no, are you sure you have the right poem. I know that there was a similar one in a Chicken Soup book, but this is all mine.

hockeygirl777

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Some Of My Poetry,,,, Please Comment Posted: 1/10/2006 6:04:01 PM
So i've been writing poetry for as long as I can remember, i've not graduated to songs and stuff, but I thought since everyone else was posting thier heart and soul maybe I should post some of mine. Please feel free to comment in a mature manner. Inside Bottled up inside, are the words I never said, The feelings that I hide, the lines you never read. You can see it in my eyes, read it on my face. Trapped inside are lies, of the past I can't erase. With memories that linger - wont' seem to go away Why can't I be happier, today's a brand new day. Yesterday's are over, even though the hurtings not. Nothing lasts forever, I must cherish what i've got. Don't take my love for granted, for soon it will be gone. All you ever wanted, of the love you thought you'd won. The hurt I'm feeling now, won't disappear overnight. But someway, somehow, everything will turn out right. No more wishing for the past, it wasn't meant to be. It didn't seem to last, so now i'll set him free. ******************************************************************** Untitiled I want to know the you, that hasn't been introduced to anyone else. I'm talking about the you, that you've been keeping to yourself. I want to know your most recent fantasy, you know the one that tickels your fancy. I want to know each and every thought that you have about me. So i can lay back, and contemplate, bringing them to reality I want to know the spot, that's under so much stress, Because as a body physician... I have the answer, it just needs to be caressed. I want to know if that same spot was licked and kissed, Would your mind ponder, what you could have missed? I want to know what makes you happy, I want to know what makes you sad, I want to know what makes you sigh and I even want to know what makes you cry. If I have to take a dive, and explore the ocean floor, i'd find these things, and bring them back to shore. I want to know, no matter what we're going through Wheter our lives are sunny or blue. I want to know, can I love you? ***************************************************************** Untitled The letter that i'll never send, would simply ask why? You broke my heart in two, and then you said goodbye. If I ever send this letter, it would simply state, You tangled up destiny, and interupted fate. This letter I will not write, would just inquire, How could you live without me, I was your one desire. If you recieved this letter that I will not write It would politly say, you need me in your life. This letter I will never send you, would then be briskly signed Your one and only love, you know, the one you left behind. ****************************************************************** When You Lost Me The wind was just too quick for us, Tomorrow just too far. The lion was to fierce for us, Too hard to reach a star. The water was just too cold, The shadows were too dark To late to say there's nothing left, To Give us something to start. The days were just too long for us, The nights were still too cold We wondered what awaited us, and if our love would hold. The dreams we had, impossible The memories yet to die. The ocean was too rough for us And it will never lie. The mysteries enchanted us, There was no decieving But when you lost me to the wind Was when you stopped believing. ****************************************************************** One More Time One more time I want with you One more time I want to know if your love is true. One more time I want to know we are through. One more time I want to kiss your tender lips. One more time I want my heart to flip. One more time I want to breathe you in One more time I want to see your cute grin One more time I want to be with you for all to see One more time I want to feel your touch. One more time, am I asking too much? ******************************************************************** Just some of my writings, keep in mind some were written when I was much younger (teens) so they don't flow so well. Enjoy

hockeygirl777

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Registered Sex Offender?!? Posted: 1/10/2006 5:08:45 PM
Before you make a decision on this, i'd get all the information. Criminals technically leave the "gore" out of thier story to make it sound more plausible in someone's mind. I'd get all the facts and then make a decision, until then... be very cautious. They don't register people if they've done nothing wrong. Good Luck

hockeygirl777

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Would You Do It? Posted: 1/5/2006 10:49:59 PM
[I have to say, I don't think it was a wise move AT ALL to show up unexpectedly at this man's home. I hope you'll think twice about ever doing that again.] Ok, I read everyone's advise, and I appreciate it greatly. I know it wasn't a family member because I have met his family on several occasions, Christmas, Thanksgiving etc. Plus, you don't give tongue to a family member. Also, I used to go down there 1 time a month, and he used to come up here 1 time a month. He used to surprise me all the time, and i used to surprise him all the time, and he always told me he loved it. He worked from home and I knew that, I also knew his job well, and knew that as an executive he could take whatever time he needed, his boss always understood "our" relationship. I think that this relationship was more serious than everyone expected it to be. We had been dating on long distance for 2 years. He proposed to me this past Christmas and I told him that I didn't think I was ready yet, and we couldn't decide who was going to give up thier life to move. I knew his friends, and he knew mine. The reason he gave for nto committing to a date was because it was a busy season at his work and he thought he might have to go away that weekend, and that wasn't super unusual either as his work would send him on a trip at any given moment. At this point i'm not sure if i'll send the letter or not, or if i'll just let him stew and wonder for the rest of his life. I'm temped to send him copies of my plane tickets and let him figure it out. Any way ti goes, it is still heartbreaking and still hurts to know that someone that I felt I truly loved and trusted for years and miles away would betreay me so easily. I guess it's the common shock of anyone who's been cheated on. If you haven't then you are a lucky one because it's one of the biggest hurts in the whole world.

hockeygirl777

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Would You Do It? Posted: 1/5/2006 12:57:59 AM
Ya know the hard part isn't that he found someone else, because I knew deep down that it would never work. But the hard part is that I trusted him, and believed him to be one of those people that I could tell my deepest darkest secrets to, and i depended on him for a lot, and so did he. I understand that long distance can't work, and the part that makes me so sad is that I tried to do what he wanted me to do. I went there, he invited me there, and I spend 3500.00 on plane tickets in 24 hours only to make this ***hole happy. And he had been lying to me the whole god damn time. The reason for the letter is not to reconcile any type of relationship. But I know him well, and I know that he wasn't happy w/ a long distance relationship and I understand why he went after someone else. But I know that he's scared of losing a friend, and whatnot, and the letter lets him know my exact feelings and my exact state of emotion, and I know that this would eat him alive inside to read it that's why i want him to have it. I don't want to mail it because then he wouldn't believe I was ever there, when I was. If someone drops it off it's like I am there, and he knows i've been there, and I know the truth now.

hockeygirl777

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Would You Do It? Posted: 1/5/2006 12:39:38 AM
Ok, so here's the history. Long distance relationship, gone very very very bad. Before we broke up I told him that yeah i'm going to come down and see him. He said great, I tried to discuss a date w/ him but he wouldn't commit to one. So then all of a sudden he starts talking endlessly about this girl, going to movies, dinner, etc all the time. But he says they are not dating, he insists. I went there, and just as I was pulling up to his house to surprise him and I saw him arrive home and he was standing at the door kissing her. My heart instantly broke and I told the cabbie to take me back to the airport. On the way to the airport I wrote this letter to him, and when I asked the Cabbie to take me back to his house so I could leave it on his doorstep, but no go the fare was too high and he wasn't willing to do it. So I have kept this letter with me for a couple weeks now and haven't spoken to him. He doesn't understand why, and swears up and down that he's not with her, what I want to do is contact someone in that area and ask them to drop this letter on his doorstep along with the pictures I took of them. Do you think that's wrong?

hockeygirl777

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Virginia Beach & Surrounding Area Please Read!!!! Posted: 1/5/2006 12:14:42 AM
So, i'm wondering what you think of the guys in your area? I spent some time down there and met a few really amazing guys, that turned out to be snotty ***holes that just don't give a shit. Wondering about the people that live around there and experience the guys on a regular basis.... how would you explain them?

hockeygirl777

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Jail bird Posted: 1/3/2006 1:57:31 AM
My best suggestion is grow yourself some self esteem, are you seriously considering making this guy "the one" Either you need some serious therapy for your lack of self confidence in being able to find someone much better for yourself, or this is an attention getting scheme. Whichever, you are crazy to get yourself involved with this guy. Think about this, if you do start seeing him long term, and have kids, get married etc. And you think he's done w/ his criminal acts..... 1. What do you tell your kids when Daddy has to go away for 10-20 2. Do you want to expose your children to this type of on the run lifestyle? 3. Can you truly be happy with this man? 4. If he really loved you and wanted to be with you he wouldn't have done this inthe first place. 5. After your years of support while he is in jail, do you seriously believe that he will run into your open arms when he gets out? 6. And if he does run to you when he's out, isn't it a possibility he's only doing it because he has no one else, and when he gets stable again he'll bolt. Hun, you are in for heartbreak here, move on, build up your self-esteem and find a guy that you don't have to kiss through bars. Good Luck

hockeygirl777

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candling the ears Posted: 1/2/2006 11:59:10 PM
I do it 3 times a year, you can do it yourself you can get ear candles at any health food store. If you follow the directions and do it properly it works and you'll be amazed at what comes out. Best advice is to use a dropper and use a drop or two of baby oil the day before you do it, it softens the wax.

hockeygirl777

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that he's just not into you topic ...? Posted: 1/2/2006 9:12:05 PM
Check out the book hun, it's actually quite humerous.

hockeygirl777

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Home made Sex Tape??? Would you ever?? Posted: 1/2/2006 12:40:05 AM
When I was engaged we used to make them all the time, roll playing and stuff was awesome. i still have them around here somewhere, it was the biggest turn on to use them as our own personal porn.

hockeygirl777

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Material, yes I said material. Posted: 1/2/2006 12:37:59 AM
Flannel, Soft Denim, and Satin, egyptian cotton... the best sheets are made of egyptian cotton.

hockeygirl777

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Is Sex the cost for cuddles? Posted: 1/2/2006 12:27:08 AM
I believe that when you cuddle with a guy, something in their brain triggers and thinks "SEX SEX SEX" there hasn't been very many times when i've just cuddled up to a guy and not had him feeling me out, or kissing my neck or trying to initiate sex. I love to cuddle, it's the best feeling just being in someones arms and feeling that warmth. Don't get me wrong I love sex as well, but cuddling is just what the doctor ordered on some days.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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The BEST place to have sex! Posted: 1/2/2006 12:25:16 AM
Camping in the grass while it's raining or there's a thunderstorm. AWESOME SEX!!!

hockeygirl777

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Why am I so afraid/scared to actually go and meet the people I talk to on POF?? Posted: 1/2/2006 12:16:38 AM
I think it has a lot to do with self-esteem and how honest you were in your profile. If you have a good average self esteem and didn't lie then really it's like going on a first date w/ anyone.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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U knew it was comin, all virgins say I. Posted: 1/2/2006 12:14:52 AM
If you wanna fix that give me a call, i'm not a virgin but felt bad b/c no one responded to your post.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Is it possible to turn a friendship into a relationship? Posted: 1/2/2006 12:05:50 AM
I've dated friends, even gotten engaged to one, needless to say. I'm not friends with those people anyomore. If you do cross that line be very careful, is it worth losing that friendship over?

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

Does anyone believe in love at First sight???? Posted: 1/2/2006 12:00:13 AM
I do believe in love at first sight, I believe that it's something that happens to VERY FEW people in the world but I believe that it's possible. More than that I believe in lust as first sight.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Getting Over That Old Habit Posted: 1/1/2006 11:54:52 PM
You just described most relationships, once the new relationship "feeling" is gone, there better be something else to replace it because if there isn't then the relationship is over. Unfortunatly most people stay in them because it is easier than going out and finding another boyfriend/girlfriend and the benefits aren't so bad either. Ultimatly, you have to know that there's nothing left and be willing to do something about it otherwise your relationship is just "comfortably numb"

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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2006....Everyone should read!!!! Posted: 1/1/2006 11:52:34 PM
Well in my opinion this was a good post, just came off the wrong way. The points you made are obvious and clear, and although you say you are not telling anyone what to do you kind of are. It was a good read, just be more gentle next time. Oh and i've learned that if you can't take the heat for what you post or what some people call "sarcastic critisism" then dont' post it. Overall I enjoyed it but unfortunatly these are topics all to oftenly visited on these forums.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Supersticions Posted: 1/1/2006 7:42:38 PM
I'm in to horoscopes and whatnot but I don't think that they determine wheter your sign is compatible with another sign. It's all about the people, not the astrological sign. B

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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Sexual Frustration Posted: 1/1/2006 7:34:30 PM
lmao, you probably had sex, or masturbated your way out of it.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

Msg: 51 (view)

That New Years Kiss Posted: 1/1/2006 7:04:32 PM
Well the way I see it is that the person you kiss on New Years Eve is someone very close and special to you, whether it be a friend, or a guy/girl or whatever. It all depends on your situation, is it spontanious, planned, it all depends on what you want the kiss to mean. There's no real tradition or meaning, it's all about what it means to you. B

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

Msg: 53 (view)

The 3,4 a.m. call.... Posted: 1/1/2006 7:00:19 PM
Late night callers, I have a few, and I have a cell # that very few people get from me. My cell is always with me and next to my bed when I sleep. I'm always up for some late night fun, and those who i'm interested in doing it with know how to get ahold of me. I'll look at the number if i'm interested i'll answer and if i'm not i'll hit ignore. lol.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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So how are you going to help your self this year? Posted: 1/1/2006 1:28:35 AM
I have started my plan, 2 months ago it was my resolution to lose some weight that i've gained. I've been going to the gym on a regular basis and eating healthy... lost 15lbs, I will stick with it, after all how can I expect someone else to love me if I don't love myself.

hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005

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happy new year Posted: 1/1/2006 1:27:10 AM
I hope i find what i'm looking for too!!! Happy New Year Everyone!!!

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