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Joined: 7/26/2005

Msg: 33 (view)

Casual Sex Can mean more than just a One Nite Stand... Posted: 4/23/2007 3:44:02 AM
This is an interesting topic with definate generational difference popping up. A lot of us, me included, forget that even honest people hurt other people. When sex comes into the picture, a level of intimacy is obtained that had not occured prior to the incident. When you have passion, you also have vunerability (or at least it happens for me) and then someone might get hurt. I have had several relationships where the lady decided it was time for a deeper relationship, but I had not come to that same conclusion. That was when the pain began. At that moment in time, irregardless of my honesty, she got hurt. Casual sex just makes it easier for that moment in time to occur.

Joined: 7/26/2005

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do guys like when girls go half on a date? Posted: 2/3/2007 9:27:25 PM
Hun, why do you insist that all guys behave the same? Don't you feel insulted when the guy thinks all women should behave the same way and if they don't something is wrong? Each person is an individual. Discuss your feelings about paying for the "date" and if your desire to pay your share angers the guy, then maybe you should rethink going out with him in the first place.

Joined: 7/26/2005

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Old Lady on a Harley Posted: 2/3/2007 9:21:08 PM
It wouldn't scare me. I wish I could afford one. Actually think of it as a filter. If it scares the guy, would you want to be dating him in the first place?

Joined: 7/26/2005

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Something I was told about the average guyon site Posted: 2/3/2007 9:18:17 PM
Well, hun, I think you have fallen into a trap too many women accuse men of doing; generalization. Each and every man is an individual. If you treat the guy like he is an amalgamation (btw, my spellin is attrocious) of all the bad found in men, then you'll get that nightmare date that seems to the dating all the women on this site (btw, this guy must really get around, all you ladies seem to be complaining about him). If you treat each one as a potential friend first (hey, if he can't be a friend, why the hell would you want him in your bed) then maybe you'll find the guy you've been wanting to find. Course you might not, but that's the same situation you'll discover regardless of the dating medium you select.

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Threesomes...why the bias? Posted: 2/3/2007 4:39:38 PM
I don't know why there is a bias against the MFM threesome. Groups can generate some interesting dynamics and, in my experience, people get to be very comfortable (and I am not implying this means bisexual contact) with each other, or it becomes an unpleasant experience. My experience is limited, but I have been able to spot the uncomfortable situation developing long before a threesome is requested. Consequently, none of my group experiences have been unpleasant. BTW, when it's been a MFM the woman always went home exhausted (or fell asleep while us guys played cards), and smiling (big time). With the FMF, the women giggled a lot, but they weren't exhausted (me, I was whooped and useless for a day, happy, tho). later tex

Joined: 7/26/2005

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fighting Posted: 12/23/2006 3:25:13 PM
hmm, sounds funny. I suspect you get a lot of attention from him when you fight. And that you find yourself looking for ways to get and maintain his attention. But you are getting some kind of reward for acting this way. good luck

Joined: 7/26/2005

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Where are all the good guys??? Posted: 10/3/2006 3:24:08 PM
hmm, where are all the good guys? Maybe they're married to the good women? Hun, ain't no one on this site the virgin mary, mohammed, or buhda (ok, lots bubba's, but not that oriental fellar). Maybe you should ask yourself, what type of men attract your attention. If you spend hours looking for the perfect dress, trying them on, putting them back.. and always going back to that lil sexy number your mom would be horrified to see you in.. and head to the zoo.. the problem may not be the guy. After that, hell, it's like shoppin for clothes, you may find the outfit you want right off the rack, wear it for years until it's so comfortable you actually mourn when it fades away from use and abuse. Conversely, you may take weeks to get the one that fits oh so right... and only use once. My experience, women are about as fickle as men.

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Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men? Posted: 10/3/2006 3:16:37 PM
hmmm, do women masterbate as much as men.. Folks, ain't no way to get an honest answer.. and the real answer is sooooo what.. The focus is, what should I be doing to help me and my partner enjoy life and living. But masterbation is a good way to dull the edges if you don't have someone in your life to take you to that next level of living. Masterbation is self communication, and intercourse is communication with another person. And yea, I can talk your ear off... some of you know that already.

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Shallowest Break-ups Posted: 4/24/2006 11:25:07 AM
Depends, did he mean it, or did you perceive this to be just one more lie? Or were you scared shitless of commitment?

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orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/29/2006 4:29:26 PM
Hmmm, I have to agree. There are different intensities of orgasms, even for men. Although, I think the male orgasm intensity tends to be less variable. I myself have one I remember from a meeting in Huntsville that left the lady stunned and smiling very big, so there is variablity. With men, I think increasing the time between orgasms may well increase the intensity, whereas with many women it may be more of climbing the staircase with each orgasm making a broader foundation for an even larger one following. btw, JMHO, nothing scientific there.

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