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Msg: 22 (view)

Why Asian? Posted: 8/17/2009 5:33:56 PM
I have an american friend who has a Thai wife. He likes having a teenage girlfriend, without the legal issues. Plus adorable asians are adorable, as the cute ones are cute, but that can be said of brunnets, blonds, or any woman. Enjoy

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as reported by king 5 Posted: 8/17/2009 5:27:52 PM
So where are the "seriously great gals" to match with us guys? Sorry ladies just kidding. As was posted earlier what is great for one person cold be a turn for another. I just want to meet the one I think is great, hey where are you? :)

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Understanding how a guy thinks -- questions Posted: 8/17/2009 5:22:36 PM
Boys and girls both have this kind of behavior. Fear of committment, imatureity, unsure of what he/she wants or whatever. Yes it can be screwy actions but the fact is it is his choice. You may never know the why but you do seem to know the what he is doing. Do you enjoy being in the position you are in? If not then you need to cut your losses and heal over this one so you can get ready fo rthe next one. And learn what you can. A number of my ex-signifiant loves jump from one new lover to another ASAP. I used to wonder why, and what I had done. ANd then the common thing is to get calls to hook up and try again. I seemed to pick women who do that. So if I wanted all that stuff to change, I had to change what I was doing. I may never know why the gals acted the way they did, but I have a little clue of myself and that will be of value for a life time. Good luck with you stuff.

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Is it prostitution when... Posted: 8/15/2009 4:04:03 PM
Seems to me it is prostitution, but then again the same can be said when a person sells their time for cash. Don't we all prostitute ourselves for work in one way or another? To label it as such though does not give it a wrong or right "judgement", unless you want it to. The question of if is a bad thing to prostitute one self is "bad". How did you sleep that night, can you enjoy what you bought with the money? these are all internal answers to yourself. Then again all that could be wrong, Hail Tits.

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Need recipe - low sugar or sugarless jam Posted: 6/29/2009 12:10:04 PM
Just wanted to drop a line thanking you folks for the info on sugar free jam recipe's. This year I am going to can/jar some produce and make some jams. And yes Spleende and htose other chemical sweetners are not good for you. Thanks again

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Debunking a myth? Posted: 5/23/2009 6:43:07 PM
I got to agree with the guy here, not just because I am a man. I have found it so often that women assume I am a player if I aproach them in public or after a little conversation. To present a clear expample, here goes. I am at a kayaking workshop, this is an intrest of mine. After most of the day the are these two gals who are attending it together, likely friends. One has mentioned her husband, kids and I get the impression the other one is single. Well after interating thoughout the day, and in a positive way I ask the single gal if she would be interested in getting together some weekend and go for a paddle (not S&M but kayaking folks). So then I am labled a player, I thought it was in jest at first but not the case. And this type of things happens a bit. I realize if I meet a gal who is interested she wiull not make that assumption but until then...ARGH. As a not player I get a bit tired of women jumping to this conclusion, it has gotten old real fast. Then again the broad range of sexual attitudes does nothing to make things easier. I have dated gals who want to climb into bed ASAP, then the next gal I meet is not that into sex while dating. ARGH and UBER_ARGH !!! enjoy

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How proud and how private is too much? Posted: 4/27/2009 3:20:08 PM
The question of proud and how private seems like a no brainer to me. If you asked to be called first then the person should be calling before visits. To private, not for you I guess but maybe for him. Like it has been stated we are all entitled to our own comfort zones. Seems like he likes you so if you are not that into him maybe you should let him know or let him go. This goes beyond your question but it brings up a good point. What do we owe the other person we are dating, what is fair. I recently stopped seeing someone because I could not see us long-term and that is where she wanted to go. It was the "right" thing to do, but now we no longer can hangout or have sex. I did this as she was looking at "us" as a LTR and I could not see that going on. Enjoy

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If you're independant, why R U here? Posted: 4/27/2009 3:08:50 PM
Being independent is so far away from being alone. It seems that men are just expected to be independent (except those manchild who live in mom's basement) yet why would we want to be alone. A woman who is independent, WOW you mean you can call BS when the mechanic is trying to cheat you. I must admit that independence gives me a love/hate thing. Being with a woman who can do and does, ohhh that is a turn-on. Then again it does make it tough to do things for those kinds of hers, cause often she can do it just as well or better. Oh well. I guess that independent gal who is her is her for the same reason I am. I am comfortable being single and doing my thing, but having a partner to share time with would be nice.

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 2/22/2009 6:25:09 PM
Seems to me that something is missing. How many woman had this guy been with, are the numbers comparable and what is comparable (50 to 83 or what?) Then why did she sleep around, is sex that casual to her and not to him. Is that how she gets to know people verse hanging out? Seems the two in question might have different outlooks and expectations regarding sex. As an adult someone needs to make a grown up choice. If the gal has not been misrepresenting herself then the issues are few. If htere is misrepresentation going on from any side then there should be a little time out it would seem.

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Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?! Posted: 1/12/2009 1:14:42 AM
Do you mean sexual partners at one time/one night or in a life time?

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Getting even or holding a grudge... which would you do? Posted: 1/12/2009 1:10:21 AM
I was taught the best revenge is to live a good life. A grudge is only going to affect me, the other parties have tended to not know about the grudge and when they did they did not care. Doing something to get even just adds more of the crap we do not need in the world. In my life once did I do something out of revenge and it worked out to be a funny event for me, and a simple bewilderment to the target. In summary live a good life and don't strike back and let it go would be/is my 2 cents.

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How can anyone feel comfortable enough to have sex? Posted: 1/10/2009 3:06:58 PM
First I want to be honest, what motivates me to write here is to get word out to Miss Di. I live further than 75 miles from you but come to Spokane often and would like to meet you but cannot due to my distance. Please reconsider your milage. As to the tropic here. I love sex, not just cause I am a man but if you are a believer in God there is a old body of thought that the reason he/she made it feel so good is so we will enjoy it as it is such a good thing to do. The first commandment in the Old Testiment is to be fruitful and multiply. That is not about trees and numbers people. So to make sex a "discomforting " thing is sad imho. Then again sez involves all the sense's and is thus a very strong thing so some feel it should be reserved for a special relationship. I vote with this group as sex for me is much better within a close and meaningful relationship. Then there are folks who swing or hook up and a regular basis with new folks. They get laid more often but I am not sure if the sex is any better. I find it hard to find folks who are of the same focus on this issue that I am. All I know is it must be easier when there was one rule book that folks were suppose to follow, and those who didn't knew what would happen if they got caught. But then with choice we also get to see what honor, trust, and commitment means at a deeper level maybe. Enjoy and Miss Di drop me a note please

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I did it - the electronic disappearing act - guilty! Have you ever? Posted: 12/21/2008 1:16:35 AM
Seems like your posting this answers your own question. You didn't do anything evil or bad but a simple note to the man stating you are not interested would seem like a polite thing to do. Are you going to burn in hell for not making contact, shit I hope not. Is it a polite thing to do, yeah. Are you bad if you don't, not likely. If you were 100% or even 90% comfortable would you need to ask? Is it a big deal , no. That is my 2 cent worth. Happy Solstice

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Why would anyone want to date you? Posted: 12/21/2008 1:09:52 AM
I am funny, smart, kind, thoughtful, faithful and live with integrity. Also in a disagreement I am a good listener and try to work together verse against my partner. Oh and my faults are within some normal range.

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Men over 45 and facial hair Posted: 9/5/2008 9:02:49 AM
I have had facail hair on and off since my 20's. So now as I start me 50's having it is just what I do. This last summer I was dating a gal who expressed she did not like facail hair. She then asked me what thought of a woman who trimed her bush as she equated a preferance for a trimed bush with a childlust. Why is it a preferance for trim face is seen as normal while a trimed pubic region has some negative tilt?

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Kamloops broken heart... Posted: 8/13/2008 8:36:26 AM
Sounds like the Flame burned hot and as flames do it burned out for him. Adults making choices are both open to end things on their own schedule. If he does it habitualy then maybe he just likes the hot moments of dating. Once you start accepting eachothers farts and bleches something changes. Things get deeper or start to fall away. You could speculate on his emotional issues and such but you cousin might want to just move on. Not that I am really good at that myself but I hear it is the way.

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Burningman - BC delegation? Posted: 8/13/2008 1:44:43 AM
No neeewd Hippies. Hippies smell bad and are bad for the whole event. We try to keep the Hippies out!

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Where are my Glam Rockers? Posted: 8/13/2008 1:24:20 AM
nice to see some one mention the NEW YORK DOLLS. I just watched a film " The New York Doll". If you liked the Dolls you should see the film. If you don't know who the Dolls were you should check them out and then think of those hairbands of the 80's Oh yeah the Dolls, an American Treasure

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How to tell when a woman is being nice or hitting on you Posted: 4/28/2008 4:51:39 PM
I just noticed a portion was missing from my last post. "I had to catch up with my friends but would like to exchange numbers and continue the conversation some other time." now would that have been to forward?

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How much should you tell..... Posted: 4/27/2008 10:24:07 PM
I tell my parteners what is needed, and I don't ask what I don't need to know. If I want to know I will ask and be prepared to share the same info with her. If she ask something that I am not comfortable I tell her so and then sometime still tell. So a girl friend once volunteered she was not into three ways, out of the blue. I never felt a need to ask why or if she had in her past nor did I share if that had happened in my past. I also do not need to tell the new BF of a ex anything, that is up to her. My 2 cents

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Code blue!!! This forum needs to be brought back to life!! Posted: 4/27/2008 10:18:36 PM
Self introduction is due I guess. South King County Hello

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How to tell when a woman is being nice or hitting on you Posted: 4/27/2008 10:13:48 PM
To continue on with what abc6587 wrote. I meet a gal at a local bike shop. It seemed like she was interested, and we ended talkng about helmets, bikes and stuff for 10 or more minutes. I could not thinnk of anything to say, I was out shopping with a buddy and just happened to meet this gal. All I could think of saying was telling her I could not think of anything to say at the moment and had to catch up with friends. WOuld that have been to forward?

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Msg: 229 (view)

Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE? Posted: 4/25/2008 3:21:13 PM
I was all set to relocate for love. The woman who is a wonderful woman had sme issues, the closer we got the more her walls went up. After 6 or 7 months I just could not see moving 300 miles to increase the tension that had come up. Since we broke up she quickly got pregnant by a man she does not know, is very sad. I have recieved a couple of emails clearly stating how she recognizes some patterns that sabatoged our relationship and more. The point is that until this relationship I would have relocated, now I would have to say no. If someone is thniking about it I suggest spending plenty of time in the new location and discuss those issues that can wait till later. Housing cost, child rearing, bill paying, vacation plans, and the list goes on. I was within 3 months of being final with the move. Had I gone through with it it would have been a $40,000 cost. For love that would be nothing, for heart ache that is a lot to pay.

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Profile Review please, Posted: 4/20/2008 5:15:41 PM
Hey Folks Here is a new and improved (or at least changed) profile. Please review and make suggestions. If you are a woman int he 35 to 50 age range I thank you as you are around who I am trying to attracked. Others I thanks also but some suggestions for a 20 somthing might not make sense for a near 50, yet some do. Enjoy

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Msg: 91 (view)

What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex? Posted: 4/17/2008 12:14:24 AM
I was with a gal for a couple of years and the sex was great and often, most days and/or nights. She was cute and I jsut adored her. Love and affection made helped make the sex more often and better is my thoughts. Since breaking up with her my interest in sex has been near zero. It has been 6 months with little sex. After a while my body wants some and I am around single woman who find me atractive so I can get laid. Once every few months is fine for me, unless I find someone I want to date and then who knows. If the love bug bites again and all I could see a revieved sex interest. That would be my point of view

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Msg: 216 (view)

Firearms and Dating Posted: 4/16/2008 8:26:04 PM
I pack (aka carry concealed) legal and all for whatever psycopathic reasons. In this state it just means I was never caught doing those things I should not have been doing. I find that the woman I have dated do not know I am packing, as I carry concealed for a reason. When they do find out they have gotten to know me and by then it is clear we have somethings in common or not. A number of woman I have dated proved to be a bit closed minded and narrow thinkers before they were aware I was packing. If person is going to be turned off by you packing them I would bet there are other things that will be in the way. I choose to date and when it comes up though conversation or contact or anyother way I am 100% up front with the lady. Usually once she knows me for me the gun things is not an issue.

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Looking for input on my profile, HELP Posted: 4/16/2008 8:13:09 PM
But it is the first tye dye I ever got and it was a gift from last year. Okay I can get another picture but it is ironic that I get a hippie shirt when I curse people as being "F------ Hippies" Plus it looks great when I am at the shootig range with a holster on over the shirt.

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Looking for input on my profile, HELP:Changes made Posted: 4/16/2008 2:57:59 PM
Okay I made some chages. And I plan to get some photos n that are current and maybe more flattering. Feel free to offer feed back if uyou have time. If not, enjoy

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Looking for input on my profile, HELP Posted: 4/16/2008 2:27:35 PM
Thanks for the input. Will work on it ASAP, like now.

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Looking for input on my profile, HELP Posted: 4/15/2008 11:04:37 PM
Hey all. I am rather new to the POF but came from another dating sight. To start I would thank anyone for input on a review of my profile. I took the one from the other service and pasted it here. Other than that I look forward to being part of the forums. Thanks and Enjoy

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