People with issues wear down the happiness/serenity of people who don't have issues.

I don't understand why people can't just be honest about their appearance and personality. Others are going to find out when they meet you.

I know we have to sort of be like a used-car salesperson and maybe inflate everyone's perception of who we are here in POF land.

Perhaps men can fake ED to get out of very boring relationships.

I will put someone on my favorites list if their profile catches my attention. If they dont respond in a few days, I delete them hehe. Its my way of winking and if they dont wink back, thats ok too.

"I have no problem if a woman has never been married but the "red flag" for me is when she has been married & divorced 2 or more times..."

It's not a red flag for me, it's a strike out, that's it, over and no questions asked. I probably should not post this as some people here will think of me as an unhappy and negative person.

Hey c'mon Tryagan, you're not going to feel threatened by a small puppy, or even a large rottie, are you?

A good number of us women need lots of affection to heighten our desire. To keep our sex drive honed.

The prevalence rate may be overstated. As has been stated here and elsewhere, healthy, fit (flat stomach, for example) men w/o diabetes and other health issues generally do not have this problem.

Before quoting pete's question, I googled to find the following:

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"Where do you sign up for a relationship with sex?"

I haven't for several years, because I can't see anyone without issues that I am attracted to. I would rather do without the relationship with sex, than have a bad relationship with sex like so many others seem to rush to sign up for.

I know I wouldn't sign up to be in a relationship with a man I didn't know who had it. I wouldn't expect him to sign up for a relationship with me if I didn't want or couldn't have sex.

I am not bashing but would like to say that with the prevalency of ED, some guys may want to look within and learn to be become better people.

I don't think I lead this thread to any wrong direction.

I'm only interested in discussing what I like.

Everyone who gets older has some problem at some level.

I was just locked in a long embrace with a man that I truly adore.. I did not see him coming since he approached me from behind. It was such a wonderful embrace and so I turned to see who it was

Anyways, are you one of the types that won't date a lady unless she "puts out"?

Then as if that cut wasn't bad enough, you felt it necessary to see if you could get in one further dig (perhaps because you know I am a Democrat) by throwing in some sort of off-color joke about a previous president which I really could care less about. Really, you must grow up ... only a rightwingnut job would still be focusing on such issues related to that president.

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"TryAgan" ... do I have to make a trip to Ontario to clarify this for you? You know, show you how one can "test" libido.

I just won't have sex with a man right away.

So it's better to catch you in the morning then?
For both the libido and the shower ....

Just what was it again, that makes someone over 45 (or 50 in this case) so sexy and hot?

Communication is somewhat difficult sometimes. Mi espanol is poco poco...
Other than language issues we get along.

Lets say that she is. This person is orignally from another country where the language barrier sometimes is an issue.

I honestly thought it was only men that wanted to hop in the sack by the 3rd date. Now I am learning there are plenty of women that feel likewise

How do you feel about a mid-sized car with fully reclining seats and a moon roof? With the moon roof open, your feet.......

He sent me two dozen roses to my office, wrote me romantic, wonderful things daily.
...
I told him there is no way I would do it in a parking lot.

I am 2 years separated and am having a major hassle getting myself to go on that 1st date.

Or until they can't sleep any longer than an hour without having to get up and go ... release a few dribbles.

I know of women who openly admit they have no interest in sex anymore.
…. when I ask them more personal questions and the bottom line is ... they probably need some HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) or there are also Herbs out there that can help women.

in the meantime, I enjoy the company of men in a platonic way. I do get attention from them ... all the hugs I want, all the massages I want, all the dancing I want ... and if I allowed it ... all the kisses I want.

many old guys tell in their profiles they like to kiss and hold hand somthing.

I read some studies that some guys like to suck because they can get it up.

I don't recall that I have any complaints about any of "my men" encountering performance/endurance problems. Show me where I have ever said that men I date are having performance/endurance problems.

There are a few self proclaimed POF therapist. All this and they don't even have the degree for it!!!!

I probably would have filled in the answer with "women". It might get you noticed!!!

Or are we talking horizontal tango?

Try Again, I really didn't think of it in terms of a "boxing match"..

I agree that one can be liberal on some issues and conservative on others.

Anyone here know what shag means in the UK?