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pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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How come we all get so picky after 30? Posted: 4/27/2009 6:30:22 AM
yeah, don't ya wish you could back to being blindfolded & bubbleheaded...getting your heart broke over every guy you get a crush on...having no idea of what you really want... it was so much simpler then...when we were out to just have fun...sometimes I wish I weren't so picky....sure would make my dating pool a lot larger...my blood pressure lower.... but there is a price you have to pay for that too...dealing with people that don't match you...lie...cheat....stupid...whatever....just because they may be cute or fun... it's not worth it...it's frustrating sometimes...but I appreciate that I'm picky...hopefully it means eventually I'll find the 1 that's more than just cute & fun...make sense?....good luck...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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I saw a friend of mine here, and said hello. Was that wrong? Posted: 4/27/2009 6:09:29 AM
helllooo...she doesn't even know you sent her an e-mail yet....she probably doesn't know your screen name or has even seen your profile yet....& she probably has hundreds of e-mails she's working her way through...it can get like that sometimes...especially if you're new to a site...or maybe busy with life... that 1 e-mail won't seem weird....she'll probably apologise for taking so long....but if you send 10 more obsessing about it, you'll be the new creepy guy at work... good luck...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Tell me about your 1st experience with salvia....should I do it again? Posted: 4/3/2009 6:35:36 AM
ha...1st time I've ever been called a tool...too funny.... ya'll are a trip...you've taken this to whole other levels...this isn't a discussion on my parenting, my intelligence, what kind of person I am...it isn't about cocaine & ecstasy...I wasn't seeking anyone's attention...if you actually knew me, you'd know I get more than enough of that & I usually avoid it....not to mention, I can think of much better ways to get that, if that had been my goal.. I just wanted to hear other experiences from people who have actually tried it...& if they thought I should try it again, under different circumstances...as in a lesser amount...going into it understanding it & the history of it more.... & for those without a sense of humor, the reference to my Indian heritage was meant to be a joke...so far as I know, I have no Mazatec shamans in my bloodline...though I do find that aspect of the use of it interesting... yes, I did try it again...after studying up on it more....I wanted to see what would happen if I took a lesser amount & remained conscious through all of it...I wanted to experience it, understanding what was going on...& yes, I was able to & yes I had a pretty profound experience....but I didn't like it....if it was showing me things we can't normally see or understand...I don't want to know..lol.. before I tried it again..this is 1 of the things I read...- The Latin name Salvia divinorum literally translates to “sage of the seers”.[4] Salvia divinorum has a long and continuing tradition of religious use as an entheogen by indigenous Mazatec shamans, who use it to facilitate visionary states of consciousness during spiritual healing sessions. Salvia divinorum is not generally understood to be toxic or addictive, and as a κ-opioid agonist, it may have potential as an analgesic and as a therapeutic tool for treating drug addictions. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salvia_divinorum & no, I'm not going to bother telling ya'll about what happened...because ya'll aren't actually interested in that...most of you are just looking for a reason to attack someone, so you can feel like you're better or whatever...for those of you that actually had something to say about Salvia & those that came to my defense...I appreciate it... yes, it was beyond stupid to smoke something I didn't really understand what it was...though in my defense, it was something my friends had already done & not experienced like I did...& it was bought in a tobacco shop...completely legal in my state... though after actually trying it myself...I feel I can discuss it & actually know what I'm talking about...unlike most of the other people posting on this forum.... & my determination is that it should be made illegal....honestly, I can't believe this stuff is legal, but pot isn't....& no, I won't be doing it again....

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Why should I believe in aliens? Posted: 3/29/2009 5:05:44 AM
because you a pompus narrow minded person if you don't...how can you not... do you really think they would show themselves to us...simple-minded...using less than 10 percent of our brains...blowing each other up...us?.... we send out all this stuff welcoming aliens...yet if they came...we would just try to blow them up... don't you realise that we are the country bumpkins of the universe?... I think they're already here....been here... I think we are them....but that's a whole other subject...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Out of my league Posted: 3/29/2009 4:56:42 AM
you need to understand that you don't know what someones league is...people are always guessing mine wrong... I get long haired, tattooed guys...bigger guys...bald guys...all the time...that don't even bother talking to me to begin with, because they think they are out of my leauge...when they are exactly what I like...most of the time... you just never know unless you try...good luck... think about Julia & Lyle....

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Why are some people against hunting? Posted: 3/29/2009 4:32:25 AM
no matter how cute a guy is or whatever...I'm usually not interewsted once I learn he enjoys hunting..if you have a pic up of you as the mighty hunter holding a deer head...I'll click right on past you...going...damn...he was cute too...too bad... though I do want a man to know how if he had to...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Tell me about your 1st experience with salvia....should I do it again? Posted: 3/29/2009 4:16:16 AM
1st...it tics me off that so many of you wanna bring my kids into it...you don't know me or what a good mom I am. or how I would die for my kids in a heartbeat...they have a good life & you have no right to question that... my kids spend every weekend with their father...& this happened on a Friday night... 2nd....don't question my friends...they are good people..they have had my back several times...this was a complete free will thing...1 of them even told me not to do it... 3rd....the pot...can we please stay to the topic...I didn't ask your opinion on that because I don't care...that is a whole seperate issue...but since it's brought up...I consider it a natural thing...I do it occasionally...I only do it on weekends...I don't even keep a beer in my home.. 4th...let's try & remember that we're talking about something that is completely legal...can be bought in a tobaccoo shop...which is kinda scary...but still...it's not like I was hooking up in the hood...I just smoked something more concentrated that people usually sprinkle on their rolled cigarettes... for those that criticize me for considering trying it again...I simply see you as the more close-minded, scared people...I definitely wouldn't want to do it as strong as before...but they say a small amout is a lighter experience... so...I've been up since 3am chillin...this feels like a good time to put on some...Doors maybe...& see what happens...I'll let ya know...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Tell me about your 1st experience with salvia....should I do it again? Posted: 3/28/2009 10:18:56 AM
I had my 1st..& maybe only...experience with salvia last night...& I mainly want to get it documented for myself while the memory is fresh...& I'd like to hear about other peopes' experiences with it... for those who don't know...salvia is an herb...you can smoke it...chew it...burn it...cook with it...it's legal, except in certain states...but several countries are banning it... shaaman used to use it to enhance their visions...it is the only known natural hallucinogenic...I had never heard of it before last night... I had went up to a friends tattoo shop....a couple I know really well...luckily.....it was after hours & we were sitting in the back room burning 1.....which is about all I ever do anymore occasionally...a beer once in awhile...but I did go though my experimental days...back in the day before the day...powder...maybe 10 trips with acid or rolls...a fun thing, but it scares me bad....I ratherr stay natural... so they're telling me about it...compared it to rush.....remember that wonderful brain cell melter?....they pull it out....a pile of black powder....she puts it in a bowl...here ya go...sit in this chair 1st....I hit it....hold it they say.... they said I passed out & slipped off the chair next....all I remember is reality took a serious turn to another diminsion....the best way I can describe it...is reality split.....it literally split.....excuse me while I step outside of my brain...I understood...excuse me while I kiss the sky...truely... it was like I was coming out of this nothingness....I had no idea who the f I was or what was going on for a second....there were 3 people standing in front of me & I saw their bodies split in half...along with the rest of the room..... I literally saw them split down the middle....I saw their blood molecule ....it was all in the air....mixing for a few moments....then it all went to a circle, at the edge of my vision...then their faces & everything did several circles...spiriling inward, towards me....I think that's when I slipped of the chair....cause I was trying to get the hell away...lol... I've seen the visuals of rolls...I've seen some wicked stuff on acid...had a bad acid trip...I've never in my life seen anything so f**ked up..... as to my state of mind....I was completely paniced at 1st...cause I had no idea what had happened or what was going on...I remember trying to rationalize with myself....but my only explanation was....they were all really aliens & they must have just shown themselves & taken me to their ship....I'm serious....it was the only thing that could possibly make sense of what I was seeing.... then I heard 1 of them say...how long are we into it....& I understood that something was going on....this was right after the spirial....& I told myself to try to ride whatever was happening...I realised I was on the floor with someone holding me. & they were laughing.....& I tried to say I was ok....but then their faces started melting & I had to close my eyes.... I heard my friend say you should get her up & walk her around....I shook my head nnoooo......give me a minute...remember what we did?...I busted into uncontrollable laughter..."what did ya'll do to me?".. that's when I jumped up & said W.T.F.!?..... when you come out of it, they say you aren't yourself... I was me...but an extremely pissed off version of me...0 to 10 in 1.5 secs.... I remember going towards a very good friend of mine...like, after him... & saying"why did you let me do that?"....luckily 1 of my best friends was there & he grabbed me & reminded me Josh was the 1 who told me not to do it....I remember saying, "ya'll are lucky you are who you are...or I'd be trying to kick you ass right now"...& I was very serious....but then I went into a fit a giggles again...which ruined my whole godfather moment.... they gave me a bit to have...I'm scared of it though....I was thinking if I did it again...it would be different...because I would know what to expect & could try to ride it...but they said that wasn't possible...that you lose it every time...which I wouldn't want to do again...I've experienced my 1 time of not knowing...I don't think I could handle that again... I guess I;m glad I went through it once...if you're someone who says you're open to stuff...& considering how illegal it is in so many places...& how it has been used for so long in religous rituals....if the Indians did it, then it's ok...right?..lol...that's what it was...discovering my heritage...my great-grandmother was full blooded... anyhow..I'd like to hear your experiences...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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anyone else see Slipknot...Trivium...Coheed? Posted: 2/10/2009 9:59:59 PM
just got home from the Slipknot show.....just curious if anyone else went or is going during their tour....& what did you think? I'm wondering if Trivium is starting at all the shows?...I thought for sure Coheed would be 1st....I like them & all...but dammm.... nursing my injuries....made it to the front for Slip....a crowd-surfer landed on me & slammed my arm into the fence....got a big bruise going....yeah.....oh well...price you pay sometimes for the front I suppose.... it was my 1st time seeing Slipknot....& I gotta say....they kicked azz....they really had the crowd going.... are there actually any metal-heads on this site?

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Can you miss someone you have never met? Posted: 12/5/2008 2:25:23 AM
most definitely....about 3 years ago I met a guy who lived in Utah...he was beautiful...tall, long dark hair...we had an immediate connection....4 hour phone conversation the 1st night.... we spent a couple months talking almost daily... I thought he was coming here....we were making tentative plans...then he just disappeared....guess he found sumthing he thought was better...I don't know... I still think about him & miss him though....& I keep waiting on that lightening to strike again...makes me afraid to get too close without meeting though... met another guy that was just a friend....he had a girl, but we really liked talking...we would just talk about problems & bs...she became controlling & said he wasn't allowed to talk to me or any other girl...no female friends...I still miss him & worry about him...wish I could at least know he's ok... yes...it's definitely possible...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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do I trust her or break up with her? Posted: 11/19/2008 11:10:50 PM
dude...r u serious?....you actually were quiet, so he wouldn't hear you?....can you say wussy?..... having an ex as a friend is ok...if there is trust & respect....she can't be trusted & she has no respect for you...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Dog Training...HELP!!! Posted: 11/19/2008 10:43:24 PM
watch the Dog Whisperer...that guy is awesome...good luck..

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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What do you do about rude people talking at the movies? Posted: 11/19/2008 10:40:34 PM
good answers ppl...gave me sum ideas.....but 1 lady brought up another pet peeve of mine.... When "Titanic" came out my 2 youngest were 2 & 4 years old. We took them to see it, you're like scarecrow from Wizard of Oz...ya know...if you only had a brain... ... people really should have to get a license...take a test...something...before they're allowed to have children... what's funny, is a few years from now...she'll be sitting their going...gee...I don't get it...why are my kids so f**ked up?

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Why you like you face covered in peircings? Posted: 11/19/2008 10:00:27 PM
Why do you shave?...your face grows hair on it...so it must be meant to be there...& yet you shave it off...why?.... why do you cut your hair so short?...it grows...it must be meant to be there...& yet you insist on cutting it off...why?..because that's your personal preference that you have a right to & must be what you think is attractive... why do grown men insist on wearing pink collar shirts?....or worse...that preppy, 80's, tied sweater over their shoulders?...never fails to make me laugh... I personally like a guy with long hair & a goatee...just my preference...just as I like the face piercings...I have 12 piercings myself...2 of which are on my face....it doesn't serve any purpose...it's just a piece of jewelry...I just like the way it looks...& I feel sorry for those woman who said they think their too old to have them... you know what..there is a purpose....it keeps the close-minded conformist away...lol..

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Permission to Trick or Treat a Halloween Dilemma Posted: 11/4/2008 4:13:30 AM
So OP, what'd you decide to do?...just saw this article & it upset me & made me this of this post... http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/11/03/halloween.slaying.ap/index.html I wonder how many kids had something happen to them that night...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Is honesty the best policy? Posted: 10/31/2008 8:33:20 AM
oh no...you should be like so many others out there & lie your azz off...tell em your a doctor...a trust fund baby....a millionaire super spy...that way, at least you might get laid a couple times before they figure out who you really are & kick you to the curb...or better yet, just lightly coat it...that way, you might get lucky enough to rope one in for good...then you can spend the rest of your life with someone who loves/hates you...for tricking her into a situation she doesn't want... sorry...I'm feeling a bit sarcastic today...tell the truth dude...you'll find the right one & she'll respect you for being real & help you through the tough stuff...good luck

pandora04

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Has feminism destroyed all men? Posted: 10/31/2008 8:15:49 AM
macho macho man....sounds like you wanna be...a macho man... no, I don't want a pu**y....but neither do I want sum blockhead thinking he owns me...I can so picture you...running around with your chest all puffed out...looking for those meek women that will cower & obey your rules...silly little boy...maybe one day you'll grow up & realise that a true man respects the opinion of his partner...& is capable of agreeing to disagree....I personally don't want a puppet...nor do I want to be one...you should probably put a turban on your head & move to one of those ignorant countries that still get get away with this behavior..

pandora04

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I kissed my friend's live-in boyfriend! Posted: 10/31/2008 8:02:55 AM
yep, right now you're the evil slut...so grow up little girl....wanna be able to look yourself in the mirror again?...get yourself sum balz & go tell your friend what happened....right in front of him too...don't keep his secrets or let him have the chance to sweet talk her & say it was your doing...though it partly was...you should have went off cussing & went straight to her right then... you're beautiful...there are lots of guys out there for you...now go kiss your friends azz & try to make it right...you'll probably still lose her...but at least you will have done the right thing..

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Permission to Trick or Treat a Halloween Dilemma Posted: 10/31/2008 7:47:44 AM
it's not your job to just make her happy...it's your job to be her parent....you gave her many alternatives.....I guarantee there is more than meets the what their telling mommy here...they got plans...that most likely include egging houses...ding dong ditch...etc..... don't trust her friends for a second....nor a little girl going out alone at night....I'd rather her be pissed & safe...than spoiled & dead.... if you do be a wuss & give in...play detective & follow them....bet it won't take 30 mins to find out what's really going on... for that matter, why are they trick or treating at all?...this isn't the 50's anymore...people simply can't be trusted...last weekend I took my kids to a Halloween themed Renaissance festival...then to scareowinds....on Halloween, we usually go to a church themed party...there are always lots of these around...you don't have to be a member...& they are free....there are tons of haunted houses & trails...go buy a bunch of candy yourself... give her a few options...if she doesn't want them...then she can sit home & pass out candy to all the other kids who have idiots for parents...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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Would you give up custody of your kids and move away just to be with a new partner? Posted: 10/31/2008 7:36:13 AM
sounds like this little dumbazz is getting just what she deserves for leaving her kids...hopefully they will be better off without her... of course you did the right thing by telling her the truth...she doesn't just need to be slapped upside the head with the stupid stick...she needs to be bashed with it..don't feel guilty...be glad you got out when you did...this waste of life never deserved her kids to begin with.. and NO....I would never leave my kids for anyone or anything...

pandora04

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Charlotte POF Mingle at Whiskey River Friday November 7th 6-9 Posted: 10/8/2008 2:21:20 PM
I'll try to be there & bring my sis....a little early though isn't it?...I'm not used to even heading out til 9 or 10...do they have pool tables?....very kool that you are setting this up....

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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How to grap a girls attension in the first few line Posted: 10/4/2008 6:12:21 PM
say something honest..that's you.. unique..& in common with her....

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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foreigners in the usa Posted: 9/28/2008 12:52:24 AM
so I had to come back to this..because I know how I come off as only being 1-sided..I'm a gemini..that isn't possible for me.. want to make it clear that I would marry a man of a different race in a heartbeat, if he were the right 1..I have respect for ppl from all over the world..& find other cultures fascinating..it's why I want to study history & theology.. I'm not prejudice against color...I'm pregidous against stupidity...& that comes in all colors...including American redneck..lol... ppl just know what they experience, ya know...like the other day, I'm fixing to go in the post office & this Mexican guy is watching me...comes in behind me..ask me something..I don't understand...holds up his envelope for me to read, points to slots.. most ppls natural reaction is to step over & help, right?...but if you're a person who learns from experience, you have flashbacks.. of being at the dragway in Orange Co, LA...this mexican guy grabbing me & kissing me right on the lips...the guy I was with did nothing..(wish I could go back & re-do it)...flashback..few yrs ago, in a club...mex. guy grabs me, pulls me on his lap & tries to lick my face...I've got a much better right hook now... anyhow, I step over, look at his letter..point to the right slot...tell him he doesn't need a stamp... he didn't believe me...still went to the desk...I thought that was funny he didn't trust me for something so simple, after all that stuff had went through my head.. I also felt guilty last night at my fav Mex restaurant..where the ppl are so nice.. I just read this book.. dirty girls social club...by Alisa rodrigues...& she says something I liked... I really stopped to think the other day about what's it's like to be an immigrant..with so much bashing going on, we forget how much courage it takes to leave your home, your language, your family & friends..& how much fear & desperation you'd have to face to begin with, to consider doing it..so difficult what others consider simple..going to the store, paying a bill, mailing a letter, ordering a drink..

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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IF YOU WON THE LOTTERY...... Posted: 9/17/2008 9:02:33 AM
I would buy enough land to build homes for my sisters & mom....& eventually my sons...we'd all have our privacy, but still be together....I'd have an entertainment center in the middle of it for everyone....with a pool, basketball court, tennis, billards & game room, etc...we'd have stables with horses....I'd have my purple 69 firebird...sitting along side my lambo...lol... I'd put my kids in good schools... I'd start a business we could all run, something that would be sure to keep money rolling in for future generations & something we enjoyed... we'd travel the world...I'd get to see the pyramids... I'd find other single moms, who need help getting on their feet & I'd help them... I'd build a place where children with cleft palates & other deformities could meet other children like them...& hook them up with medical care, if they can't afford it... I'd start a good shelter for homeless animals... I would'a flown to Texas for Ozzfest this year...lol...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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What Ever Happen To The FastLane On The HIGHWAY! Posted: 9/17/2008 8:47:30 AM
agree with you on this one....they need to move the hell over....what gets me is these guys driving these 18 wheelers that think they own the road....I don't care how fast you're going, you don't belong there....I hate having to pass a truck on the right...but after seeing the mythbusters on what a tire piece coming off those trucks can do...decapitation...I refuse to ride behind them anymore...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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He wants to text only, avoids phone calls. Posted: 9/17/2008 8:34:53 AM
here sweetie...borrow my naive stick & hit yourself over the head....why would you want meet someone who can't even speak on the phone to you?...let me spell it out for you...M A R R I E D....

pandora04

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That guy who outkicks his coverage Posted: 9/17/2008 8:29:21 AM
I don't believe in leagues...what I think is attractive, another girl might find ugly...& vise-versa...I do it with my 3 sisters all the time....I'll say DAmmmm....she'll say yuck.... you gotta give your friend kudos just for trying...it takes guts to go up & talk to someone you're attracted to...I know it's difficult for me....I rarely do it... what I can't stand though is the players....the vain....both male & female...that just assume they can have anyone they want....I so luv to shoot them down..

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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No picture, but private image(s) Posted: 9/17/2008 8:17:32 AM
I very rarely speak to anyone without an image...I usually just assume they are cheating on someone or very ugly...sorry to be brutal, but it's usually true....unless they are just talking to me about something I'm interested in & being completely non-sexual...or if they have something written in their profile that matches me...I usually don't even bother to look at the profile of ppl that have looked at me, if they have no image...it's part of being honest about who you are...why would I want to start something with someone, who is being secretive right from the beginning?

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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My boyfriend is addicted to strip clubs Posted: 9/17/2008 7:55:48 AM
of course your sex life is good...he's getting turned on by all those naked women...do you really think it's you he's thinking about while he's with you? I'm not a prude...I've been to strip clubs..both male & female...I've been with guys I was with before & have even tipped the girls myself....looks like a lot of hard work & putting up with b.s....must take a hellufa lot of guts to get up there & take your clothes off... but, it's something most people do occasionally....maybe for a bachelor party or something...if that was the case, I'd ask him if he had a good time & leave it at that... but this guy has a real problem...you have to decide if you want someone because he loves & is attracted to you...or if you can live with someone who needs to get turned on by another girl, before he can be with you...& let me state that it has nothing to do with you or what you look like...a guy who has the most beautiful woman in the world could have this same problem...it's his problem...not yours....I say quit torturing yourself for this loser...there are really good guys out there...good luck...

pandora04

Joined: 7/27/2005

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foreigners in the usa Posted: 9/17/2008 7:34:04 AM
I'd love to slap a stupid Mexican right now....forgive my rant, but my adrenaline is running & I suppose this is better than beating the hel out of them....yes, I get that this is what America is based on...I'm an American mutt myself....but enough is enough...we seriously need to get rid of the ignorant one's...the criminals...etc... I could have many examples here....I could spend hours...lol...but for the moment, let's just talk about their driving.....I was almost in 3 wrecks this morning...all due to mexicans.....all in less than 10 minutes... I was taking my son the 5 minutes up the road to his school....1st...a car comes flying up behind me on my street....passes me as I'm making a left turn....& flies through our neighborhood, doing at least 50....the speed limit in my neighborhood is 25mph....there were kids everywhere waiting for buses....I know it was the mexicans who just moved in 3 houses down...(the same 1's who have so far thrown water on my kittens, on my front porch....& killed a baby deer in their front yard & skinned it right there).....yes, we will be having a little discussion this afternoon... then, while I'm still in my neighborhood....there is one of those huge I have a small penis trucks with a mexican driving...he sees me coming...he waits til I'm almost there...then he pulls out in front of me... Then I get on the main road & this white mini-van swerves around me, cutting me off...she's making the same left I am & she takes off...turning in front of another car, barely missing him by inches....she flies up the road, doing 20miles over the limit...I catch up to her at the school...I knew she would get caught in that traffic...luck of luck...she turns into the same school I'm headed to....3 cars ahead of me... I couldn't help myself...3 times in five minutes was just too much...I jump out of my car...yes, in my dam pajama pants...lol...I go up to her car in line & I'm talking as I come around to her window..."I can't believe you just risked your childs' life like that!"....I had no idea who was driving...but wasn't surprised at all to find a mexican woman...."You just cut me off & almost wrecked another driver...& we're not even late for school!".....she gives me that stupid cow look....I realise she doesn't even understand what I'm saying to her...."Stupid! You're not even worth talking to...I feel sorry for your child"...& off I go back to my car in complete amazement... This woman couldn't even speak English...surely she can't read it either...yet she is allowed to operate a car? W.T.F.? A few years ago a friend of mine was in a wreck...it was a mexicans fault...he couldn't speak English...he didn't have a drivers license...he was an illegal...the cops let him go & didn't do a thing!...said all they do was deport him, and it was too much trouble...my friend still has back problems he has to pay for himself...W.T.F.? Forgive me for ranting, but just dam!....I don't care where someone is from or what the color of their skin is...I actually have several Mexican friends who are quite sweet & intelligent..my cousin married a mexican girl...they have 2 children...her whole family comes to our family events & they are wonderful, intelligent people...they are a part of our family now.... but I can't help but think if we allow you to live in our county, then you should be a positive contribution to society....don't come here & not learn our language..seriously, how stupid can you be?...don't come here & commit crimes....don't come here & get on the welfare that we pay taxes on to help our people...we don't want to pay your way...go back to your country & make it better...don't come here & make ours worse...

pandora04

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Dont mess with Grandma!!! Posted: 9/17/2008 12:25:42 AM
that's too good...

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The Pope and The Chauffeur Posted: 9/17/2008 12:22:31 AM
that's pretty good...

pandora04

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Ever seen a mail order husband? Posted: 9/16/2008 11:46:18 PM
too funny...I did a search...check out this ad on craigs list...http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/29243897.html then there's this site...this has so got to be a joke...http://www.mailorderhusbands.net/order/ I am 17, but will be turning 18 in September. I figure by the time we get to know each other I will be legal tender and we can marry. My parents are kicking me out after December and I'd like to meet a woman with a lot of money so we can have fun. I am attracted to a girl with a job and a car. preferably a Camarro. I like to meet big american girl. I can chop lots of wood and can even climb a greased pole. I keep in shape by chasing chickens around my back yard. I keep my self clean and take baths weekly. . I prefer a woman that has insurance and a car would be great as I need to make the occassional trip to Mexico to pick up 'souvenirs.'. you gotta check out the compatibility test & success story...

pandora04

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She does not invite me for her birthday Posted: 9/14/2008 1:38:11 AM
can I hit you with my naive stick please....unless it's an all girls thing....something is up...I suppose she could just be a selfish bubble-head...but my vote is another guy...sorry dude...

pandora04

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Concerned friend or nosy snoop? Posted: 9/13/2008 9:29:53 PM
yes, the "friend" in question is a nosy snoop...but I think the bigger problem is your girl... as she isn’t conservative herself, just acts it for their sakes why would you want to be with a phony who "acts" a certain way so ppl will like her?...doesn't it make you wonder how much of her is real when she is with you?..or is she just "acting" like she thinks you would want her too also?....I say run..Forest...run...it's the invasion of the plastic people

pandora04

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Should we accept who we are....or try to conform ? Posted: 9/13/2008 6:59:31 PM
I refuse to be a sheep...I'm me & if they don't like it...they know what they can do with it...either they fit you or they don't darl'n...but remember it goes both ways...find someone you don't feel the need to change either..

pandora04

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First ever! Fayetteville PoF get together Friday, Sept 12, 8 pm til whenever Posted: 9/12/2008 8:54:25 AM
I'll be thinking about ya'll tonight...wish I could be there...but 3 hours is just too far for my poor van...maybe next time we could have one between there & Charlotte or something... I hope ya'll have fun & fall in love people...

pandora04

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Fantasy Football....HELP!?!? Posted: 9/11/2008 11:12:31 PM
ok..nevermind...I get it....I can trade..say a wr for a qb or whatever...it's just that I can only play so many of each every week.... also, I decided to trade Burleson for Anquan Boldin...good move?...bad?....

pandora04

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Msg: 256 (view)

why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/11/2008 12:27:58 PM
I know exactly how you feel...I used to be the same way...when I was in love with someone, I wouldn't even feel the desire to look at another man...& I couldn't understand why he did..I would feel guilty if I did look at another man, even if mine was no where around...I thought that was being truely dedicated to someone..I took it as if he still wanted to, then he must not love me as much as I do him... never could decide which was worse...if he was looking at someone prettier than me, that would hurt, because I can only be what I am...or if he was was looking at someone not as pretty as me....which I totally didn't get...he's got this girl standing beside him, that all the other guys are looking at...but he's looking at some butterface...dam* that would make me mad & hurt soo bad... but now I've come to realise that the only person I was really hurting was myself & my relationship....it's just part of being a human animal...living in jealousy is a great way to torture yourself... so long as he isn't being rude to you by staring at someone else constantly & ignoring you...or actually flirting with them....then you should lighten up & take a look around yourself.... I also realised that men are simply attracted to more than most of us women...like, I bet most guys see at least 10 girls a day they would want to sleep with if they could...whereas me, I'm lucky if I see one guy a month that turns my head...but take me to an Ozzfest or something, where there is a lot of the type that I personally like..(long hair, tats, piercings,etc.)...& I'm practically breaking my neck to look... the real problem is when you get a guy that actually is going out with other girls...or trying to talk you into liking them too...lol... I say if he is someone you can trust, then don't worry about it... so much time & effort is wasted over this, if he really is being faithful...like I remember I was at the beach once with my ex...we were taking our kayaks to the beach...there was this girl that his eyes kept going to....so I started an argument...so here we are standing in the sand fighting, when this whole school of dolphins come swimming down the beach...it was amazing....& I should have been out there on my boat in the middle of them...probably the one chance in my life that I could have experienced that...but no, I was standing there fighting over some dumbaZZ girl that we would never see again & that didn't matter in our world at all...I still kick myself for that... my sister & her husband used to blow my mind...because they actually say stuff in front of each other...like, dam*, he's hott...I thought it was so disrespectful...I really didn't expect them to make it, figured one of them would end up screwing around...now I see that because they are able to be completely honest with each other & even joke about it...that they are able to completely trust each other...& they are the happiest couple I know...

pandora04

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Fantasy Football....HELP!?!? Posted: 9/11/2008 11:49:00 AM
I'm sure you are making more sense than I am..lol.. 1st there are only 8 teams in our league, which changes the math.. my biggest question here though, is you say I can.... instead of holding 2K you can keep only one and add two RBs or a WR .....but they are telling me I can't do that....that I can only have so many of each position....like a wr would need to be traded for another wr & so on..... are they just f**kn with me?...or do you think that's the rules?....I guess each league rules can be different....know anything about the rules for ya hoo fb?

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Fantasy Football....HELP!?!? Posted: 9/11/2008 4:13:26 AM
ok..just saw Nate Burleson is out for the season...so I gotta trade him...here are a few of my choices..though there are more, if you have another suggestion...what ya'll think? Roscoe Parrish (Buf - WR) Hank Baskett (Phi - WR) Johnnie Lee Higgins (Oak - WR) Mark Clayton (Bal - WR) Greg Lewis (Phi - WR) Anquan Boldin (Ari - WR) Devery Henderson (NO - WR) Ike Hilliard (TB - WR) Matt Jones (Jac - WR) Antwaan Randle El (Was - WR) Steve Breaston (Ari - WR) Glenn Holt (Cin - WR) Andre' Davis (Hou - WR) Dexter Jackson (TB - WR) Michael Jenkins (Atl - WR) Dante Hall (StL - WR)

pandora04

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Fantasy Football....HELP!?!? Posted: 9/11/2008 3:41:26 AM
Thanx for all the advice...though I can't say I understood all of it...lol... like the guy who says he only has like 1 of each...why would that be better?...I mean...I have 15 players total....8 of them playing & 7 "on the bench" I guess....& I can pick who I want to be playing that week....so if I only had say...1qb...& his team wasn't playing or he was slightly injured....I would have to take no points for him that week or trade him out...whereas now, I can just set him on the bench & use another... also, why wouldn't I want 3 defensive teams?....it's what they gave everybody....I can play 2 each week...(& I did ask for Dallas & Minn also...just didn't get them in the draft).. also, someone was talking about how I should use more of this or that...but I didn't think I could?..I mean, I made some choices I'd like to have...but the auto-draft gives you only so many of each thing... also, in picking what you use each week...like, it has a place for me to pick 1qb,3wr,2rb,1te,1kicker, & 2def teams each week...so I thought that's what I had to pick?...are you saying I can take out a wr or whatever & put in 2 qb for that week?....because I'd like to use both Manning & McNabb for this week...but I thought I had to choose one or the other?...

pandora04

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Fantasy Football....HELP!?!? Posted: 9/8/2008 1:32:28 AM
saw a few threads on this...but I figure my situation is a bit unique, since I'm a girl & may need some "special" help.. So I had a bit of a buzz last night...agreed to join a league of all guys...(corporate buddies for a big store)...who have a league on ya ho o for a bit of $$$$ & needed 1 more....woke this morning wondering what I had gotten myself into...by that time, the draft had already went through.. I like football highlights & the Superbowl...UFC...boxing..extreme....drifting...live road racing..wrecks...& midget mud wrestling...after being married to a fanatic for too long(&divorced)...I'm a bit bored quickly with sports on tv... but I have always had a knack for picking the winning fb team..boxer..etc.. from the once over as I get it..it runs on a points system based on pts & head to head games with others players teams...which I don't get how you compare the 2...like if 1 person has more points, but another wins more games..?.. I have 2 teams....1 I'm playing & 1 on the bench...I can switch them I think Tues thru Thurs....so I gotta watch for players not playing that week or injured...etc...anybody got any fast ideas for that?..... we also get 3 teams...points based on defense...?... I got 3 I asked for....Pittsburgh, Green Bay & Carolina... I also asked for & got Peyton Manning, Owen Daniels ,Jamal Lewis ,Donovan...McNabb ,Heath Miller&Nate Kaeding ... here is my list of players... Peyton Manning ...(Ind - QB) Roddy White ....(Atl - WR) Dwayne Bowe ....(KC - WR) Lee Evans ...(Buf - WR) Jamal Lewis ....(Cle - RB) Laurence Maroney ..(NE - RB) Heath Miller ..(Pit - TE) Donovan McNabb ...(Phi - QB) Owen Daniels ...(Hou - TE) Jonathan Stewart ...(Car - RB) D.J. Hackett ...(Car - WR) Nate Burleson ...(Sea - WR) Thomas Jones ....(NYJ - RB) Nate Kaeding ...(SD - K) David Akers ...(Phi - K) Pittsburgh ....(Pit - DEF) Green Bay...(GB-DEF) Carolina ...(Car - DEF) we can trade players with other teams & with a pool of open players...so I'm open for suggestions on possible trades I should make...though I plan to keep my teams(GB,Car,Pitts)...my qb's..Jonathan Stewart ...because he's from Carolina & he has good pts...Donovan McNabb ...good pts & Pitt...but anyone else ya'll think I should get rid of? do ya'll think I should trade 1 of my kickers for John Kasay 4 Carolina?if I can figure out when I can & get him 1st... anyhow...any tips ya'll can give me...advice....anything...would be greatly appreciated...right now I'm in 4th place out of 8...may move up after GB plays Minn tom night...thanx for any help...

pandora04

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Anyone else watch Generation Kill? Posted: 9/5/2008 9:25:18 AM
you're right, it wasn't a Hollywood spectacle...that was the best thing about it...it was real & as you say, dealing mostly with what the men were going through....& I think there wasn't a lot of firepower or as graphic as it should have been, because it was a female director...but I know some people can be pretty squeamish about war movies.. took me a couple of episodes also to figure out who everyone was, who was with which company & such...I wonder if the guy that played the godfather really sounds like that... yeah, the music was the guys singing...that was great when they had them singing that old Vietnam song....& wasn't that Johnny Cash at the end of the 7th one? there was more than just roger that at the end though...did you listen to the 7th one?...can't remember all of it...but I thought it was kool... a few lines... "Marine by God... I'm a United States Marine... We look like soldiers We talk like sailors we'll slap the sht out of both of them... And on the 7th day God rested... and we had his perimeter guarded... just another observation or two...I don't get why the different divisions of our men...& the men helping from other countries....are so against & competitive with each other...how can they possibly get anything done like that? also, I know it sounds cold...but I would have taken Captain America out myself...whoops...he was such an idiot...killing so many innocent people so he would get a medal & risking his own men by his stupidity....makes me wonder how many guys like that in charge in Vietnam got wiped out by their own men... I think we should put all women in charge of all countries..(NOT Hilary though..lol)there would be no more wars....we would sit down & figure it out....or come up with some other type of competition...like chess tournaments or something...or just take the leaders & let them fight it out UFC style...the men have been in charge too long & they're seriously f*king it up...

pandora04

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Do you have neighbors like this? Posted: 9/4/2008 11:01:34 PM
weirdshitometer....I'm so stealing that word...

pandora04

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Anyone else watch Generation Kill? Posted: 9/4/2008 10:43:24 PM
Just got through watching the last episode of Generation Kill on HBO on demand....Just curious if anyone else has seen it & what they think... For those who don't know, it's a 7part mini-series, that is the TRUE story of the 1st Recon Battalion through the 1st 40 days of the war in Iraq....it was written by Evan Wright, a reporter for Rolling Stone, who was with them....(portrayed by 1 of my fav actors from Oz)..... Sgt. Eric Kocher & Cpl. Jeffery Carisalez also helped him with it...& Sgt. Rudy Reyes portrays himself in the show... I thought it was kick azz....watched it all in 3 nights...couldn't stop....it shows so much of what it must have been like....& I love how they hold nothing back...they show all the views....are we helping them or not....what so many of them were having to live in & what they are like....what our marines were going through....the incompetence of so many in charge.....the guys who truely wanted to help....the one's who were just there so they could kill people....really interesting.....but I warn you....it's some pretty graphic scenes....not as bad as Band of Brothers...but pretty rough...but I think every American should watch this... ps...if you haven't seen it yet...be sure to listen to the stuff they are saying as the credits roll at the end...pretty kool...

pandora04

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Do you have neighbors like this? Posted: 9/4/2008 10:08:21 AM
Are you serious?...This actually bothers you?...I would luv to have that problem..I live in a pretty nice neighborhood, yet...my neighbors all have dogs they let bark all night...the lady beside me babysits brats that scream all day...the guy 2 doors away beats his kids...I've had to call the cops twice on him...get in his face to stop him from beating one & his son stays at my house constantly, cause he doesn't want to go home....the old lady across the street set up traps for my cats...(don't even bother,we already had a thread on that) 2 months ago I went to a house at midnight raising hl....cause they let my kid watch an r rated movie with their son, after I told them nothing more than pg13... yesterday...I was in complete tears....my sicko new foreign neighbors that can barely speak english....(that threw water on my kittens, on my front porch, which caused 2 of them to lose an eye, cause they got sick)....yesterday, a baby deer went running through their yard, hit a fence & broke it's neck....it was still alive....my kids were freaking out...(they saw it happen)....I went over & this guy is letting his kids poke it & take pics...I'm trying to get them away from it...let me sit with it til it dies, then we'll bury it....nooo..."we eat it, we eat".....I'm like dude, you live in this neighborhood,I know you got money...the grocery store is right up the street....have some respect...."no, we eat...it's dead"...um, no you dumba...it's eye's are clear & it's still breathing...it was everything I could do not to kick him right in the balz & take the deer....by the time I got animal control out there 30 mins later, they were already cutting it up....they better never need my help... I wish my neighbors would just sit in their garages & drink beer...sounds great...let's switch...

pandora04

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Crazy Neighbour - help me! Posted: 9/3/2008 8:44:32 PM
What was that line from Silence of the Lambs?...something about they covet what they know...sounds like he is coveting you... It sounds like you have been way too nice yourself....why is it that it is so hard for us women to learn that we don't always have to be nice to ppl or put up with guys bs...or help them hide their secrets....which is what you are doing...by not letting his wife know what is going on... just approach her when you see her out...pretend that you think she already knows all about it...pretend you think she must be the one who made the food for you....thank her for all that her & her husband have done for you...(be sure to remember the whole chef thing too)...apologize for not having thanked her before now....tell her how you feel you have gotten to know him so well....what with his coming over everyday....& you're sorry she hasn't been around to get to know...start talking about all the stuff he has said to you...anything about himself or them...as casual conversation...she really won't like that.. you don't have to say a word your issues on it...she should get what you're really trying to tell her....just by the look in your eyes & your voice....

pandora04

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Msg: 51 (view)

Trusting your girl in Vegas... Posted: 8/30/2008 12:35:21 AM
If you can't trust her in Vegas, then you can't trust her anywhere.....you either do or you don't..or can't.. honestly...humans are going to look at each other & recognize an attraction..I'm usually comfortable enough to tell the person I'm with.."yeah, I'm attracted to him"...& I'm not stupid...(&it's soo not fair)...but he is going to see many more women that he wants to do...than I do men...it's only human...& ppl are going to flirt a bit...it sooths the ego for many.. either you can torture yourself with it...or find someone that you believe you know well enough to laugh about it with...& trust that how they behave when you are no where around, is what matters... personally, if she is taking it to the point of being obsene...touchy...too far...that's too disrespectful..sounds like if you want to keep seeing her, maybe it should be open....

pandora04

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Question for anyone presently practicing celibacy... Posted: 8/16/2008 10:53:52 PM
I think I would be one crazy b#$#h if I took it so far as to no masturbating...I think not...but I have found it quite empowering to discover that I can live without it..while there have been a handful of probably shouldn't haves...I've done quit well the past couple of years...yes, I miss it...& it gets hard, when you need that...& when you know you could have it, no problem... but then you remember...how you like not having to worry about condoms breaking or diseases....how I like to actually know & have some feeling for someone I choose to let touch me...& oh yeah...I like to be able to look into my own eyes in the mirror.. so I choose to wait for "him".... as to ppl considering themselves as married to God, for their reasons for celibacy....I don't get it..

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