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tonytexas25

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Msg: 73 (view)

what does open-minded imply? Posted: 4/11/2009 7:19:05 PM
It means to me that you are open to new things and new things sexually. Don't get all weirded out if I want to use a vib on you, or want to travel outside the country. You will be amazed that alot of people here in michigan have never left the state before. It is very sad.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 183 (view)

CONDOM? or NO CONDOM? Posted: 4/11/2009 7:13:29 PM
I read alot of you say wear a condom, but I would guess that come dowm to the heat of the moment that you had no condom you would still have sex. I think people just say things to make them look good. I have and have not wore a condom. It is the heat of the moment.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 206 (view)

How many women fantasize watching their man with another man? Posted: 4/11/2009 6:55:40 PM
SO let me get this straight LOL, when two women have sex they are still straight, and when two men do they are gay? But I am guessing if the two women happen to be ugly then they are probably lesiban's by all your accounts.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 167 (view)

Threesomes...why the bias? Posted: 4/11/2009 6:43:07 PM
Tom.. and what makes a real man? Please infomr us all because you seem to be an expert at this.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

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Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus? Posted: 4/11/2009 12:31:45 PM
As long as you clean your butt I see nothing wrong with it. It is not going to replace oral but it can be fun to mix it up once in a while.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 98 (view)

Masturbation in public places? Posted: 4/11/2009 12:29:49 PM
Never been that honry to rub one out in public. I don't think I would. I would have and have had sex in public. Nothing to daring, just in a car or park.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 137 (view)

Threesomes...why the bias? Posted: 4/9/2009 10:56:48 AM
because guys are very immature about sex. They pretty mush force the FMF threesome. Now, women do it even if they don't want to because MOST not all but MOST women want the attention. If the guy is not into MFM threesome the only way to go is with the FMF threesome. I personally love both threesomes, it can be benifical to have an extra guy because he can take over if I should get tried. I am not bias when it comes to sex.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

Unusual bedroom requests Posted: 4/7/2009 9:18:53 AM
I had a girl wanted to be choked. That was weird to me because it was really strong choking I was doing.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 317 (view)

men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 4/7/2009 9:17:56 AM
I don't personally care. I have alot of partners, so I don't judge others. Until I get married I am going to do who I feel like doing.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 231 (view)

question about interracial dating ... Posted: 4/3/2009 2:55:09 PM
So let me think, If you only date black men and you are white, latin, or asian, doesn't that make you a racist? Or is it like saying balck people can not be racist because they are black? Because I read these postings and it always say "I'm not a racist" or "I only date black men". I am just trying to figure you ladies out. And chill out girls, so what if people have a problem with who you date. It comes down to gentics, people want others to look like them. No one wants to have thier son or daughter look like the mail man! They want him/ her to look like himself. Just grow up, not evrything you do everyone is going to like. The world does not revolve around you.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

Sex is great! but attraction is absent Posted: 3/12/2009 10:48:53 AM
Maybe you are attracted to him, but you are shy to admit it? He is not the type of guy you go for so it is new. If attraction right now is so important, then just stop seeing the man. If not, then f&&k away.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

No pics.....This is driving me NUTS! Posted: 3/8/2009 5:55:00 PM
Translation: I want to see how hot the guy is before I even chat with the man.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

Its amazing how large no tax increases can be Posted: 3/8/2009 5:52:55 PM
What is amazing that people believe that taxes would not be raised. How can we spend billions and not raise taxes? I knew Obama and ALL POLITICIANS are full of it. The money has to come from somewhere right? Maybe a walking tax, get taxed for hoe many minutes a day you walk. How about a bathroom tax? We all use the bathroom.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 333 (view)

All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer Posted: 3/2/2009 1:31:47 PM
WHAT!!! send her over to me, I will take good care of her.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 74 (view)

Can a long distance relationship work? Posted: 3/1/2009 6:40:25 PM
Yes, it can if you got the time and put in effort to make it work.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

Marriage Phobia Posted: 3/1/2009 6:25:50 PM
Would you throw away a perfectly good relationship because you were afraid to do the M thing? Hell NO!! Why get rid of a good thing once burnt twice shy? Been burnt many times.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

Women do talk to each other on POF Posted: 3/1/2009 6:23:43 PM
What women gossip??? NO way!!

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 130 (view)

why do nice guys finish last? Posted: 3/1/2009 6:22:21 PM
Maybe women are just pigs and want to be treated like it. Don't think about it too much because it will keep you up at night. If humans live a million more years, that question will not still be answered.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 63 (view)

What's with the shallow women here? Posted: 3/1/2009 6:19:41 PM
And how old are you? You are just finding out women are shallow? Real yea they are!!!! even online they are. That is why they are doing online dating. Listen, if a woman is hot and is online then there is something mentally wrong with her. All she would have to do is go to out and she would get 20 different numbers from guys. Some women do want a REALLY GOOD GUY, but for some they are just too late. I mean that once a woman gets over 30 the prospects are thin. No one goes out and buys and old dog after thier dog dies. They go out and buy a puppy. It is all about looks and are you ans A$$hole. I bet if you treated her like s&^t you would still with her.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 35 (view)

cuckold? Posted: 2/22/2009 12:27:41 PM
M Chruch.. i am more into the wife swapping. I want so candy too.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

Do Straight Males Need/Enjoy Having Their Prostate Stimulated? Posted: 2/22/2009 12:23:54 PM
Yes we do like it, but you have to know what you are doing. It is not a playground back there for you to be playing around with. BE GENTLE!!!!

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 442 (view)

Why do women find sex on a first date so weird? Posted: 2/22/2009 12:21:42 PM
I found out that when she says that, that she will have sex on the first date. I don't know how many women have told me they don't and at the end of the night we are having sex.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

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Watching wife/girlfriend have sex with another man Posted: 2/22/2009 12:20:02 PM
1. Have I somehow infulenced the past 2 girlfriends to do something they don't want too...because it had never been suggested they "had" too or they "must" to please me? Well it depends on how you said it to them. Did you keep bringing it up to them throughout the relationship? If you did you probably did "make them" do this. In my case I usually talk dirty to a lady while having sex and mention about the threesome with other guys, if she does nto react to it then she probably not into it. If she does say soemthing then she might be and don't have to "make her" do it. 2. For me it has always been about watching them have sex and enjoying pleasure and afterwards "us" sharing the experience and shared trust while making love or having wild sex afterwards....Is my point of view wrong? No, you are not wrong. I completely agree with you. I love that my girl is getting off and enjoyment of it. I love to watch also. It is that in this American society we are taught that sex is wrong. If you travel to other countires you find that sex is discussed openly and freely. 3. It seems more socially acceptable for women to have sex with other women, but do women fantasize about having sex with opther men or 2 or more men? I am not a woman so I can not answer. 4. It is something I like in the bedroom but it's not something you post in your profile, so how do you and when do you bring it up while first dating? I believe in full disclosure and have nothng to hide, but fear it would scare many women away...at least at first. I tell everyone I date within a month that I am a swinger. So are acceptting and some are not. I also tell them I am not looking for them to do it with me either. I just say it is something I enjoy. I never bring up the swinging again, until they ask me about it. 5. I am a very scuccessful guy with his head screwed on right , just apparently have a "cuckold" fetish as I never really have any interest in hooking up with other women. Any insight? Cuckold is watching her have sex with a "bull" with the intent of impregnanting her. If you want that then yes it is the cuckold. If you just like watching her with other men then you might be into what they call the "hotwife" lifestyle. Which is that you like your hot girl have sex with other men.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 184 (view)

Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men? Posted: 2/21/2009 11:00:18 AM
So OP are you MR. Perfect, I guess you never did anything that was wrong. Just think about it.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

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Michigan, A very FRIENDLY place Posted: 1/3/2009 9:23:44 PM
I agree, Michigan people are so unfriendly. Thats why dating in this state is such a pain in the ass. I lived in New York, and Texas. Both places the people and ladies were alot nicer.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 49 (view)

WHY DO YOU GUYS SAY YOU WANT LTR ??? Posted: 1/3/2009 9:19:53 PM
1. they are wanting a LTR, just not with you. 2. You are not that great as you think you are. 3. Hell who does not want sex! just my theory, thats all.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 102 (view)

How Many Women Initiate First Contact? Posted: 1/3/2009 9:17:54 PM
I think the number would be zero. Not on POF, but other single sites i have and contact by the ladies first.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

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What do guys look for in a profile? Posted: 1/3/2009 9:00:14 PM
1. Picture 2. the height they are looking for. 3. Are they only looking for black guys. those are things i look for in a profile.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 188 (view)

Short Men Posted: 1/3/2009 8:57:41 PM
1. No, women don't like short guys. If they did like short guys, then there would be no need for a forum like this one. 2. We have a chance to date, just have alot of money and a good paying job. Remember, having a large bank account can add inches to your height, penis, and how attractive you are.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

Comfirming bisexuality:Hhow do you know your Bi? Posted: 1/3/2009 8:54:45 PM
umm I think that if you look at a man and go i need that, then you look at a woman and say i need that, Then you might be Bi.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 117 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 1/3/2009 8:52:43 PM
Winston.. When women are young they want the bad ass, jerk guy. After having the badd ass kids and being divorce to them they want the nice guy. So when they are in thier 30's and 40's they now want the nice guy. Only a nice guy would take care of someone's kids not his own. Only a nice guy would tell a woman how beautiful she is when here ass and boobs are sagging. You see it in the ads on here. I love the ladies but they just don't make sense. I always said a black man will be president before a woman.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 1058 (view)

Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 1/3/2009 8:46:10 PM
I honestly believe that women like to be treated like crap. I may be wrong but it seems that way to me. All the women that I really liked, and did all the romantic things for, I don't speak to them after the relationship ended. The women I did not care for, treated like crap, I still talk to them even after the relationship ended. I have no clue why it is. If i get the answer I will let you all know.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

Cant cum inside... Posted: 1/3/2009 6:59:49 PM
I have never heard about any guy with that problem. There is always a first. I have never had that trouble, but I have never heard of it.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

cuckold? Posted: 1/3/2009 6:52:15 PM
Although I don't think I would fit the description but I am all for watching my GF or Wife with other men. As long as she agreed I would have no problem with it. It is a turn on for me to see her get pleasure out of it.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 43 (view)

Is There a Difference Between Squirting and Cuming? Posted: 1/1/2009 2:56:21 PM
Only time it can be a problem is when you are going down on her and she squirts without telling you she does. I had that many a few times and it is just a shock, but like a trooper I keep going after the shock LOL

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 75 (view)

Group Sex Posted: 1/1/2009 2:47:28 PM
I have experienced it all. What lead me to it was the fact that it was good. I think it is secert because people do judge you by it. I will do it again. This is not something I do all the time. It is once every blue moon. There is a swingers club in PA that congress people and senate workers visit for this purpose. If it was out in the open then you would know where these activites take place. So it is underground. It brung out my sexually, now I know what I want and what I want in a partner. I dreed that I get married and the woman is cold and not like me. Most people can not understand this, and can not fully understand me. It is also funny that people on here judge others when themseleves have not done it. They might actually like it, and I think that is what stops them from doing it.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 5 (view)

Do women want men to lie, or to be upfront about wanting sex? Posted: 1/1/2009 2:38:40 PM
They want us to lie!!

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

Sleeping naked = breast pain Posted: 12/21/2008 1:51:15 PM
wear a bra and if he does not understand then he may not be the right guy for you.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 108 (view)

Is this dating site to find love or sex????????? Posted: 12/21/2008 1:49:56 PM
Lets be honest, it is for both sex and love. Sex is just an added bonus. Just go to one of the partys and you will see the sexual energy. Nothing wrong with sex and looking for it. It goes for all the dating sites. People try to find sex and love.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 337 (view)

What if Prostitution was Legal? Posted: 12/21/2008 1:47:37 PM
Well it could bring down the chance of date rape. It also would but millions of dollars into the country. Also, I like the post that it would stop women from witholding sex to get what they want because us men could just go and get it. That could be the biggest social change it could have on women, but I also think that is just an American women thing. If you look at places where it is legal, male/female relationship is not all that different.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

Question for the guys Posted: 12/21/2008 1:42:45 PM
I perfer personailty

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 233 (view)

When he won't go down on you Posted: 12/21/2008 1:39:53 PM
You could have a odor down there. Keep it very clean down there. Try having go down on you after you two take a shower.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 130 (view)

Sex = Overrated Posted: 12/21/2008 1:38:32 PM
Sex = underated

tonytexas25

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Msg: 305 (view)

Double Penetration Posted: 12/21/2008 1:37:11 PM
wharbie, that is what I call a double standard. Are you surprise that the guy is in it for himself?? what a shock LOL IHave down the mmf and ffm threesome. It is all good as long as you know what you are doing. I tried DP and it can be diffcult because you all have to be moving insync.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Liberator Posted: 12/21/2008 1:34:36 PM
Not the best, Just get a bunch of pillows. The swing was alot better.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 58 (view)

Does the sexual double standard keep women from having casual sex? Posted: 12/21/2008 1:33:09 PM
I think there is a huge double standard. One I don't give in to. I don't care if she has slept with one or a thousand people, all that matters is how she treat me. I don't understand why people worry about what others do behind closed doors (or when no one is around). Sex is sex and I LOVE IT!!!! so if it casual or in a relationship, I am going to do it. I don't mind women doing the same thing. More power to you ladies.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 197 (view)

Double Penetration Posted: 10/3/2008 6:02:30 PM
Why does it seem all the fun and freaky gals live in canada? I was born in the wrong country!! I love the freaks

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 157 (view)

What Do Men Truly Think Posted: 9/23/2008 10:04:42 AM
I would think what a sexual liberated woman she is. I would not be repulsed by her. Would lose no respect for her. I might decline, but it depends on how I feel. I would appreciate it. It seems this is a double standard, why is it ok for myself to do it on the first date than a woman? Do what Nike says "just do it"

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 184 (view)

men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 9/23/2008 10:01:42 AM
I don't care, it is her life not mine. Who am I to judge anyone.

tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008

Msg: 14 (view)

Swinger code of ethics? Posted: 9/23/2008 10:00:17 AM
WOW, this is a messed up story. The husband has every right to be pissed off at the wife for doing it behind is back. I am a swinger and would never go along with them being with someone else when I am not there. The relationship you have descirbed seems to be an open relationship and not a swinger one. The difference is that she went behind his back and anything could have happened. He could not wear a condom, or break a rule if they had any. Well, alot of people don't think that there GF/ wife won't cheat but she does. Affairs happen.

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