Ladies, :help: I am in need of a review here chat & forums.

Show ALL Forums

Posted In Forum:

Home

Author

Thread: Ladies, :help: I am in need of a review here

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 9 (view)

Ladies, :help: I am in need of a review here Posted: 4/19/2009 12:58:04 AM
Tell the women what you are looking for, and what is important to you in a woman, if a woman thinks she could fit the bill she is more likely to respond. Also try making first contact your self more often you'ld be surprised

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

HONESTY IS A VIRTUE... LADIES HELP PLEASE! Posted: 4/19/2009 12:50:01 AM
It is wonderful to have a sense of humor,but there is no way to see the man his dreams,his way of life,his daily habits,his morality. What he wants in a woman. Many women won't respond if they don't think that they might even be close to a match. Being honest I read it and questioned if you were either manic or delusional, but concluded it was probably your humor but there was too much of it. Men don't generally like show what they are vulnerable to but that is what a woman wants to know.What will make you melt like butter in a hot frying pan. What you love, as well as what you don't like.They want to know about what you want in your future. Unless they are just looking for a one date fun flash in the pan.

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 252 (view)

Why is sex on the first date such a big deal? Posted: 4/16/2009 8:00:00 PM
After some serious thought there are several components to a commited relationship. I believe that sex is most gratifying in a commited relationship. One component is for the partners to PROFESS their relationship...both should be comfortable for both of their family and friends to be aware of their relationship and that they are commited to each other. The second component is for the partners to PROVIDE for each other. That means financially,physically, and emotionally in meeting each others needs. The third component is to PROTECT each other. They should be willing to protect each other, physically, emotionally, and financially. Sexuality goes beyond the ability to create new people (reproduction). Sexuality continues beyond ones reproductive years. Ones sexuality and sexual desires are very different from their sexual activity. I could be a very sexual person, with a more than healthy sexual appetite, and still have been abstinant for years. I think it has to do with Free Choice, and ones ability to choose to have self control over ones sexual desires.My choice not to have sex right away in a relationship does not mean I am playing games or a cold fish. Rather that I have the right to free choice to have self control, and be selective about whom I am going to be physically intimate with

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 251 (view)

Why is sex on the first date such a big deal? Posted: 4/16/2009 7:37:12 PM
The point is that I(many others) would rather not have sex with someone that is just not that interested. Maturbation would be more gratifying than having sex with someone that is just not that interested. At least with mastubation you don't have to worry about AIDS HIV,HPV, Chlamidia, Syphlis, Gonorrhea, and a plethora of sexually or blood and body fluid pathogens.

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 250 (view)

Why is sex on the first date such a big deal? Posted: 4/16/2009 7:31:10 PM
If I am reading your response correctly,what we are is determined by DNA, who we are is determined by a culmination of our experiences, ethics, morals, and personal beliefs. Sex on the first date can have long lasting physical effects especially medical ones. For many women sex is mostly a mental experience. Sex the first time, is usually awkward, no less on the first date. Some can be casual about it but frequently the negative impact on self esteem for a moments self indulgence in passion can have long term effects. To me sex is a special gift, for sex to be totally enjoyed you must have total trust and surrender of that trust. How do you learn to trust someone that much on a first date. For those that can treat sex as though it were just a biological pleasure this must be good. But like I said my personal feeling is that I would like sooooo much more. I just don't seem to be prepared to have both sex for the first and last time on just one date

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

Aggresive Verses Assertive Posted: 5/25/2008 10:56:40 AM
^^^...now there's a good answer...how would you rate Supergirl? Which has the most "super-boobs"? Why hasn't that part of the anatomy actually been "supersized" or have some super power attuned to it? Does this have anything to do with the topic? Maybe...perhaps bra-less is assertive and extra padded practically bullet-proof ones give the air of aggresiveness. judgmental?

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

What guys say and what they mean Posted: 5/25/2008 10:32:07 AM
You said it right the first time you have some very important things in your life like your son. There are good men out there but it's obvious that he isn't the one for you. Trust your instincts. Your young and will meet someone eventually. The biggest mistake you can make is to think that having a man in your life will make life better for your son. You just keep on making your and your sons life as good as you can the right man will come along, and love you even more for what you've done on your own.

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 127 (view)

Do guys have a starting lineup of girls? Posted: 5/25/2008 10:24:25 AM
your right. Women are hardwired for the need of approval. They have been raise in societies for thousands of years. I don't mean to get biblical but read Genisis 3:16 God's damnation of woman was that she would desire her husband. Many men have figured that out and unfortunately use it to their advantage.

Joined: 4/7/2008

Msg: 126 (view)

Do guys have a starting lineup of girls? Posted: 5/25/2008 10:18:31 AM
I don't think your question was unreasonable, when reviewing profiles I see that some men are on favorite lists of 20-40 different women. That sends up a red flag for me. Either they are the greatest of performer's, or looking for something so rare I doub't I have it.

Show ALL Forums