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floridagal00

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Msg: 65 (view)

Would you ever consider being in a relationship with someone who is into BDSM? Posted: 11/14/2009 10:13:54 PM
Well I would but thats just me

floridagal00

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Dating when is it appropriate to take yourself off the market? Posted: 11/6/2009 1:26:09 PM
Why not ask him directly how he views the frienship so far and get it from him. Or tell him how you feel with things and let him respond to you....

floridagal00

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Msg: 443 (view)

He brought his Fanny with him... Posted: 8/8/2009 5:39:26 PM
Then find a fish who doesnt have a fanny pack

floridagal00

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Msg: 60 (view)

Older men for the younger women Posted: 8/8/2009 12:41:05 PM
I have before....recently its been guys closer to my age or slightly younger

floridagal00

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Msg: 372 (view)

Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 8/8/2009 12:19:01 PM
Guys are simple and easier to a degree...Some women just have more male friends

floridagal00

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Msg: 482 (view)

Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 8/8/2009 12:12:22 PM
I like guys who take care of them selves physically also an extremely attractive face personality too is a big thing...if you cant laugh at yourself and can only see one side of the coin it wont go far....what turns me on hmmm submissive guys and getting my way

floridagal00

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Msg: 149 (view)

Favorite physical quality of the opposite sex. Posted: 6/16/2009 8:02:47 PM
Hmm well for physical attributes... In no specific order Full lips and straight teeth tats and piercings are nice toned chest abs and arms

floridagal00

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Msg: 16 (view)

What's the rule for dating multiple people? Posted: 5/29/2009 9:59:03 PM
Ive had someone tell me before that they want to see me an others and I appreciated the honesty. It gave me the choice to stick around or to say no thanks to that situation.

floridagal00

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Are looks the most important? Posted: 5/28/2009 8:26:20 AM
I would say physical attraction is what starts the interest with quite a few people. From there they decide if there are other things like intelligance or common interests that would supercede the way someone looks...No matter what you look like c o c k i ness and arragance is never attractive its unbecoming...Another way to look at it might be if someone was blind and didnt have that option what next would you base your decision off of?

floridagal00

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Msg: 40 (view)

Those on again off again relationships? Posted: 5/24/2009 9:05:47 AM
I can only think of one relationship where I was on again and off again for an extended time...it was someone I really cared about at the time. We would do good argue then things would escilate then take a break ect start over....At some point I woke up and just moved on ...I would guess the why behind is it was easier than because I was so much younger and going back to someone I knew was easier than starting over with someone else

floridagal00

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Msg: 38 (view)

How Important Is Musical Taste In A Relationship? Posted: 5/24/2009 12:39:20 AM
If my music taste clashes with someone for me is pretty low on the totem pole...

floridagal00

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Msg: 248 (view)

Bald v shaven heads - and is bald beautiful? Posted: 5/24/2009 12:15:34 AM
Im really indifferant to a thick head of hair or a guy thats bald...however I prefer the shaved bald look or keeping it close to that if he is bald...bad receding hair line umm Id rather see it shaved...Last few years however I notice I do look at quite a few bald men so yes its all good in my book...there are occasions of coarse when it looks better on some guys that others

floridagal00

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Msg: 83 (view)

Should a 42 year old male email a 31 year old lady ? Posted: 5/23/2009 9:00:22 AM
If you like her email her

floridagal00

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Msg: 24 (view)

opinion on boyfriend Posted: 5/18/2009 9:43:13 AM
.. Go along with what he is requesting and dont act too clingy its a huge turn off for guys. Let him call sometimes not just return your call. Make plans with the girlfriends more ect

floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

Msg: 340 (view)

Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised... Posted: 5/18/2009 1:21:40 AM
If I like a guy I like him and Ill take him as he is when it comes to that.........

floridagal00

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Msg: 98 (view)

Being the sexual aggressor Posted: 4/3/2009 9:42:31 AM
I think older women have less insecurities about being sexually agressive...I know I have no prob with it

floridagal00

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Msg: 549 (view)

Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/3/2009 9:41:07 AM
Sure Ive been celibate by choice for quite a while before...I told the guys however that it was by choice what I am not looking for at that time...Funny thing is they still came around quite a bit and tried even harder each thinking they were special enough to change my mind.......

Floridagal00

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Vegan/Vegetarian topic Posted: 4/1/2009 12:06:02 AM
Dating a non vegetarian is not issue to me neever has been...If we go to a meat and potatoes place I can order salad and a baked potatoe....

floridagal00

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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/31/2009 7:18:24 AM
of coarse....One bad expierance wouldnt stop me from attempting something new with someone new

floridagal00

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Msg: 57 (view)

Why do men keep women on a string Posted: 3/31/2009 7:15:05 AM
Sounds like you too need to communicate and see if your both on the same page depending on how long you have been seeing him

floridagal00

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Msg: 174 (view)

Is sex drive is more after 30+ Posted: 3/22/2009 10:35:27 AM
Im going to have to go with yes on this from my women friends and for myself...however I will also say depends on the guy as well if there isnt a single thing I enjoy about him of coarse the feelings will be just that absolutley nothing...

floridagal00

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Msg: 49 (view)

WTF!!!! Why bother?? Posted: 3/22/2009 10:01:19 AM
Wow you have had some really bad encounters there...Ive met some nice guys off here they are NOT all like that really....

floridagal00

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Msg: 224 (view)

WATCHING WOMEN MASTERBATE ?? Posted: 3/22/2009 9:58:14 AM
Very few guys will think its not hot...one way to get him in the mood is to do this unexpectedly

floridagal00

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Msg: 344 (view)

Brazillian (shaved) Posted: 3/22/2009 9:54:02 AM
Ill keep my private matters private but after reading that story it would scare to me get a brazlian ...

floridagal00

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Msg: 22 (view)

kissing on the first date should be a topic of discussion Posted: 3/22/2009 9:47:49 AM
Usually there is a vibe between 2 people unless one is oblivious to the other one..go with what your feeling if still not sure asking never hurts...Planning is a little much

floridagal00

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Msg: 24 (view)

Guys going into Fatherhood mode ? Posted: 3/1/2009 7:06:21 PM
For 2 people that want the same thing its a welcome idea...if you meet someone and they dont want children in any form or fashion then it might make it tough to have a middle ground but people work out those differances in differant ways

floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

Msg: 39 (view)

dating for 3rd shifters Posted: 2/28/2009 8:09:48 PM
I would meet someone who worked 3rd shift it might take more to coordinate and I might see them less often but if someone likes you enough they will put in the effort

floridagal00

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Msg: 76 (view)

Worse than a no-show- a sneak Posted: 2/24/2009 8:59:29 PM
Sorry to hear that happened to you...not even sure what to say cept at least you didnt have to find out the hard way he was a butt

floridagal00

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Msg: 72 (view)

Age difference too much? Posted: 2/24/2009 8:30:23 PM
Everyone says age is a number and true as that is its the maturity behind the number the things you may have in common if not life expierance with some things then hopefully interests....after all the flirting is done is there more to go on behind the smile...just small things and one way to find out is to spend time with her and base the decision from there start off slow see how things progress

floridagal00

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Mom won't give me paternity. Posted: 1/29/2009 7:41:42 PM
Keep a log of all your emails and all the NO's she is giving you KEEP them it will show a track record......take her to court..your child has a right to know BOTH parents and its not her place to take that right away from you.

floridagal00

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Msg: 448 (view)

SHORT GUYS Posted: 1/29/2009 4:37:24 PM
My ex bf was like 5'3 to 5'4 somewhere in there so height was not an issue for me weight however would be another story I like slender to medium built men

floridagal00

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Msg: 27 (view)

EX Gf wants all the photographs....what do I do? Posted: 1/9/2009 8:18:59 PM
If you feel like being nice and are both civil guess you could make copies of the photos anyway at Walgreens

floridagal00

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Msg: 23 (view)

best dieting tip??? Posted: 1/3/2009 10:49:51 PM
Limit meat intake any acidic foods keep your blood on a ph level pf 7.35 to .7.45 is really good ....look up alkaline foods and test your ph level with a strip from the health food stores so you know what it is every few days...

floridagal00

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Msg: 32 (view)

Would you date someone who has 2 kids with 2 different woman and is only in his early thirties. Posted: 1/3/2009 10:21:19 AM
Sure thats not such a big deal nowadays...I knew girls that werent even 20 and had 2 babys from 2 diff guys who cares if I like him as a person thats a every minscule issue...

floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

Msg: 167 (view)

Women going to bars alone Posted: 1/3/2009 10:08:05 AM
I have no qualms about going out alone...if I go out alone then I can leave with out checking to see if the other person wants to stay or leave ..

floridagal00

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Msg: 104 (view)

What's one thing you loved/love/miss about your ex? Posted: 12/27/2008 10:16:06 PM
He was always good at making the best of everything

floridagal00

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Msg: 41 (view)

What is so wrong with wanting to be celibate until you're ready for a relationship? Posted: 12/4/2008 11:12:17 PM
Nothing its just a personal decision thats best for you then,however it may be hard to find somone to agree to that same thing...

Floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

Msg: 15 (view)

The song played over and over and over and over Posted: 11/21/2008 10:53:18 AM
How bout buying her head phones

Floridagal00

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moving my brother in Posted: 11/21/2008 10:50:34 AM
Years ago I did for a short time...we each had our own schedule and were respectful of each others space and privacy so it went fine for me.

floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

Msg: 117 (view)

How long should one wait at a meeting place? Posted: 11/20/2008 6:26:59 AM
If she is 15 late maybe call and wait 15 more then if still not there time to leave 30 minutes unless they have a legitimate reason is more than fair

Floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

Msg: 232 (view)

Going back to school in your 30's.... Posted: 11/16/2008 8:49:14 AM
I renember my mother went back to become an RN in her mid 40's graduated in her late 40's and this was quite a while ago I was in h/s then. I think people of all ages go back 30's and 40's some for a 2nd career because they want to change as was my moms reason.

Floridagal00

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Msg: 22 (view)

Reporting an ex for none payment Posted: 11/16/2008 8:28:43 AM
If this was a man not paying for a year you would hear comments about going after him...If she has a job make her be responsable it took 2 people to make those kids and 2 should be responsable unless she wants to sign her rights away. The kids have a right to have things from the suuport $100 a month helps with food or even school supplies even if not by much. If you know she is working full time and have given her ample time do what you need to do in the best interest of the kids. If she says anything negative to the kids handle it accordingly. Their are some personal issues between me and mom and if you decide to elaborate depending on their age thats at your discretion.

floridagal00

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What's the best way to make someone miss you? Posted: 11/10/2008 6:26:51 PM
Best way to let someone miss you is ..Time with out you ...Letting them realize what they have lost if they dont feel they have lost something they want to hold on to they wont miss the what they had. What I would ask myself is why do I want to try to make someone miss me if you have to make it happen it sounds forced.I dont want to be with anyone that doesnt want to be with me in the same way that I want to be with them...I would rather have their friendship than have nothing. Why make yourself an option when you see her as a priority you should hope for someone to return those feelings IMO...Just be a good friend from a distance offer friendship with out an ulterior motive. Then the ball is in her court.

floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

Msg: 184 (view)

When is it too old to still want children? Posted: 11/8/2008 6:57:17 AM
Easier for a younger woman but when you want a family the urge never goes away however the biological timing does...hence why many older couples end up adopting in addition to infertility reasons as well.

floridagal00

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Msg: 180 (view)

Child support Posted: 11/8/2008 6:44:10 AM
Each situation is way differant so obviously that cant work for everyone especially those across state lines...

floridagal00

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Msg: 1049 (view)

full-time single dads Posted: 11/8/2008 6:34:44 AM
When I married my ex he had custody of 2 of his daughters so personally speaking it didnt bother me

floridagal00

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Msg: 75 (view)

Should monogamy be assumed in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship? If so, when? Posted: 10/31/2008 9:41:31 PM
Why waste your time assuming when all you have to do is ask and broach the subject...Better to ask then assume and be heartbroken because you were each on a differant page.

FLoridagal00

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Msg: 528 (view)

Swinging i don't get it! Posted: 10/31/2008 10:19:43 AM
Its not for everyone.....I guess for me when I think of it ..its more bring it on!!

Floridagal00

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Msg: 39 (view)

How do you keep your chin up when it seems hopeless? Posted: 10/24/2008 12:07:58 PM
If it seems relentless and frustrating right now maybe its time to take a break and just concentrate on you. Maybe you are burnt out.I think most people have been in a dating rut. The thing is to not jump into things to quickly or be quick to make a commitment because you found a wonderful person. Let things develop if you are too quick you might be scarring off some really sincere and nice guys....

floridagal00

Joined: 4/11/2008

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Advice, stuck on looks Posted: 10/24/2008 10:10:05 AM
when it comes to looks if you were blind would you reconisder her if you knew her only on her personality and charactor?? Ask yourself that...

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