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chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

Msg: 53 (view)

Worst way of being cheated on????????????????? Posted: 9/21/2009 6:40:33 PM
Well dear I dislike being cheated-on or dating women who try to be players. Dating is one thing but when in a relatioship with me feelings are involved therefore I believe in monogamy. When two people say the other is the one & only that's the way it should be. With all the crap out there a person could catch why would ya risk it or why not be happy with one.

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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rape in a relationship? Posted: 12/19/2008 8:47:10 PM
No means no. A decent man should respect the person he's with. Why should you force yourself on a woman? If the timing is right then you both will know.

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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Is this dating site to find love or sex????????? Posted: 12/19/2008 1:49:51 PM
Well hopefully one can find love on this site Curioussoul. Putting a profile on this site leaves yourself open to all-kinds. Sure a nice pic attracts us guys looking to get know someone on the one-to-one level but usually it turns-out being "what can you bring to the table". Hell I'm just looking for a friend.

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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GUYS, do you like seeing ur girlfriend masturbating?? Posted: 12/19/2008 12:43:17 PM
Nothing to be ashamed of darlin'. Actually it's a "turn-on" for some. When both of you are together it can be quite pleasurable for both. (Just reading & posting as I listen to "The Eagle" 107)

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

Msg: 70 (view)

Question for the guys Posted: 12/19/2008 12:30:01 PM
proportionate (sp)

chester9021

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Msg: 69 (view)

Question for the guys Posted: 12/19/2008 12:24:59 PM
Real ones of course! As long as the are propotionate.

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

Msg: 103 (view)

Licking underarms - weird fetish? Posted: 11/23/2008 1:19:35 PM
Jerome after reading some posts regarding this fetish it seems some think that you go straight for the arm-pit. That's not the case at all with my experience. "Kissing-all-over" has gotten there at times. Communication between two in the act of lovemaking should happen as you go. What's wrong with being "open" with the other? If the partner doesn't feel comfortable with my going there I respect their wishes.

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

Msg: 101 (view)

Licking underarms - weird fetish? Posted: 11/23/2008 12:33:28 PM
There's nothing wrong with that at all. That's part of love-making! Actually turning-on the lady turns me on also. When you mention "kissing them all over" usually this does take place after a shower or "freshening-up a bit"

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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most ppl here are a waste of time Posted: 11/23/2008 9:09:16 AM
Everyone is different! Some people like friends as I. I've had no trouble with anyone on here. Most people should respect what you say if you tell them. After-all there is lots of people out there. Maybe that's why site is called "Plenty of Fish".

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

So he's a flirt-by-nature! Im Worried. Is it jealousy or insecurity? Posted: 11/15/2008 11:21:16 PM
Just because he's a flirt by nature doesn't mean he will stray. If a person enjoys people in general does that mean you are flirting. To some I come across as a flirt when actually I really like seeing a response from people. Most all my life I lived in a small town where everyone talks to everyone so NOT being somewhat social with someone has you appearing a little different. This coming across as a flirt led to a divorce a few years back when in all actuality I never strayed in marriage. Jealousy and/or insecurity in a partner will not allow one to be his or herself when in a relationship. If one does not have some trust for their partner then why bring the both down? Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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What have you learned from online dating ? Posted: 10/4/2008 6:24:47 PM
There's nothing wrong with your appearance at all. Why put yourself down? It's what's between your ears that makes a beautiful woman. One's feeling of a little self-confidence sets them apart from others. Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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A 1st for me; anyone had this happen? Posted: 9/22/2008 4:24:28 PM
Two or three weeks ago a similiar situation happened with me. Times after having dinner at my place we would have some intiment conversation regarding stuff one would only tell a best-friend or simply watch TV for a little-bit so I began seeing "couple". We both expressed strong feelings for each other after awhile, would go for ice-cream some nights, take walks along the beach, etc. Since being close-by neighbors either she was here or I went there. Seemingly we both enjoyed the others company so I repaired a few things for her around the house & would try to enlighten the tension between she and her daughter. One day while over at her place she got a phone call she took to another room or somewhere . That evening when she came over for dinner she mentioned my having made a couple of cute-little innuendo remarks of the sexual nature that she didn't like. After "Criminal Minds" was over she walked out the door & had a short discussion about talapia from the store as she walked down the drive heading to her place. This was the last I've heard from her except for an e-mail 3-4 days later reading "I'm not ready for a relationship just yet" , "your innuendos after we had had sex hurt me more than you know" & "I felt suffocated". So yes Monique it does hurt for I was developing feelings & felt very compatible as you. A few evenings later I noticed a car that used to frequent her place in the drive & she has changed her POF profile to read, "I'm not ready for a relationship" so "fool me once, shame on you but fool me twice then shame on me".

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

Msg: 115 (view)

Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends? Posted: 9/21/2008 8:11:07 AM
Sure .......... FWB works as long as both have the same understanding. Communication between the two prevents anyone from being hurt. The main thing is to be honest & open with your partner.

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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Meet-N-Greet at Hurricane Hank's in Hudson Sat Sep 20 Posted: 9/19/2008 3:18:52 PM
Thanks Phoenix, I'm looking forward to meeting everyone with it taking place just right down the road. As of now I can see no reason not to be there. Looking forward to it, Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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how long should I wait? Posted: 7/14/2008 8:58:48 AM
So Paul, Keep the ball in her court but you don't have to be exclusive. I'm not sure why but I think some ladies do like projecting an innocence appeal. Don't burn your bridges if you may have feelings for her. Associate with other ladies as you see fit for something may spark-up out of the blue. If it does happen then "life goes on". Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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not interested anymore...... Posted: 6/21/2008 7:07:31 PM
Heck ya, I'm just passing time on here finding a little humor. Tho I'm new to this site in seeing what it's all about by reading posts I'm up for any suggestions. Thanks, Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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Big & Tall/BBW Posted: 6/19/2008 8:33:48 PM
Big,beautiful women ? I think. Eddie

chester9021

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need help improving my profile Posted: 5/31/2008 4:06:48 PM
Hey there ABCGIRLZ, Whenever you find-out about making a profile let me know if you would. I'm still trying to figure-out how all this works. It does seem kinda interesting tho. I've replied to 2 threads today so this I guess is my last. A lady did get back to my profile before I realized how it appeared to someone so I corrected it. I think if you reply to this I can divulge my e-mail address according to what I've seen. Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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need help improving my profile Posted: 5/31/2008 3:57:32 PM
Hey there ABCGIRLZ, Whenever you find-out about making a profile let me know if you would. I'm still trying to figure-out how all this works. It does seem kinda interesting tho. I've replied to 2 threads today so this I guess is my last. A lady did get back to my profile before I realized how it appeared to someone so I corrected it. I think if you reply to this I can divulge my e-mail address according to what I've seen. Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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age old question.... can women ask men to date? Posted: 5/31/2008 2:21:49 PM
I do have some thoughts on this question jl2010, Frequenting a particularly convenient establishment on my way to/from a job I would get my order & find a table out of the mainstream of traffic to relax enjoying my food. By chance our paths would cross, we would say "Hi" with that being it. Every once in awhile she'd sit to chat awhile as I ate. Eventually this led to her ASKING ME to accompany her to a Christmas party. This led to a 3 year relationship with her & two daughters moving in my home giving the family life I was missing. I don't have too many memories that were not pleasant. Needless to say stresses after the hurricanes of '04 & '05 in Palm Beach county brought an end to this or I wouldn't be on this site. So my thoughts on this question are : --men & women are to be equals --this is the 21st century --open & honest relationships work --some guys are "shy" around women they are attracted to Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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Profile review please Posted: 5/31/2008 12:58:51 PM
Thanks Sue & ClassifiedAlly for the advice given to "bytheway". I'm recent here so I need to take note adjusting my profile. Maybe including pictures of myself not at work would be a start. I'm not a frequent dating type of guy so can I ask how a person can get into "chatting on-line"? Thanks again, Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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neighbors ? Posted: 5/28/2008 5:12:08 PM
How far north does your "neck of the woods" go bellashere? I live up here in NPR about 30-40 miles from you. While doing a little browsing I just came across this site today. Though I've been here close to a couple of years I'm not really familiar with the area. Palm Beach county was my home for 25 years. Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

Msg: 440 (view)

can you describe what kind of lover you are with one word..,,, Posted: 5/28/2008 2:46:16 PM
This is the first thing that pops in my mind........... Intuitive

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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Hello for royal palm beach area Posted: 5/28/2008 2:33:57 PM
Hey Tom, About 2 years ago I sold my place off "C rd." out in Loxahatchee. How's everything with the economy down there? Is the "West Side Grill" still there in the W-D plaza? I had a business for 12 years there. Well it's time to fix dinner so I'll try to be here later.

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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Snipe hunting Posted: 5/28/2008 2:21:23 PM
Hey Prodrummer, If "Snipe-hunting" is done the way I know it then you don't want to go at it w/o a female partner. Then it could be fun. New member, Eddie

chester9021

Joined: 4/13/2008

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Hi my name is Kelliann Posted: 5/28/2008 2:03:04 PM
Just saying Hey from New Port Richey. I've moved here from Palm Beach county so I'm looking to make some new friends. With this being my first post maybe I'll see what this is all about. Thanks, Eddie

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