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Joined: 4/14/2008

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Still a virgin!? Posted: 8/29/2008 4:44:24 PM
Hey man more power to you. Nothing wrong with being a virgin at all in my book. I personally wished i waited but that day has long come and gone. It will allow you to meet a girl thats actually worth something if she has the same morals and values as someone that has waited so long. You can have a relationship with someone without the bull**** that sex brings into the mix and find out what the person is really like. Just hang in their bro! You'll find your misses right one day.

Joined: 4/14/2008

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Funny pick up lines Posted: 8/29/2008 4:40:29 PM
lol ive always liked the "should i walk by again" one. But my friend had a pretty good one a few years ago. Im sure you've all heard the expression "once you go black you never go back". Well hes latino and he said to a girl he never met "once you go latin you go platinum!". I know it doesnt quite rhyame but when he said i fell out laughing. the girls looked like huh?? and walked off lol was priceless

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The Car you prefer driving: What is it? Posted: 8/29/2008 4:38:21 PM
SUV's all the way. I own a 2000 grand am se and its a piece of crap compared to my dads 2005 envoy. I love the way SUV's drive, so smooth and it feels good sitting above most everybody lol. Its a shame their huge gas guzzlers.

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So whos been watching the US Open? Posted: 8/29/2008 4:37:02 PM
I have been watching everyday myself. Ive always had an interest in tennis but never really watched it or talked about it. When i actually watched it I immediately looked up tennis clubs nearby and called to get information. And now im going to start going to training courses at this play near where i live. I cant wait! Anyone out there play tennis that can tell me a little about it?

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Getting tone/? Posted: 8/29/2008 4:34:03 PM
So im about to start working out and getting in better shape. Im already in decent shape but i really want to work out my upper body, especially my abs. I know the workouts to do for upper body, but whats the best way to develope good tone ab muscles? Sit ups alone dont seem to do the trick... and what kind of diet should i get on? Because i do NOT like vegetarian food at all lol

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How do i get over being shy?? Posted: 8/23/2008 12:13:41 PM
oh but im not self absorbed at all lol i always think about other people, not just myself.

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How do i get over being shy?? Posted: 8/23/2008 12:11:32 PM
Thanks for all the advice everyone. and wishfulthikin that wasnt heartless no. because your right, i do have self confidence issues. i believe pretty much every girl is out of my league or too good for me etc. because i have been turned down by girls likes 95% of the time and after a while of the same thing you think its just going to happen again and again.

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How do i get over being shy?? Posted: 8/22/2008 6:58:00 PM
I went through a period for a few months where i forced myself, and i was proud of myself for doing it. I think ive been on my bad streak since my ex cheated on me. Ive been single since then, over 2 years ago, ive dated of course but ive been shy ever since then. I guess i'll have to try to force myself once again and see where it takes me.

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How do i get over being shy?? Posted: 8/21/2008 6:57:38 PM
I can do that also. Its the ones i have a semi interest in i have my problems with. Of course if i do talk to a girl im physically attracted to but she turns out to be not what i like personality wise i just be friends. I do respect myself enough to know what i like :). Eevryone, men and women, at work tell me the same thing. Just say something like "hey how are you? your new right? you like the people so far?", just something casual. As you said earlier raiderfan18, being hit on right away turns you away, i never do that. But in my eyes, if i just approach a girl and strike up a conversation, most girls know when their attractive, so if i do that, i think that they think im hitting on them in a friendly way. So im nervous that no matter what they'll think right off the bat im putting the moves on them.

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How do i get over being shy?? Posted: 8/21/2008 6:27:19 PM
i do try to have a friend at work back me up, a guy ive known over 2 years, he does it but the way he does it doesnt help lol he laughs from a distance and glares like "i know you aint gonna do it man". i have approached girls before and everything went fine. its just extremely hard for me to muster up that courage.

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How do i get over being shy?? Posted: 8/21/2008 6:11:12 PM
Ok, i have one huge problem when it comes to meeting girls... and thats walking up and initiating a conversation. I am probably one of the most shy guys when it comes to talking to girls. If i know them, im myself, i can talk up a storm, make them laugh, all the good stuff. Just not the ones i dont know, even if they wave, smile, wink, or even when i hear them tell my buddy "tell him to come have lunch with me" (yes that happened last week at work) and i wimped out. This coming from a girl that was very attractive. To say the least im still being made fun of by the guys for it. Ive passed up countless chances with some girls that i would think are too good for me because of my looks. For instance, theres a new girl at my job, almost everyone including the managers are doing their best to get me to talk to her, and shes like REALLY CUTE which is why i cant do it... im not the most self confident person in the world. I need advice from anyone that can give it =\ im tired of missing good chances to meet a decent girl.

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