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journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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What is the worst about beeing single at Christmas? Posted: 12/12/2007 6:05:23 PM
All those stupid commercials where dudes buy a Lexus and diamonds for their women whom they must love sooo much. Actually I'm just jealous that I won't have a Lexus with a big red bow on it in the driveway, lol. No seriously, so very many coupley things. Going to parties with a 'date' who is nice but you know isn't really that 'one' that you would love to have found by now. Going to parties with no one, and knowing people are looking at you and saying to each other, I just don't get it, she's so attractive, smart, nice, what the heck? , and then when they actually just say it TO you. Why do they think this is helpful in any way whatsoever? as in 'A. you are so beautiful, I just don't understand why some guy hasn't swept you off your feet by now'. In what way do they think that statement is gonna be of any benefit to me whatsoever? Are they just doing it to be mean?.. hmm... one has to wonder.... Mistletoe :( One stocking on the mantle. (well two if you count the cat's) Waking up Christmas morning and thinking 'damn, I swore I would not be in the same place I was last year at this time, and yet, here I am. but Next Year, look out! '

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Roller Coasters Posted: 6/29/2007 5:42:51 PM
Love roller coasters.. I remember this old rickety one I rode as a kid growing up called The Zephyr, at an old amusement park in New Orleans that is long closed called Ponchartrain Beach. There was also one called the Ragin Cajun. ;) I like the ones here in Atlanta at Six Flags, though its been so long since I've been I forget which ones I liked and why. I just know I will wait in the longer line to get in the front seat of any roller coaster, I love them!

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Wanna Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 2:33:27 PM
I miss having a cuddle buddy. An ex bf and I once coined a term 'fuddle-buddy'. I'm sure y'all can figure that one out. Here's a hint - it filled a couple of needs, lol.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Wrinkles Posted: 6/16/2007 5:50:07 AM
Not doing too bad, though I did spend a little too much time working on my tan in my younger years.. I don't go crazy with anti aging potions and such, I really think they are all just a scam.. I do use a gentle cleanser, a moisturizer with spf 15 and an eyecream at night when I remember. I am not to concerned about the lines, mine really are character and smile lines, as I smile a lot. I think it's kind of cool, hate when I see women botoxed to death who have no more facial expression.. that sh!t is just weird looking!! I have better things to worry about like my sagging... oh never mind.. that list is too long j/k

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why? Posted: 6/16/2007 5:44:26 AM
I love pda, and I'm almost 40. Mind you, I don't plan on totally 'get a room' type of making out, that's just kind of indecent, but touching, holding hands, a gentle quick kiss, absolutely!! I am affectionate, what the hell does age have to do with it. Gawd, I hope I never out grow that!

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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'Something' in a background check,,,, Posted: 6/7/2007 5:47:47 AM
I don't think I would tell him. Why embarass the guy by telling him you know these things about him. He probably already worries about being judged for them, and his worst fears will be realized. Of course, if he's on POF, it seems he could possibly read this thread, and then you won't have to worry about telling him. Good luck.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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As a guy, I find it offensive... Posted: 6/6/2007 8:28:36 PM
Oh God, now we can't make polite conversation by asking what it is you do with 8-10+ hours of your day? I think what people do for a living is interesting. If a guy is worried that I am trying to find out so I will be able to tell if he can support me or not, he needs to get over himself. If we didn't ask you would be offended because we didn't seem to express any interest in knowing anything about you

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Heelys or Roller shoes Posted: 6/6/2007 7:52:27 PM
Wow, funny you brought this up. I am always amazed at what parents let their kids do in public places! These little skates (cuz that's basically what they are) are dangerous! I was so annoyed at work today... work in a hair salon as a stylist. Have always been disappointed at how we always have to end up correcting children who are playing on our salon equipment or in some way could hurt themselves (duh! curling/flat irons, scissors, razors!! HELLOOO) Tonight took the cake, this mom was letting her child 'skate' through the salon. I kid you not, he couldn't have been leaving much more than 2 feet between his rollermaniac self and me, in the middle of cutting! Good grief parents! get a grip. Kids do NOT need to be on wheels in certain places. I love rollerblading, I'm sure heely-ing is fun too, but keep it outdoors or where you won't be bothering other people.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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What situations remind you of your aloneness? Posted: 6/5/2007 5:15:20 AM
You know what one comes up for me every now and again? This seems silly but when you have to fill out a form, say at a doctor's office or whatever, and it asks for and emergency contact person. Not like I don't have friends, or even family (though they are kind of far away) but it's just that moment of thinking I would rather have that special someone to always be able to fill into that blank. P.S. - thanks for the well wishes, I am feeling back to normal now!

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Paris Hilton going to JAIL ?!?!?! Posted: 6/5/2007 4:46:18 AM
What next? For attention while she's in there she will go on a hunger strike.. oh never mind. Guess she really can't do that. Honestly, I don't keep up much with celebs, I don't know them, they don't know me, and I just really don't care about their lives. I got my own problems and it's not, Oh damn, crashed Mercedes #12, well somehow I will have to make due with the other 11 over $100,000 automobiles I have... oh the delimma

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Call me when you want to get laid!! Posted: 6/4/2007 5:23:37 PM
Wow OP, I am frustrated just reading this thread! I can totally see where you are coming from, and people picking this whole thing apart and turning it around, yikes! Come ON. The woman has a family, and a life. And ocassionaly it gets very busy. Unusual in todays world honestly! Big deal, that's life! We all get a little busy, a week, two, a month that may not be optimal for dating, doesn't mean we can't date all all, sheesh! Just means you wait til things settle down a bit. It was a case of bad timing with this guy. And his remark was tasteless, tacky, and disrespectful. Good riddance. And yes, btw, I do try to understand when life gets busy for someone, and after this post, I might be just a little MORE understanding of it, so thanks for that.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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We Need A Movies Forum Posted: 6/4/2007 1:30:39 PM
Funny, I just went looking for a movies forum, just thinking it would be cool to see what others had watched recently, or post something you had. Like I watched a movie I rented the other night called Dejavu with the super hot awesome acting Denzel Washington! Maybe it was just that I love him so much but I swear I thought it was a pretty good rental too ;)

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Buying a House ..... Together? Posted: 6/4/2007 1:08:39 PM
^^ yeah, that's what I was wondering. kind of important stuff there... you already said you like him but are not ready, you have your answer.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Another choice..A or B? Posted: 6/4/2007 8:48:59 AM
B, don't really care much about current events anyway, lol. The mundane negativity of life which people love to chatter about... 'did you see the bus crash on the news?' No, don't watch it. No sense of humor and can't express himself emotionally = BORING I like to feel like I'm the most important person to the person I'm with, B is a much better choice for me.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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What situations remind you of your aloneness? Posted: 6/4/2007 8:07:06 AM
Vancer you're a trip

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Is my gut right but I am to stupid to see it Posted: 6/3/2007 6:27:47 AM
Ummmm, someone revived this thread from 9 months ago... I gotta hope she has this worked out by now

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Women checking out other women Posted: 6/2/2007 6:42:59 PM
I check out women, women are beautiful. I can say occasionally it's envy, but healthy envy, not like, what a biotch.. more like, damn, must be nice to have arms/abs/buns/legs like that!! But I don't hate. Good for them! I get ideas on clothing; I'm pretty stylish, but some gals, man, they really know how to dress! And of course always looking at the hair, WAY too many potential clients out there, wow. Lots of bad hair running around, so nine times out of ten, I am checking out her hair.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Talking Dirty Posted: 6/2/2007 6:35:48 PM
Some guys really aren't comfortable with this. If you aren't, maybe don't try it til you are... cuz let me tell you, the only thing worse than you not doing it and her wanting you too, is fcking it all up and everything going sound of a needle scratch across a record* That is some kind of uncomfortable. .. I'm guessing...

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Guys in PRISON on POF? WTF? Posted: 6/2/2007 6:26:20 PM
What Greeneyes said Don't be such a hater. Judgement make you ugly, just sayin.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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over 30 and still living at home Posted: 6/2/2007 6:05:22 PM
Man I only WISH I had cool parents who would let me live at home again.. ahhh the good ole days... stares off into the distance carefree, debtfree, FREE! What the hell did I want to get outta there so fast for, LOL!

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Profile pet peeves Posted: 6/2/2007 5:19:54 PM
OH BOY, I loooove these... Let's go! Shirtless pics! Jeepers is it an ad for a mate or for an abcruncher or whatever the frick machine they advertise late at night? Put your frigging shirt on and let us see that sh*t later, IF it comes to that. I mean really, is that all you've got to sell yourself? That tells me he is ALL about the physical, and is so wrapped up in his own bod that he won't likely notice me, except of course when he asks me if his biceps look small in this shirt Poor grammar and spelling. You can tell me til your head caves in, and I don't CARE. It may not mean your are stupid, but it certainly isn't a huge sign that you are very smart either! Come on, there, their, and they're, GET THEM WRITE! (that was a test, and if you didn't get it, well, you can't be helped... it's right, in case you were wondering) To, too, and two. OY VEY! And one that I just don't get and see it plastered constantly on this site, no one seems to know how to spell DEFINITELY! There is NO A!! as in definately. ~~ makes me shudder just to type that. Then and THAN ARE NOT interchangeable. I am taller THAN him, not THEN him. I went there ,THEN went to their house. (see the double lesson there?? wink wink) And for the love of all that is holy, STOP WITH THE STUPID TEXT LINGO. How damn lazy are you that you can't type out two letters. It's almost as time consuming to find the 2, as it is to just type out the long word T O. Same with U. Seriously, it's three (3) letters, Y O U. OMG, LOL, WTF. Those are fine, we all know what those mean, and they are pretty universally accepted as non-lazy forms of communication/expression. If your profile is written something like this: 'HI! I am hot n sexi. i want 2 meet a kewl n sweet hot chick for good times n maybe more who nos we will c wen we meet I give a good bak rub U will like it and maybe i can cook U dinr 2 i like 2 cook. And then wonder why you aren't getting a reply??? Oh dear... Punctuation, or should I say lack there of. I have seen profiles (and posts!) that would give me a headache if I tried to suffer through more than two lines of this run on gibberish. HOW did you get through school and not know where to end a sentence. IT'S a PERIOD looks like this . . . . See those four dots, you can borrow them any time. Please. To be filled in later. Translation - I am lazy and think I am hot enough to get a girl solely on my looks. And, wouldn't you know, there is a guy on here who has this very thing up, has a nice looking picture, and is on several favorites list. I don't know who to be less impressed with, the guy for being so lazy as to not even be bothered to write 4 sentences about himself, or the people that favorited him in spite of the fact that there was NO information about him on his profile whatsoever! The photo of a small dot, ah yeah, there he is, um, I um... think, yeah, yeah, that is definitely a guy. Ok. What do you LOOK LIKE? Sorry, like it or not, fair or not fair, (threads aplenty on the topic) people do want to see you. Please, don't put up a photo that might resemble a human if we look really close and cross our eyes. Please don't tell me I need to be spontaneous and be able to go from an evening gown to a ballcap and jeans. Although, if you do, at least leave it in that order, lest I have to do that wardrobe change for our big night at the ballpark followed by the black tie affair and I have hat hair! What kind of lifestyle do you have that I need to have such supermodelesque wardrobe change ability??

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

What situations remind you of your aloneness? Posted: 6/2/2007 4:48:19 PM
heheh, sorry Sirk :( Tonight being Saturday night.. that's a reminder. Oh and tomorrow being Sunday, there's another. And these movies I'm gonna watch tonight... OH well, good thing for pets P.S. Public toilets????

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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age difference issue Posted: 6/2/2007 4:43:01 PM
Age is just a number' in my mind, means just that - in my mind. how old I feel, and think of MYself. It doesn't mean there isn't an ick factor in dating someone 20 years younger than me. Sorry, for me that would be unthinkable. Not even 15 or 10... The maturity would not be there. Life experience, so many things...what the hell would we talk about?? I could play remember when with him, just long enough to realize that, no, he doesn't! lol. Atari?? WTF is THAT? LOL Seriously, I guess everyone has to decide that for themselves, but 10 years older, and maybe 3 younger is as far as I go.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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He's back and he plays woman... what to do? Posted: 6/2/2007 4:17:35 PM
Sorry you are being attacked OP, seeing a side to some posters I don't think is very cool. Must be the full moon or something. I say let it go, all of it. No need to warn women, we have all been played, even if it was us who allowed it... whateva whateva, it happened. who's right? who's wronged? who cares? Get on with your life, and leave him in the dust, a distant memory; and perhaps this thread too, got some uglyness exposed here. ouch. can't we play nice? sheesh.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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why every man has to be funny Posted: 6/2/2007 3:19:45 PM
No one is trying to make you something you aren't, but if we find a funny attractive, we will look for funny, not try to make someone unfunny funny.. that just doesn't work. I state in my profile, as common as it may be ,(whatever) that I am looking for someone who makes me laugh... I didn't say I want a stand up comic as a boyfriend. Different things make different people laugh. I just know that I have clicked very well with guys who are funny... to me.... its just the way it is. but for tonight, no funny man in my life, guess it'll be comedy central again

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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What situations remind you of your aloneness? Posted: 6/2/2007 4:25:02 AM
^ Ummm, I don't understand what this means ^ have you been sneaking samples from your pharmacy??

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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Kissing Posted: 6/1/2007 4:49:41 PM
Kissing is SOOO wonderful. I have been blessed to know some really good kissers too. I like the sweet forehead kisses, and the delicious soft kisses that come with the certainty that both parties want to, but the uncertainty of how to approach, ah, nothing like the first kiss... I even had a boyfriend who would kiss my tears when I cried. wow A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. - Ingrid Bergman

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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I just saw my ex after seven years . . . Posted: 6/1/2007 4:43:10 PM
If you are happy with your decision that is all that matters. Second thoughts, I have them from time to time... not that I could do anything about it now anyway. I don't live in the past though. Life moves forward, always forward. We are as entitled to be confident in our decisions as we allow ourselves to be. The only tough thing about that is if we have wronged/hurt others in making those decisions for ourselves.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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living in hope,but kidding yourself Posted: 6/1/2007 4:26:46 PM
I think most people hope to find someone, though I'm not sure we all believe it will be on this site. In the past, I always met people quickly. I would end a relationship, and bam, meet someone else. This must be the longest I have been completely single, but I am not altogether unhappy about it. Don't get me wrong, I feel lonely sometimes, but.. well, I digress... I don't think there is a time limit for being here and hoping to find someone. It's all in your attitude. If in the back of your mind, you are telling yourself, 'I am kidding myself' then that will likely be the result you will get. I do believe that somewhere there is someone who will love me for me, all my crazy ways, all that I am, great and not so great, pretty and not so pretty. When and where I will meet him, who knows?

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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How do I cancel a date? Posted: 6/1/2007 3:09:44 PM
Aren't there some pills for that?? Seriously, I had no idea there was even such a condition, I just thought it was called whiteguy. (just joking for all you white guys who know you can bust a move!) Anywho- I think you should seriously try and face this thing. Get a little 'dance therapy' as it were. Someone could help you with this. Go for it!! Unless you want to just take Jerry Seinfelds' stance on dancing. 'It's stupid' That could work too.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 3:04:20 PM
You got a purdy mouth. and good child bearin hips

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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would you date a man or woman who cried a lot Posted: 6/1/2007 2:34:14 PM
^^ nope sorry- gotta disagree here!!^^ I didn't cry but came dammmm close when the Saints lost to the Bears for the chance to go to the Superbowl. I didn't answer my phone for the rest of the day, as the sympathy calls rolled in, Lol. I just got more and more depressed. I got over it, but it was sad Oh well, this is a new season BABY! sorry, back to crying. still can't believe this made it this far.

journeyingsoul

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Will you ever again ........... Posted: 6/1/2007 2:19:05 PM
^^^^^^^^BWAAAAAHaHAHAhaHA ^^^^^^^^^^^ that was some funny sh*t!

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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love Posted: 6/1/2007 1:53:13 PM
A really cool book I read once, called the Five Love Languages, discusses how differently people 'feel' loved. There are 5 basic expressions, verbal, physical, Acts of service, quality time, gifts. How one expresses may differ greatly from how their partner feels it. One may feel most loved by verbal expression, while the other may do their very best to show them by doing these wonderful acts of service (yes, washing car., cleaning their home, fixing them a delicious meal, etc.) all meant to express love. The disconnect is there; that one feels loved in a completely different way than the other is comfortable expressing it. Therefore, the best way to let someone know you love them, is to find THEIR love language, and show them that way. If Tom is all about physical, PDA, little rubs and pats here and there, foot rubs, etc.. and his partner Mary's love language is more about gifts, Mary may be tempted to buy Tom little gifts to show her love. And there is nothing wrong with that, except that Tom's love bank is filled when Mary touches him, grabs hold of his hand, etc. So Mary may feel Tom is ungrateful for the gift, but he is not. It's just that it didn't go to the core of where he feels most loved. If Mary understood that Tom feels most loved when she expresses it physically, then she could make sure she 'tells' him she loves him in HIS language, so he feels it, and knows it. An interesting read, you may or may not believe it, and I am not saying this is all there is to relationships by any means. But, it made sense to me when I read it and I think there is one out that is geared toward singles now too. Anyway, certainly worth reading to enlighten us a little more on how to communicate with our partners... if I ever get one that is. lol

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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would you date a man or woman who cried a lot Posted: 6/1/2007 12:09:37 PM
This thread made it? good grief, are you guys bored or what? sorry, got emotional for a minute

journeyingsoul

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Holy Sh!t first date and he tells me I'm ignorant. Posted: 6/1/2007 10:37:01 AM
Goodness girl! That is awful! So sorry you had that experience. I know we do our best to 'screen' them first, but sometimes our best screening efforts just miss the madness that is the other person. oy vey, glad you left. I know you are sick right now, I bet you wish you had stayed home and nursed your cold rather than waste your energy on that weirdo. oh well...

journeyingsoul

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Don't be the The White Bread Sandwich When Their Panini Maker of Love Breaks Down Posted: 6/1/2007 10:30:48 AM
There'll be no sandwich for this gal, I'm home sick. blah. But I wouldn't want to settle for white wonder bread anyway. No thanks, I'll hold out for the footlong of my dreams

journeyingsoul

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Rachel's Guide to Online Dating: Girl Power Version Posted: 6/1/2007 10:24:57 AM
. Don't use any variation of the statement, "I'm just as comfortable in a ballcap or in an evening gown." Whoever originally invented that basic sentence might have thought they were clever but that was about 500 years ago and now it's one of the most egregious cliches imaginable. If you enjoy both casual and formal activities, just say that; don't try to be precious about it. Ok, but to be fair, I can't stand when men's profiles state that that is exactly what THEY are looking for; 'I want a woman who is as comfortable in an evening gown as she is in jeans and a ballcap' OR ' A plus if she can go from black tie to jeans and t-shirt!' ICK. I can't tell you how many guys profiles I see this on. What is with that? Do you really have a lifestyle that would demand so many supermodelesque wardrobe changes of us? Man that is pressure!! I think I look great in both, but are we talking about in the same night here? The same week, or the same decade and you just need to know that IF a ballgown type of night should come up, that we can adorn your arm and not embarass you??

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

How am I suppose to know what the hell YOU want, when YOU don’t even know Posted: 6/1/2007 10:17:40 AM
Hey, therapy comes in many forms. Writing it out here is one. We've all felt this kind of anger at the opposing sex at one time or another, or at least most of us can relate. Get it out girl, and don't choose to become jaded. It'll all be copacetic again, you'll see. Meanwhile, deal how you have to. If ranting here helps ya, go for it. I found it pretty entertaining and could relate to several things you said.

journeyingsoul

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Why do men lie about their age? Posted: 6/1/2007 9:55:35 AM
ummm... because they are so comfortable with lying?? just a guess.

journeyingsoul

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Turning 30 Posted: 6/1/2007 9:52:55 AM
Was just thinking the same about turning 40, sigh. you still have tight skin and buns, enjoy!

journeyingsoul

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He's back and he plays woman... what to do? Posted: 6/1/2007 9:44:10 AM
^^ no, it's not. Its where women post about men whom they've dated and are recommending other women DO NOT date. It's all pink and fluffy, clearly designed for women. If you look at the list, there are a bunch of dudes names not to date... you must be mixing it up with another site. The name itself kind of gives it away. Don't date HIM girl

journeyingsoul

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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30? Posted: 6/1/2007 9:38:36 AM
Gawd no! and why would I want to? The few times I have gone to clubs and such places I went in my 20's, I felt like that woman that WE used to point out and say, 'if I'm in a club at her age kill me'. oy! Seriously, I can hang, I just don't want to, I have better ways to spend my time than in environments that for me are very low energy (low vibration) now, and I don't mean activity-wise. I mean on a 'Power vs. Force' level. Plus there are too many rerun episodes of Law and Order that I have yet to watch!

journeyingsoul

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If you're not interested... Posted: 6/1/2007 9:20:53 AM
date - meeting... isn't it up to the two involved as to what it really is? If they think of it as a date, it's a date, if they think of it as a meeting, it's a meeting. problem solved As for the other issue, maybe it's just hard to say to someone's face, it's been nice meeting you, and thanks for lunch/coffee/dinner but I really don't think we have anything in common. No really great reason, I just don't see/feel IT. And your reasons might be shallow by others standards, you just don't find him/her attractive, whatever... I won't say that to someone's face, just not in me to do that. Message 5: why in the world would you drive over 200 miles to meet someone?? To each his own I guess, I wouldn't do it.

journeyingsoul

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He's back and he plays woman... what to do? Posted: 6/1/2007 9:09:13 AM
I think it's called dontdatehimgirl dot com or something close to that. you can always post it there, at least shrugs good for you for getting out. what's with some people, sheesh.

journeyingsoul

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Rachel's Guide to Online Dating: Girl Power Version Posted: 6/1/2007 9:05:41 AM
Funny stuff, highly entertaining. But still not taking my cat's picture down. your opinion is noted though. carry on

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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so you viewed me and now what????????? Posted: 6/1/2007 6:16:31 AM
Sadly it's probably the old poor spelling and grammar.. lol. After reading 3 sentences in the profile I realize they can't spell, and please spare me on the 'that doesn't mean they are stupid' comments...that thread was done already, and I know this. But someone who spells a word wrong in their HEADLINE for goodness sakes! come on... If it's not that, then it's probably that they smoke, they drink 3> X a week, ugh, or they just didn't sound like someone I'd want to hang out with... or I saw the rest of their pics and realized the primary photo was primary for a reason Myriad reasons... ok, I'm tired now.. you get the picture. Rock on

journeyingsoul

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What situations remind you of your aloneness? Posted: 6/1/2007 5:51:11 AM
Thanks for the hugs whatsaminger... backatcha. Fever broke today but still feel like poo. hope you feel better.. Holidays are a big one too... I was very aware of my one-ness as VGE put it over the last holiday season. sigh Then again, when I see a couple fighting over stupid stuff I can be happily aware of it, LOL.

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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What situations remind you of your aloneness? Posted: 5/31/2007 6:02:59 PM
Sorry if this has been done, but as I was all alone at home, sick in bed today, having to drive myself to the doctor, etc., I am reminded at times like this that there is no one in my life to care for me, or be there for me. Please don't misunderstand this as self pity, in no way is it. I was just wondering what things in your life bring about pangs of lonliness? For me, just had a few moments today thinking it would be nice if I had that special person in my life. Certain times/situations in life bring about such feelings for us, so what are yours?

journeyingsoul

Joined: 8/2/2005

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How many messages is too much to get this lady to reply? Posted: 5/30/2007 6:59:21 AM
Flood her inbox, at least 15 messages a day, that'll get her attention!! Tell her you love her too, that should help.

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