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 Author Thread: In anyones experience?
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
In anyones experience?
Posted: 5/28/2009 9:15:11 AM
OMG------I have been here awhile and mostly all the men brag about that crap...........I dated a guy in Calgary that was bragging about his "C**k Piercing" and how good it made women feel.....he didnt even put it in, and he was DONE!

The man I am with now, I met here on POF........never bragged, in fact.....I didnt like him the first time we met 2 years ago........the first date, I was like------"leave already".......dont know why I went on the 2nd date a few weeks later......out of boredom I think.........and he turned out to be the best LOVER I have EVER had........now that we are officially together (2 yrs later).......... anyways.......I dont believe that it has anything to do with physical abusiveness..........that is a choice men make.........the father of my children was really abusive and was sexual as well, and my recent ex (3 yrs ago) was the same...........I think the guy you encountered was just a mean pr*ck............get away!!!!


Good Luck!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Gusher wanting to Graduate.........
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:42:09 AM
Well.......personally, these forums are to ask questions, and receive answers......if you dont care about it then dont answer.........it has NOTHING to do with your "multiple orgasms and plenty of good lovin" sex.

back to the question.........when the conversation was going on........i think it was just the fact, she gushes, doesnt spray.........and she wants to learn........who can fault her for that?

Hell........if it makes her sex life better......who are we to judge.........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:32:36 PM
When sex is involved......there are always strings.........I dont care what anyone says.........there are expectations............which is the number one string.....+
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Gusher wanting to Graduate.........
Posted: 5/25/2009 9:00:12 PM
I havent found anything..........and I can tell you that in the conversation.........the gspot was discussed and the man hit the spot.......and the gush was big.........but no spray/squirt..........so, I guess no one knows........crappy!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Gusher wanting to Graduate.........
Posted: 5/25/2009 6:27:27 PM
A discussion surrounding a woman who gushes when she cums was talked about this weekend..........the question that was presented was "Is there a way to go from GUSHING to SQUIRTING?"................

I am wondering if anyone has any knowledge on this..........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Vibrators
Posted: 4/30/2009 1:04:28 PM
When buying a vibrator......I'd go with the Jack hammer........LOL!.......Dildos arent fun unless you have someone using it on you.......
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
To Tease or Not To Tease
Posted: 4/30/2009 8:06:07 AM
I would be soooo mad........cuz as the one poster said if it doesnt happen the first time, it aint going to happen........

and I would never do that to a guy........cuz it is frustrating and honestly........mean!

that is just me though!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 72 (view)
 
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 4/30/2009 8:03:11 AM


The things people whine about........

*shakes head in disbelief*
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Handjobs
Posted: 4/29/2009 2:59:59 PM

A great handjob is PRICELESS. (okay - so I over-exaggerated--- its really only worth $30-$40).




I am a visual learner.......the only way I learned to give a good HJ, was to watch the guy first..........which I incorporate in the foreplay........in which he watches me, and sees what I like.........and how I like it........most guys think that rubbing a woman like an eraser on a mistake is the way to go.........OMG......whole different thread there~

Anyways........some good flavored lube and a willing partner........I am willing to watch and learn.........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
lots of sex..will he take me seriously
Posted: 4/28/2009 7:41:27 AM
Women dont get it..........SEX is SEX, LOVE IS LOVE..........you dont feel an orgasm in your heart..........so lets say, she wants a serious relationship with this fellow.......and and it is based MOSTLY on sex.......what if one day, SEX was impossible. She or him has some medical problem and it was never possible to dip again.

Then what........what do you base your relationship on then? I say if he has the problem, she will go out looking for "validation" elsewhere.........

For him.......who knows.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Men, Sex, and Relationships...
Posted: 4/12/2009 8:52:13 AM
May as well get it while you can.......age is going to start creeping up........and your body is going to start going down........have fun with it all and quit over anylyzing why men want to have sex with you!

Maybe your sexy and Fun.......
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
grow some balls.......
Posted: 4/11/2009 7:27:04 AM
NEVER go into a relationship with expectations........choosing to have sex with someone is like lending money......never expect anything in return........what I have figured out in my life, is sex is so open and free that really, in the dating world it can be compared to the "goodnight" kiss........I have yet, to go out with someone that doesnt EXPECT sex.

So, if you stick to your guns, and go with your morals........then that just empowers you as a woman. You aren't obligated to do anything with anyone......and any guy that guilts you into things isnt the man for you anyways.....instead of taking it personal, take a look at the men you are choosing to date.....and be careful of the words and conversation you use......as men think if you talk sexy, or talk about your body....etc.....that the date is going to be all about sex.

after awhile you can weed them out......Good Luck!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Where are my references when I need them.....
Posted: 4/10/2009 2:51:01 PM
I think it is all about if you enjoy it or not........

My theory on it all is like cleaning house...........if someone is WANTING me to do it.....i wont, if they are HINTING at it, I still wont.........if I change my mind and decide to do it to stop the whining......I will do a half ass job, just to say I did it.......NOW, if i do it because I WANT to do it and I FEEL like doing it..........I am going to do the best damn job ever.....because it was all about ME...........and you caught me at a good moment..........best little merry maid around
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Ladies...when do you expect sex.
Posted: 4/10/2009 9:26:43 AM
I dont ever expect sex........ I dont ever expect anything.........Cuz expectations are premeditated resentments.......if it happens......well it happens......


Now if I had to think about when is a good time......I guess it all depends how I am feeling that day........do I feel like having some Non Commital sex and what are my motives.......how is it going to affect me after......MEH......usually I'm cool with it!

As long as the cards are on the table......and there is no hurt feelings in the end on both parts.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 322 (view)
 
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 4/9/2009 10:51:51 AM
Your Awesome Deer Dog!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 319 (view)
 
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 4/9/2009 6:29:20 AM
Why do people have to be so immature about sex........who cares about how many partners anyone has had.........seriously I wish that people would realize that sex is a PHYSICAL action......no different then exersizing, or going for a walk............some people like to do it all the time......some people dont.........

the worst thing, is that people tend to take it personally and get to wrapped up in their ego.........So what if she had 30+........i bet when your with your buddies, you say you had more.......

 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Talking during sex?
Posted: 4/8/2009 5:40:43 PM
I think it is like phone sex in the form of reality...........you can talk and do
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Talking during sex?
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:06:48 AM
Well, I can say this.......I am going to tell you what I like and talk as sensual and dirty as I want.......this is about MY orgasm......this is about MY turn ons.......and I am all about ME........cuz if I am turned on......10-1 so are you.......sex without love is basically masterbation with each others body......hell, I am going to work you like i would myself.......
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Talking during sex?
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:30:45 AM
you may not stop half way through, but I would.......that would be the most boring lay ever.........I love talking through a session, as it is erotic and hot.....especially when he says things in my ear......the hot breath, and the sensual words just adds that extra eroticism to the session..........

yup.......you'd be boring!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
What would you do?????
Posted: 3/24/2009 8:00:24 PM
Really????

Most went with it........just to be nice.......
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What would you do?????
Posted: 3/24/2009 7:37:57 PM
Just watched "what would you do?" on TV, and it showed online dating, and they purposely set up dates, that didnt look like the pictures they profiled...... the women were a bit more accepting.....and the men were PEED off........


Has this happened to you and what did you do......

if it hasnt........." What would you do?"
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 102 (view)
 
'There Probably No God, now stop worrying and enjoy your life'
Posted: 3/18/2009 9:02:31 PM
Religion is for those who are scared to go to hell.........

Spirituality is for those who have been to hell and DONT want to go back........

GOD is just a word......that people can Identify with...........Call him whatever you want........it is all in what you believe.....

I know a guy who said he believed in something.....and it kept him sane and he prayed to it.........I asked him what it was.......and he said Kuma sutra.....I frickin died laughing and he was serious.......he thought that was a god that suited him.......he didnt realize what it was.........worked though.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
funerals
Posted: 12/10/2008 8:52:12 PM
Nothing wrong with that......I had a date go with me to an AA meeting once........its all good.

Different Strokes for different Folks....
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Ever cheated and not felt guilty?
Posted: 12/6/2008 10:07:59 PM
I have cheated and never felt guilty........see I beleive in open relationships............I dont feel my orgasm with my heart...........I know he loves me and I love him...............I dont get into relationships with people who dont understand my way of thinking.....so in all honesty, it isnt cheating.........no wonder why I havent felt guilty........

See, it is like a massage........it always feels good, no matter where you get it.....but feels even better when someone you love is giving it.........

hell.....it is even better when you are watching him get a massage.....or vice versa... what ever makes us happy.........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 220 (view)
 
womens labia (vagina lips)
Posted: 12/6/2008 9:56:05 PM
ya, like your going to say no once you get there.........LOL!!!!!!

this thread killed me.............

I couldnt stop laughing!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 217 (view)
 
womens labia (vagina lips)
Posted: 12/6/2008 7:22:01 PM

Do not want big beef drapes. Just my two cents.


That is freaking funny!!!!!


what is wrong with meat curtians..........isnt more meat better???
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Weird first impressions
Posted: 12/6/2008 7:17:09 PM

Got me to look at mine, I might hang a garland of flowers around them or something. They're like an old garden shed. They perform a function but shouldn't be out the front of the house.


Please send me a pic of that .......
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 181 (view)
 
What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex?
Posted: 12/6/2008 10:19:12 AM
THANKS.......
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Greatest Club in Calgary / Greatest Pub in Calgary
Posted: 12/5/2008 5:59:56 PM
The Shamrock.........wicked band there.......and for pubs, I would say Coyotes in whitehorn is ok !
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 276 (view)
 
She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history?
Posted: 12/2/2008 5:30:08 PM
No, I wouldnt have a problem if my BF was a male prostitute...........I feel that it was in the past, and I cant change it.......that was a decision he felt was a good one at that time.....

I work with Survival Sex Trade workers everyday.......I work with active and recovered prostitutes......I also work with CONVICTED men, who purchase sex.......so I understand the decisions surrounding circumstances........Now if I had an exboyfriend who was a politician........I would have a serious problem........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 269 (view)
 
She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history?
Posted: 12/1/2008 11:36:55 AM

Guys have a hard enough time dealing with the thought of men, in the past, getting dirty with their GF. Much less a woman who would **** ANYONE for a couple hundred bucks. Would you be ok if your BF told you he used to be a male escort? Come on.

Dont paint all men with the same brush...... YOU have a hard time dealing with the past........and if all men have that problem....that is THEIR insecurity.......

If a woman offered you 150.00 bucks to screw her......I am sure you would take it!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 264 (view)
 
She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history?
Posted: 11/30/2008 10:36:19 AM
Whats to get past......she got paid to something most people have done for free.......she was probably safe, and she is being honest........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Heritage And Ancestry
Posted: 11/30/2008 7:46:42 AM
I think it is extremely important to know your heritage.........I myself being of Cree/Blackfoot/English heritage......I get asked where I come from all the time.

I explain where my french name (first and last) come from, and how my great grandfather was adopted by French Canadians.......and yet back in the day, we natives were still considered "savage". I know my history and my spiritual background really well, and it amazes people how one my age even cares about my ancenstry........

The thing is, I have children, and eventually I will have grandchildren, and I want them to know where they came from.........I want them to pass on our spiritual beleifs so they dont die and get forgotten.

The residential school era killed a lot of beliefs and I thank my god, that my family still carry our traditions to this day!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 216 (view)
 
What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/22/2008 12:48:24 PM
I would rather be a cougar then a mountain lion........mounting everything, and lying about my age..........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 82 (view)
 
girls with high sex drive
Posted: 10/23/2008 1:14:18 PM
LOL-------your a slut if you have a high sex drive
a **** when you are high maintanence
a crackwhore if your high.......

You cant win them all.......who cares if your sex drive is high......F*ck and be merry, the man that chooses to be with you, wont care either way.

As long as you arent dry humping every man in site....whats the problem......


anyways gotta go......gotta take care of myself.............LOL.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 75 (view)
 
He wont put out.........
Posted: 10/1/2008 10:23:09 PM

If looking for a LTR he may want to make sure other aspects of the relationship work before getting intimate. It's quite possible that he has had relationships where sex occurred early and then the relationship did not work out and he does not want to repeat that. Or, strange as it may seem to some on the forums he may have religious convictions.



YOu hit the nail on the head..........his past relationships were based on sex first and then the rest.........it is now a month and she has stated that she is bored and is ready to make love..........guess the rest is up to him!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
He wont put out.........
Posted: 9/29/2008 2:57:12 PM
It isnt about me, but I understand what you guys are saying......I told my GF to be patient and for years this is what a lot of women want in a man......but alas she is still looking to self sabatoge.......she will read this, and see what is said.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
He wont put out.........
Posted: 9/29/2008 1:52:42 PM
He wants to make sure it is the real thing........so he wont have sex with her. It has been a month, and she is tired of waiting.......Geez, not very often you hear of the guy holding out...........she doesnt want to make it seem like she is the horndog, but she is getting tired of waiting.......what would you do?
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
The next step
Posted: 9/23/2008 10:53:22 AM

if you are talking never waited before that is one issue if they are trying to put their relationship on another level in a 'healthy manner' that is another thing


it is putting there relationship on another level that is a healthy manner.

I mean lets think theoretically..........NO SEX...........long time friends.......hang out, and now feeling stagnant, and just wanting to reinvent what relationships are without sex............

I mean it seems so simple yet......it isnt.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
The next step
Posted: 9/22/2008 7:03:59 PM

I might point out one danger. It is like developing a long distance relationship that has no actual physicality, you run the risk of building up the sex when and if it does ever happen to such a height that it can never live up to your thoughts of what it should/could be like. The let down can be a deal breaker as it just doesn't add up to what you wanted out of a special relationship. I am not saying go jump in the sak and have at it but you might want to think on putting it all off indefinitely. Perhaps little love/lust trysts can help manage your desire to wait and still fulfill each of you sexually. Remember we all have a natural urge to procreate so it is not natural to fall for someone, especially heavily, and not proceed to some intimacy. Think on that for a while and if the urge really grabs you find a middle ground perhaps. Many a man has built himself up so much towards making love to his intended that he struggles to get it up at the time, performance anxiety, it can be overcome but think on it as I said



I thought the exact same thing.........I mean reputation can follow a person and so I said that maybe they dont want to be defined by their sexual prowess as they both have been in the past...........they are redefining theirselves in a healthy manner and yet it has never been done before........so what do you do........if you have never done it before....
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
The next step
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:57:35 PM
that is pretty ignorant ^^^^ it is all about trying different things other then having to define ourselves sexually........which is really hard to do when we all have been in the position of "damned if you do, damned if you dont".

For the first time in a long time, it is NOT an expectation to put out at anytime........so how would the person know what to do, when there hasnt been a whole lot of respect in their lives......and most, if not all relationships have been based and judged upon "what can you do for me......"
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
The next step
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:42:07 PM
Ok .......I see where the confusion can be in what I wrote.........i mean they know each other really well...........but this is new and different for both of them, as all the relationships in the past have been based on SEX.......this is different, or at least they want it to be different.........it just seems to be stagnant right now .....where to go from here.........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
The next step
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:34:49 PM
After a lengthy conversation with some friends, a question was posed to which no answer could be found.........we need some help.

When in a new relationship with someone that started out as a freindship, then moved to a dating scenario, what would the next step be other then Sex.

The couple want to go slow, as they have been freinds for a long time, the first kiss was awkward but beautiful, and so far nothing sexual, as they want to wait until it feels right......whenever that is.

What more is there to do other then Sex???????
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
SEX ADDICTION!!!
Posted: 9/1/2008 8:44:33 AM
Sex addiction isnt about the act of sex, it is about what it does for you......whether it be validating yourself, or giving you control or taking you out of your head.......it is no different then a gambling addiction........in fact, it is almost the same.

I am pretty sure there are more then enough Sex Addicts on this site to back me up on the diagnosis.

(<---sex addict)
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 130 (view)
 
What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 8/23/2008 4:32:02 PM
God I'm good............I take it totally personal.



Then hump his face.........
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Does the weather affect your horniness?
Posted: 8/9/2008 7:46:25 AM
The rain is crazy........I get all antsy when it is really hot and then a rainstorm hits and the sounds and coolness hits..............that is hot.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Dating after sobriety
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:41:06 PM

it takes tremendous willpower to break those additions. .....


if you think it takes willpower.........eat a box of Exlax and will yourself not to poop.......



breaking a drug or alcohol addiction, is about so much more than just stop drinking or doing drugs.


It is about changing your behaviors and learning how to deal with life on lifes terms without using something to take you out of yourself..........

Whether it be food, sex, gambling, gaming, people, drugs, booze, work.......anything that takes you out of you..............
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Horrible News Stories
Posted: 8/1/2008 1:50:33 PM
he actually was an immigrant.......
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Dating after sobriety
Posted: 8/1/2008 10:08:44 AM
Would you date someone with a history of cancer? Knowing that at any moment they could come out of remmission and die from the disease......


Addiction is a disease, it isnt a personal choice........I am a recovering drug addict, who has always had a job and a home.........my addiction started when I was young........not with drugs, but with anything that felt good.......candy, games, movies, chips etc... the end result was drugs.

It is scary for anyone to get into a relationship with anyone.......I mean what if i date a "normie" which isnt an addict, and he became a crackhead or something.......or I date and addict and he relapses.......or I dated a NON addict and he was abusive........I mean, no matter what it is a chance everyone has to take with anyone.....addict or not!
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 154 (view)
 
why do big girls think they are average
Posted: 7/16/2008 7:09:25 AM

(H3ll, even the bikers at the bar say my a$$ is ok to ride their bikes, and if you know bikers, they don't like fat chicks



Not sure what kind of "bikers" you hang with, but the ones I know, and they are all over, do NOT discriminate on any woman.........they just love women of all shapes and sizes.

now, to the question........as a "Horizontally Enriched" woman, I put average on my profile, because...............I am not BIG AND BEAUTIFUL or whatever POF has for that category. I am average, not skinny, not fat...........I have booty and boobs, so that to me is what the AVERAGE man wants.

So that makes me the AVERAGE woman.............I can see my feet, I can see my"stuff" and I dont think that I am fat by any means.........The problem is with the person that is a "fat" hater, he needs to realize that this site isnt just for him..........there are people out there with different tastes and different wants. I personally dont like short wanna be tough guys, and it seems that every guy on here with a harley thinks he is a bad boy...........no different than the "fat" women who think they are average, just because to them they arent "fat".
 
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