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Thread: SEX WHEN THE WOMAN IS HAVING HER PERIOD.
nameunknown
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SEX WHEN THE WOMAN IS HAVING HER PERIOD.
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5/21/2008 10:53:36 AM
FYI----"nameunknown" please tell us how you would get the sponge out? and IMO that could be a verrrrrrrry bad thing to be stick'n up there, lint and all???
Firstly, cosmetic sponges don't have lint! they're thick and smooth almost rubbery which is why you have to add just a drop of water before insertion. Secondly, you get it out afterwards the same way that you get out a condom that just got lost. sit down, give a little push (like keegle excercises) and just reach up and grab it. Simple.
nameunknown
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When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
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5/8/2008 9:59:30 PM
James man no offense but you sound kind of like a narcassistic azz. Why do you assume that response was in direct relation to what you said in the context that you said it? What you said has been quoted a few times in this thread with some really negative responses. How do you know she wasn't responding to those things? Maybe you're the kind of guy who thinks everything is about him.
Is is ignorant to defend oneself when they are feeling attacked or is it ignorant to demean someone for defending themselves?
The only epic idiot here is the one you see when you look in the mirror.
nameunknown
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Have you ever been together with a compulsive Liar?
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4/28/2008 1:36:13 AM
God gave us instincts for a reason. If you can honestly look inside of yourself and say that you believe that she is lying then guess what? She's definatley lying. I mean come on you can tell she's lying. If you couldn't then your instincts wouldn't tell you she was. How do you handle this situation? It depends. If she's lying about something that should end the relationship then you need to end the relationship. If she's lying about eating the last cookie then maybe just let it slide.
nameunknown
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Anyone else scared of the good guy/girl?
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4/28/2008 1:31:02 AM
To message 12
Oh for god's sake give me a break! That's over the top?They talk to eachother for over a month and when on their first date he buys her flowers and candy and gloves becasuse she was cold and he might be a stalker? Just because he was being a gentleman does not mean that he might be a stalker. In your worl I would hate to see how you would catagorize a guy who opens the door, pulls out your chair and pays for dinner too would be.
nameunknown
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is there really someone for everyone?
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4/28/2008 1:12:53 AM
Oh honey no offese but at the age of 23 you're already looking to give up? I mean it's not like you're one of those ladies in thier early 30's or 40's who have never really been in a loving relationship (no offense to anyone like that) You're ONLY 23 for god's sake. Honestly you sound like you have baggage.
nameunknown
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At what point do people marry for money instead of true Love?
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4/27/2008 1:16:36 PM
Never! money is a stupid variable with which to choose a mate. I mean come on it's just money. Easiest thing in the world to come by they print more of it everyday. Someone that you can love though and loves you back? Well that's worth more than all the little pieces of paper in the world. Money can't hold you while you fall asleep. Money can't whisper to you that you're beautiful or tell you that it loves you. It can't reassure you when your feeling self doubt or cheer you up when you're feeling sad. Money can't hold your hand or take you for ice cream. Money can't provided stimulating conversation or crack a joke that makes you laugh. It can't give you the sense of complete contentment that you get when you're with someone who you know loves you more than they love their own life. Money is worthless but love? Well love is forever.
nameunknown
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what would you do?
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4/26/2008 4:28:44 PM
Thanks girlie
nameunknown
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DAILY QUOTES
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4/26/2008 4:12:01 PM
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.
nameunknown
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DAILY QUOTES
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4/26/2008 4:11:18 PM
Where there is Life, There is Hope; Where there is Hope, There is Trust; Where there is Trust, There is Love;Where there is Love, There is Faith; Where there is Faith, There is Success; Where there is Success, There is God.
nameunknown
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After the split -- Take some time or move on?
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4/26/2008 11:51:18 AM
You know what they say about getting back on the horse:) If you fall off and you take too much time to heal you may never get back on ever. not everyone is the same but alot of people who take too much time to "mourn" end up spending too much time analyzing what happened and get too scared to be hurt again to go out there and try. While you're at home licking your wounds the man of your dreams may be right in front of you and by the time you're done dwelling on your loss he may be gone. So I say get back on that horse!
nameunknown
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On the rebound???
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4/26/2008 11:07:11 AM
Who cares how long the rebound period is. It's different for eveybody but in this case I think the more important things are he called you a b.tch which for any reason is inappropriate coupled with the fact that all he wants to talk about is his ex. Do you like talking about his ex? I mean if you find the subject to be stimulating conversation then by all means continue on but otherwise why are you still seeing him. Also I am a firm believer that the attitude you start a new relationship in is the attitude that will set the tone for the entire relationship. Sounds like this guys got a little bitterness and resentment issue. Seems to me that he was in a place of great anger and resentment when he started seeing you so that is exactly what your relationship will always be about. It will be nothing but conflict and anger and fighting the whole way through. Don't forget you guys just started seeing eachother so this is when he is on his best behavior and is trying to impress you. Are you impressed? don't think it's only going to get better because it sure as h.ll ain't. Get rid of this guy quick, he sounds like a real d.ck!
nameunknown
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Too sensitive or get over it?
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4/26/2008 1:11:23 AM
I think that if it does bother him now that he should bring it to her attention. If she does love him then she will respect his wishes about her not talking about things like that around him and stop. Whether or not he has security issues is not really the point. The point is that it is important to him. Thus if they are in love his feelings will be important for her too and she will stop. I mean it's not like he's saying he doesn't like her to fantasize about other guys or that he doesn't want her to talk about things like that at all just not around him. In the long run it's a small concession that one has to make to have the best relationship possible and since he's not asking her to change something fundamental about herself she should and will if she loves him like you think.
nameunknown
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what would you do?
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4/26/2008 12:02:36 AM
I honestly can't believe you have to even ask this question. Here's what you do. Take this note that you wrote and read it out loud to yourself in front of a mirror. If at the end of the reading you do not head straight for the closet to pack up her crap and get her the h.ll out of your house then you should pack up your sh.t and head to mine because god knows I could use a slave around here to do everything for me for the cost of nothing.
nameunknown
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WTH Breakup by text???
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4/23/2008 11:36:02 PM
/I was in a relationship about 5 years ago that i knew was going nowhere. I tried ending it several times, everytime i tried she would start to cry. I can't stand watching a woman cry, So when the tears came, I would give in and be locked into this relationship until i got up the courage to try ending it again.
This went out for about 2 years. Finally i was away on a business trip and it was during this trip that i finally ended it via e-mail.
Call me gutless if you like, but if i kept trying to end it face to face, i would still be in it today./
I think your situation is different. In your case you had already attemped at least once to end the relationship face to face and she guilted you into changing your mind. In the OP's scenario it came out of the blue.
The reason they are so different because in the first scenario the woman knew you wanted to break up and why. She probably wasn't that surprised when it finally happened she knew you didn't want to be with her. She got her closure.
In the OP's scenerio it seemed to have come out of the blue and she was offered no explaination. She got no closure.
That's what I think this all boils down to. The direspect of not allowing the other person closure.
nameunknown
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Very Confused
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4/23/2008 10:58:20 PM
Just think about it this way: He spent 14 months lying to your face about the fact that he was engaging in an act that he knew was completley and totally disrespectful to you. He spent 14 months sharing his body, his words and his love with someone besides you. He spent 14 months betraying your trust and engaging in an activity that he knew could end your relationship.
Now I know it's not as easy as he cheated on me throw the bum out however you do need to ask yourself whether or not this is the type of man that you deserve. I was once in a situation simular to this and I took him back. You know what happened? He did it again. He did it again because the message that I sent him by taking him back was that even though he had totally betrayed me by disrespecting me in the most humiliating way possible I would let him. There's a reason they say "once a cheater always a cheater." Do I think that means that particular guy will cheat in every relationship he ever has? No but it does mean he will always cheat in the relationship he's in.
Ask yourself if every time you get into an argument whether you will worry about him stepping out. Ask yourself whether or not this act of pure selfishness on his part will end up causing you to resent him in the future. And ask yourself this: If you don't trust him how can you possibly love him? Many women don't break up with cheaters not because they love them but because their pride is wounded and they don't want the other woman to win but really what is the prize? A cheating, lying, disrespectful scumbag? He tells you that he loves you now but was he saying it while he was also secretly engaging in intimate relations with someone else? if he was then those words mean as much to him now as they did then. Nothing.
You can take him back if you want but I'm willing to bet the house that you can do better. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior and if he does it again you have no one to blame but yourself. After all it's not like you didn't know he has the potential to cheat.
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Remember that and good luck
nameunknown
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Girlfriend wants to maintain friendship with ex-boyfriend
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4/23/2008 10:26:24 PM
"Here's the question: Am I totally out to lunch, or does anyone agree that it is inappropriate for her to continue to see her ex-boyfriends when she knows it is an issue for me? I look forward to hearing from men and women on this issue. "
Yes honestly I believe you are totally out to lunch. If you guys already have a somewhat unsatable relationship then why should she give up friends she's had for 14 years for a relationship that might not last until tommorrow?
" I asked her why, when things were going so good, would she put our relationship at risk by doing something she knows I have a problem with. She said that, judging by the fact I seemed accepting of her last date, she thought I was OK with it. I told her I was OK with her going out for drinks one time"
Did you say to her "honey I'm glad you got the chance to go for drinks and catch up with this guy but I'd perfer for you not to make a habit out of it. I'd perfer for it to just have been this one time"? No you did not. You let her think you were fine with it. Very passive aggressive. If you gave her a reason to believe it was okay before then of course she would think it was okay again she's not a friggin mind reader! What you are doing is you are setting her up for failure. You are telling her something is okay and then you are punishing her for believing you. I definately see this whole thing as being your issue. Many, many issues.
nameunknown
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WTH Breakup by text???
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4/23/2008 10:13:20 PM
"What about the guy who started Wikipedia? He broke up with his girlfriend on THAT site, for all the world to see. How humiliating that would have been?! I don't know why some people, both men and women, don't have enough respect for the people they've been seeing to break up face-to-face, or at least on the telephone. Payback can be a b*tch!"
Not too mention how Mathew Damon broke up with Minnie Driver on Oprah. ON OPRAH FOR GODS SAKE!!!! Now that is harsh.
nameunknown
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WTH Breakup by text???
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4/23/2008 10:09:50 PM
Remember that "Sex In The City" episode where Carrie got dumped by post-it note? That's harsh. There will always be people out there men and women who are so afraid of confrontation that they will take the quickest and easiest way (for them) out. All it really proves is that he is the kind of man who is so selfish and self-centered that he cannot even be bothered to show her the respect she deserves by telling her in person. Personally at this point if I was your friend I wouldn't worry so much about how he broke up with her but focus on how happy she should be that he did. Thank god she only wasted 4 months on this guy and not 4 years.
Besides in the end Carrie got Mr. Big so who's laughing now?
nameunknown
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How about a Change.
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4/23/2008 10:02:41 PM
I used to be a pretty heavy smoker. I quit for two reasons
1. The guy I was with was very special to me and although he always said it never bothered him and he never pressured me about it I knew it had to gross him out on some level.
2. because I wanted to get him a really awesome birthday gift that I knew I could only afford if I quit smoking and saved the money.
Now that was love.
nameunknown
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How do you know when you've met the One?
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4/23/2008 9:58:11 PM
I agree. The answer is in the question.
nameunknown
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Is It Hot If A Guy Wax's His Chest And Stomach?
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4/23/2008 3:15:14 PM
Personally I think if a guy is naturally hairless then fine. If he is naturally got hair then fine. If he is self conscious about the amount of hair that he has and feels more comfortable waxing it then fine. But if he is hairy and does like to wax then he better be good at maintaining it because otherwise when it starts to grow back it will feel like you're cuddling velcro. A hairy back though? now that is a whole other story. I hate the hairy backs.
nameunknown
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Motel or not to Motel
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4/23/2008 2:43:12 PM
A Motel? Motel? God at least he could make it a Hotel! I'd be suspicious if I were you. Obviously he's not taking you to some greasy motel because he wants to be romantic otherwise he would shell out for a nice hotel. He probably either has a woman at home or he's too lazy to clean his own place. Either way it's no good. Nope I would find the insistance of a motel very very suspicious. definite red flag.
nameunknown
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Whats an instant turn on for you
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4/23/2008 12:24:58 PM
Okay turn on: whispering/kissing/going anywhere near my right ear (I don't know why but the left one just isn't as sensitive)
Turn offs: Okay besides the whole drugs,racism,beatingup women things that are obvious a huge turn off for me is those guys who all they want to talk about is how sweet the car they drive is/how much money they make/how much weight they can lift at the gym. Shameless self promoting-huge turnoff
nameunknown
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Situational question
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4/23/2008 11:57:12 AM
Ya I'm sorry to have to say this dude but dollars to doughnuts she was faking it. If a girl is as close to coming as you "think" she was there is no way she would tell you to stop. Even if she is selfconscious if she lets you go down there then she'll let you finish.
nameunknown
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He told me his ex gf was hot.
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4/23/2008 2:59:27 AM
This guy sounds like a MORON!!! I don't care why he said it. Come it doesn't even matter how you look you could do better than THIS guy. I say dump his a.s
nameunknown
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wut would u do if it was.........
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4/23/2008 2:03:27 AM
By the way, all of these people who are picking on you for your spelling and grammar are ugly people who are jealous of the way you look and the fact that you are about to get laid and they are not.
nameunknown
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wut would u do if it was.........
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4/23/2008 1:59:30 AM
I agree with Carly optimistic. With an attitude like that it is obvious that you are not getting laid and now feel the need to project your frustrations by criticising others. Just because you are too stupid to be able to decript someone elses short hand does not mean there is something wrong with them. Obviously however there is something seriously wrong with you.
Anyway girl I think you should let him run the show the first time out. Besides what if you create this whole atmosphere that just ends up giving him anxiety worrying about living up to your expectations. Surprise him with the candle light and massage later on. First time out he'll be so happy to be getting some from a pretty girl like you he might not even notice the effort on your part.
nameunknown
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why do woman constantly flirt?
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4/22/2008 5:14:43 PM
I agree with Maria. Why do women flirt? It is the same reason men check out other women. They can not help it. They are genetically predisposed to flirt.
nameunknown
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Curvy Vs Slim
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4/22/2008 3:27:22 PM
[ I have noticed, a few references to Marilyn Monroe, Marilyn at her biggest, which was around the same time she was at her most famous, was a size 16. when she died she was a size 14. ]
Yes but lets not forget that how clothes are sized today is very different. Marilyn Monroe was at onetime a size 16 but nowadays that is a size 8. I have the exact same measurements as my mom did when she was my age and her clothes were never smaller than a size 3. Nowadays that could be anywhere between a 2-00.
Julia Roberts has pretty much always been the same size. when she did Pretty woman her wardrobe was a size 6. now it's a size 2.
nameunknown
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PORN INSTEAD OF SEX
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4/22/2008 3:11:05 PM
I've actually heard of this before. Some men have been know to actually become addicted to porn and they are no longer able to find satisfaction sexually without it. So it has to be treated like any other addiction. The first step is recognizing his behavior as being unacceptable and deciding you are no longer willing to enable that kind of behavior. Confront him with it and tell him either he needs get some help for his addiction or you're outta there. If he refuses to get help then you need to hit the road and fast. This kind of behavior will not get better it will only get worse and before you know it you've wasted years of your life on this guy!
nameunknown
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When is it ok to show cleavage
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4/22/2008 2:55:00 PM
In my opinion if you're lucky enough to have them then show those puppies off!
nameunknown
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What is a Real Man?
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4/22/2008 2:48:50 PM
In my opinion when I use the phrase "real man" I mean:
He is not prettier than I am
He does not take longer to get ready than I do
He does not need or ask for my opinion on how his outfit looks
He does not wear more jewelery than I do
He does not need me to reassure him more than I need reassurance
He is not a moody as I can be
I should never have to worry about hurting his feelings more than he should have to worry about hurting mine.
And he doesn't take bubble baths by himself in candelight while reading a book in order to relax.
nameunknown
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Is it ok to have a friend with benefits.....???????????
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4/22/2008 10:53:45 AM
This in theory is an excellant arrangement. You get yours and he gets his all without the threat of committment. Yes a fabulous idea IN THEORY. I say that because however much we'd like to pretend otherwise it is almost vertually impossible for women to not get emotionally attached to the men we are sleeping with. Next thing you know you either find yourself feeling like crap about yourself because the sex just feels like sex without any emotion and you feel cheap or you end up head over heels for a guy who will never be more than a sex partner and you end up broken hearted. All in all you end up worse off than you were to start. I say stick with the vibrator until you're ready to date.
nameunknown
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Sleeping with some one on a first date
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4/22/2008 10:46:16 AM
I think that if you want to come off like you don't sleep around but also want him to know that you're not frigid that you should convey your wanting to sleep with him but that you're not the kind of girl who will on the first date. That way he knows you're willing to take it to that place but you convey the message that not just anyone can get there. Say it in a way like "oh your so cute I wish we've been dating a little longer. if we had you'd be in so much trouble right now!" This also lets him know you're interested and he has something to look forward to that will keep him coming back. Just my opinion
nameunknown
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When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape?
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4/22/2008 9:57:20 AM
I agree with deuce on this one. you cannot be held accountable for someone elses decisions. Now if you had slipped something in her drink then it's a different story but if she approached you and told you she wanted sex well then she wanted sex! As long as she can tell you how many fingers you're holding up without mumbling the reply incoherantly while swaying back and forth with a glazed over look in her eye then go for it. I really don't see how that could be considered rape. What if she had smoked a joint would that be rape? Or what if it was someone you'd been dating for a long time and you went out to a function and got smashed and told him to take you home for some hot sex would that be rape? Bottom line you can't rape the willing and in your case she sounds like she was willing.
nameunknown
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Is having cybersex cheating?
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4/22/2008 9:25:10 AM
It's not cheating unless body fluids are exchanged? does that mean that if you're sitting across the room from someone talking dirty, being intimate and touching yourself that doesn't count either? To me it sure would!
nameunknown
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
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4/22/2008 12:29:40 AM
I think it's mostly a chicks' issue not to go down,cause my bubbies that I talk to,they are alll for goin' down to the 'Y". Let's hear others' thoughts on this.
I disagree. I know a few women that won't let their guys go down (I sure as hell ain't one of them) but I don't know one girl who isn't willing to please her man by going down.
nameunknown
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Hair pulling during doggystyle
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4/21/2008 11:29:47 PM
Love it! It's the only reason for having long hair! Yes there is a technique for it. You have to pull it tight or close to the scalp so that you don't end up jerking it because that's when it gets yanked out and can cause pain. Otherwise grab it tight and let er rip!
nameunknown
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what does SEX do for you besides...
Posted:
4/21/2008 11:23:53 PM
sex releases natural endorphines in our bodies that cause us to feel happy. Much like chocolate it is a natural aphrodisiac
nameunknown
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When is it okay to show thewilder sex side of you.
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4/21/2008 10:51:00 PM
And I'm not saying that just because you let her know what you're into that means you have to go right ahead into freaky land. If she's concerned about how it makes her look she may wait awhile to let her freak out just to save her reputation but it's not like if she likes you she's going to dump you as soon as you tell her just so you won't think she's loose! come on man! besides if she's worried about looking loose she'll wait to sleep with you not to get kinky! Once she's slept with you she either thinks okay here's a guy I'm just going to sleep with so lets get my freak on or okay here's a guy I'm going to have a relationship with so lets get my freak on!
nameunknown
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No sex outside marriage? what would you think?
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4/21/2008 10:40:37 PM
Who cares how all the men in the world would react? If this is a decision that you have made and that you feel comfortable with and in your soul feels right then it is. So what if 100 guys tell you that's stupid they're just trying to get in your pants. The guy for you will not think it's stupid and will love you enough to wait because he'll know it's important to you thus it will be important to him.
nameunknown
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Is having cybersex cheating?
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4/21/2008 10:35:11 PM
Yes because physically or not your intent is to share an intimate moment with someone that is not your partner and without their knowledge. A good rule of thumb is if you're doing something you feel you have to keep a secret from your partner means that you are doing something wrong.
nameunknown
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When is it okay to show thewilder sex side of you.
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4/21/2008 10:31:19 PM
Personally I think once you sleep together the first time it's okay to let the cat out of the bag whenever you want to. Let her know what she's getting herself into. I'm not saying you have to use the arsenal right away but let her know what the future could have in store. If it's going to freak her out it'll freak her out just as much after 3 months as it would after the first time. The only difference is you risk getting really attached only to find out that she won't be able to handle your repertoire in which case it's doomed anyways. So go ahead wild man show her your freak!
nameunknown
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted:
4/21/2008 10:18:55 PM
He'll Have sex with you and share all the intimacy that goes along with it but he won't kiss you? Ya I'd say there's a problem...Him. Dump mister too cool to kiss and move on to a man who can't keep his lips off of you!
nameunknown
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do men like to be approached first?
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4/21/2008 10:13:49 PM
Never approach a man first. The thrill of the hunt is what intrigues them the most. I even read a book on this very subject and the guy who wrote it polled 1000 random guys and not one of them said they ended up marrying or committing longterm to a woman that has approached them. Besides you're a cute girl why would you have to do the approaching? In this age of equality it is one of the last few things that a man is responsible for doing. If you see a guy you are interested in just give him a smile and a little eye contact so he knows you're interested and if he's interested he'll have no problem approaching you!
nameunknown
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Just One Question?
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4/21/2008 9:59:06 PM
Yes, according to the official rule book you are entitled. If you spend any amount of cash then you may demand intercourse. If you only put forth labor, then you are entitled to oral sex. In the rare case that you spend both time and money, then not only do you qualify to recieve both oral and vaginal sex, he is also expected to watch the chick flick of your choosing before hand.
LOVE IT!!
nameunknown
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Men love naked women
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4/21/2008 9:49:01 PM
When it comes to a naked woman men think with their d.cks, d.cks don't have eyes hense men don't see imperfections!
nameunknown
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One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse
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4/21/2008 9:41:34 PM
If I won't taste me how can I expect him to?
nameunknown
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One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse
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4/21/2008 9:40:14 PM
My guy likes it, I'll do it. it's a little concession for pleasing your man. Besides if he'll kiss me after I go down on him and taste himself then I couldn't possibly have a problem with returning the favor. Besides it's my fluids and I'm not scared of anything that belongs to me!
nameunknown
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Women That Wear Thongs...
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4/21/2008 9:33:03 PM
personally I'd rather have 1/4 inch of fabric riding up than 4"!
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