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 Author Thread: (Jefferson City, MO) Singles Events - Guadalajara Night in JCMO OCT 10th
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
(Jefferson City, MO) Singles Events - Guadalajara Night in JCMO OCT 10th
Posted: 9/20/2009 10:13:31 AM
there arent a lote of men anywhere. it sucks even here in Springdale,Ar. they are gay or married or girlfriends or they are just plan jurks. ive been looking for so long i want to give up. plus the guys here dont want a single mom of 4 they run off as soon as they see the kids like i was lying to them .and i tell them all from the start.: we will just have to keep looking and hoping to finally find someone.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 49 (view)
 
How is Having Unprotected Sex NOT Trying to Get Pregnant?
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:44:18 PM
Easy if u dont want to get pregnant where a condom or use birth control. A women can help with birth control. Everyone does it once in a while with out the condom. If u get pregnant dont cry u asked for it . And no its doesnt mean u want a baby,sex just feels better without it. u both know what can happen so dont say she is just trying to keep u .I hate it when guys say that about women . Its not always true.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
do you want more kids or are you done
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:26:40 PM
I guess it does . I havent had any problem yet. thank god. But my doctor told me when i was ready for more just let her know.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
do you want more kids or are you done
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:23:15 PM
I once thought of having more for my new relationship sence my tubes are just tied ,but i dont want to take the chance of being a single mom again. And me and my girls arent alone bye choice theyre dad got deported 2 and half years ago and my 3yr old doesnt know him .only for the phone. Idont want to see my girls hurt and crying again and so depressed for not having theyre daddy .They still would like to have one.My girls are ages 13,8,7 and 3. Im 30 yrs old all my friend s say give it time,well ive been waiting to find someone on here and else where. I dont believe it will happen for the fact i get told i have to many kids by almost every guy i talk to here.



for the rest of u Good luck ,i hope its better for u then me.I mean it , itruely wish everyone the best of luck.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
do you want more kids or are you done
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:13:18 PM
I dont want anymore kids .I have 4 wonderful girls and they are my life.they come first before me. And the sad thing is i cant find anyone who will date me cause of my kids or for the fact i cant and wont have anymore.I dont care if he has any kids ,why should i its not right to dump someone or tell them once u meet that ur sorry its because of the kids. Iunderstand its alot for someone to take on,but at least tell the truth .Dont just say nothing.Its so hard for me to find someone .Once i tell them i have kids or they meet them they quite talking to me or never come back. Or the big one ask me when i will have sex with them and when i tell them not in to i feel like im ready for that step in our relationship they are going . Nada [ nothing] I would like to know why tell someone u want to be with them and because of kids leave . why?
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 10:18:41 AM
u are very pretty .there is no reason why u shouldnt be able to find someone. its why easier for u then me thats for sure,but wait in to i lose more weight maybe then things will be better for me. but if a guy doent do u right he is a big stupid ass . .let them come to u girl .
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 10:13:47 AM
i know i am ,cause all the men i meet only want sex y nothing more. They lie just to try to get some where with u then move fast out the door if they do and the same if they dont. i talked to this guy for 3 wks at this bar here and i finally gave him my address and when the sob seen my girls he told me someone call him that they need his help. Needless to say he never called me or came back. im ready to give up to just stay a single mom forever. im getting so bored of them, im not looking for a one nite .Plus all the good ones are taking or guy. :
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 105 (view)
 
I hope to gawd....
Posted: 7/3/2009 9:58:39 AM
i agree its stupid to fight over stupid shit like that. if he wanted to yes he could but,if he says no then forget it .not worth fighting over. my kids dad wanted more kids ,i sad no and when my last baby was born i got fixed. u dont want a baby yet get the shot .And when he wants to have sex and not help pay so u dont get pregnant easy make him wear a condom . if he dont like it then he dont get any sex.thats what i did to my kids dad before we had our kids. its that easy, plus ur not fight over stuip shit. thats why after i had my last kid i got fixed so there is no fight over who is going to do what. that easy. and if u never want kids pay the money and get fixed. my bestfriend did, her and her old man dont want kids so they both got fixed.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 109 (view)
 
PLENTYOFFISH, CAMPING, BAR B QUE, DANCE, LAKE GREESON, DAISY STATE PARK AR, JUNE 6, 8: AM TIL 10 PM
Posted: 5/14/2009 7:12:51 PM
i hope 2 come and bring 4 single friends with me.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Single Mother of 4
Posted: 5/14/2009 7:02:16 PM
u cant give up.someone will want to be with a single mom of 4 .im one i have 4 girls and i keep looking .one day i will find a man who want me for me and not look at me as aslut for my girls. i was with my kids dad for 10 yrs .he is gone and not coming back.its ok its better for us that he doesnt. im not giving up cause of all those ***holes and u shouldnt to.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 280 (view)
 
Why are there still so many stereotypes about single mothers?
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:11:00 PM
ur wrong for talking that way .yesthere are single mom who are losey and dont take care of their kids ,but iam not one .so to say all single mother are the same is wrong and just so ****ed up.my kids have the very best. they need something and if at the same time i do well they get it first my needs are last.and when they grow out of the good cloths i give them to those who need it more for free .some else will make people pay.why iam i not like that cause iam better then others i want the best for my kids ."""they come first and me last""""""i stay home cook, clean wash their cloths and help then with their work.i dont have time for party or so called friends who only want u when u have more money or need a babysitter. always something ........so for the
good single moms like me is whywe are the are one s to all get bs for single the sluts who call them selfs moms a bad name. just cause cause u push a baby out of u dont make u a mom . i have 4 girls and i do it all bye my self no man and no partys just me and me girls .iam happy that way just would like someone so share my love and my girls love with .""we have enough""
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 279 (view)
 
Why are there still so many stereotypes about single mothers?
Posted: 3/2/2009 6:41:11 PM
first of all to all u mf out there who think that single mothers are losers and sluts .we are not all that way .iam a single mother of4 and not by choice ,he got deported because of all the stuff going on.anyways .iam at home taking care of my kids not out partying or hanging out with my girls and i dont need a sorry ass ****er to take care of me or my girls.they have me and thats all they need.it doesnt take 2 to make a family its how good of a parent ur to ur kids if a women can do it so can a man.that make me so made just like my daughters friend ,her mom called me a party girl and a slut when she had never meet me and this stupid redneck was a so called bible beliver and goes to church,well it says do not judge and she did.just causr of my 4 wonderful girls.i dont depent on a men for money i want him for loveand to love my girls thats all .cause of people like that is why iam still single.i really wish people would grow up, i truely do.and to those who dont thank you ,i know not everone is a stupid ass
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 235 (view)
 
Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 1/16/2009 6:56:32 PM
yes, only because my best friend lorena has 4 boy and she is married to a great guy who loves her boys .they dont have kids of their own and he dont have any but he truely loves hers .he is a better father then their own.she wait 4 years before she meet him maybe thats what all us single moms should do .iam a single mom of 4 gilrls and have been for 2 years still wanting for someone 2
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 597 (view)
 
How many sinle parents have their kid or kids with no help?
Posted: 1/16/2009 6:42:32 PM
i have 4 girls and my oldiest girl her dad is in jail cause of his ex. And my 3 little ones their dad is in mexico[deported[ and he ddoesnt help me or try to come back to support his kids i do it all by myself. iam mommy and daddy sometime i feel like iam going crazy. It doesnt help that when a guy meet up he runs.Its to much for them.i dont get mad cause i understand it ,just wish it would stop. i dont want their money i want my kids dads 2 pay for what they helped me make 4 very pretty little girl
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 74 (view)
 
why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 8/15/2008 10:37:09 AM
because all the good guys are gone.and all that is left is ***hole and jorks who think they are bose of u the mintue u start talkin 2 them. meet a few on here like that.and if there not that way they fall in love 2 fast and scare u way.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Used condoms in the trash - believe she's not cheating?
Posted: 6/8/2008 9:26:30 PM
i got a easy one for u put them in the toliet. then u wont ever have 2 worry if she was cheating on u or not.and there is no way a girl used a condom just for that. i just read it 2 my best friend who does and she said bull,,,,,,, she is a lier. so sorry guy find u a good girl
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Emotional Abusers? Can they be helped? What is your opinion?
Posted: 6/5/2008 10:50:43 AM
at times i think they can coming from both sides of it .i have been bet ,put down some much that he truely had me beliving what he was saying . he always told me no one will love me with 4 kids if they do its only for sex and nothing more,because iam fat and ugly.that men only see me as theyre sex toy.It hurt me i cried all the time ,i had 2 be put on depression medican cause of it .why do they do it ,some time i dont know why? maybe they do it cause it how they feel about them selfs, that no one will love them.i put it 2 a stop he came at me for the last time i was not going 2 be the scared little kitten anymore that he wanted me 2 be ,when he went 2 hit me i grabbed the first thing i seen and hit him with it .I cracked his head open with it. he never hit me again. and when he would put me down i told him it may take me same time 2 find love again but i will. and he will respect me 4 me and love me for who iam ,fat or skinny. plus be a better man 2 my kids and father then him. we arent 2 gether anymore but now he respect me better then be for ,and now he tell me how beautiful i am. and that he wishs he was beter 2 me before, and 2 forgive him for all he had done 2 me over the years. i forgive him ,but i will never forget,and kids wont 2.never let a man tell you that u are nothing.because it not true .and new love is waiting 2 find u
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here.
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:23:04 AM
hello everyone my name is Bobbi i have lived here now for 13 yrs hated it at first, because i loved it in washington state. i like living here .my family is here my friends are here,and i love making new friends .plus if they have kids they can come play with my 4 girls.the more the better .thats why i have 4 ,but i dont want any more now.. iam a single mother hoping 2 meet new people.
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
letter to his wife from his mistress
Posted: 5/30/2008 9:08:08 PM
i dont have 2 marry a guy 2 be happy. all i want and care about is if my family is happy if their then iam happy,before yes i cared but now that i have been married and devoriced i dont care if i ever get married again.yes it would be nice,but it means nothing without love and happiness.money doesnt mean shit 2
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
letter to his wife from his mistress
Posted: 5/30/2008 9:05:32 PM
i dont have 2 marry a guy 2 be happy. all i want and care about is if my family is happy if their then iam happy,before yes i cared but now that i have been married and devoriced i dont care if i ever get married again.yes it would be nice,but it means nothing without love and happiness.money doesnt mean shit 2
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
letter to his wife from his mistress
Posted: 5/30/2008 8:00:48 AM
its funny the way u put that cause its 100%true forsome people.right now iam playing the mistress role.but i dont see it the way u do i see it this way he belong 2 her and he always will in 2 he decides 2 leave her for me witch it will never happen because he already told me ,that he only stays with her for his girls,but we also have a daugther way before he meet her.my bestfriends husband has amistress 2 and she feels that he is only hers.whydo we even got with guys like this and way do we fall in love with them?
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Question about contact with ex
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:43:17 AM
i have one myself ,my kids dad got deported last year and my exfrom before want to be with me ?he also is not single should i waste my time with them or try 2 more on.i really need some help on this cause i have feels for both of them .but my feels are coming back strong for my ex,and i dont want to hurt the one he is with now plus hurt my kidswhat shoud i do?
 catybabe78
Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Should I try to find her father?
Posted: 5/29/2008 12:25:26 PM
i 2 have a daughter how does not know her father.she is now 7years .he live really close 2 us .iam not sure if i 2 should tell her its hard 2 do something that 2 some people seem so easy,but it is so hard.will he want her ,will he love her ?or will he break her heart?and will she hate me for not telling her the truth?so many question ,but not sure witch one is for good,or betteroff just leting it be?she believes mommys friend is just a friend she has no clue he is her real daddy.she belives another manis he daddy.and he doesnt know that i talk 2 her real father if he did he would be so mad at me .i believe god gives us stuff like this 2 see if we would make the right choice .everyone tells me to tell her ,but its not that easy.easier said then done,u should find him 2 at least help u pay for things she needs,even if he doesnt be with her.he helped make her ,he can help pay for stuff she needs.u know what i mean we should get left with everything they should help us 2.iam asingle mother of 4 girls so i know how it is . but dont be down keep ur head up think of it this way, at least she can be proud of u,and say look at eveything my mom did for me ,she did the for me .and u get 2 watch that pretty little girl grow up,and say that she turned out great even if he wasnt there. my little girl is .
 
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