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Joined: 4/22/2008

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Would we have better relationships if looks REALLY didn't matter? Posted: 12/24/2008 8:14:11 PM
I haven't read all the posts on this topic...I believe though there has to be a balance between what a person has physically and emotionally that appeals to you...to many people come in hard on the physically side of this equation and never get to know the emotionally or internal side of someone, and that is the sad part and unfortunately is the really why so many relationships and marriages do not work out... Our society has made physical appearances such a selling point, that this is what we base everything else on...good people come in all shape and sizes, and it is a balance that we all should seek..but first and foremost we should look inside ourselves and see who we are and what need, and who truly are before we search out and judge others.

Joined: 4/22/2008

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Mourning a Loved One Posted: 12/24/2008 7:49:52 PM
Thanks to all for your comments and condolences, it has been a few years since his passing and since his passing I have never really celebrated the New Year, just maybe dinner and like so many have said a quiet ringing in of the New Year...There were years in the past of the typical New Year festivities, but for some reason I let this person I was talking to make me feel like I was being a "sour puss" in continuing to mourn in such a manner not to celebrate the coming of a new year...I guess I should continue to honour my brothers memory as I feel fit, and if that is not good enough for this other individual then I guess she has the problem and not I....

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Mourning a Loved One Posted: 12/24/2008 5:41:07 PM
I know mourning a loved one is an individual process...but does someone you are seeing or interested in have the right to say the way you mourn is wrong....and if that person does not understand how you mourn your loved one and it is an issue between the two of you, how big of an issue should it be? For example...my brother passed away New Years Day, thus I do not celebrate New Years Eve...no partying, or dancing etc...but a nice dinner out with the one I care for is fine...is this wrong? Someone I was talking to says it is...she says I shouldn't waste my days mourning, especially a "happy" day like New Years Eve...Opinions?

Joined: 4/22/2008

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Hottest Movie Scenes Posted: 11/1/2008 5:34:51 PM
91/2 weeks has been mentioned a few times... the fridge scene with the food/drinks, and the striptease, but the hottest scene in that my movie was the sex scene in the stairwell in the rain.....one day I will experience sex in the rain like that... as well as the ice cube scene...**** that was hot Unfaithful....every scene Diane Lane was in... Marilyn Monroe scene over the subway vent...when her white dress flies up leaving us to wonder what is underneath...sexy... Postman always rings twice...on the kitchen table... Fast times at Ridgemont high school...Phoebe Cates coming out of the pool Wild Things...Neve Campbell and Denise Richards. In a pool From Here to Eternity....Burt Lancaster and Deborah Kerr lolling around in the surf

Joined: 4/22/2008

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Does anyone make LOVE anymore????? Posted: 11/1/2008 5:05:24 PM
Sure when I was in love....what a difference from **ing and love making.... Of course there are those times you can still "make love" and still **....

Joined: 4/22/2008

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All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer Posted: 11/1/2008 5:03:19 PM
Ever since that evening all she wants to do is have sex, watch porn, drink beer, and watch sports on tv................... And the issue is???????????????

Joined: 4/22/2008

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 11/1/2008 5:00:27 PM
My first experience with receiving oral sex was amazing, she knew how to tease, please, and explore...BUT one thing she made sure of was the respect factor...If I was going to cum in her mouth I must know the taste myself...so I gave it a try...had to....and it wasn't that bad, so I know what women may or may not like about it... C'mon guys...you have to admit that after you perform oral on your gal and then come up to her with a soaking wet face and she kisses you..it turns you on....so if she can do it...MAN UP.... Remember love (sex) is a two way street....if you can't deal with this little problem how on earth will you ever deal with a real relationship problem

Joined: 4/22/2008

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What is your biggest turn on Posted: 7/16/2008 3:14:21 PM
A woman who displays confidence, is responsible, and is non-judgemental ...A woman who can take care of herself and knows what she wants in her man...

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