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afishcalledjack

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good clubs in barrie Posted: 8/5/2009 2:51:17 PM
On August 29th, I'm travelling to the Barrie area for Virgin Festival! IF there's time for the bars after the concert, I'd like to know... Where are the hot spots on a Saturday night? Also, would anyone like to comment on Saturday nights at either C'est La Vie or Ruanne's Night Club? Please and thank you. afishcalledjack

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Sex Industry... Posted: 5/4/2009 3:19:42 PM
Would I date an erotic model? Let's see. I like a woman who is confident, attractive, and comfortable in her own skin. Plus, I appreciate a woman who appreciates both her own beauty, and the beauty in other women. So, yes. Yes, I would date an erotic model. Good luck with your career! Jack

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Touch it, bring it, Pay it, watch it Posted: 3/9/2009 4:23:57 PM
The best profiles are the ones that generate interest, questions, and, ultimately, messages. I'd like to change it in ways that communicate "I'm a really good date. Take me out of the computer and try me." Are there forces in my profile working against this end? And what's missing? I prefer to take a casual approach to dating. At the same time I'm ready to find a long term partner. Perhaps ideas of " the casual start" and "the happily ever after end" are too disparate, and I need to choose --one. Or maybe I've plot the right course for me and I just need to keep going...steady as she goes. afishcalledjack

afishcalledjack

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Guy Refuses to talk on cell while driving & also at work Posted: 12/28/2008 3:26:03 PM
My advice: Go see the movie "Seven Pounds," starring Will Smith. afishcalledjack

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Private about phone number Posted: 12/17/2008 7:34:12 PM
Hi, OP. Yours is a good, and worthwhile post. a s I understand your concern, but I think your problem is twofold. You're not screening properly, and you're a little paranoid. k a Screening properly l - Does you fancy his completed profile? LUCKY YOU! Send an e-mail, or reply to his. Ask about points in his profile. i m - Does your guy post in the forums? LUCKY YOU! Go see him in action. i t - Does your guy have testimonials? LUCKY YOU! What are people saying about him? Do those people seem credible? s - Do the two of you get along after a few meaningful e-mails? LUCKY YOU! That's a good start. o f By this time you’ve connected the dots, and your guy is probably safe to trade numbers with. a If you’re screening thus far has some wholes, or if your psycho radar is picking up strange signals, then you need to screen some more. Straight up ask him about the stuff that bothers you. k i To me, the phone is a good pre-meeting screening tool. n Most women I’ve talked to, prefer a phone call prior to a meeting. g If you don’t want to give out your number, ask for his, and call him privately. w I think it’s pretty reasonable to exchange cell numbers before a date. e Things can happen on the way to a date. Example. Any day now, my sister is expecting. And I want to be there when my new niece or nephew arrives. t I always call on date day. o d For the slightly paranoid, like you, there are services available for routing calls to your home or cell phone through a disposable number. Example. Look up JAXTR. d d Anyway. Good luck! I wish you fun and safe dating. i d Cheers, afishcalledjack

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Men '' Is Sex too Sexy Single or Sexier Married ? Posted: 11/21/2008 7:52:21 PM
I would say sex is sexier married. Sexier is... ...being able to say "I love you." ...desiring one person more than any other. And I believe it can be just as wild and fun. Like so many Canadian men, I continue to dream that I'll enjoy more time living out beer commercials. One beer commercial in particular offers real promise... A 2003 Carlsberg Beer commercial showed a couple meeting up at a motel and sharing a passionate kiss on the bed as the camera zoomed in to reveal their matching wedding bands and a male voiceover said, "A friend of mine once tried to tell me that the best sex I'd ever have would be with my wife. He was right." Cheers, afishcalledjack

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Pressuring your man to go to a girly event Posted: 11/21/2008 6:02:41 PM
I think Ms. BoundAndTied (Yee-ha!) said it best "Pressuring someone is stupid and needy." Here are the results so far... Would you pressure your man to go to a girly event? 4 said No 1 said Yes (+1 from a misguided bro, who I'm going to take pity on this time) I will report back to my bro. Thanks. afishcalledjack

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Pressuring your man to go to a girly event Posted: 11/21/2008 4:43:01 PM
I asked my bro what he’s up to this weekend. He said “She asked me to go with her to the Christmas Show (’a festive marketplace overflowing with divine décor, tasty treats, ...[blah blah blah...crap]...a one stop shopping event for the holidays’”). With pain in his voice, he continues “I have no desire to go to this thing, but she WANTS me to go with her.” Ladies, Would you pressure your man to accompany you to a girly event? And if so, why? afishcalledjack

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Spanking - What's the deal? Posted: 10/16/2008 6:10:21 PM
Children associate intense sensations like spanking or slapping with shameful, painful, punishing things. However, as adults we recognize that a slap to the ass isn't life-threatening or dangerous. From there, we override the message that tells us it's pain and reinterpret it as simply an intense, possibly pleasurable, sensation. The areas around the thighs and buttocks are loaded with nerve endings, and a spank can actually travel to your more erogenous zones, sexually stimulating you. afishcalledjack

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Separated vs Divorced Posted: 10/12/2008 8:53:00 PM
I don't put any limits on who can contact me. And in most of my Advanced Searches "I don't care" about Marital Status because I'm okay with finding women who are either single, divorced, or widowed. Consequently my more open searches have lead me to some interesting women who are separated. Should you need to explain your status in your profile? No. I think that putting your picture on one of the world's largest dating sites is enough of an indication that you're available. Writing on your profile something to the effect "I'm not thinking about my husband," makes me think 'she's thinking about her husband.' Don't talk about the past. Just move forward. afishcalledjack

afishcalledjack

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Where do I start??? Posted: 10/12/2008 8:08:26 PM
Hi, RebekahAnn. As others have said, practice talking to strangers. The more you do it, the more confident you'll be around new people. This will help you in social settings, and when you're ready to go out on your own. As for making the first move, you shouldn't have to ask a guy out, that's our job. However, you can certainly initiate conversation. I think the suggestion of going out with two girlfriends was a good idea too. As for talking to strangers, you might even do it here. Chat up some far off gents, just for practice. Good luck. afishcalledjack

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Are you afraid of love? Posted: 8/29/2008 7:48:25 PM
No. I'm not afraid of love. I had a great love once. The first time, I lost my love to a fear of marriage. And then I lost that same love...forever...to a rare illness. When love finds me again, I'll know what to do. "Hang on to your love." Be brave, fellow fish. Some of the best times lay ahead. afishcalledjack Musiq (Soulchild) sings to/about "Love": > Verse 1: > Love > So many things Ive got to tell you > But Im afraid I dont know how > Cause theres a possibility > Youll look at me differently > Love > Ever since the first moment I spoke your name > From then on I knew that by you being in my life > Things were destined to change cause > > Hook: > Love > So many people use your name in vain > Love > Those have faith in you sometimes go astray > Love > Through all the ups and downs the joy and hurt > Love > For better or worse I still will choose you first > > Verse 2: > Many days Ive longed for you > Wanting you > Hoping for the chance to get to know you > Longing for your kiss > For your touch, your feel, your essence > Many nights Ive cried from the things you do > Felt like I could die from the thought of losing you > I know that youre real > With no doubts and no fears > And no questions > > (hook) > > Verse 3: > At first you didnt mean that much to me > But now I know that youre all I need > The world looks so brand new to me > Now that I found love > Everyday I live for you > And everything that I do > I do it for you > What I say is how I feel so believe its true > You got to know Im true > > (hook x 2)

afishcalledjack

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Good hearted man Posted: 8/10/2008 8:40:40 PM
"Looking for a 'Good hearted man'" is a popular headline. I think of the men that I know, and I would say that most are good hearted, husbands, fathers, and sons. So, why is it so many women are advertising their search for something that's so common? afishcalledjack

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so many smokers... meaning so few choices... Posted: 8/10/2008 7:17:15 PM
I can't understand why women do it, especially the smart ones. Too often I'll see a profile thumbnail of an attractive woman who, upon closer inspection, appears older than her age and she's a smoker. A friend of mine pointed to a statistic that says smoking among women is on the rise. Why are women choosing to smoke? afishcalledjack

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yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 8/10/2008 6:48:55 PM
Yes, I'd imagine that it could be a good thing. Myself, I haven't been in a relationship like this. However, I've thought about it. Friendship has to be at the centre. And it is always more important than the benefits. The benefits have to be exclusive. The benefits must end when either friend desires to be intimate with someone else. In the meantime two people enjoy some good exercise. afishcalledjack

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Cologne? Posted: 7/28/2008 9:55:06 PM
Over the weekend this topic came up in discussion. I was out with a couple lady friends. They both agreed that good cologne was definitely an attraction amplifier, and that it could even sway a close decision about choosing one guy over another--the best man fragrance wins. Previously I didn't think it was too important, but now I'm wondering if the right hint of "Mmmmm... Smells nice" might really help. afishcalledjack

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Suggestion: Granular E-mail Notifications Posted: 7/7/2008 8:53:12 PM
This thread is getting off topic. I logged into a for leisure Hotmail account and I see that my Hotmail server (large networks like Hotmail are distributed over multiple servers) is now up to the same revision as yours and it does have regular e-mail filters. Also you're right, using a regular e-mail filter to move certain messages into the Junk mail folder is sometimes useful, especially if you need more information before officially (using the mark as Junk feature) flagging something as Junk. Deuce Light stepped out of line, and I mistook you for a bad-Deuce duplicate. However, be careful. You took my words "Junk mail filters...? HELL NO" out of context. I know very well how Junk mail filters work. My favourite uses a combination of address book weighting, 3-way user-definable spam scoring, a backscatter whitelist hosts list (because I have my own SMTP servers), a trainable personal bayes database, and of course a global continuously updated bayes database. In context: "Filter POF push e-mail with Junk mail filters...? HELL NO" You, "Marking opt-in email as spam is wrong," already agreed with that point. This is a suggestion thread. Let's put down the flame throwers, file the feature requests (See messages 1 and 3), and move on. Thank you. afishcalledjack

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Suggestion: Granular E-mail Notifications Posted: 7/6/2008 9:18:24 PM
You really are mistaken. FREE Hotmail doesn't offer rule based filters. Yes. Hotmail, Yahoo, Gmail, and other e-mail services have mechanisms for flagging e-mail as junk, but... ...Using junk filters to block opt-in e-mail is WRONG! If you support POF, and I DO, then you SHOULD NOT instruct POFers to flag POF messages as JUNK as this has the nasty side effect of blacklisting the POF network. Filter POF push e-mail with: - Regular mail filters...? Yes - Junk mail filters...? HELL NO afishcalledjack

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Anyone Have Any Ideas Where The Best Place To Get The Heelies? Posted: 7/6/2008 8:01:37 PM
Bought a pair for...myself...today at a Boathouse brand store north of Toronto--CAD $50. I respect the dangers, and so I will buy protective gear before my first "heel." afishcalledjack

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Suggestion: Granular E-mail Notifications Posted: 7/6/2008 9:49:09 AM
Deuce Light, I don't get a flood of e-mail, but I would prefer e-mail that was interesting to me. To me, an e-mail from a woman is interesting, and an e-mail of computer-generated match ups...not so interesting. Also, the "Your Matches" e-mail carries your login password in plain text. I don't want my password floated about in plain text. The filter trick suggested by Trapped is good, but it won't work for people who have Hotmail or a similarly limited e-mail service. I would think that less “Your matches” e-mail would also mean more computing time could be spent on more important tasks. So if I can opt out of the "Your matches" e-mail, then I get what I want, and someone else benefits from the freed computer time--win win. Are you suggesting that the Suggestion forum is just here for appearances? I don’t believe it. If you have anything constructive to say about my thoughtful contribution, give ‘er. Cheers, afishcalledjack

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Deep Throating Posted: 7/5/2008 12:47:08 PM
Benzydamine is a mouthwash. A nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drug with local anaesthetic and analgesic properties--numb, numb, numb. It's commonly prescribed for acute sore throat. My doctor told me that it never expires. It can safely be used whenever a sore throat occurs. Directions: Rinse and gargle the mouth and throat with 1 tablespoonful. DO NOT SWALLOW...the mouthwash. A friend told me that it has other uses. What are friends for, eh? A friend, afishcalledjack

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Suggestion: Granular E-mail Notifications Posted: 7/5/2008 9:48:10 AM
I'd like to see the E-mail Notifications section of the Mail Settings reorganized as follows... E-mail notification Notifications sent to this address: Notify me about: [ X] New mail. [ X] Someone added me as a favourite. (3 per day max). [O] Weekly new matches. [X] Local singles events. Thank you for your consideration. afishcalledjack

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The L word, way too soon... Posted: 7/4/2008 4:11:01 PM
I think he just slipped. Must have been some kiss? Myself, I miss using the "L" word. I use it on my friends, so I don't bottle it up. I can understand where he's coming from. For you, I think it's a good thing. Now you know he's capable. Store that nugget away in your memory. In the meantime, don't worry about it, and just let things happen naturally. Cheers, afishcalledjack

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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex Posted: 7/4/2008 3:11:46 PM
In moments of complete relaxation people can release stress in different ways. I remember the first time I tried "yoga for stress relief." At the end of the session I unloaded with laughter and I couldn't stop, other people cried. It was a bit embarrassing because the studio was quiet. Afterwards I explained my reaction to the instructor. She said she understood and that she sees these type of reactions all the time. So if the sex was good, just politely let your partner know that it was good to the last [tear] drop. Relaxing with a good laugh, afishcalledjack

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Person puts first name at end of email? Posted: 7/3/2008 10:05:09 PM
OP, it can be a sign of attraction, yes, definitely. People can reveal themselves slowly or quickly. Sometimes the circumstances call for a slow reveal. Slow down, have some fun, let your name be earned. afishcalledjack

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condoms Posted: 7/3/2008 9:20:01 PM
OP, Stick with the "no glove, no love" rule. There are no excuses. As some of the ladies above suggested, if your partner starts to wither, keep the mood fun. (I've read that a lot of women leave their guy hanging.) Don't leave him hanging. Try to reawaken the...sleeping giant...with a different...touch. I think it's important for couples to take the time to learn each other's bodies, and to talk about their turn ons. There's more than one way to...you know...? Play safely. afishcalledjack

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FWB vs. dating Posted: 6/26/2008 8:43:31 PM
I think people who have a problem with this are forgetting the "friend" part of the definition. If you aren't completely open and honest with the people you're involved with, then you aren't being a friend to anyone--yourself included. afishcalledjack

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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it? Posted: 6/26/2008 8:21:43 PM
Just when I thought this thread couldn't get any hotter... connie_e>... he used a blow torch to melt the wax. connie_e>...like a warm rain... You guys are freakin' awesome! (Emphasis on the freak.) Taking notes, afishcalledjack

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Tony Lee XXXtreme Hypnotist May 17th, Pic's and Kuto's Posted: 5/19/2008 10:12:57 AM
Tony Lee and the brave volunteers from POF were great entertainment! The DJ, Jackie Pashley, was fantastic too. (Thanks for the mix CD, Jackie! The party continues.) Thank you, Spanky_69, thearcherredheart, and Intrepid_5000. Cheers, afishcalledjack

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What will he think if I...?? Posted: 4/30/2008 5:13:25 PM
For your own safety, you're moving too fast. Test 1 - Peer review Has he met your good friends? They might see things in him that you don't. Test 2 - Birds of a feather Have you met his good friends? The type of people he considers good people will tell you more about his value system. Test 3 - The stretch You've only been dating him for three weeks. Try a week apart. How are things after you've both cooled off? Test 4 - Intensity Go away with him for a long weekend. Now you've seen a lot of him. Still want more? Test 5 - Kid-safe By this time you've seen him for a couple months, and he has passed all the above tests. You're ready to introduce him to the kids. How do your kids act around him and visa versa? Test 6 - Mi casa es su casa A key to the house is serious business. To me, a house key given by a woman to man communicates either "I want you in my world as much as humanly possible" or "I think you'd make a reliable nanny." Is that what you want to tell him? Apart from that, as another poster hinted, I'd investigate the legal ramifications of sharing a key. If after all the tests and careful thought you want to give him a key, then go for it and good luck. You played it safe, go live your dream. Best, afishcalledjack

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do men like to be approached first? Posted: 4/21/2008 10:09:47 AM
Of course it's flattering. It's how my previous long-term relationship got started. I'm so glad she made the first move because I didn't really notice her before. I only knew her as the quiet, shy girl who wore glasses. She was one of the most beautiful, attractive women I've ever known. Three years ago we broke up. Last May she passed away. So go ahead and make the first move. You have nothing to lose, and so much you could gain. Happy out in a "social atmosphere." Cheers, afishcalledjack

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Plentyoffish Music. Posted: 4/20/2008 6:02:30 PM
Like many fish here, this new feature is "Lovely" [(Johnny Fiasco's Lovely Vocal Mix) by Soulstice] . Thanks, Big Fish! Autoplay Imeem Media I think the autoplay idea is okay, but only provided: 1. It can be set as a POF user preference, and 2. The default settings is: Autoplay Imeem Media is OFF. Cheers, afishcalledjack

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The Kinky Test Posted: 4/12/2008 11:32:30 AM
512. Why do you want to know? As for "vanilla," it's the world's most popular flavour, by a long shot. afishcalledjack Here's the link for those just showing up http://www.hotlanta.com/KINKTEST.ASP

afishcalledjack

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What type of humour do you like girls to have? Posted: 4/11/2008 6:43:12 PM
I like an intelligent woman who can tell a dirty joke. That's special. afishcalledjack

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EARTH HOUR - March 29, 2008 - 8-9PM Posted: 3/27/2008 4:33:45 PM
Hey, Angel~Eyes. Kudos for starting the thread. Co-operative green events like Earth Hour are a great way to get people talking. I got a reply from Yonge-Dundas Square (Toronto's version of New York's Time Square) and I was happy to learn (although they aren't advertising it) that they're going dark. On Saturday night I'm going to darken my dwelling, and then bus it downtown to have a look. I hope it's really odd. Happy Earth Hour. Cheers, afishcalledjack

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Wedding ring Posted: 3/22/2008 7:36:26 PM
If certain ring particulars are important to my girlfriend, then I'd want to know them. Although I'd be inclined to my own signature on the ring, I don't need to. It only matters that she accepts it as symbol of my love for her. And by her wearing it, I accept that as symbol of her love for me. afishcalledjack

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How many dating sites?? Posted: 3/7/2008 7:10:22 PM
Four dating sites? It's only a problem if he has a different personality on each, . afishcalledjack

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Help!!! Tell me what to do. Posted: 3/7/2008 6:54:00 PM
For now, I'd say let your actions guide him. Tell him that you need to rethink the relationship. Tell him that you like him and that the friendship is important to you. Replace the sex with affection. If he doesn't respond to the affection, then fade the affection to hanging out as friends. Keep the hanging out as friends status until you think you can re-introduce affection. If he returns your affection, great. And when all the affection hints at sex, tell him that you want to be in an exclusive relationship. Like others have said, you have to try to take the relationship back to "friends" before you move forward into a serious relationship. Although you're in a difficult situation, you are fortunate to have found someone you think you can love, and that's very special. Don't give up without trying. Go for it, and good luck. afishcalledjack

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Vagina neutralizer? Posted: 3/7/2008 4:34:17 PM
To Leeanne and DonQ, To clarify, my friend, let's call her "Sally," is a tease. Sally and I have been on a few dates. Over that time I couldn't figure her out. Later she said "You didn't try to get in my pants, so I figured you weren't interested." Similarly, I got that feeling..about her feelings..toward me. Now Sally has a boyfriend, but we still have flirtatious conversations. So don't get me wrong. I LOVE VAGINA. :love: And I love succumbing to the power and attraction of a good one. I just think it's important to have the will or the tools (including gadgets and other distractions) to resist. The more a man can resist, the more likely the balance of power will shift to his side. afishcalledjack

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Vagina neutralizer? Posted: 3/6/2008 9:18:02 PM
You don't get it?!? Simple. What trumps a comely woman? I don't get you, Mr. Killjoy <--> . Lighten up.

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Vagina neutralizer? Posted: 3/6/2008 8:44:19 PM
Today I'm chatting with a lady friend who thinks she has power over me, mostly by being flirtatious and suggestive. Today she calls me and opens with "I'm naked." She's fresh out of the shower. Fine by me. So I engage her with a fun discussion of things to do when you're naked. There's nothing wrong with a little frivolous tango talk between friends. However, she called me when I was setting up a mix of old and new DJ gear. I hadn't played with my gear in a while--and I surely missed it. I have some music playing, and my fingers and ears are abuzz with delight. She's still talking..."Now I'm wet... blah blah blah" I'm in a trance...but it's not about her. My gear is glowing, the music is going, and I'm getting excited...about my weekend gig. I tell her "I gotta test my gear." ...And then it hit me..."I've got a 'vagina neutralizer!'" It was an amazing feeling. :yay: My carnal cravings had been replaced by gadget glee. Guys, What do you do to escape the pu$$y whip? afishcalledjack

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Men don't consider it a relationship until you've..... Posted: 2/23/2008 7:52:59 PM
...put it into words. If you haven't talked about some kind of a relationship before you've had sex, then you can expect that either: - your "relationship" is about to end with a one night stand, or - you are about to enter into a friends with benefits relationship. Generally I think that couples should talk about relationship possibilities before someone asks "do you have a condom?" afishcalledjack

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I want to talk about us Posted: 2/23/2008 7:37:18 PM
If it's for a good reason, fine. If it's not for a good reason, then it shows insecurity. The most important thing to do is keep communication current, open, and honest--always. afishcalledjack

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Jeans and a T-Shirt...: Cliche of Death! Posted: 2/23/2008 6:51:08 PM
Like others have said, I see this cliche often on women's profiles. Cliches can be tiresome to read, but we aren't all great writers. Does this particular cliche need to be said in a profile? It doesn't hurt anything. Maybe the people who are putting this in their profiles are meeting plenty of slobs. The desire I read into the cliche is "I want someone who isn't all about looks, but generally looks good and dresses appropriately for the occasion." afishcalledjack

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3rd Date on V-day Posted: 2/15/2008 10:23:44 PM
Barely 24 hours and you've already publicly tarred and feathered the guy who dated you on Valentine's Day?!? Dramamuch? Yikes. Anyway, if he doesn't contact you Saturday, then he's probably not interested. afishcalledjack

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What happens after Live Earth 7/7/7? Posted: 1/31/2008 8:43:47 PM
I thought Al Gore promised that the Live Earth concerts would be an annual event, except I don't hear anyone talking about it any more. And the website, liveearth.org, makes no mention of a return. So...that's it? afishcalledjack

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What name do you call it? Posted: 1/30/2008 5:01:11 PM
"Emergency" <--- Pull here. afishcalledjack

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Condoms.... Posted: 1/26/2008 8:08:05 PM
Want more motion? Use more lotion. Lube. Lube. And more lube. Drying up during sex is not only a drag/pain, but it causes condoms to break, which defeats the purpose. Don't be dry, reapply. As Ms. LoveAVSHockey suggested, put a few drops inside the reservoir tip of the condom. (Again, don't use too much inside or the condom might slip off.) It will increase the sensitivity for you. I second Mr. nocalsingledad's recommendation. Try the silicone based Pjur Eros . It's super soft and slick, latex safe, and a little goes a long way. Pjur also makes (silicone or water-based) lubricants for woman with sensitive skin. Be safe. And have fun. afishcalledjack

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I need a break... Posted: 1/12/2008 11:34:14 AM
First, I'm sorry. It sounds like she has gone right out of her tree. I don't know why she took it out on you. It was terribly unfair. Either she flaked or she is a flake. To me it doesn't seem that you did anything wrong. And now you're doing the right thing by letting her sort things out. I wouldn't let her back in your life without knowing that she was better. What could you have done differently? You haven't mentioned that you have any mutual friends. You could have tried to mix her friends with your friends. Seeing how she relates to her friends and your friends would have given you some context about her social side. Also I would have tried to learn about her family. Failing that, you could have introduced her to yours. All that aside I think maybe you fell for a frosted flake. You seem okay. Chalk it up as bad luck. Next time, try to learn more about your potential mate before making any great sacrifices. Still, and though it's not easy too do, try to love like you've never been hurt, and you'll find a great love again. Good luck! afishcalledjack

afishcalledjack

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Msg: 54 (view)

Your Dating Strategy Posted: 1/12/2008 11:07:20 AM
Do this (like POF), do that, and if that doesn't work, TRY SOMETHING NEW (Things happen when you least expect). Get out there and do what you like. Go with the flow. Be yourself. Don't be afraid to say "hello." Don't try too hard. And NEVER...EVER look back because...there are PLENTY of fish. Happy fishing! Cheers, afishcalledjack

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