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How do I learn to enjoy being alone?
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:11:05 AM | Hi there, 
I think everyone goes through this at some point but I found that taking the time to really get to know yourself and figuring out who you really are (and pls don't ask me HOW exactly to do this, but it can be done) helps a lot. I had to do this after my divorce (from an abusive guy on top of it) cuz I knew that before I could be with someone else, I had to be ok with being alone. But don't give up on the idea of being with someone! You are a great-looking guy and I'm sure you have a lot to offer but until you can be fine with who you are by yourself, I don't think you can bring nearly as much to a relationship. In my case, I tended to settle for guys that weren't right for me just to "be" with someone and that's just ridiculous. So, I would take some time, really think about what you want in life, your hopes, expectations of yourself and a partner, and relax a little. You WILL find the right person-probably when you least expect it. Hope this helps, and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to message me.
Hugs, 
Dawn | | | |
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