OP maybe you just have to try one eh....you never know you might like it.

I prefer the whites, they glow in the dark. Does that make racist for my pref....nope.

I mean we are all here because on some level we failed to maintain a relationship.So it would be similar to asking a vegitarian where the best steak house in the city is.
I hope the forum ninneys don't vote this thread of the island. You know who you are.

an old friend needs money for an operation which is NOT lifethreatening,should i lend it even though she has a poor track record of repaying me and has borrowed over 4,ooo pounds in the last 10 years-all unrepaid.

the doctor has told her that her fits can be overcome by a simple procedure under local anaesthetic,but the fits are not life threatening.under stress such as during intimate moments she suffers fits -uncontrollable ,which causes her much embarassment.

she has been told the condition is rare and the treatment experimental,what should i do,she needs the money by sunday

We've been together for almost 2 years, moved in last year. Sex was decent at first, not great but thought there was potential. Problem is she has had bad past with x's so she is very finicky about positions, where my hands are, how hard, how physical, aboslutely no roughness whatsoever, bj's are very weak (can tell she only does cuz I want, which is not a turn on). She's told me that she's never really been hornynor cared about sex, so the little sex we have like once a month, is usually exactly same as month earlier, I don't know what to do, tried adding toys, not much changed, at 25 i high drive and it needs to be satisfied better, b/c while rest of relationship is good now, it's slowly going downhill. Any ideas?

Can someone explain why a lot of women go for the buff adonis type guys. then wonder why the guy only cares about himself. what's wrong with us plain normal guys. Most of us would be happy and cherish someone. We treat them like the ladies they are. But because we are not tens we don't get a second look.

You dont get a "serious member upgrade" for the 5000 points so you dont get the colored box in profile search you just get the profile skin.

Or is midlife just a bad time to meet men?

Hey i have a question on here, im a 19 year old male, i was dating a 34 yr old woman, succesfull, beautiful looked like she was 20, who was married and has a baby girl. We were together for almost 2yrs but then i ended it because of the age difference, she called me 2 days ago to meet up and hang out telling me she got a divorce. Is this a serious move? do you think she told me that so i can know or she wants something to happen? not that i wouldnt want to but i am studying and i dont even have my life straight?.. what should i do????? i really have feelings for her and even though theres a big age difference ive supported her in so many ways and ive done so many things for her and her daughter... i get advice from my freinds they all say to leave her alone, date someone my own age.. any tips??? i would appreciate it, thanx.

Ok so here is what I am wondering....do you censor your forum posts because you know potential suitors may see them?

I put this in the over 30 thread because I think when you get to a certain age you tend to be more out spoken...willing to be the devil's advocate...and might have some opinions that are based on some life experience. I like to think that I am having some thoughtful discussions on here..and at times imparting some information I have gathered in my journey.

That being said recently I was talking to a really sweet guy...we have been emailing back and forth for a couple weeks, several times a day. I was supposed to meet him for coffee and I get an email saying he read my forum posts and has decided to decline. He doesnt think we will be a good match. I am really ok with that as I think a better match for me would have discussed them with me....but it occurred to me that perhaps I should not get on here when I am just ranting, in a bad mood, commenting on controversial issues, or just being a dumbass and irritating people.

I know many will say they dont care so they say what they want...but I am not just here to stir up stuff in the forums...I am also looking for a boyfriend...so how do you go about this? Total censorship? Carefully worded posts? Light and frothy?

Just wondering...what's your take on the forums.

Just wondering if anyone here would marry a porn star?

Why? Why not?

I know a guy who thinks he has to talk to every woman he meets and seems to want to have very many women friends. My question is would you date someone like that? I think it would be a little difficult. Just want to see what you all think. He also texts everyone all the time even on dates.Annoying.