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chocolate_craze

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Why do some women get upset when I joke about my cancer? Posted: 6/15/2008 8:50:39 PM
First.. I thought your dodgy lung joke was funny... It is great you are able to keep your humour about your cancer... it is a great way to cope.. My life motto is " Life is like an ice-cream enjoy it before it melts".... cancer or not.. Personally I feel, for some people who have not lived someone with cancer or work with people who have cancer.. just think cancer is the kiss of death. They find the topic of cancer awkard to talk about or deal with it.. I was the same way before a close member of my family had cancer ... now I am able to better handle the topic of cancer... My advice when joking about your cancer .. . don't take it personally when they go ballistic and maybe find out what they think about cancer to kind of assess... their understanding.... cheers to good health.. take care

chocolate_craze

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What the hell like?? Posted: 6/15/2008 8:26:40 PM
All I have to say .. is go to the bar get drunk w/ ur buddies.. have fun.. put this out of your mind.. if it was meant to be.. she would still be with you.. honestly I feel there is no point in dwelling on it.. i know it is hard.. but it like picking at an infected wound.. pointless.. u are only going to make it worse

chocolate_craze

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I've never used pick-up lines in a bar. Do woman actually go for some of them? Posted: 2/15/2007 11:48:20 PM
pick up lines.. i find them completely funny and give kudos for the guy for trying.. unless it is a nasty pick up line.. then he is getting a drink thrown at him.. funny story of a pick up line... some guy was trying a cheesy pick up line on me at a club.. but i could not hear what he was saying over the music .. but instead of giving up he decides to shout it even louder in my ear.. long story short.. i ended up "accidentally" injuring his toes and walking away

chocolate_craze

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the worst date I've ever had. Posted: 2/15/2007 1:28:43 AM
i would have taken the chicken balls.. so.. i could have chicken balled ..his car later laterzz

chocolate_craze

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What do you girls like us guys to call you? Posted: 2/15/2007 1:19:27 AM
hmmm i can handle sweetie... but the rest of them make me gag.. and calling me a b!tch .... will result him been gagged... LOL (the benefit for the people who think I am not joking)..

chocolate_craze

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Women that won't work Posted: 1/24/2007 1:18:44 AM
have u considered moving out ?? maybe that is the nudge/motivation she needs .. to get a job.. because right now it sounds like she is having her cake and eating it too.. from your side of the story...

chocolate_craze

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Advice needed about club scene Posted: 1/24/2007 12:51:33 AM
honestly..... trying to find someone to date in the club scene well.. u are going to have is 2% chance.. really... ok maybe 5 % depending how much of a smooth operator u are.. because most of the time.. people go clubbing to have fun..... dance, drink, have fun with friends, or have random make out sessions, or take someone home for the night... or find someone to help them solve global warming ..etc etc ha ha just go to the club to have fun... no expectations..as one person said.. so the girl did not call u.. so what i would look at the positive side.. you guys danced and had a great time.. so better luck next time.. chill .. have a drink.... alcoholic or not.. watever.. laterzz d

chocolate_craze

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Dating Lady younger than me by 15 years Posted: 1/23/2007 12:49:20 AM
hmmmm going to fast eh ?? what does 27 year old mean by that ? Is 42 year old is ready to settle down have kids and 27 year old is not ? does the 42 year old think this relationship is worth stepping back and working for ? I guess.. the really issue here I believe is do both the 42 and 27 need to be on the same page regarding the future of this relationship and what each person wants from this relationship

chocolate_craze

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Women with LONG HAIR Posted: 12/23/2006 12:47:35 AM
or you can use reign in a intransitive verb form for example: control the conversation (reign the converstation) signed your friendly grammar check.... ooops i meant chick ps: do most guys prefer straight or curly hair ?

chocolate_craze

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Sorry..Have to ask... Posted: 12/23/2006 12:31:38 AM
ok.. so we like to experiment.. some women like to try different stuff .. some don't.. it is something that just is.. like guys standing to pee.. it just is ...we don't rack our brains why day and night... if this is an issue in a relationship... have his and her counter space or bathrooms ... there u go problem solved.. i don't know about the towel situation.. best of luck with that.. maybe .. just maybe ikea will come up with a color co-ordination sequence of what towels to touch or not to touch.. that way everyone knows.. oh.. i do love ikea.. is that normal ? yes.. yes it is ..

chocolate_craze

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How long is long enough before you question.... Posted: 12/22/2006 11:46:55 PM
relax .... you are 18 .. don't confuse love and lust... you got tons more growing to do physically, mentally and emotionally... wait till you hit the clubs... there is a lot of drunken loving to be found..

chocolate_craze

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So ladies how does it make you feel wearing that little black dress? Is it fair for the others? Posted: 12/22/2006 11:38:01 PM
ok.. all is fair in love and war... i can wear a little black dress .. other ladies can wear a little black dress... or go in their underwear .... don't really care

chocolate_craze

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How much make up is TOO MUCH?? Posted: 12/22/2006 11:31:26 PM
when u go to bed with a woman and in the morning she does not look like the woman you went to bed with... yup major clue.. way too much make up.. hence i recommend tan-ish sheets.. her makeup will just blend in.. and won't ruin your sheets ha ha

chocolate_craze

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why punk guy at work with? Posted: 12/22/2006 1:41:06 AM
ok take a breathe... ok take several.. calm down.. when you are anger you make more mistakes.. and that is apparent through ur post.. i am so confused of what you are asking.. all i can say is.. step back from the situation.. and really figure out what or why it is happening.. hope that helps

chocolate_craze

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Whats the most affectionate gesture you can think of? Posted: 12/22/2006 1:07:12 AM
keep it simple.. compliment her but be genuine.. something.. you truly enjoy about her.. that makes her attractive to you don't go for the generic " you are beautiful.. sexy.. blah blah" For example.. i was LOL to a joke.. and then the guy turned to me and said.. I love the way you laugh.. and i knew he was been sincere.. oh lordy.. that was my undoing.. ha ha hope that helps

chocolate_craze

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Who Do I Believe Posted: 12/20/2006 11:02:47 PM
look... the right woman might come along or not.. u got a 50/50 chance.. deal with it.. accept it.. honestly ..... just have confidence in yourself and stop constantly listening to what other people have to say... because you might miss the opportunity to meet the one.. so trust your instincts they are your best guide best of luck... PS: don't listen to anything I said..ha ha

chocolate_craze

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the one that got away is moving back to town - how do i break it to the current Posted: 12/20/2006 10:45:25 PM
oh lordy... tough situation.. been there done that... just tell her this relationship is not going to work.. she is going to hate you, be mad, be upset .. but she does not deserved to be strung along.. let her find her one... and do it soon before she gets even more emotionally involved time will pass.. (a lot of time will pass) before she will understand your reason.... and even if the "one" is not interested anymore.. break it off.... it is not fair for her to be your "for the time been" girl.. hope that helps

chocolate_craze

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Asking a friend out... Posted: 12/19/2006 2:48:15 PM
ha ha "cuddle b*tch" that is hilarious and partially true.. anyhow.. i recommend alcohol aka " truth serum" it tends to do the trick most of the times.. say what u want to say .. she will say what she wants to say.. it does not work out blame it on the alcohol ta da

chocolate_craze

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Arrogance vs Simple and Keep it Real Types Posted: 12/14/2006 1:11:04 AM
I go for Option C and thats my final answer: Average job keeping it real and has money... honestly ... reality check.. those parameters i just feel are such stereotypes.. there are so many factors involved in choosing a guy....

chocolate_craze

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Friendship Posted: 12/14/2006 12:57:13 AM
There are golden ships There are silver ships But the best ships are FRIENDSHIPS ha ha i thought it was cute

chocolate_craze

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Dating Posted: 12/14/2006 12:38:47 AM
yes.. for some in their 20s to live with their parents while they go to college is conceivable.. and completely understandable because of economical reasons.. things turn sour.. when the person is 40 and still living with his/her parents laterzz d

chocolate_craze

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Why don't you close your coat? Posted: 12/12/2006 11:44:26 PM
honestly ... maybe they got a nice top on we women want to show it off.. number one reason they want to show off their assests .. the more their assests hang out the more open the coat gets so.. don't worry be happy man.. don't analyze why the coat is open.. just enjoy assests.. ha ha laterzz

chocolate_craze

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she stoped and told me that my car is crappy and would not be seen in it Posted: 12/12/2006 11:29:39 PM
that is a funny story.. i am sorry i was trying hard not to laugh at your situation... but the part i find hilarous.. is she insults your car and in turn she is insulting you... and you are upset she did not return your calls see see.. the crazy things we do for some loving ha ha take care

chocolate_craze

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What's more attracting Posted: 12/12/2006 11:21:39 PM
a guy who talks... has an idea or thought to express but if he is constantly talking about himself or degrading others i think he can just shut up because i think the world will just be a better place.... ha ha

chocolate_craze

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PLENTYOFFISH VEGAS WEDDING... LIVE!!! Posted: 12/12/2006 11:13:36 PM
hey just wanted to wish you all the luck and happiness in the world... and a big congratulations.. thanks for sharing your wedding with us hope you guys have a great time.. have a drink.. ok wait.. who am i kidding have tons of drinks.. congrats

chocolate_craze

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Irregular periods Posted: 12/12/2006 10:58:28 PM
hey there Okay the general cycle for women is 28 days. The first day of the menstrual bleeding is considered the beginning of the cycle. Remember all women are different so some might have regular periods and some irregular. So i recommend keeping track of the first day and how long. This will give you a good idea when to expect your period; however, don't let it be your complete judge. Sometimes your period might come a week before or after it just depends on the balance of your hormones. For example: i have a friend who gets a period after every 2-3 months... so let me stress every women is different... I would recommend considering going on the pill. It does not hurt to take the precaution because it will help regulate your period and just incase you guys decide to have sex you are covered. As for the pregnancy part: if u did get pregnant your body will release a hormone called hCG 8 days after the ovum (egg) is fertilized (egg + sperm) You can do a pregnancy test within about 2 weeks. If you want confidentially I recommend going to a plan parenthood clinic or your doctor they can do a pregnancy test and give the results to u in 5 mins. Also, there is Plan B the morning after pill effective if taken within 72 hours. One thing i would really like to recommend is talk to your doctor or find out what resources are available regarding sexual options in your community. The internet can be a great resource but confusing and sometimes containing false information. If you want a reliable source here is a link http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menstruation some stuff might be hard to understand; however, it gives good information. hope this helps

chocolate_craze

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Because I cant drive will women or a woman still want to date me. Posted: 12/9/2006 8:51:02 PM
Unfortunately there is kind of a stigma of been a bum attached to losing your driver's license because most cases are due to drunk or reckless driving ... however.. if you explain you unique situation if she does not understand.. forget about it .. the ride won’t be fun anyway…

chocolate_craze

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A quick question... Posted: 12/9/2006 8:35:48 PM
bartender... Alcohol.. gives us ladies 10 times the confidence..

chocolate_craze

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Why does sex complicate things? Posted: 12/1/2006 11:09:45 AM
Plain and simple "casual sex or friends w/ benefits" is an oxymoron for some women.. .well most women that I know.. Women's emotions gets involved and hopes rise. I have seen some of my friends devastated by the "friends with benefits" idea because they believe it could eventually turn into a relationship. It was so hard for them to see the guy get into a relationship with someone else, which eventually led to ruined friendships. Also, not only does your friendship gets ruined this affects your circle of friends and it is just plain awkard for everyone. laterzz

chocolate_craze

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Bulimia nervosa Posted: 11/30/2006 11:17:39 AM
ok.. i can totally help answer your questions.. i just finished writing a 15 page paper on eating disorders... I will try to keep it short .. ha ha Yes... media plays has huge impact on eating disorders... why is it more prevalent in western cultures because... we are more bombarded by this culture of thinness.. however.. we are starting to see a rise in ED (eating disorders) in other cultures and countries. For example World Health Organization (WHO) study: "A study conducted in Fiji, which examined the effect of the introduction of television on eating behaviour in a formerly media-naïve population, has produced some very interesting findings (Becker et al.; 2002). The study reported parallel increases in the rate of disordered eating behaviours and in attitudes favouring thinner body image and self-induced vomiting in young girls" http://www.who.int/gender/documents/MentalHealthlast2.pdf Other reasons for eating disorders are genetics, fear of lack of acceptance, lack of power, low self-esteem, or lack of control. Women may feel a lack of control in their lives, so they turn it inwards towards themselves and try to regain control of their lives by controlling their body. Women still face inequality in the work force... “Professional beauty qualification- is being extremely widely institutionalized as a condition for women’s hiring and promotion” by Naomi Wolf. She is just saying if women want to achieve any success in their life such as in the work force she needs to be beautiful according to media’s standards. Naomi Wolf, a feminist perspective, introduced an interesting view through her book called “Beauty Myth”. She introduces the idea that media is a tool men use to control the power of women. For example, after World War II lot of men wanted their jobs back that women held during the war. So there was an increase push for TV commercials and magazines portraying women as dutiful housewives. Resulting in two million women in America and 1 million women in Britain quitting or been fired. During the 1970, when there was a huge influx of women into the workforce and their power was increasing. Then the there was the introduction of the new ‘it’ girl the skinny model Twiggy. If you can get access to this article it would be great because it explains how women feel suffering from bulimia and the pressures they faced. Broussard, B.B.( 2005). Women’s experiences of bulimia nervosa. Journal of Advanced Nursing, 49(1), 43-50. Retrieved November 19, 2006, from CINHAL. Ok.. I was trying to keep it short.. ok i will stop now.. I hope this helps. Take care D

chocolate_craze

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guys with glasses.....yay or nay Posted: 11/30/2006 10:18:33 AM
yay yay... my first crush was a guy with glasses ... and then i wanted them tooo.. ha ha anyhew... yea i do love guys with glasses .. however.. it really should suit them.. laterzz

chocolate_craze

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You decide what happens.... Posted: 10/22/2006 6:56:28 PM
Well if she not a member and not yet seen this post ... Then .. don't tell her.. You tell people about their bad behaviour because you want them to change, but you are not going to be in this relationship, so why bother?? Even if you clearly identify all her issues.. it is really her who needs to recognize them as issues... and if she does not want to change.. no matter what u say will not make a difference.. So.. be the a$$ in a round about way you are been a nice guy ... because it is easier to get over an a$$... and don't worry I am sure at some point she was beating up on herself as to what she did wrong.. hope that helps d

chocolate_craze

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Do you like to talk first, or meet right away? Posted: 10/22/2006 6:20:51 PM
I say talk away.. I don't think there should be a limit to how many times we chat through e-mails or messenger... I think the situation varies and let the flow of the conversation dictate whether one should meet right away or wait awhile. So, in 5 e-mails you get to know someone and want to meet them great.. if it is 10 e-mails later that is great too. Summary: depends on situation to situation, build a rapport and hopefully it all helps to decrease some of the awkwardness of the first date... because we all know how awkward those things can be.. ha ha luck d

chocolate_craze

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Glasses? do you think it makes men less sexy Posted: 10/21/2006 6:41:42 PM
no i don't think glasses make a guy less sexy.. i love guys with glasses.. my first crush was a guy with glasses.. however.. the type of glasses does matter.. something more stylish and suits your face... For example: Bubbles from Trailer Park Boys .. stay away from his type of glasses.. ha ha best of luck d

chocolate_craze

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Why do women say...? Posted: 3/13/2006 6:37:46 PM
wow.. you do sound kind of bitter..best of luck w/ that .. i have been in that rut... sucky times.. as for the sensitive thing .. i don't think it makes a person weak... but the issue here is "how sensitive" the guy is been.. kind of indicates signs of self esteem issues. laterzz best of luck finding that one = )

chocolate_craze

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Cuddle Buddies vs. Friends w/ Benefits... M & F comments pls Posted: 3/13/2006 6:17:10 PM
hmmmmm cuddle buddies interesting concept.. how would you broach the subject ? Would there certain boundaries to this "cuddle buddy" relationship ? Did you know in new york they actually have cuddle parties ? People dress up in pjs and cuddle... laterzz

chocolate_craze

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putting all his eggs in one basket.... Posted: 2/27/2006 6:14:43 PM
my thoughts... sometimes there is this bang explosive attraction when you meet a certain someone and one wants to spend 24-7 of his/her time with that person. in this case, the girl sounds like she has a semi attraction or some kind of interest, hence she is able to be some what distant in the "relationship". So, she is manipulating this situation to see if it is worth an actual relationship or just keep him around and hope for better "fishes" as for the guy...he seems to have a genuine attraction for her and is basically wearing his heart on his sleeve... maybe .. you can bring it up casually how he feels things are going with her ? or how does he feel about the limited time she spends with him ? If the advice thing is not working ask him questions that will get him thinking.. .. so indirectly you are kind of giving advice... hopeful in time she accepts his efforts or he ends up getting hurt... just got to see how the dice rolls

chocolate_craze

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Bunch of flowers on your porch Posted: 2/19/2006 5:29:43 PM
hey... so why are people afraid of flowers been left on their porch.... basically fear of the unknown.. there are so many stories of stalkers and sexual assualts etc etc.. .. yes.. they can call the police if they are scared.. but if the police don't know who the person is how much help can they be.. and did u introduce yourself be4 sending the flowers ??? maybe that would make more sense..and the female would feel safer.. Finally.. there are sexual predators who love to taunt their victims in different ways.. mentally and emotionally ... so it does not always have to be physical.. i am sure your intentions were good... but those good intentions got lost in translation basically because you saw the suitation one way... other people or the female saw it another way.. hope this helps

chocolate_craze

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how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand? Posted: 2/9/2006 7:57:48 PM
I totally know what you mean... and they say it is hard to understand women.. There are two ways this is going to go: Option 1: he is playing hard to get because he believes if he plays hard to get you might want him more Option 2: "he is just not that into you" and is just playing this silly game of cat and mouse so he can keep his options open while he dates other women. as for the relationship or one night stand question ... you just got to ask him out front what he wants ... but the most important thing is WHAT DO YOU WANT !!! hope this helps

chocolate_craze

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A good cold remedy Posted: 1/10/2006 11:06:23 PM
BRANDY BRANDY BRANDY !!! ha ha orange juice.. green tea decrease stress.. i heard Cold Fx is really good in prevention ... just heard in the news that OTC don't work and you should try anti-histamines to dry up the secretions that are causing upper respiratory irritation..stops coughs hope it helps

chocolate_craze

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guys that cook... turn on or off? Posted: 1/10/2006 8:27:05 PM
A guy that can cook.. that scores.. million brownie points in my book.. since i can burn water.. ha ha as for chocolate chips.. hmmm anything with chocolate you can never go wrong.. happy cooking

chocolate_craze

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Plz help.What do I do?? Posted: 1/10/2006 12:38:08 AM
HA HA ... oh my gosh.. reading everyone's postings made me laugh my head off.. this was a great circus show + some jerry springer mixed in one.. ok down to the matter at hand: this is the first time i have ever heard a mother supporting her daughter to date someone who has been to jail and does drugs.. WONDERFUL !!! wow..the mom really has high hopes for her daughter.. hey if that is the way the world turns for you guys... so be it.. The part that makes me laugh the most is the reason for the break up... he moved 15 mintues away.... wow. .that really makes it a long distance relationship... Wake up girl... why are u settling for someone who breaks up with you because he moved 15 mintues away.. so he is saying you are not worth travelling 15 minutes to see because if he really wanted to spend time with you he would make time. and does he say he loves or misses you only when he is high ? then it does not count look finally the decision is yours ... and you think he is the one for you.. then i wish u all the luck in the world b/c i think you need it.. cheers

chocolate_craze

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Cheating- can you forgive? Posted: 1/9/2006 11:25:14 PM
can i forgive someone for cheating on me... HELL NO.. if someone cheats on me it shows me that the person does not respect me .. and does not realize what i am worth.. so why waste my time !!!!!!!!!!!! Also, it makes me wonder if that person has cheated on me : Am I the one for him or is he just keeping me around till he finds someone better..? so, what a sucky deal that would be.. so cutout the cheating loser from your life ..... and go fishing again ...

chocolate_craze

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favorite pick up lines Posted: 1/3/2006 8:43:00 PM
Go up to a girl, ask her: "Do you know what winks and screws like a tiger?" She says no. Then wink. Was you father an alien? Because there's nothing else like you on earth! Man /Woman: take ice from a drink, drop it on the ground and crush it " Now, since i broken the ice.. Hi my name is _____

chocolate_craze

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How do you get up after rejection? Posted: 1/2/2006 4:30:27 PM
Rejection .. sucks big time.. "he's just not that into you" it is the simple fact.. sorries it hurts.. but it is a good thing it ended this way.. y get into a relationship and then find that out then it hurts worse... i know i have been there.. as for the second question.. : been a slut ? what are u going to accomplish with that.. you are just asking to get hurt.. unfornately there are jerks out there.. don't waste your time settling or compromising for bad relationships .. you are just loosing out on time to find that good guy... read the book "he's just not that into you" by greg behrendt.. it was a real eye opener.. hope that helps.. hope for better days

chocolate_craze

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Give it up already... Posted: 12/8/2005 1:53:57 PM
curious question : if u are not pursuing the girl .. then y are u still harping on the subject ? do u feel guilty ? [/ I have a few other female friends that I have been thinking about hooking up with, but I don't know if want to go that route again. It was a just a big headache.] apparently u.. haven't learnt your lesson from the first time.. go ahead then.. take some tylenol for the headaches to follow.

chocolate_craze

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32 yr old and a 19 yr old can this work??? Posted: 12/8/2005 1:43:21 PM
Honestly: you have said ur peace.. .now let him and his 19 yr old gf figure out the rest. no matter how much advise you give.. ..really finally it comes down to his decision maybe the better way to go is stop w/ the advise and discuss his concerns without any judgment. furthermore, [knowing him and how he is trust/honest is not in his dictionary]... isn't " trust/honesty" supposed to be part of a relationship.... ? what a sucky deal for the 19 year old then..

chocolate_craze

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If you had to name one single attribute in a mate what would it be? Posted: 12/8/2005 11:01:44 AM
Sense of Humor: that makes me laugh, ease my fears, or make me feel good about myself

chocolate_craze

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Give it up already... Posted: 12/7/2005 10:50:38 AM
Here it is plain and simple.. For most women: Causal Sex is an Oxymoron. Sure it starts out causal sex and then emotions just get involved.. thats just how it is.. for women... and it sounds like she already has feelings for you... and i been in a similar situation.. and trust me the girl comes out of it feeling like crap any way you try to twist the situation.. honestly if u don't want a relationship with her leave her alone.. let her find someone who is going to make her feel she is WORTH IT !!

chocolate_craze

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My Favourite Quotes. Posted: 12/3/2005 6:56:34 PM
My Favourite Quote of the Month: "Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake a whole relationship." by Sharon Stone

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