Besides, "Stud", tell me what names a man is called when acting like a man regarding sex.

Really ,I thought it would be this one:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEmJ-VWPDM4

I think Mastery is part of it, but there is so much more...it is simply who someone is...we wear our lives now...the smile lines, the thought wrinkles...our eyes have a depth to them, it is a complete different ballgame than before, the mental challenges two people can have with so much life experience between them means to me an opportunity to conquer the world together!

wait--i'll take the banana
you can have the split

Just what was it again, that makes someone over 45 (or 50 in this case) so sexy and hot?

If the banana "floats your boat" LOL

I really like how you verbalized that Hearttune, unlike some others who "pre-plan" and have written the script, I can relate more to feeling swept down the river, without pre-planning... yet knowing there's a choice, going with the flow... you described that feeling very well.

whew! Sounds like one mighty powerful "relationship"--yipes

...Took your advice, just spotted a little something just perfect for the holiday season....

....I thought things were about to change for me....my horoscope said that November was going to be a special month for romance...so I went out and bought some sexy new underwear....just in case. I later discovered I was reading a magazine from 2002.

...Hmmm, that's interesting. So tell me, what sorts of things inspire you and how far is Tacoma?

I certainly wasn't commenting on you specifically when I made my last post.
But, if you don't want people to know your business, or comment on it, perhaps you should just quit posting it on a public forum.

There may very well be a reason he's living with his ex.
But, perhaps these people, who still live with their exes, should take care of these reasons, before they start seeking relationships with new people.

IMO it's pretty easy to spot the separated people who really are emotionally together, dealing with the separation well, and genuinely ready for something new. There just aren't a whole lot of 'em.

There is baggage and there is history, we aren't talking about history when the divorce hasn't taken place and they are still doing things as a married couple. The marriage hasn't ended period.

I rather thought the purpose of going out was to get to know someone...

I know when I meet a person if they are a fit for me and women know the same. I get maybe one in ten that I actually get a second date with so I want the nine of you out of the way so I can get number ten and see if there is something there. We are not trying to be jerks although I'm sure some guys want to see how fast they can get laid but I want to get to the one there is a chance with. I am not getting any younger or better looking so I am driven to find what I want and I am not letting a time waster stand in my way.

This still is baggage. Though there is sound reasoning behind such baggage, it is still there.

Yeah you know where some people's priorities are when they start with a laundry list of why they aren't divorced. The bottom line is they aren't ready to be divorced, they have way too much baggage!

I am so sick of all these silly do this, don't do that, say this, but never say that. FFS, it's simple human interactions, not splitting the damn atom. PFT.

My life is not revolving around dating, and there are other things going on in my life.

On Men:
I suppose if the man is naturally hairless on his legs and torso, shaving pubs could be okay, but men... if you have hair everywhere, it makes you look strange to have one Bald area on your body. The penis is already a ridiculous enough looking appendage without doing that sort of thing to the poor thing.

The best thing about being over 50 and single...I have the chance to met that special someone and the knowledge of all my prior mistakes and lifes experiences to make sure that the life we will have together will be a good long happy one!

The most casual sex I've ever had is with myself,,,

I think that is what most men feel too...they dont want a woman who feels she gotta...they want a woman who wannas....they want someone who finds them attractive and wants to with them, not with everyone.

Not saying that all the guys who are out there arent old horn dogs ...they still exist along with the women who find that sorta of man attractive....the online world is so big that it is easy to get lost in it and think that only sort of person exist...but it is just that one type that is open to self promotion...ie the horn dog old men and the women who have no desire to have sex again...the rest of us get to watch the fireworks when they meet.

I am so very sorry to hear that.

I can only respond to the above as follows.. At our age their will be some rough roads ahead.. Our bodies will eventually breakdown and will unfortunately fail us in time. You will know who truly loves you by those that gather round your bedside to say their last goodbyes.. Because those bonds of understanding and trust and affection are forged and are not dependent on if you have sex or not.

One last thing to think about is why the most casual sex you have had in the past was in longer term relationships.. So where do you go from there keep it short and sweet so as not to repeat the beat?

Now if you're dating better... wouldn't that mean he is dating below?

There are those women though that find it very important to be a stay at home mom and wife. I can understand this very easily as well, as I had two children. With the way the world is today and the knowledge our children need to have. Parents need to be a MAJOR role player in their lives. In this case, yes it would be very important that a man make enough money to support the family.