can't believe that Pitbull Pete didn't have anything nasty to say. lol
I saw on the Today show last week, that at least 30% of men in their 50's have this problem. The 40 age group is around 25%. Suprisingly enough for the men in their 70's it went down to 20%. I don't get that.
Anyway, the thing for us women then would be to date younger men, and not men our age.
This makes it (in my eyes) for the 50 and up men, to get a grip and stop chasing the 35 yr old women

guess Im kinda intrigued about mixed-race dating, because I am currently becoming involved in a relationship with a guy who is a different religion and race to me :)

I don't know so much about other women. All of my RL friends are married and have been forever. I know one woman, late 40's, who is single and dates, and she says she is fine without a close relationship and is okay with sex just for sex, but I think, given the choice, she'd prefer a close emotional relationship. Those I meet online also want a close emotional relationship, as do I.

Not everybody is comfortable having sex right away. Some actually want to get to know the other person first before they are intimate with them.

Several girlfriends would make that comment about me, but use "Butterfly" when I'd suddenly skew off topic, or get up to get something mid sentence, or burst out with a story in the middle of sex...

Well...I have no worries. I have (by will) been celibate for seven years!

People ask me "how in the hell do you manage that?"

I just tell them...."the pleasure of sex for you is the same pleasure of no sex for me."

I've been waiting almost 8 years.
I can do 6 months standing on my freakin' head!

yes. We met in January of this year. sigh... it seemed so perfect, as i have dated ALOT of men. He was the only one that I thought was the complete package. Ugh! I plan on seeing him tonite. I think I should just tell him, I want to see other people, and move on.

I got to watch my ex wife abuse my chidlren hurt them, drug them, use them to sell drugs. Every time I made a complaint, I got the same response.
The kids belong with their mother. She's better equipped to raise them. Don't fight it, don't waste your money, no judge is going to give the kids to a man.

you know i wasnt gonna reply to this post. but between ur yesterday and todays post i had to say somethin. no wonder you are single . you are being too anal about little things. guess what I didn't do the compatibility test that is offered here even though i want a serious relationship ,,,, does that mean im lying or not serious ??? MAYBE. give it a try and find out for urself if those gys are lying or not .

don't let any one fool ya and we all know the good old test. don't sleep with him until u r sure about things .

live a little

Put extra lip gloss, give him a bj and ask him again what he things of lip gloss.

They are both selfish and greedy...and letting money control their lives...and putting that before their children...I think they should ban this show on moral grounds...Kate is verbally abusive to her husband, and I cannot believe that the American people are much more interested in the lives of this family than watching their own...it sickens me too...shows like these should not be allowed...its only exploiting the children.....and to think the kids may one day watch the episodes and see for real what a circus their parents turned their family into...

I think I have reached the pinnacle of willing to settle for less than I want. The reason is that I yearn for human touch and voice more than my relationship requirements. Nearly everyone who writes me in my area is severely illiterate.