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MarshW

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 23 (view)

when a man meets a woman !!!!!! Posted: 8/1/2009 8:01:04 AM
when a man meets a woman here and they chat, exchange phone numbers and enjoy each other "company", then how would you ladies know that this person maybe right for you ? how do you decide that he's worthy of your love ? and when do you start "suggesting" that you maybe in love with him ? do you wait till he says something first ? maybe he's waiting too ? or do you still wait to meet face to face ? Wha? You went through all that and you still haven't met?!?!? Slap yourself! If you haven't met face to face within 2 weeks of first contact, it ain't gonna work! You can actually buy "Girlfriend" software that will interact with you as though it were a real person. There's a relationship you can have for years or decades without ever meeting. If you're spending weeks or months online with people, this is probably something you should consider because dating is all about face-to-face. MEETING IN PERSON should be your primary objective in every interaction, because IN PERSON is the only way you'll ever REALLY get to know them.

MarshW

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

Should I tell her? Posted: 8/1/2009 7:45:47 AM
...I want to tell her how I feel. Where do you people come up with this? What do you think telling her how you feel is going to get you? A guy can SAY anything and she may or may not believe you. One thing is for sure, when it comes to SAYING things to a woman (especially heavy stuff like this) most guys don't SAY the right thing and it backfires! SHOW her something and that MAY cause a response. No matter what her decision is on how to take it. I want to tell her I will always be there for her... Be where? On the other side of the planet? If you're more than 50 miles away, you might as well be on a different continent. Let's back up. What exactly do you mean when you say you've "been talking to her?" Is this someone you've actually met, or have you really been emailing? If you've been emailing, it doesn't matter if your next door or on the moon. If this is someone you have live human contact with, then of course, tell her. If you want to REALLY tell her something, tell her this... I'm moving to Atlanta and I want you to come with me!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Nurses Oh them Nurses Posted: 11/22/2007 1:34:47 AM
I've had three nurses and they were not particularly remarkable in any way. Two of them were the worst kissers ever. Sounds like your standards are pretty low.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 49 (view)

He can't make me 'come' Posted: 11/22/2007 1:32:25 AM
Have you attempted to guide him? Is he using his mouth? Is he using it properly? Only you know what you need. Are you letting him know? He may have a lack of skills, but the possibility exists that you are not letting him know what you need. If that's the problem, it will follow you forever...or until you find someone who has skills and you don't have to tell him what you need...of course a guy like that may have 4 other girlfriends and the one with the best communication and other skills is the one who will get to keep him.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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The M spot? Posted: 11/22/2007 1:22:18 AM
M spot? Sounds like she wants anal. Hard deep and long!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 54 (view)

My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch. Posted: 11/22/2007 1:19:04 AM
I think i might just give up on sex all together, If i can no longer depend on the "hammer" then all is lost. Yes! Definitely! Give it up completely! If you reach a point when you think you need glasses, pluck your eyes out. If you begin to lose your strength, just kill yourself. Great ideas!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 187 (view)

How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 11/22/2007 1:15:03 AM
All men can if they are worked on by a sufficiently talented co*ksucker. Most women aren't very good at it, but the possiblitiy also exists that you're gay and only a man can get you there. You'll have to explore it fo yourself.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Dating after Marrige Posted: 11/22/2007 1:11:11 AM
Just think...if you had continued to date your wife during your marriage, you might still be together. Go to doubleyourdating.com and sign up for the free newsletter.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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saying those three little words while having..... Posted: 11/22/2007 1:07:48 AM
I would take your anal cherry over it...assuming you still have one.

marshw

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Msg: 100 (view)

Slut vs. Sex life vs. Player Posted: 11/22/2007 1:04:05 AM
If she bangs 2-8 different guys a week...she's a slut. If she bangs most of the guys shes attracted to; wants to build a relationship and just can't find the right fit...that's not such a big deal.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 119 (view)

how long would you like to talk online before meeting in person Posted: 11/22/2007 12:59:18 AM
If the answer to this question is any longer than 2 weeks...YOU NEED THERAPY!!!!! 1. Make contact. 2. Email TWO OR THREE TIMES! 3. Talk on the phone (two or three times at most) 4. MEET! If you do anything else, you're nothing but a game playing chickenshit!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 129 (view)

What to say to a guy if you want to wait? Posted: 11/22/2007 12:52:02 AM
The last gal that said that to me practically raped me 6 days later. Who are you trying to kid? Yourself apparently.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

is there life after a 1 night stand? Posted: 11/22/2007 12:42:09 AM
If it was a one night stand, it's over. If it was just sex on the first date, no problem! Was it good sex? It might work out. Go for it!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 360 (view)

serious message: Posted: 11/22/2007 12:39:56 AM
Uh, what was the question?

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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so sick and tired of Posted: 11/22/2007 12:38:51 AM
I'm going to edit my profile to include the ketwords you specified right away, because you're just too damn wierd. And if you're too wierd for me, youre REALLY too wierd!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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No feelings for ex. Is that normal? Posted: 11/22/2007 12:36:06 AM
I have no feelings for my ex whatsoever.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 195 (view)

Female Circumcision, Right or Wrong? Posted: 10/30/2007 9:16:41 PM
Sadly, what is commonly referred to as "Female Circumcision" is a horrible mutilation/destruction of the clitoris. It is a crime against nature and anyone who performs it should be killed. There are rare circumstances where a woman's clitoral hood prevents her form achieving clitoral orgasm. In those cases I think it would be acceptable to trim back the hood to allow for more direct stimulation...if she chooses.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 36 (view)

Do men like it in the morning? Posted: 10/30/2007 9:07:10 PM
If I woke up in bed with you, I'm POSITIVE that I would want to have sex with you! Even if the night before was a marathon session...as I'm sure it would have been...and even if I'd rubbed myself raw doin' you. I'd do you till I was alomst bleeding you're so hot. In answer to your question, YES!!!! IT WAS YOU!!! You're just too damn hot for your own good! Live with it babe. Either that or break out the cake frosting and start packing on the pounds. That'll shut a lot of guys down.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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do men view womens bodies the same women do? Posted: 10/30/2007 8:56:20 PM
If you're too heavy for me to stand from a sitting position with you in my arms, you're too heavy for me. I work out so that means about 150#. It's sad sometimes, because a lot of you taller gals are heavier than this and still very attractive. It's a "carry you into the bedroom thing" for me.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Do this or else.... Posted: 10/30/2007 8:44:27 PM
It sounds to me like he's ready! Ready to have sex with her...and ready to dump her if she won't. It's a choice for both. Sounds like she has already made her choice though. She should stop stringing him along or dump him.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 47 (view)

How to when you're on top.... Posted: 10/30/2007 12:21:39 AM
If you can't get the sweet spot to grind the right way to get off, maybe you should consider taking yoga. Get a little nore flexibility.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 370 (view)

women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell Posted: 10/30/2007 12:02:54 AM
Two things happen when a woman achieves orgasm. 1. Her vagina creates a particular type of muscle flexing that almost creates a suction inside. 2. After orgasm, a woman's face and upper chest area will flush pink because of a rush of blood to their upper torso as a result of the release. Look for that pink!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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The myth of doggie style Posted: 10/29/2007 11:58:07 PM
I wouldn't do a gal I was not attracted to. Can't imagine why anyone would.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/29/2007 11:51:24 PM
I am open to meeting new people, dress to impress, and act the part of a gentleman... What am I doing wrong? Based on that statement, I'm thinking you're spending a lot of energy seeking their approval. That pretty effectively makes you look like a wuss...and what woman is attracted to that?

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Grabbing her feet and rubbing your c0ck on it - weird? Posted: 10/29/2007 11:40:16 PM
I have really long toes, I could probably jack someone off with my feet. And you haven't done it yet?

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Grabbing her feet and rubbing your c0ck on it - weird? Posted: 10/29/2007 11:39:11 PM
Sounds pretty tame and normal to me.

marshw

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The hottest ways to touch him... there Posted: 10/29/2007 11:35:18 PM
Uh, what was the question?

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Wrong Vibes? Posted: 10/24/2007 10:26:55 PM
Baby you are the kind of woman who intimidates a lot of men. Not men like me of course, but most guys are total wusses. If I saw a gal like you out and about, I would totally approach you. In fact, if I didn't, my girlfriend would. I showed her your profile and we both think you're hot and totally edible!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 221 (view)

sex on the first date Posted: 10/24/2007 10:22:52 PM
It's lasted a few months from time to time.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 294 (view)

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 10/24/2007 10:21:41 PM
What they say means nothing. What they DO means everything! Only a total whack job wouldn't give or receive oral sex anyway. I mean there's a SCREAM for therapy if I ever heard one.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 161 (view)

Morning Sex vs Evening/Night Sex Posted: 10/24/2007 10:16:54 PM
I haven't been "around" enough to notice. Any sex at this point is greatly appreciated... Yet there have been so many that she doesn't remember them all.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 44 (view)

what's the real fact behind the number of lovers Posted: 10/24/2007 10:13:48 PM
Those numbers are total bullsh*t! Here's a fact! If a woman is in her 40's, her numbers are likely in the DOZENS and quite possibly in the HUNDREDS! Back in the 80s it was totally acceptable to bang 2 or 3 people a week. Do that for 3-5 years and before you know it you're hitting the big 5-0-0! Accept it. That's life.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 52 (view)

Licking underarms - weird fetish? Posted: 10/24/2007 10:05:37 PM
You wait till she showers? Now THAT's wierd!

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 72 (view)

Ultimate Sex Partner Posted: 10/24/2007 10:03:03 PM
If that's what you like, then there's hope for anyone.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Let's Hit Up! Posted: 10/24/2007 10:01:29 PM
People who post no pix are manipulative as*holes. This is the 21st century! If they refuse to show a pic, its a CHOICE! A manipulative choice. No pic=not worth talking to.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 74 (view)

Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person? Posted: 10/24/2007 9:58:07 PM
No! Duh! Great oral sex depends on the skill of the person performing it. It can be enhanced by feelings of love, but if the person doesn't know what the hell they're doing, it's never going to be any good.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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stressed about sex Posted: 10/24/2007 9:55:24 PM
It sounds to me like he's not your boyfriend at all. It sounds like a clear case of two silly people who thought they could have a relationship with someone on the other side of the planet. Do him and cut it loose! You know...like you should have done 6 months ago.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 58 (view)

What is my age range?? Posted: 10/24/2007 9:48:56 PM
I don't know what your's is, but i'm 47 and my range is 30-55. In the end, it's all about what you're looking for and what you're both comfortable with.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

scarification...sexy or not? Posted: 10/24/2007 9:31:55 PM
I like it if its done well.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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c*ck rings Posted: 10/24/2007 9:31:02 PM
I've been using them for years. They're great! The only drawback I know of is after orgasm, I have to take it off pretty soon or it starts to bind a little.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 10/24/2007 9:24:52 PM
Most gals just aren't very good at it. I'd rather pass than have a gal with no skill. Yea Yea Yea. All the gals are going to say there's something wrong with me now. I'll say this. Some gals get me there, most don't. If that's my issue, I accept it. On the other hand, no woman ever said I couldn't get her there. I accept the shuddering, gushing and pink flushed skin as confirmation that they weren't faking it.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 155 (view)

Do men think women women wearing glasses are sexy? Posted: 10/24/2007 9:18:45 PM
I'm sure its all very individual. Personally, I love a gal wearing glasses. It's that whole forbidden repressed librarian thing.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 48 (view)

Lack of PDA - behavior of the age group or not that into you Posted: 10/24/2007 9:07:36 PM
This man is a wuss! A real man has no problem showing affection to a woman he's affectionate with. Any time. Any place.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 82 (view)

Straightforward Women... Posted: 10/24/2007 8:53:44 PM
Sounds to me like you need to find a better class of man.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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improving my performance during sex Posted: 10/24/2007 8:48:29 PM
Whatever you do, DON'T READ COSMO!! Cosmo takes the truth then dumbs it down for sale in Debuque, IA. Take sex ed at your local junior college and ask her what she wants. Finally, when she tells you...DO IT FOR HER!!!! No matter what she asks for in bed, the answer must be YES!!!! As it should be when you ask her for something.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 108 (view)

Noise, grunts and sex, why? Posted: 10/24/2007 8:41:25 PM
If your Cordon Bleu was worth a sh*t (and paired with the right wine), you would both be moaning and masticating all evening long! If you're really FEELING it, those noises come naturally.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 106 (view)

Stirring the pot: Should a guy have to pay on a date all the time? Posted: 10/24/2007 8:37:42 PM
Whoever issues the invitation pays for the date. If she never invites you anywhere, you would do well to find someone else.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

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Rohypnol isnt all its cracked up to be Posted: 10/24/2007 8:36:03 PM
Do you think that's funny?

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 58 (view)

Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people? Posted: 10/24/2007 8:33:53 PM
Yes! Duh!!!! On the bright side, it's no worse than intimate emails, love letters or phone sex.

marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005

Msg: 32 (view)

How do I drive him wild in bed? Posted: 10/24/2007 8:31:58 PM
If you don't know what to do by now, there's no hope for you. Try doing whatever he asks you to do. He should be willing to do the same for you.

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