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englishmanbill

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My sister's husband had an affair, now the mistress is pregnant..... Posted: 11/4/2008 8:20:15 PM
I wonder what she did, or did not do, to make him seek out a mistress. One thing you might do is to find out - by asking each of them. I think that sometimes ex-husbands feel that their wives are "****es" and usually have several examples. If you think he is right, you should tell her - in a nice way.

englishmanbill

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Guys is this true??? Posted: 10/24/2008 8:15:30 AM
It depends on what the guy wants. The more exclusivity he wants, the less he will welcome your children. But if he sees himself as fitting into a family, he will find great satisfaction in being with them and you. There were no general rules except that (1) men will select themselves into whether they will pursue you - it difficult to influence; and (2) it's not common, but watch out for perverts who seem perfect but wind up spending much too much time alone with your son or daughter

englishmanbill

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Behaviors of men Posted: 10/24/2008 7:31:50 AM
In a way it doesn't matter why. It is not satisfy what you want out of a loving relationship, and thus is not suitable for you. Can you bear that?

englishmanbill

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My attempt at love Posted: 10/24/2008 7:26:40 AM
I agree that falling in lovedoes definitely have a relationto the culture. Other cultures do not necessary think that "Love solves all" - but the American culture seems to inculcate that it does. But it doesn't and it is hard work. Good luck and please remember it is much easier to get you heart broken when one is younger because one is more idealist.

englishmanbill

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her parents Posted: 10/24/2008 7:14:37 AM
Elopement is more easily done when you have money or a saleable skill. The advent of grandchildren frequently brings grudging acceptance of the "under-appreciated" spouse. But Parents like this will usually not change their minds until grandchildren, and it causes great sadness for all involved

englishmanbill

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Why Is it you do everything for a woman and then you get thrown to the curb like a piece of trash? Posted: 7/13/2008 6:03:29 PM
Perhaps you are picking them wrong. Some women feel a great satisfaction in making men sad or putting men down [you can gues the psychlogical reasons behind that.] and some of these women are attractive and genuinely hope that "the next guy will be the right guy." Of course he's not, so goodbye. These attractive but difficult girls are often sexually very aggressive, they may lack charm but you can always sell sex. So she make herself very available to you, and be wonderful and cheerful, and just the kind of gal you could easily fall in love with. One test is how soon (i.e.quickly) does she become angry and about what? If its often and over minor things, you have the potential for problems.

englishmanbill

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What is Going On These days With MEN??? Posted: 7/13/2008 5:39:18 PM
It seems that women are more competitive these days. If the lady lives a long way from the man she should try driving the entire distance 3 or 4 times. If she still loves him there is a habit formed. If she doesn't love him that much she should say goodbye.

englishmanbill

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Image Problems
Posted: 7/9/2008 2:36:04 PM

I have a perfectly good photo which meets all the criteria. In trying to put in a second picture I accidently erased the first and best picture and I can not now load any picture. I would be greatful for your advice.

englishmanbill

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Having sex too early... Posted: 6/12/2008 4:31:13 PM
One of the best dates I ever had told me - in reponse to my question : " I'like to see you again......" "I'm coming over the your house next weekend to have sexwith you That was my second Wife, and a damn fine choice if I do say so. PS I suppose you could have it to late - as in au revoir

englishmanbill

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dating someone you're not attracted to Posted: 6/12/2008 4:20:50 PM
If I have , they have been only first dates.

englishmanbill

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I've found someone through here woo hoooooo Posted: 6/4/2008 9:55:57 AM
Kadies: Congratulatiomns and good luck to both of you. Bill Williamsj

englishmanbill

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Orgasmic breasts Posted: 5/26/2008 2:16:45 PM
Yes. A woman I dated had this very preference.

englishmanbill

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did i mess up? Posted: 5/26/2008 9:12:56 AM
Your expectations exceeded reality. Example: "I hinted that it would be nice to see him a bit more and he replied with the commitment linenswer: "It would be nice to see him a bit more" sounds to me like "I want a deeper relationship." [Could marriage be far off?] Or "...that's all I ever wanted. a bit of fun." OK you are having fun with him once in a while, but that small amount of time is not enough for you. Suggestion: Date other guys. Find someone whose idea of love is similar to your own. This guy ain't it.

englishmanbill

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what is up with this girl? Posted: 5/26/2008 9:01:24 AM
She wants you to take her places and buy her things, and you have misinterpreted as a romantic interest. Suggestion: Find a girl who really likes you and wants to be with you, and is not just using you.

englishmanbill

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More about death bed wishes. Posted: 5/26/2008 8:54:45 AM
A wealthy man dies and at his funeral his three sons are instructed to put money in the coffin to show how much they loved him and to make sure he gets to heaven. After the funeral the oldest son says "I put in $250,000 in cash." The second son says "I put in $500,000 in cash." The third son says "I got you all beat. I wrote him a cheque for $1,000,000 and since that was the highest amount, I took all the cash"

englishmanbill

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deathbed wishes Posted: 5/26/2008 8:27:57 AM
This joke was told to me by an Irish client, about the Catholic Irish and their distaste for their Anglican brethern. It can be told about any two differing groups. Two old men, Abe and Sol are walking slowly down their Brooklyn street. Sol is worried because his cardiologist has told him that his two recent heart attacks were a very bad sign and a third would probably kill him. As they walk, Sol feels the now familiar pressure on his chest and pain in the left arm. He stops walking, and sits on the sidewalk leaning his back on the wall of a bank. Abe says "Sol, Sol, what is happening with you?" Sol says " I'm having a heart attack. Its my third. I'm going to die." "Sol, what can I do for you?" asks Abe. "Get me a priest," says Sol. "A priest? Why a priest?" asks Abe "Because I'm going to convert." "But why do you want to convert?" "Because I want one of them to die, not one of us."

englishmanbill

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Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you? Posted: 5/25/2008 5:43:57 PM
Funny Girl is right - some men are trainable, just like some women. Some skills just don't come naturally.

englishmanbill

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Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 5/25/2008 5:37:42 PM
Do men expect it? Not necessarily. Many women are very sexy wearing just a wrist watch. But it is a definite plus - a turn on for some/many men and a vote of confidence for your bedroom antics.

englishmanbill

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Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 5/25/2008 5:22:24 PM
THERE ARE SEVERAL WAYS TO LOOK AT THIS. 1. She is not attracted to you but likes the attention. 2. She wonders what its like to get all that attention, and finds it overbearing and needy 3. Many women would rather have more of an equal relationship with a man. 4. She is not attracted to you but can't bring herself to tell you. 5. She isn't attracted to you and, after flowers and that stuff, she tells you so. You can not believe after all that time that she didn't tell you sooner. The word "**** " will creep into this line of thought. 6. Attraction, especially sexual attraction, is an unpredictable thing. It can not be bought. Don't rush out and buy her a lot of things until she makes it clear to you she wants to be physically intimate with you. A famous English womanizer said that his approach was to treat high society ladies as if they were whores, and whores as if they were dowagers. Doubt that would work here. 7. Wait for some signs of reciprocity before spending big money

englishmanbill

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The tennis elbow and the Urine sample. Posted: 5/25/2008 3:14:17 PM
This is a true story invented by a friend of mine. A young MBA type is playing tennis rather vigously when his right elbow starts to hurt. "Ah, its just a tennis elbow - lets take a two minute time out and it will get better" says his tennis friend. Two minutes later it hurts worse. "I'm going to my doctor's office." says our young hero The doctor looks at the elbow very carefully and tenderly and she tells him the following: First, take these Aspirin, then go home and lie down; and for the next twenty four hours we need a Urine Sample. Take this large, brown glass bottle and you pee in it every time you pee. And bring it to my office tomorrow morning." "Doctor," says our hero "Its only a Tennis Elbow - why do I need a Urine Test?" "Well, modern medicine requires it and it may be helpful. I'm serious." He takes the empty urine sample bottle and laughs all the way to his car in the parking lot. On his way home, he stops by his Girl Friends house and explains the situation. "Honey," he explains "tennis elbow...pain ...young doctor.....24 hour urine sample...stupidest thing I ever heard of,. You pee in the bottle..." which she did. When he gets home he explains the whole thing to his wife and tells her that he has already peed in the bottle. "Will you spit in it?" he asks. She does so, laughing. Our young man goes down to the garage and gets the dipstick out from his Corvette and shakes the oil into the bottle. Then he goes upstairs and masterbates into the bottle. At 8:00 am the next day he goes to a paint shop and puts the bottle in the paint shaker machine. He then takes it to his doctor's office, smiling all the way. At about Noon he gets a very worried call from his doctor, at which he laughed, but quietly. His doctor says "I have got some very bad news for you. Are you sitting down?" "Yeah" he says, "Just tell me. "Well," she says you have four basic problems: First, your girl friend is pregnant. Second, your wife has gum disease. Third, your Corvette needs an oil change, and Fourth, if you don't stop masterbating, you are going to ruin that tennis elbow."

englishmanbill

Joined: 5/1/2008

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Jokes, Jokes, Jokes!!!!!! Posted: 5/25/2008 2:35:36 PM
I was sitting in a bar today when a man walked in with his dog The man said the barkeeper "Will you give me a free drink if I can prove this dog can speak?" "Sure," says the genial barkeep trying to hide his laughter. "OK Dog, what is attached to the walls at the top, to keep out the rain?" The dog thinks for a moment and then barks out "ROOF." "Right" says his master. "And what is the consistency of sandpaper?" asks the man. Without pausing the dog barks out "ROUGH." "Right." says his master. "And thirdly, who was the best baseball of all times?" The dog hesitates, thinks, scratches his head, and barks out "RUTH." "No drinks for you or your dog. He's just barking." says the barkeeper as he ushers them out of the front door. "Gee, I'm sorry, Boss. Maybe I should have Hank Aaron," says the dog

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