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Icelanderguy

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What the heck ami doing wrong Any input would be greatly appreciated Posted: 5/6/2009 10:11:39 PM
So hard to read. I didn't even bother to read it.. Try spacing it out. And seperating things a little more. So it's easier to read.

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 5/6/2009 9:55:26 PM
changed my profile up a bit. changed the pic.. what you think.

Icelanderguy

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Best way to deal with young offenders... Posted: 5/5/2009 11:58:54 PM
Yes I agree, The surrounding society of a growing kid. Has changed dramtically. schools, teams, band. Have all influenced on growing kids, that parents can't touch you. And aren't allowed. As soon as kids go into elementary school. Parents lose their respect from their kid, in terms of discipline. Me as a kid. I got spanked a couple times. I knew I broke the rules. Had respect for my parents, and took my punishment. Kids used to respect their parents, and look up to them. Now kids seem to have that can't wait till they in a more powerful position. which turns to fighting back when they old enough. So How is the power put back into the parents hands, to discipline their kid. Have their kid look up, and respect their parents. And not be labeled as a child abuser?

Icelanderguy

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Best way to deal with young offenders... Posted: 5/5/2009 3:15:29 PM
entire thread based on false premise? PA is a US state. I live in Canada. Last I checked. Cfs, will believe a kid who reports their parents for physical abuse over their parents word. those kids, altough. Still a minority. Take for granted, and abuse. whatever they feel. because they feel untouchable... Untouchable in the same way 10-15 year olds mow down cops, in stolen cars on a regular basis. I live in winipeg. Check the stats for winnipeg then talk about false premise. This isn't a Global aimed thread. I should have stated more specifically.

Icelanderguy

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Best way to deal with young offenders... Posted: 5/3/2009 5:21:11 PM
hahah wow, you really get a kick out of twisting things others say to get a laugh eh.. I refered to a specific group of youth. So others would know who I was talking about. I guess you have never been in the army? They pay for your school. And have a very good education program... So really. you don't think putting paddles back in the hands of parents is a viable solution?? Others here seem to.. They a similar, but different methods in the military..And torture, and traumatising is for prisioners.. bad children, whose parents consent to sending their kids to military boot camp for correction. because the kids need it. Not because the kid dresses a certain way...

Icelanderguy

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Best way to deal with young offenders... Posted: 5/2/2009 2:03:43 PM
hmm.. Putting paddles back in the parents hands.. thats a very good start. They will have the power to control, and discipline their kids, before they give up on them. And send them outside. I know it may be impossible with how the system was, or is. But, as we all know. they haven't worked, and don't work.. I have known bad youths going to the army. Coming out a changed person. They find brotherhood in the army. Not a new gang.... The military is for Humanatarian needs, well Cananda's at least. -WgeorgeW- Try to comment on threads with an unbiased, and neutral response. Rather than letting your frustrations show... This is not a anger thread... As far as costs are concerned. Parents get social assistance checks every month, plus child care benefits, and housing benefits. I'm sure the majority of those parents rely on having kids, to live a more lavish life style. Which is the root of the problem.. That aside. Parents that are incapable of keeping their kids disciplined, or in school. Will have their kids sent to the army for corrections. And lose the majority of their monthly child care income.. And if anyone says, what if they need that money to get by.. Well. If thats the case, it wasn't reaching the kid in the first place.. That would cover basic living neccesity coverage. I mean it's been worked out already for the kid right??? How the army uses all this extra labouring hands, for whatever reasons. As a form of corrections. Is up to them to cover transportation costs, and administration costs. Which I'm sure the government can/ will help with..

Icelanderguy

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Women only first contact week on POF? Posted: 4/30/2009 11:08:33 PM
I think it would be very interesting. Give the girls all the power. Let the guys sit back, unable to send messages. within a couple weeks. Many of the girls one here, Who are regulars. And the rest who casually visit. Will miss that attention, they know is there at the end of the night when they get to their last resort on pof.. As for the girls who are really looking for someone. And not just craving attention. They won't be flooded with emails, and will have plenty of extra time to look at profiles. When they open their inbox, to no new emails. and really. plentyof love. why so negative to a thread that specifically says its an experimental idea. looking for insight.. People have lives outside of pof..What is a week going to hurt.. Like a hockey game. One big play changes the whole game. And makes it an even strength game again..

Icelanderguy

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Best way to deal with young offenders... Posted: 4/30/2009 10:53:56 PM
well, I know they have lots of plans to completely overhaul the youth justice system. So who knows right. I think parents would rather go out and have fun, then make the necessary scrifices and properly set the example. Juvy doesnt work. It's like time out, they can't wait to go back and play. And be bad again. Constantly looking for that attention. Especailly looking at how the youth has changed since I was young. Juvy hasnt changed much from what I've read. Yet as you read everywhere. The youths are only getting worse. What you think would fix this problem..

Icelanderguy

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Best way to deal with young offenders... Posted: 4/30/2009 10:06:38 PM
More and more, I see young kids as young as 5 years old. Walking around looking like a gangsta, What parent In the right mind would dress/allow their kid to dress like that.. Probably one that didn't have control over their kid.. which leads to many problems... So I thought up a sloution.. Which applies to the following: -Kids that choose not to attend regular school classes up to grade 12. Of course doctors notes, other issues, and a specific attendance recored would have to be taken into consideration.. -Kids/youths that commit crimes ( repeat offenders ) They are called repeat offenders for a reason, because punishment isn't suffiecent. And Youths that have by choice, If they feel out of place, or unhappy in a school setting. Their choice to enroll in the program. The answer, is military bootcamp. Which has the neccesary resources, as proven on TV shows. To teach, and enforce. Discipline, Respect, Work ethic, and Values.. Rather than spend countless dollars on bracelets, and various law protocols. I'm sure Youth would come out of bootcamp, respectable citizens. Of course they would only be released upon evaluation. And minimum course length.

Icelanderguy

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why not set the legal alchol limit at 0 % ? Posted: 4/29/2009 10:09:37 PM
I think if people want to have drinks and drive their going to, despite the limit.. it's sad, but it's true..

Icelanderguy

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why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 4/25/2009 2:19:26 PM
there is looking and groping. I have been out places, and seen girls look at me. While there bf's right beside them. I'm sure the guy doesnt like it..

Icelanderguy

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/25/2009 2:14:17 PM
Involve yourself in things you enjoy, activites, sports, clubs, hobbies. And you will find girls that would interest you. figure out what you want, and you will find girls that already know what they want. Don't chase after girls that don't know what they want, if they like you. They will let you know early.

Icelanderguy

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 4/23/2009 1:08:52 PM
A girl can be experienced, and not be a slut. that has slept with almost 100 people.

Icelanderguy

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 4/23/2009 12:15:31 AM
Someone that slept with 83 people. Is only truly going to be able to settle with someone who has slept with simliar numbers. They will understand, relate, and be able to put each others past behind them.. In some cases, It may work. I know nothing about the guy, and girl. She must be pretty serious about him. To risk saying a secret that big..

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 4/22/2009 11:46:57 PM
Wow, Well that too bad. Alot of guys on here, dont get the results they are looking for. Because many girls seem to be only looking for trophy men. And they feel neglectged, and take out their anger on others. Don't let them get to you. I'm sure you weren't the girl that made them sour in the first place. lol I give your profile a review... thx alot..

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 4/22/2009 11:44:13 PM
Lol. That my sis, and brother. ahha. I liked the pic. It was a good time christmas eve. Big family dinner. 34 people.. You think I don't need that line.? hmm. I feel It represents the spontaneous, adventurous, love to have a good time side of me. I'd rather have one. Then not have one, and try and talk about having one lol..

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 4/22/2009 12:45:24 PM
hmm, cause as I've posted. I was a party animal. So it's still in my blood. But I'm out of the bar scene. Keeping my open for that something more. I wrote that. To give show I have been to the bar, and I'm not interested in meeting a bar gal on pof.

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 4/22/2009 11:54:34 AM
Is that supposed to be sarcastic?

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 4/22/2009 12:35:06 AM
Hmm, I think I know what you meant. The natural flow of reading was not constant. I had trouble reading it myself.. hhahah. Well, I fixed it up. Let me know what you think..

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 4/21/2009 11:48:40 PM
where exactly you get lost?

Icelanderguy

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Is honesty the best policy.. Posted: 4/21/2009 11:26:00 PM
Well, this is my second profile. My first one was modified several times. This one I decided to write whatever came to mind. And typed it out as I thought it. Only thing I edited was grammer, and spelling. But, Its really How I feel at the moment. It will prolly change by the end of summer. Any insight to my profile. Or experiences with honesty, and lying in profiles. I know know the majority of relationships start from little lies. Or at least have Several Little lies, which come out later.. Some to laughter, and some to well...... so ya..

Icelanderguy

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How come Guys look at profile and don't say hi Posted: 4/21/2009 10:56:17 PM
Your profile is fine. Girls need to understand. That as you can read in many forums, guys don't seem to care as much anymore. And many have given up. I guess they figure a girl will look at who looked at her. And message any she thought were interesting. After all, We took the time. To write a profile for you ladies to read too.

Icelanderguy

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How come Guys look at profile and don't say hi Posted: 4/21/2009 10:50:40 PM
If I have looked at profile and didn't message. I wasn't interested in getting to know, or chat with the person. Or I felt my message would've been read and with no response, or read and deleted..

Icelanderguy

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Why do men.... Posted: 4/20/2009 10:15:40 PM
ahhah so true. I've laughed outloud. couple times in the bar, at the girls that chase a guy with shades on. thinking he coolest thing since. Ice in the summer.. But I guess If that the types of girls he wants. It works for him right.

Icelanderguy

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/20/2009 12:01:43 PM
ahha, ask him for clues where the tape measure is haha

Icelanderguy

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/19/2009 11:33:28 PM
-Girls don't like getting hurt. -Girls want a challenge. not some guy that bends over backwards. Girls look at guys as strong, safe, and someone that can make them feel strong/better in weak situations. So if you have none of the above, or nothing that a girl could make her gf's jealous with. ie: ( looks, money, education, hobbies, charm, has a social life, can have fun, dance, connection) Your odds are against you.

Icelanderguy

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Is this as likely as men like to think it is? Posted: 4/19/2009 11:16:41 PM
Wow. Luv n theory. That was a great post. It's no wonder they make so many sizes, and styles of clothes. We are all different in many ways. Compatibility is the key.

Icelanderguy

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Guys, help me out here! Posted: 3/25/2009 11:17:30 PM
I think you might be reading into it too much. He might be distancing himself, cause he's not ready to jump into anything yet. But still wants to keep you around for when he's ready.. Cause it sounds like he's kinda into u. Just play it cool, try to be his friend. The best relationships start from friendship..

Icelanderguy

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Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship? Posted: 3/9/2009 10:59:36 PM
very true, having sex with someone, is the most intimate thing you can do. How is a couple supposed to know how well they will get along with eachother. Unless they have sex. Altough, I must say. Me personally, if I really like a girl, and want to have a relationship with the girl. I wouldn't have sex on the first date. And for guys out there. If a girl says they really want to. Tell them you don't want to rush a good thing. Relationships formed out of sex on the first date, are formed of a physical/sexual attraction only. It only a matter of time, before it turns into friendship, even if the sex hasn't slowed down.

Icelanderguy

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If your into a guy, are you going to pursue, or sit around? Posted: 3/9/2009 12:11:39 AM
thanks Eir.. And ursala. I didnt say hangout. when i make plans. that open plans with no real interest that most likely to get turned down. even if the girl wanted to see the guy. Just keeping things short for the thread..

Icelanderguy

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If your into a guy, are you going to pursue, or sit around? Posted: 3/9/2009 12:05:42 AM
Ya that could be. I'm usually really confident. I'm about to say next. I only got a maybe. So I texted couple days before weekend. to see If we were hanging out. Cause we didnt have set place or anything like that yet.

Icelanderguy

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If your into a guy, are you going to pursue, or sit around? Posted: 3/8/2009 11:36:26 PM
Well it more so, girls I know, and talk with. I try to make plans. usually a weekend ahead. They seem fine with it. When it comes along. A couple days before. I ask if we still up. And it seems to be a cycle. They say oh i got this, or that. Which is ok. Couple times I have gotten we hang out soon. Then when I try to make plans, which they say sounds great.. they always have some reason. But still talk to me like they interested afterwards..Gets frustrating..

Icelanderguy

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How do I respond to Hey..? Posted: 3/8/2009 11:28:11 PM
read there profile, if you think their cute. Say hi, and make a comment on something about their profile. Right there. The conversation started..

Icelanderguy

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If your into a guy, are you going to pursue, or sit around? Posted: 3/8/2009 11:08:21 PM
I'm just wonderin, do girls that have any interest what so ever in a guy, pursue it. Or just see if he keeps trying? I know girls like the feeling of being chased. But at some point do they chase?? I have at pursued girls i was interested in. That seemed interested. But noticed, when I stopped doing the calling, or texting. Things stopped???

Icelanderguy

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Jokes, Jokes, Jokes!!!!!! Posted: 3/8/2009 11:04:20 PM
ahhaha that great...

Icelanderguy

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How do you get a guy to not just want you for sex??? Posted: 1/16/2009 4:06:25 PM
well this site is called plenty of fish. both men and woman fish.. when they do. they throw a line out. some sit and wait. some cast, reel in, and throw again. and some catch fish for sport. point being. both men and woman. do the same thing. there's plenty of men looking for relationships. And there's plenty of woman out there looking for relationships. aside from the sport fishers. Men second look the ones looking for a relationship, the exact same way woman over look a guy cause he's not as hot as they would like. If you play like you fishing for sport, and fish with sport fishers. that all you going to get..And vice versa.. get my drift..

Icelanderguy

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How do you get a guy to not just want you for sex??? Posted: 1/16/2009 10:59:49 AM
if he brings up the sex conversation.. tell him your amzing in bed.. and he has to earn it.. make him work hard for it.. Don't give it to him. let up ur guard a bit. see if he goes back to trying to only get sex..then put ur guardback up. and make work for it.. teasing him only.. do it until you feel you know the person..

Icelanderguy

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How do you get a guy to not just want you for sex??? Posted: 1/4/2009 8:10:44 PM
Don't let know you like him, hint to it. If things do get hot.let him sleep over with only kissing. nothing else. do that for awhile. Progress slowly. He will be chasing u. Still intrigued. Getting to know you. The relationship will have a more solid foundation. And if he gets mad, and doesnt respect that. Move on. He only wants thing..

Icelanderguy

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How important is it for your partner to be physically fit or in shape Posted: 12/17/2008 8:53:35 PM
It's fairly importent to me..I'm a pretty active guy. If I'm like I want to learn to rock climb lets go.. I would hope the girl I'm dating would be able to join me, or even golf, swimming, marathons in the bedroom, joggin, camping, adventures in wilderness. I would hope to find a lady, that could bring out the absolute best in me. Sometimes a lil competition is needed..

Icelanderguy

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How important is it for your partner to be physically fit or in shape Posted: 12/17/2008 8:53:26 PM
It's fairly importent to me..I'm a pretty active guy. If I'm like I want to learn to rock climb lets go.. I would hope the girl I'm dating would be able to join me, or even golf, swimming, marathons in the bedroom, joggin, camping, adventures in wilderness. I would hope to find a lady, that could bring out the absolute best in me. Sometimes a lil competition is needed..

Icelanderguy

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abuse of authority Posted: 12/17/2008 7:21:23 PM
Well in my opinion. a animal born into a very poor country is going to have less fertile land to graze on, and be less healthy, and not the freedom to roam around as much. in some cases.. So you could say it got it's wealth from the grazing grounds, and health from the grazing grounds. Same with people, the quality of life, depends on where their born... and i feel. We are born with a right to be healthy, have the oppurnity to wealth, and live in a society that embraces freedom.. We would have such wealthy animals then..ahhahah

Icelanderguy

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abuse of authority Posted: 12/17/2008 4:22:21 PM
Haha.. well move to winnipeg, grow watching he youth change.. And you will see. Im pretty sure Most of thread was about the youths...At least it was my intention. You just love to argue don't you..So why aren't you a lawyer..? Sorry, I don't have enough time to go reading up on youths. Maybe if I was studying something related. Hey thx. I take it into consideration.. For someone ,who told another person. All they did was pick apart, and comment on others threads like they were trying to agitate someone. You really know what to look for.. I won't go into detail. On anything. I not on here to argue. Oh what i meant by natural rights. The rights we are born with.. Freedom, health, wealth. all which apply to animals.. If People are born into the world, without a chance at living these natural rights. It is because too many people in the world are greedy.

Icelanderguy

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 12/16/2008 5:24:05 PM
Just to let you know, my neighbor was watching. There a pervert.

Icelanderguy

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abuse of authority Posted: 12/16/2008 4:52:52 PM
Yes a child/youth gets treated different than a adult would. Which can create many problems throughout the system. They receive little to no sentence. Couple years maybe for murder. Gang members become more isolated in prisons, Or on the street. And have less involvement that can be traced back to them. Yet they still have the same influence. Without the kids. They have to go do the dirty work. Cause kids see you can steal, and get a slap on the wrist. In Winnipeg, we have kids running over cops, while there grand parents push the buttons on the automated telephone message. Checking if their home. And no we dont punish 5 year olds. I never mentioned 5 year olds. But youths. over 13.. That's a different story. They have crime increasing, Just because they arent reported n the paper. doesnt mean they happen. You don't think for a second, Government controls statistics published in the paper, to fit their political agenda....? Crime in Canada is on the rise. Compared from couple years ago. And the criminal's are getting younger. Cause they get away with almost anything.. At one point we will trouble drawing the line, where we as citizens stand in disciplinary actions towards the youths. Well nothing has changed since couple hundred years AD. In terms of government. Wealthy have power, influence, and control. And that is the balance of life. The unfortunite motivation to be succesful in today's society. So is there a way to introduce a public voting system for judges.? with 6 month terms.? I like Harpers removing federal funding for political parties. That rule applies to him also. Less Government involvment is more. The more freedom that is handed back to the people, The more legal system will be about justice, rather than peoples jobs, and employment numbers.. It sucks to say it.. but it is the truth...

Icelanderguy

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 12/15/2008 10:16:50 PM
hmm how bout a cheesy one.. I can't go again..... the bed too wet.. it gross hahaha..

Icelanderguy

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abuse of authority Posted: 12/15/2008 9:49:59 PM
The problem with that though, is that judges are appointed in to power.. They aren't elected. The reason for garbage sentences.. I feel it's too late to implent a change in the system that would have a signicant enough change to make it worth while. But we could start with the young generations. Send youths to boot camp. Im sure whats his name off jerry springer could recruit some friends, and start up something here... haha.. Youths go to jail and come out worse. Building a jail for young offenders would not work.. Gang members intially seek a sense of power, and belonging.. they would have it in the military.. As there is a chain of command.. So how do we as citizens make something like this happen. Cause the government. Is too busy looking for ways to spend our money. Or fighting over who gets to take our money.. And mandatory death penalty for repeat murder offenders..well were at it..

Icelanderguy

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abuse of authority Posted: 12/15/2008 9:39:04 PM
Sure stealing is wrong. But some people in this world are denied the natural free rights, others are born with. If u put yourself in there shoes. Did what you could to feed you family. Who, your not going to let starve. Cause of some technicality... Get out of that country, try to get your feet on the ground, and abide by Canadian rules, and laws. I'm sure you would expect some compassion, And help from Canadians. 2 wrongs never make a right.. So thats what we do with ppl nowadays. They dont make the grade. Throw them out of the country, rather than help them cause they were needy.. Look at all the people living in Winnipeg, that are willing to work. But can't get into an address cause they broke.. How they supposed to get a job.. Even labour ready would second look them.. And they not stealing, they rummaging through trash.. Soo here the question... Would u rather live on the street, go through trash. And not steal. Cause we all know stealing wrong..stay living in Canada.. or Steal, get your feet on the ground. Get a job. Get place. And get deported cause they stole...

Icelanderguy

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 12/14/2008 9:59:40 PM
"Tie me up". " So do u want the bad news now". "Here's my number. But don't call during the week, My wife there." " You know there's something I need to tell you".

Icelanderguy

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Iceland anyone..? Posted: 12/13/2008 2:32:54 PM
I'm in winipeg. Really sucks in the winter.. It minus 37 right now.. But the summers are unreal. SO nice. We got lots of beachs here too.. Ppl appreciate the summer more, when they all couped up all winter..

Icelanderguy

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Guy holding out for sex?? Posted: 12/12/2008 3:56:07 PM
Well There has to be things he likes about you, or he wouldnt keep dating you.. You might want to see how he reacts to you dating someone else. just an idea.. Or you could tell him next time you are kissing he makes u really hot.. or something along those lines..

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