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Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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how many parents does it take to rasie a child? Posted: 6/23/2009 7:41:46 PM
I believe that it takes a village to raise a child. A child needs good role models. Be it their parents, grandmothers/fathers, etc. They need great teachers to help aid parents or guardians in the education of the children in the community. I think that having a mother and father is important. But I also think it doesn't guarantee that a child will grow up well adjusted. Having only 1 parent will not guarantee the child will be premiscious, troubled, or ill adjusted. What is most important is that the child has as many good role models and leaders around them as possible.

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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Sex with a older man Posted: 6/23/2009 6:36:48 PM
Sorry can't edit I mean he is not a child molestor or abusive to the kids.

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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Sex with a older man Posted: 6/23/2009 6:35:54 PM
Here is what is most important to me ( #1 is my children like him and he is a child molester abusive to the kids or me etc. But other than the obvious here is my list) 1. Honest faithful and true 2. Makes me happy ie laugh smile a pleasure to be around 3. A great provider ie when I am sick they don't go to the club instead of bring me chicken noodle soup lol 4. Shares the same interests as I do 5. Good looking 6. Great in the bed As you can see sex is last on my list. It is not most important to me. He is an attractive man. I am just not horny. I can go months without having sex without any issues. We have talked about this and he is fine without having sex everyday. We have talked and he knows where I stand and we are trying to work it out. He loves the sex. We normally are intimate at least 6xs a month so it's not like he isn't getting any. I was thinking about this last night and I think it is because I am usually attracted to the "bad boy" and ladies we all know what a bad boy gets you. Heartbreak. So now that I am dating a "good guy" I guess it is wierd to me. Breaking up is not an option. I mean why because the sex isn't stellar? That seems like a silly reason to me when sex isn't high on my agenda. It is important but not a deal breaker. Not to mention we live together and have been talking about marriage. I am way beyond the lets break up faze. I like the idea of therapy, Maybe even bring a few more toys into the bedroom that may help. Thank you everyone

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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Sex with a older man Posted: 6/23/2009 1:12:26 AM
I am a woman in my late 20s dating a man in his late 40s and though we get along great I don't seem to have any sexual attraction to him. My question is how do you increase your sexual attraction to a man who you find attractive but not sexually attractive? I do not think it is right to leave a good man due to lack of great sex, but is this what my life is reduced to? Years in a relationship without ever experiencing an orgasm unless I am intoxicated? Any help is greatly appreciated...

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

Msg: 565 (view)

How do you feel about interacial dating? Posted: 6/23/2009 1:05:19 AM
I know that I am currently in an interracial relationship. For a long time, I wouldn't date someone outside my race unless I was 100% into them. But after my last relationship, I have (unfortunately) decided to give up on my race completely. To me it is just too hard to date a black man. I am looking to settle down. Most of the men I meet either just want a one night stand or have issues with staying faithful. Maybe I have bad luck with men. All I know if I have dated 3 white men in the last 6 years and all three were ready to commit and treated me well. So for this reason I choose to date outside my race. I am a lot happier and there are a lot less games.

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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Dateing in the real world Vs Online Posted: 12/7/2008 9:14:14 AM
I prefer online dating. It takes more time. You actually get to talk to your potential partner before you meet. In the convential dating, I found I do not meet the right kind of people. I am looking for a LTR and find a lot of gents who are not. So online dating lets me separate those looking for 1ns and those looking for LTR and then make a decision. After intial email contact I usually IM them on yahoo for a few days and then we exchange number. After talking for a while longer then we meet. It eliminates a lot of the playboys and time wasters. I have been on this site off and on for at least 3 months. I have met a few gents and I think I may have found that special gent for me. Though, I am not sure yet. So do not lose faith or hope with OLD. It works.

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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People who just write how are you Posted: 12/7/2008 9:04:38 AM
My thing is I get about 5-10 emails a day from different people. A "Hi", "How are you?" and goosh my all time favorite, " You are HOT!!" is annoying. It tells a lot about a person's state of mind. I enjoy emails that tell me about you. What are your interests, your purpose of using this site (ie intimate encounter, email only, dating, or LT), and then I can decide if I want to respond to you. I mean 1st impressions are everything. It is isn't about sterotypes. It is about if you are too lazy to write a complete sentence or a paragraph, how lazy will be in our relationship. How many ladies have you emailed saying Hi. I have a friend on this site. He emails about 20 gals a day with Hi. He IMs at least 20 gals a day until finally one bites. Then he dates them, sleeps with them, and moves on the next fish. And also if I am not interested I will not respond back. Why even waste your time. If you see I read the email and you don't have a reply back in your inbox. Get the point, throw your line back out, and keep fishing.

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship? Posted: 12/7/2008 8:53:40 AM
I was too nice. I knew he was cheating, but did not want to believe it. I always see the good in people instead of the bad that is screaming at me.

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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~~New Year's Eve Party @The Mix~~ Hilliard~ December 31st!!~~ Posted: 12/7/2008 8:46:41 AM
I plan to attend and bring at least 2 guests with me.

Nicolelovesme

Joined: 5/8/2008

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Any Poker Players OUt There In The Great State Of Ohio Posted: 11/13/2008 10:52:58 PM
I am trying to put together a Texas Hold Em poker night. If anyone is interested male or female please let me know. I live in Columbus. I do not want to host the party, but I would be willing to come and provide hourdevrs and champagne. Please send me an email.

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