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 Author Thread: The Perils of Paying for a Matchmaking website....
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
The Perils of Paying for a Matchmaking website....
Posted: 9/16/2008 10:11:37 PM
I was on Match.com and had a beautiful woman doctor contact me, from Russia. The fist message caught me off guard, but she included a photo of herself. The second message with photo was nice as well, but I noticed the photos where numbered 1 and 2 but both shot in different settings and the lighting on the photos was perfect. Five messages total, five photos, numbered 1 to 5. She asked me if I would like to visit her or if she could visit me. This was over a very calculated two week period and suddenly I had a Russian travel agency send me a bill for a flight from St. Petersburg to LAX.
Fortunately after photo 2, I used Google to check her story and city. I discovered it was one of the largest scam cities in Russia and her images came up, as well as stories of men who paid for her flight. The next message is that on the way to the airport she was in a car accident and while injured, she was better off then the people who were in the other car, who were killed.
Many men had sent her thousands of dollars over time, only to discover the scam too late.
If it's too good to be true...
POF rocks.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
How far would you travel?
Posted: 9/22/2007 9:14:34 PM
I did have a long distance relationship that lasted nearly a year. I would drive 120 miles one way to see her, and would spend Saturday and Sunday evenings with her, plus one evening during the week. I worked retail, and that killed it more than the travel. I worked long hours, including Saturday's....

Eventually it just didn't work out because of the hours I worked. She worked M-F 9 to 5...

I now live in So Cal. With traffic the way it is, 120 miles in one direction could take three to four hours in traffic... But I'd give it a try to see how things worked out before saying now.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Huntington Beach - 8/18/07 8pm at Martini Blues
Posted: 7/20/2007 9:53:16 PM
Okay, after not being out for 151 years, I'm in!
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Pictures from the BJ's Meet and Greet
Posted: 5/25/2007 10:00:42 PM
I have GOT to get out of this cave and start meeting people. I'm in for the next event. Looks like I'll have to brush my tooth and possibly take a bath more than once a week to meet some of these beautiful women.

I'm in!
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
dating men that have been divorced
Posted: 5/25/2007 7:27:25 AM
I've been on some dates where the woman started talking about marriage on the first or second date. I'm not against marriage at all but I'm not going to start making plans half way through my first date.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 214 (view)
 
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 5/25/2007 7:18:51 AM
I 'met' a woman this way. She said she is a doctor from Russia, and sent me a new photo every day. The first thing I noticed was the photos were numbered 001, 002, etc. The lighting was too perfect for amature photos. One setting was in a cafe, one just a head shot, etc.
She asked me to visit her or wanted to know if she should visit me. She was beautiful and naturally I was hoping she was real, but I did a google search on her and discovered she was pulling a scam.
She eventually asked me for money for a flight to America. I learned from others that her next step was to ask for more money because she gets into a car accident on the way to the airport... and it goes on.
You are being scammed...
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Give Me Some Reasons For Why Not
Posted: 5/19/2007 11:59:09 AM
Do some guys actually enjoy it, or is an obligation?

I love it. It is one of the three ways I try to get a woman to cum each time I'm with her.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Give Me Some Reasons For Why Not
Posted: 5/19/2007 11:55:59 AM
Something happens to a guy when he cums. He's finished for the night more or less. I suggest you start giving him a blowjob and before you finish have him go down on you, then go back and finish him off.

Guys who don't go down on women are selfish and missing a wonderful experience.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Respectful ethnic question
Posted: 1/23/2007 4:09:45 PM
From what I remember, because it's been over 150 years since I've even been on a date... no difference. There's the anticipation of difference before hand, and as others have voiced there is a difference between people, but that's based on how they were brought up.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
how much is too much sex partners?
Posted: 11/24/2006 7:51:02 PM
If I was younger, I'd ask... but at this point in my life (and when I was younger) it's none of my business how many partners the woman I'm with has had.

Enjoy live and keep it safe.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 168 (view)
 
Never had an orgasm...any suggestions?
Posted: 10/29/2005 7:46:18 PM
See a doctor... really... I had a girlfriend once who couldn't, and having had a lot of experience with other women I was totally lost... She eventualy saw a doctor and discovered she had a problem that minor surgery took care of. Best of luck to you.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
What turned you off? Truth time...
Posted: 10/7/2005 3:50:54 PM
On the second date, she started talking about getting married and starting a family. No, I'm not against marriage... but the second date?
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Showering together.....is it intimate?
Posted: 9/12/2005 4:01:00 PM
Showering together saves water... oh, and is very sexy at the right time. It rocks.
 bobfederal
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 82 (view)
 
He has my number yet never calls???
Posted: 9/12/2005 3:45:39 PM
Some women give me their number after the first E Mail... here it is, call me... Maybe I'm a bit too insecure to call, or shy. Don't give up on me though... talk a little more.
 
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