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 Author Thread: Best break-up lines
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Best break-up lines
Posted: 9/4/2006 6:16:42 PM
New age breakup lines- take your pick

"I totally love you, but":

"I had a dream that it's my destiny to travel alone for the remainder of my journey on this
planet."

"I don't think I'll ever be able to reach my spiritual potential within the confines of a
relationship".

"I just remembered that I had a bad experience in a past life with someone who looks just
like you".
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Delusions of Grandeur
Posted: 7/8/2006 7:20:27 AM
I wouldn't want to watch my time on this planet slip away in a relationship defined as complacent. I want a special love in which the "infatuation phase" blends with the "attachment phase". I think that when two people stop appreciating each other and profound love gives way to a "holding pattern" it's time to reevaluate the reasons that they remain in the relationship. I have visions of deep, passionate, everlasting love. Delusional thoughts--I hope not. When I fall in love I want it to be a "forever kind of love" as they sing about in country songs lol.

Hey, that gives me a thought for another thread! Would you want to meet your present lover/partner in the afterlife and spend eternity with that person? If so you are probably compatible and truly in love- and if not, well... why are you spending all your precious time in this life settling for less than you deserve?
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
My Divorce in 6 lines...
Posted: 3/6/2006 8:50:23 PM
Great poem, indy! we all keep looking for the bright light don't we.. like moths to the flame lol
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
A real broken heart!
Posted: 3/6/2006 5:32:09 PM
I agree duchess, once trust is gone, there's no point in wasting time and prolonging the inevitable..I had a similar experience and i agree with you- trust can't be rebuilt...You're better off to leave a cheating heart behind asap.

I think that you have to begin thinking of the positives in your life!!! Four gorgeous kids, you're healthy, and you have many happy years ahead of you!
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Writing Is Therapy!
Posted: 3/6/2006 5:10:36 PM
A beautiful poem ltliving and a fitting tribute to your mother.
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 324 (view)
 
bored and lonely like always
Posted: 12/12/2005 6:39:13 PM
Simple, I wouldn't cheat because, when I'm in a loving relationship, I have no need or desire to cheat-there's nothing more important to me than the love of that special person. Also, honesty is a crucial element of my pride and self-respect.
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
I broke her heart then she broke mine...
Posted: 11/19/2005 6:07:34 AM
My humble opinion is that you looked at this relationship in terms of power and control. In the past you used her love for you as a form of power over her. You toyed with her and dumped her on three occasions breaking her heart knowing you could manipulate and draw her back in. When she realized she was being emotionally abused, her love for you began to die and at this point you lost your control and she gained "the upper hand" as you call it. Now that she doesn't love you and she's beyond your control, you feel helpless and you're crying the blues. She came to a realization that it was a twisted relationship and that's why she's gone for good. The real positive outcome for all of this is when she meets a decent guy who shows her real love, she'll appreciate it that much more. No sympathy from me. I think you should change your attitude and treat the next lady you meet with more kindness and respect.
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 143 (view)
 
Men Have A Harder Time To Bounce Back
Posted: 10/27/2005 10:57:44 PM
Thanks Teggs. Now I understand. Cheers mate.
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Does he really want to work things out?...Or just fuk with me?....
Posted: 10/23/2005 9:12:23 AM
Bailey,
What bothers me here is that he's breaking promises to the kids at a time when they to feel safe. They need to know that both of their parents are responsible and that they (the children) are important and loved. If this guy if capable of ditching his kids to chase women, he doesn't deserve you or the children. The most important part of your situation is the welfare of your children and that should be the focus. I think it's time to move on.
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Bracing myself for a death in the family
Posted: 10/14/2005 10:31:19 PM
Pablo, I recommend you go to your dad. I am so thankful that I was able to be there for the passing of my mom and my dad. Both of my parents died in my arms and they knew I was there for them as they had been there for me throughout my life. You can always get another job. There's nothing more important than family. My heart goes out to you.
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is The Grass Really Greener On The Other Side?
Posted: 10/13/2005 7:28:19 AM
You will have to ask my ex wife that question. The guy she arranged to meet on the tropical vacation that she told me she took with her "girlfriends". The grass must have appeared greener during the honeymoon phase. Now they're back in the real world, she lives alone and her kids are bitter. Although they're still together, he refuses to commit. So I guess for her the green grass faded in a hurry. For me, however, the grass is so green it hurts my eyes now that she's gone. lol
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Men Have A Harder Time To Bounce Back
Posted: 9/4/2005 9:23:49 PM
teggs, what are you smoking so I can get on the same wavelength and understand what the hell you're talking about!
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Falling in love again,here is my take
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:44:40 AM
When my 25 year marriage ended I was despondant, blaming my ex for betraying me. Then I looked at myself and took ownership for my own part in the fading of our love over the years. I could/should have done much more to keep the love alive. I learned more about myself and how to improve my next relationship. I suppose I could have given up and said that I was jaded and unable to make myself vulnerable again. But I know I've got the right mindset now and I'm really looking forward to the next special lady in my life.
 _goodguy
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 50 (view)
 
wow...that was fast...
Posted: 8/14/2005 1:12:53 PM
Hey gunman,
Think yourself lucky you learned about your supposed friend and your fickle girlfriend early in the relationship. I was married for 20 years and the lady I considered the love of my life got interested in a "friend" of mine who lives up the street. Broke up my marriage, tore up my heart, caused heartache for my kids. I managed to survive and I'm not nearly as young nor as good looking as you. lol. It just takes time- hang in there!
 
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