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2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Ever heard of the Gold Analogy? Posted: 8/6/2009 4:46:30 PM
We all have some sort of drama/issues going on in our lives. Anyone who denies it is not living in the real world. The trick to being (or appearing) drama free is how we deal with the circumstance, how we affect those around us who are not directly involved. We all have some sort of baggage pain or drama that’s been inflicted upon us by someone else's careless actions or malicious intent. The key to being a MATURE adult is how we deal with the situation and take responsibility for our actions, how we let our memories, and feelings effect our future decisions. Now the flip side of this is there are people who like to wallow in their own self pity and dwell on their victim mentality. I'd rather spend the rest of my life with someone who has learned from their past/current problems then someone who can't find a solution for them selves and has to rely on someone else to get involved. I’ll lend a shoulder to cry on so long as it doesn’t become an addiction

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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If we could Rewind? Posted: 4/15/2009 8:32:47 PM
There are many things in my past that I'm not proud of...but those events ,thoughts,feelings ...make me who I am today....I wouldn't change anything wouldn't "rewind" any of it.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Please share Posted: 3/23/2009 7:39:12 PM
"Do any of you have tips on how to deal with people as such. " live ,learn ,move on......just don't invest your heart intill you both have given each other your pass words to POF......

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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is it selfish of me if i don't wan't my girl to be a stripper? Posted: 3/23/2009 7:30:52 PM
It’s my belief that in order to have an equal relationship you need to respect your partner’s decision on what she wants to do with her life, is it selfish of you.....yes and no I find it interesting that you end your Question with : keep in mind if this was just someone that i only like sleeping with i wouldn't give a f@#k.......... Why does that make a diffence? I've dated stripper, and to be honest I didn’t care as long as I knew in my heart that after her shift was over I was the one on her mind. Some people can handle some can't, one thing is for sure you'll find out quick if your the Jealous type.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Light choking during sex....anyone? Posted: 3/23/2009 2:14:50 PM
sure I'm all for it.... I choke the dude until he gives up his pin number then I go shopping You know I'm tired of changing my Pin Number. tried it once not a fan of it,but If it's something she wants then I'll do it...one thing for sure ....it shows a lot of trust in partner.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Curiosity Kills the Cat... Posted: 12/15/2008 7:55:11 PM
' I was reading the profiles today and realized that men and women have similar horror stories in dating. Apparently, no gender is safe from flakes, nuts, pyschos and plain out stupid people....' Just remember one persons "Oh my God I dated that nut job" is another ones true love. There are a few that I wander what was i thinking when I broke it off, but you live and hopefully learn from those experiences. Then there is the one that was pefect, and then ...poof ..."we should just be friends"....pick up the broken heart pieces eat a few gallons of Black cherry ice cream and move one. I try to take from the past relationships the lesseon learned but try not to over analzy the current one...its thin line that I know i'm still trying to walk.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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How do YOU handle rejection? Posted: 12/15/2008 7:38:59 PM
....Rejection........take a deep breath.....hug my dog and move on.

2ofcup

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So, this guy DIDN'T want to give me his number.....and it was blocked.. Posted: 12/15/2008 7:35:54 PM
well I'll just beat the dead horse here by saying....RUN AWAY VERY FAR AWAY. Trust me If i'm interested in a woman...i go a little over board with contact #s//hell I've been known to set up a bat signal (lol)

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft Posted: 12/15/2008 6:42:30 PM
its a control issue..I'll lay (hehehe he said lay) you odds the guys who went limp, have some sort of issue with controlling sex, or other parts of their life.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Should we open our marriage? Posted: 12/14/2008 9:00:47 PM
One of my most trusted female friends was involved in a marriage that was"opened up” for the fun of it......well he's happy now with the woman he left her for. From what I've seen from others who have tied to "open "the marriage it almost always ends with splitting up the assets. Most people I've meet in my travels through this thing we call life, always seem to get emotionally involved with some one they have sex with. I'm not saying that it won't work for you and yours....Not sure about where you live but around these parts there are a few clubs that cater towards the "open" life style, check out one of those clubs. In the end only you and yours can make the choice for your mariage.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Does career/position in life play a role? Posted: 12/10/2008 6:39:14 AM
For me no it does not play any role, for the woman I've written to...it does to some degree. I'd say its been a 70/30 split, for most of my male friends ,I'd say its a 50/50 deal, some like woman smarter, some want woa man less edumacated then them be(lol) But I think most people are looking for someone that will give as much in return as they send out

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Why am I flirting with my ex? Posted: 12/9/2008 2:59:37 PM
oh....as for why your fliting with her..............come on it's that time of year maybe your hopeing she'll get you a good Xmas gift(lol) deep down only you know why

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Why am I flirting with my ex? Posted: 12/9/2008 2:57:07 PM
Nothing wrong with flirting. If you still like her, tell her the truth, tell her how you feel You hear it all the time "if I knew then what I know now" well you know now what you didn't know then, she's either going to run or stick it out, in this time you have been apart she may of realized what she had in you..... Flirt be happy ......TAKE IT SLOW be carefull, lifes too short to do the ..I wonder what would of happened if.......

2ofcup

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Code Red Posted: 9/13/2008 1:02:35 PM
hey I'm game if she's game.

2ofcup

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Initiating Sex . . . . . Who makes the first move? Posted: 9/12/2008 10:05:45 AM
If any man walks in his house and his woman is laying across the bed in a sexy teddy he's probably not gonna tear off his clothes right then and there and stick his****in her. I'll take my clothes off and for a spell

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Initiating Sex . . . . . Who makes the first move? Posted: 9/12/2008 4:29:34 AM
save a horse...ride a cowboy".... I can be a world class equestrian when I wanna be

2ofcup

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Initiating Sex . . . . . Who makes the first move? Posted: 9/11/2008 12:43:15 PM
A REAL man respects his/the woman, the chick who said "oh what the frack I'll go out with you I'm bored, just because your kissing her, doesn't mean your going to "get some", just because you both have eaten at the Y in the last couple of Mins, doesn't mean your going to "get some". She is the one who will let you know if your going to "get some" REAL men do NOT take it............. even if the 2 of you act out "rape secnrio" she still has to let you. So the answer (at least for me is) she is the one who makes the 1st move towards actul sex.....ever thing else ...well I like to see what buttons I can push

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Initiating Sex . . . . . Who makes the first move? Posted: 9/11/2008 9:17:12 AM
depends on who wants it more.

2ofcup

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IS THIS normal realtionship issue??? Posted: 9/11/2008 4:45:45 AM
1st sorry to hear about your loss. 2nd NO IT"S NOT NORMAL, 3rd if your life goal is to be someone's play toy and not a partner..then go back to him. if on the other hand you want a real relationship....take this time to heal, and move on. 6 yers a good chunk of time to spend with someone. What bothers me is he didn't attend the funeral......that speaks volumes about who he is, I could understand not going if it wasn't his child.( not that I think you are lying about that fact ,I'm not accusing you ,I 'm just statring the only reason I would not attend if I was him and still in love with you)

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 9/10/2008 8:54:09 AM
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2ofcup

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Have you ever had that happen???? Posted: 9/10/2008 8:49:06 AM
and they get along great ..... take it real slow then.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Only a convenience!? Posted: 9/9/2008 2:44:47 PM
"Then don't start a conversation. Gather all his sh*t, put it by the door and leave a note telling him to get out. There is nothing to talk about. He is using you, plain and simple." I'd put a copy of his profile from the other date site on his stuff.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Have you ever had that happen???? Posted: 9/9/2008 2:26:37 PM
Have you ever had that happen????........... Yep, it went horribly wrong...but that doesn't stop me from thinking it will happen again and be great. I hope it works for you, with all my heart. Life is beautiful thing, its even better when you have someone to share it with.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Crazy Neighbour - help me! Posted: 9/8/2008 7:03:38 AM
Same thing happened to a friend of mine...went on for years until she moved. Even though she had nothing to do with him. His obsession wont stop until you leave the scene. Bingo, Sad to but true. A good friend of mine moved because of some jerk who just wouldn't stop bugging her no matter what she said or did....its f---ing sad that it had to come to that.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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will we ever be happy agai. Posted: 9/8/2008 4:38:11 AM
Sounds to me deep down inside your both looking for an out, and don't want to face the deeper issues. He doesn't live with you, your looking for someone to talk to. You've been here since 04 and yet you married him 3 years ago, been together for 16 years........maybe , you should talk to him about your feeling lonely, bored. Were you ever happy?

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Confused: What did I do wrong? Posted: 9/6/2008 11:47:20 AM
You did nothing wrong, he was too impatient to let things move at there own pace. "Never asked for a real name, phone number nor offered his, never mentioned maybe getting together for a coke " Well he keep harping on seeing a photo, and not wanting any other info ,he just wanted to see what you looked like, and if you were attractive enough for him to put any more effort in to seeing where things would go. Just consider the source and move on.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Do you adore him or her ??????? Posted: 9/6/2008 9:12:28 AM
sweetjemgirl I don't know if I will ever find that again. ....... Have faith it can happen more then once. When I was 19 I was mad about this woman I was with, I could sit back and watch as she played with her kids, such a feeling of euphoria would come over me, when we had a problem we could talk about it in a civil tone. I could pick her out of the crowd when I played clubs, she handled the fans with respect, she never got jealous, she would walk up with a crowd ask for an autograph , slip me a fake phone # and walk away.....to fend for myself. She was taken by a drunk driver, it killed me... but over time I was lucky enough to find it agian... but unfournetly we grew apart. “Do any of you "adore" someone or several/many of those people you are close to in your everyday life? Do you even consider being adored the best possible scenario or is there something more precious than being adored by someone or adoring someone?" Being adored by someone can be wonderful, but it’s like anything else there has to be a balance.... If you adore someone who doesn't feel the same you need to have enough self awareness to realize that its one sided and wish them peace and move on to nurse your heart.

2ofcup

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as the single guy dates. Posted: 9/4/2008 9:04:03 AM
Thank you. I'm glad these made you smile.

2ofcup

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Are you lonely? Posted: 9/3/2008 10:06:10 AM
Are you lonely, she asked? He was a shy young man, never knowing how to respond. It’s a simple question, cat got your tongue? She slid next to him on the bench, placing her hand on his knee. She leaned in closer; he was taken back by the pleasant sent of her. He closed his eyes, and tried to drift off, but the allure of that perfume brought him back “I’m sorry are you talking to me? “Of Course silly” He could see she had sinful intent with those eyes, so blue so enticing. He noticed that her right hand was drawing a little circle at the base of her neck, almost like an invitation. She slowly slid her middle finger down into her cleavage; he couldn’t help but to follow her finger with his eyes. “Do you like what you see?” She asked with a smile. He took a nervous swallow,” well” , he tried to be polite, but her breast were perfect in his eyes, her nipples pressing against the tight black dress, almost begging to come out. “Yeah but’ ...he paused. Oh, that. She followed his eyes to the tan line on her finger….’Don’t worry about that we have been over for a long time”. “I don’t even know your name? “Does it really matter, she whispered in his ear as she moved her hand up his thigh. To me it does” She was taken back by his answer, but then a sheepish smile came on her face,” Well then you can call me Ms Robinson like the movie but with out the guilt”. She stood up,” why don’t you follow me? He was fixated on those legs of hers, how the black pumps gave way to a pair of delicate ankles, small enough that he could wrap his hands around. He stood took a deep breath, looked around to see if anyone was watching, he couldn’t believe that with all these other people in this bus station she had chosen him, he couldn’t take his eyes off that rear of hers , as he’s rubbing his jaw he thought wow how perfect., ” Only if you call me Benjamin” he said with a smile. That obey me grin came back on her face. He thought about her opening line” Are you lonely, maybe it wasn’t him she wanted to be with but herself she didn’t want to be alone with. Is it right of me to take advantage of her, the devil inside of him answered back ”its not every day you get a chance like this”, she approached you, you don’t have anyone to answer to. She took him by the hand and led him over to the bathroom door. He was captivated by the small of her back how the dress stopped just above the crack of her rear. She stopped at the door, arching her back just slightly, he bumped into her, and she turned her head over her shoulder and whispered “Wow you are a live one” They entered the bathroom; she promptly turned around and pushed him against the bathroom door. Locking the door with one hand and running the other against his stomach. She started to kiss his neck, he placed his hands on her waist, and brought them up to her breast, she pushed him harder into the door. “No it’s my turn” as she smacked his hand. She knelt down in front of him, his heart started to beat faster within a second he was consumed by feelings of anticipation and excitement as the adrenalin started to flow. She looked up at him with eyes that were filled with a crazy passion unlike anything he had ever seen before; she unzipped his pants .Pulling out his hard member. His lips started to tremble; she slowly kissed the head of his**** taking him in her mouth. His head fell back on the door, She looked back up at him,” I like to be watched” she whispered while stroking him. Really, Mmm I like that. Does that mean you like us bad girls? Oh I can’t get enough. She went back to working on his member. His eyes locked with hers, The connection he was feeling took him by surprised, he couldn’t believe how deep her eyes were, he found himself lost in moment, her hand following her mouth back and fourth , in a slow consistent pace, driving him crazier by the second. His whole body started to tremble; she could sense that he was on the verge of exploding. Mmmm, she moaned, I like the taste of a man in my mouth. The feel of the head of him popping past my lips, oh…what a sensation’ Feeling exhausted he slouched back against the door. Oh don’t give in already young man; we are just starting to explore the fun. She moved over in front of the sink, looking into the mirror. Her thumb and fore finger tracing around her dark red lips. Well come here, don’t get shy on me now. As she looked at him through the mirror with a smile Pushing himself off the door, walks up behind her, placing his foot in between hers he gently spreads her legs, places his hand on her back leaning her over the sink. Cupping her left breast with his left hand and moving his right up in side her dress, slowly but gingerly sliding up the inside of her leg. As he takes her nipple between his thumb and forefinger he places his other thumb inside her, he gently massages her clit with his other fingers, she let out a slight moan”Oh that’s different, with a surprised tone. Leaning into her he kisses the back of her neck, while noticing that her eyes have not left the mirror. “I can’t believe how wet you are” “It’s amazing what a little bit of passion can do” Continuing on for a few more minutes, he felt her legs begin to quiver You know you have an incredible a$$. Panting heavily now “Oh just phuck it, I want to feel you in me now” “As you wish, he lifts he dress up to her lower back , reveling a the smoothest rear he has ever felt, taking in the whole visual in of her leaning against the sink her bare a$$ exposed and knowing that at any minute some one could knock on the door. The excitement was building in both of them; he could see she was getting wetter with the anticipation of him entering her. He guides himself into her, gazing off in the mirror, like an erotic marinate doll her mouth moves as he pushes his member into her. Trying to match that mind numbing slow pace she had taken him into her mouth with. Placing his hands on her shoulder he pulls her back onto him, pushing the roundness of her bum up. “Faster” she pants. “How about we compromise” he grabs her waist and thrust into her. On the return stroke, he pulls out slowly inch by inch as he runs his hands up her back. Grabs her shoulder again while pounding back into her. “You’re driving me mad with this. Trying not to lose concentration, and keeping with the odd pace. “All the better to please you Ms Robison. The feeling of her moistness creeping down his balls takes him by surprised. Trying to maintain control and not give in to his excitement, but the sight off his glisten member sliding in and out of her, while her soft sighs start to give way to quivering moans becomes more then he can handle. Deciding that now wouldn’t be a good time to for a happy ending. He pulls out of her. Turns her around and lifts her up on to the vanity. Takes her left ankle in to his hand and starts to nibble on the inside, while running his left hand down the back of the same leg. “Do you plan on going any where in particular with that mouth of yours”? “Gentlemen never tell” With a snicker she leans back and arches her head. He reaches her knee with soft nibble kisses. Firmly she grasped his head as it moved towards the other knee, drawing him into her trimmed mound. “Is it wrong of me to assume you plan on eating at the Y?” He takes a deep breath as if to breath in her aroma, exhaling slowly his warm breath flowing over her clit. Lapping up in between her lips he gently kisses her. “What big eyes you have” as he looks at her tattooed eyes above her pelvic bone. “The better to watch you my young man” she can barely squeak these words out as he buries his tongue between her lips. Kissing and stroking her engorged clit Spreading those bright pink lips apart with his left index and middle finger he plunges his right middle finger deep into her. “Oh there you go; I like that”, as her body starts to shakes, To no avail he tries to lap up her moistness as it flows past his lips and drips down his chin. He paced himself despite her digging those red finger nails in to the back of his bald head. Where did you learn that” she starts to buck while he presses his left middle finger down just above her pubic line while his right middle finger press up on her soft mound of flesh inside her virginal roof. With out warning she floods his face as she tenses up and lets out an earth shattering moan. Well now I guess its time for me, he lifts his head wipes his chin then runs both of his hands back down her legs grabs those delicate ankles and pulls her onto his member. “Hold me tighter” she begged him “squeeze me”. He digs his thumbs into her just above her hip bones he starts to pound into her, placing those black pumps on his shoulders. Now fixated on her blue eyes a determination comes across his face as he speeds up his tempo. Trying not to loss himself in the moment, trying not to explode. She must have sensed he was on the verge of coming I want a pearl necklace” she screams out. What, wow that’s every guy’s fantasy he thought. She pushes him away, kneels down on the floor in front of him taking his soaking wet member in her hand, she works feverishly on him stroking back in fourth, with her hand while cupping his balls with the other. Oh god” he trembles his legs weak from the all the emotions and excitement. Here I come” She grasps him around the head of his member, tighter then he’s ever felt anyone do, staring down at her neck line as he starts to come. Like a baker drawing on a cake she forms a perfect line across her neck, then comes back to the top of her cleavage letting him blow the rest of his load down in between her breast.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Beware!! Posted: 9/2/2008 7:25:50 PM
I still find it amazing the crap people try to pull.

2ofcup

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Being the other man Posted: 9/2/2008 4:00:31 PM
She says that I'm her main man.......... Dude I have a bridge to sell you. It's going to hurt, but you have to move on....she hasn't. I've been in your shoes, and the only way to be someones main man is to be her only man.

2ofcup

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Erotic Fantasy Posted: 8/28/2008 1:32:59 PM
Hey what WTF Baldy are you dating my ex GF I sent a copy of that this woman I useto date,we've been friends since 3rd when her then Bf would do something like that to her, she called me....I'm not a fan of play rape. But id did help her through some issues she was having. She loved it...told me to tell you Mmmmmm "I'm soooooooo fracking wet now.

2ofcup

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Male perspective wanted.... Posted: 8/28/2008 1:21:18 PM
do you get as emotionally attached if there's a length of time before meeting? I did once, but it ended badly she was married, and forgot to mention that little fact. With the online dating experience, it’s too easy for someone to present themselves as the most wonderful caring person? But, then when that person is required to put there words into action and reality, you see the cracks and flaws .When the realization that the person is much less then expected or promised, it can be such a let down….. Ever since then I'm much more cautious with how much I read into her responses and phone conversations. I guess we are all guilty of making wonderful people out of regular people. "I've recently done this with someone who I've chosen not to meet for a few reasons and I'm gutted...' I feel for you.

2ofcup

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as the single guy dates. Posted: 8/27/2008 4:23:42 AM
It's that time again, So what are you doing home this early? Oh my god don’t go there….. Ok I’m intrigue now, tell me…. Well I’m standing next to the bar looking at the door. The Bartender asked me for my name, then told me my date was waiting in the back room” good luck” he says. I’m thinking how did I miss her coming in, I was there a half hour early. Well I go back and in the corner sits this woman she’s waving at me. I’m thinking who the hell is that, my date is supposed to be a petite blond in her 30s. ‘So she didn’t look close….was she at least in the same ballpark” “Not even in the same town as the ballpark…. As I approach the table “were you that disappointed when I walked by you,” she leans back in her chair.” You could have came over right away instead of waiting by the bar for me to invite you to our date” Wow… not even 5 mins in to this date and I’m getting dissed. Against my better judgment I sat down. “Well it’s good of you to join me; I’ll over look your shyness” Before I can respond, the waiter puts down this plate of baked salmon in front of me. I asked her, what’s this? I took the liberty of ordering for you, I’m allergic to fish. No that a fallacy you are allergic to the shell fish the fish might have eaten” So I figure it’s easier for me to eat it and let my throat close up then to try and correct her. “Ric I would have so bailed by now. Dave it’s like a train wreck, it’s the curiosity of what she was going to say next that keep me from trying to see if there were bars on the bathroom window. She breaks out this day planer, she starts by saying “well I’ve looked at what you call a job and I think it will suffice for now but we are going to have to get you a better one eventfully, especially after we have our 1st child. That’s when I said WHOOOOOAAAA. 1st off,; you ordered a meal for me with out asking, or knowing what I like to eat.2nd of all you have no idea what my plans or life goals are, and to make plans for the 2 of us before are 1st date. Call me crazy but I think that’s a little presumptions And last but not least you don’t look anything like your photo, Where are you going …sit down, I command you to sit down. Did she really say that? I thought she was going to toss me a puppy treat after that.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Is there a gentle way to tell him this? Posted: 8/26/2008 10:14:39 AM
I think you just took him by surprise, and he just got all flustered. Guys who have that in control demeanor like to be in charger of that special moment. I like the idea of the shower to start things off, but I think it might send the wrong message since you the 2 of you already have had an issue .Imagine how he felt after everything that night... I doubt that he didn't realize how he smelled and that most likely took its affect on him. Get back on the horse (so to speak) and see if it happens again. If it does...then you have to talk about it tell him how you feel about him. He might relax after knowing he is someone you would like to have a relationship with.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

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Would you open you marriage to save it? Posted: 8/25/2008 6:00:57 PM
No, I wouldn't open it to save it. I would try to fix what’s broken in the relationship "They have done this for 4 years now and they said it saved their tired old marriage and made them both very happy" Of course they are happy; they get to have sex with someone they like...... What this is doing is prolonging the end of a marriage of 2 people who have grown apart instead of growing together.

2ofcup

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Sex = Overrated Posted: 8/25/2008 5:49:15 PM
I can think of things that I like better then sex, but to say sex is over rated... Trust me I really think you'll change your mind when you find someone who just flat out rocks your world. I was lucky enough to start my sex life early, and for a couple of years there, for me sex was just another part of the routine called life, I could take or leave it. When I was 19 I meet this woman who totally changed my mind, and I’ve look at sex completely different ever since. Look at it like this..... The body you phuck, the mind you make love to...sex is just a word used by those who have never experienced love.

2ofcup

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an old friend Posted: 8/25/2008 9:46:52 AM
My sectary is going through something similar right now. My advice is to go, get out; your ducks will fall into place. But do not start anything with your friend from HS in till you know where your heart is Its not far to you, him , the kids. If he says he’ll wait.. well make him wait…all good things come to those who wait.

2ofcup

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Is it wrong... Posted: 8/25/2008 9:36:35 AM
No its not wrong, just don't fall for someone, it could be just as hard on you as it is for her.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

He comes back into my life...please help me understand! Posted: 8/25/2008 9:32:52 AM
I'm going to take this in a different direction. maybe he's come back into your life becasue he's done with the Fixerupers, and is putting the bal in your court, he's told you that" "he did not want to risk getting involved only to place the distance there again" I think he's said that to get your reaction.....He might be scared that it could work now. Tough choice to make........If I was in your shoes, I'd play it out, (if the 1st connection was as good as it was, the 2nd time might just be even better......But I wouldn't let there be a 3rd.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

Breast Reduction? Posted: 8/22/2008 2:29:26 PM
I'd say go for it, If you were my Gf ,I'd stand behind , I'd rather have a healthy happy woman then someone who puts looks before her health.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

beautiful people, ugly genitals... Posted: 8/22/2008 10:10:07 AM
OMG...you have such a cute C0CK??? When I hear that I just put it away and go home..... Cute is not a word aman wants to hear when his pants are off

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

Blessed or Cursed? Posted: 8/22/2008 10:07:55 AM
"Well it is a double edged sword for me. Blessed because it feels great so it is great that I want it often, but currently a curse because I am single and aint gettin any. " Yep , when I'm in a relationship with some one who loves sex its a blessing, when i'm single...OH MY GOD is it a curse.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 6 (view)

My last boyfriend passed away sends them running... Posted: 8/22/2008 9:56:15 AM
I look at it like this life happens. I never understood why people get weird around some one who has lost BF/GF they loved. I guess they might think you have some sort of baggage from it.It's never bothered me. Sorry for your loss...

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 2000 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 8/22/2008 9:40:53 AM
I prefer no pic I think that way a person knows your interested because of their profile and not what they look like.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

Opinions Needed Posted: 8/22/2008 9:38:22 AM
OP, if you were the guy he dating right now would you like the way he is interacting with you??? I think you might want to clear the air cause I think he wants to become invovled with you while still dating the other guy and he is seeing if you are up for it. Good luck to you. I agree, I think he's looking for the next thing, or to add to his colection.

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 6 (view)

Best way to 'break up', even though it wasnt exclusive Posted: 8/22/2008 5:48:23 AM
I've never been good at breaking up and I don't even know if this is considered a break up. Yeah its a break up. Just be honest with her, be gentle. Since you have been physical with her , the respcetful way is face to face. tell her that you would like to be friends and that you understand that she'll need time. And put your future freindship in her hands. If down the line she doesn't want to be friends , accept it..some people can't be friend safter they have been "physical"

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

gang bangs and orgys Posted: 8/21/2008 8:55:01 AM
Does naked twister and a few slip ups count???? No if you keep playing.. Yes if you stopped and played

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 1 (view)

as the single guy dates. Posted: 8/21/2008 8:35:19 AM
These are some of my bad dates told in story form, A friend of mine suggested I post some of these. I hope you enjoy We now return to "as the single guy dates" So how was the date last night? Yeah…let’s not go there. Can’t be any worse then the girl who broke out the Bible…..Ahhh no way! Yeah… ok she showed up on time, not to sure whose photo she sent me, but…I wasn’t going to let it be a deal breaker. The hostess sat us down .We made with some small talk. Things were moving nicely. Then as this waiter walks by I heard that distinct sound of someone breaking wind.…I mean it was slight, but definitely someone ripped one. She learned forward in her seat and with a little laughter in her tone” did you her that, I think that waiter Just farted, the nerve of some people” with a nerves giggle she sits back. What I’m I supposed to say, I had burger king earlier and I’m sitting there hoping I don’t answer the male bonding call... A couple of minutes later, she gets a little twichie in her seat. “Will you excuse me, I have to make a call, and I’ll be right back” As she passes this couple near the bathroom I see the woman shake her hands in front of her face, then it looks like she is dressing down her date. From the distance I couldn’t hear her, but she was livid …Dude seriously this woman is mad gets up and slaps her date…I’m not kidding, she hauls off and slaps this guy open hand across the face, throws down her napkin and walks out. My date comes back to the table and with her comes that smell, and its noticeable, the family next to us is looking over with that church lady distain look, even the 6 year old looks displeased. Our dinner arrives and our waitress leans over, her bum in my face, and there goes that sound. Sounded like pair of Harleys going up a hill. Now I know it didn’t come from the waitress. My date looks at me with this completely shocked look. ‘I wonder what the wait staff has been eating” and she says this with this innocent look. “I hope it’s not something in our salads” So now I’m thinking what the frack, is she ok, is there some more serious medical thing going on, she that clueless. We finish dinner our waitress asks us both if we want desert, we both at the same time give an enthusiastic no. “So would you like to go over to Best Buy?” I figure what the hey, why not, its open space if she lets another couple lose we should be ok. So now we are moving around the store. It has been about a half hour and no musical bum sounds…we’re out of the woods right...nope we pass this elderly gent riding in his jazze and she lets one rip OMG Archie Bunker would of smiled at the volume level. Now picture this, the elderly guy stops, glares up at me, and goes off on this 5 min trite about how people today are so rude and how I should be embarrassed of myself for making such a horrible sound in the presence of a beautiful woman .He tells me that I should be ashamed of myself for not being man enough to say excuse me. I look over at her and she has that “you disappointing a-hole look”….I’m shocked… feeling a little what gives here. We leave the store, I say to her” Is there some gastric thing you’re embarrassed about. You can tell me anything you want. I’ve had a good time and the conversation has been good, spirited and insightful. We can talk about this if you want, we can drop it altogether . I didn’t expect you to stand up for me in there but you didn’t have to play the role of Judaist. She looks at me and says with a straight face and dead flat tone.”I think we should part ways now there is no way I could date a man who doesn’t take responsibility for his actions

2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

Can a woman be trusted in a relationship? Posted: 8/20/2008 3:06:45 PM
Any poll taken should be read with caution.....

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