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leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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JackM....Everybody is free (to wear sunscreen) Posted: 11/27/2009 2:27:25 PM
The song or rap or actually just a narration with music is probably "Everybody is free to Wear Sunscreen" by Baz Luhrman........some good stuff said in there, words to think and live by even. TheinterviewwithGod dot com has some good ones too....

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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On both sides of the ball...... Posted: 11/27/2009 2:16:53 PM
Well, if he has any consideration for what he wants in the future and doesn't want women to fall apart into an emotional basket case, then he needs to consider reality....understanding that part of women. Like any good football team going into a game against their nemesis, that have heard many naysayers about their chances of winning.......they still believe they can win!! After the loss comes the snivelling, grovellng misery. You can't live the old ways and expect new results. He can just learn to live with what he can't rise above....live with himself and his habits and ultimately the end results....if it's not a problem with him and the women know what they're getting into....that's just life and is what it is. So then comes the wrecking ball of life....watch out....love bites!

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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When I see that..... Posted: 11/27/2009 12:43:21 AM
Jack in the Box doesn't sell Apple turnovers anymore You have to go to a mall to go to a movie theatre the school principal at my son's school looks like a fashion model I'm wondering at what point did I get all the meds in my med cabinet I've already lived more than half the years I will probably ever live. I'm thinking about how retirement will be

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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Take hold.... Posted: 11/26/2009 11:46:05 PM
Although aimed at my ex girlfriend (the Mother of my son) I still felt a little disturbed about it and looked at the current girlfriend in a disgusting light......She said: "I'm glad I have only one Father of my two kids". My son's mom (ex) has two children from her current and fantastic marriage besides my son. I think I mentioned to her (girlfriend at the time) the fact that that Father of her two kids is still a complete nutcase of which I think she drove him to that point.......whereas my ex has two civil and fantastic Father's who don't harass her or treat her like dirt and love their children.....I should have added "Thank goodness your tubes are tied too because then I'd been connected to your nutcase self and your problems with your nutcase ex"......but I didn't know all of that in the beginning, just that her ex-husband was quite insane......found out later about her 4 visits to the mental hospital and saw the rest of the iceberg. So yes, sometimes the bad comments are relative to who's delivering them....if the rock is being thrown by someone who lives in a glass house...it just goes to show you they forgot where they live.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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You don't know jack.... Posted: 11/26/2009 10:16:29 PM
You don't know Jack until you've fallen in love with a nut....the sex is the craziest most insane "this must really be what love is all about" kind of loving you've ever had.....once you go whack.....you never go back!!

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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The Dr. is in!! Posted: 11/26/2009 8:28:34 PM
Dr. Hook said it best in the 70's with his lyrics about being in love with a beautiful woman...... When you're in love with a beautiful woman You watch your friends Watch your friends, you gotta watch your friends When you're in love with a beautiful woman It never ends It never ends, you know it never ends You know that it's crazy, you want to trust her Then somebody hangs up when you answer the phone When you're in love with a beautiful woman You go it alone Maybe it's just an ego problem Problem is I've been fooled before By fair weathered friends and faint hearted lovers And every time it happens It just convinces me more

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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Seeking Advice... Posted: 11/26/2009 8:21:26 PM
Try to find a relationship based on it's credibility and merits as love if that's what you want. If you just want to give up the ass and see how the cards fall, then do it that way. Pretty simple.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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I'm convinced.... Posted: 11/26/2009 8:16:50 PM
I'm convinced my soulmate has been blasted apart into a million parts and that each relationship is only a piece of them that I gather like parts of jigsaw puzzle.....eventually I will have all of the pieces and I'll be happy.......or I'll be dead and it won't matter.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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Just remember what S. Kinison said... Posted: 11/26/2009 8:13:35 PM
"It's not the Door to love...it's the door to hell!!"......I was out surfing today and was thinking about my buddy from High School who to this day hasn't had a serious long term relationship yet. He's a little shy and maybe really picky, but he says where he lives now, if you're not making triple digits, you don't stand a chance. I was thinking how many nuts I've been out with during the time he's not really had anything.....the fact is, he's probably been saved from a lot of heartache and pain that he has no idea what he would have went through.......... My advice would be for you to just get some dating done.....even if there's no plan for long term.....the sooner you get your feet wet, the sooner you will know of more of what you may like, what the potential might be and the compromises and sacrifices you might be willing to make to move to the next level of happiness in life.....or you may just drop off in the abyss of hell into the black hole of love.........so good luck either way....we're all counting on you!!

leavinglasvegas

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only with me for sex????? Posted: 11/26/2009 7:55:43 PM
20 is just out of the womb....he's still shooting dog water (as one of my Drill Sergeants said in basic training when I was 18....but he was right!!) Women need to date someone at least several years older, the closer you get a man to 30 years old, the better off you are......that's when I started thinking serious about marriage and having a child. Anyway, let the cards fall where they may, if he wants to be your friend cool, if not, cool too......I think he's just afraid someone else is going to be "the one" and he won't.....simple jealousies......go find yourself a real man, you'll know when you find him....a gentle...man..

leavinglasvegas

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Love & Money Posted: 11/26/2009 7:49:37 PM
I always wear the same shirt on first dates......the response to it tells me a lot about a woman....the shirt says "I started off with nothing and still have most of it left"......I wore it to my hairsylist....I think I got a hug that day....I wore it to my dentist appointment and the female dentist and female dental assistant cradled me in their bosom while working on me......my lucky shirt!! I think some women like humor and humility......confidence too.....if you can wear a shirt that says "ass".....and you just be you......women like it....trust me! One day, many years ago, I was at an event and pretty buzzed hanging out with friends and relatives.....I had a hat that says "Pimp".......and it's ludicrous!! Even I thought so........I saw a woman I used to know and haven't seen her in years and I told my cousins and relatives.....watch this.....I can go talk with her and she'll even give me a ride home.......and I'm sure they thought what a fool I was especially with that hat on if nothing else........but even with that hat on, I spoke to her nicely and was just myself....albeit with a stupid hat on..she gave me a ride home...then dated for a little while after that too.....My money personality is spend it to have fun, on my child first and our fun.....everything else is second....Just as God takes care of the animals, trees and plants....he takes care of me and I never go without.....it doesn't mean he doesn't discipline me now and then, but overall I make the money, it doesn't make me.

leavinglasvegas

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how come ladies don't like men who play videogames?? Posted: 11/26/2009 7:37:33 PM
I don't play any videogames except at the arcade with my son because that's what you do as a dad, you have to be part of the program........I have played them in the past, but they waste way too much time.....I'd rather go surfing......there's more of an edge to it. I'd recommend taking it off of your profile, keep that kind of vice in the closet and try to take it out of your life really....unless you want to stay single or you find a woman who wants to play video games too...there are some of those out there. Videogames are addictive just like anything else...internet, alcohol, drugs, sex, shopping, gambling....remember moderation.....if you can't put your games down....you have a problem Houston....

leavinglasvegas

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Zoo Supporter? Posted: 11/26/2009 7:29:27 PM
She probably doesn't drive, doesn't take public transportation either because they are polluting the air and destroying habitats....doesn't wear any leather...only drinks reclaimed water. If you've never seen the movie "The night we never met" with Matthew Broderick......get it, watch it and pay close attention to the woman he goes on one date and cooks for her that doesn't drink wine, doesn't eat certain foods...etc...etc....Anyway, I think zoo's like Landfills have changed over the years......and I think the animals in the zoo will take their chances in the zoo over a lot of their habitats....Email that girl back and tell her everyone's got an opinion about her in the forums about her anti-zoo anti-human slogans!!...lol! That ought to ring her bell.....go on...go ahead...rock the boat...live a little!!

leavinglasvegas

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What the cartoon characters said.... Posted: 11/26/2009 12:23:32 AM
Young girl # 1: My boyfriend is losing interest in me! Young girl # 2: How do you know? Young girl # 1: It says so right here in this magazine! Just be young and appreciate the moment....so many people can't just do that.....if you're not young......ugh.....well, uh, you see.....you're probably late bloomers! If you were both on a deserted island I think your chosing processes would be much more simply. People are always wondering about the bigger and better instead of building the foundation, but such is life. At least enjoy the sex while it's still unreal....because trust me...it gets worse.

leavinglasvegas

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As it sounds.. Posted: 11/26/2009 12:07:18 AM
As oversimplified as it sounds....just be yourself, do what you like doing, be happy, the more you worry about women and what they think, the deeper into the black hole of confusion you will take yourself. Accept all of the knowns about women, don't try to change them, just know what they are, sometimes you need to zig when they zag. Keep yourself busy with the things you always like doing in your life until the day you die.....so if nothing else you can at least say "I did it my way!"........I can appreciate women as much as the next guy, but worrying about what they're thinking will only take you to the dark side........be considerate, listen when they want you to listen, show compassion, do all of the manly man things that are required of you as manslave....but also have your own life, your own hobbies, work, focus and goals. The further away I step away from that "what are they thinking" time in my life, the happier I get. Ignorance is bliss.....don't you forget it!

leavinglasvegas

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Buy a T-shirt...... Posted: 11/25/2009 11:43:39 PM
Misery is part of life.....just like a Hangover is the other side of having a blast the night before....it just comes with the territory.....you might as well enjoy the euphoria while it lasts......because if you don't....who will?...Don't go from being happy to worrying about a cure for not being happy. Live it up, you're young. You'll be old and depressed like so many others soon enough.....at least you'll have the beautiful memories to think of when you are....just as the girl in Edward Scissorhands did when she was a grandma telling her granddaughter the story of her younger days....Live....it's all you can do......make your own way in life.

leavinglasvegas

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Tramps... Posted: 11/25/2009 11:29:55 PM
You don't have trust issues.....you have normal human emotions.....some people don't have boundries which it sounds like she doesn't have. I dated a massage therapist once....and she had guy friends and they would come over her house and I'd show up and they were pretty cool and all, but I started getting ready to bail after seeing these scenarios. She would have dinner with her personal trainer and all of a sudden it was her new friend......she kept in contact with her ex also....well, I just couldn't keep up with all of her guy friends, so I bailed. I ran into her at a bar at the beach months later and there she was....with the ex she had stayed in contact with..they were dating again........she came up and gave me a big hug and kiss on the cheek, I don't think he knew who I was......he looked puzzled like "what the hell??"...then he realized who I was.....her ex!.....he was cool and we said hello, she was talking to me and said "where's your girlfriend!?" and twisted my earlobe....I guess she thought I left because I had another woman......no, I left before I got hurt or dropped myself....so that's my advice!! I left that situation without too much of my pride hurt, I'd advise you too do that same. I'm not into jealousy situations and I've never been one to want to fight over a woman, I've confronted a guy or two before, but not to fight, just to know reality from the truth and not from a filtered version from a woman. It's the woman who's playing you, not the man most of the time. Us men are simple creatures...

leavinglasvegas

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Sunglasses at night.. Posted: 11/25/2009 11:15:34 PM
Make sure he's wearing Polarized glasses when you tell him....it may help! You can always introduce him the slow way....there's a movie called "Mr. Jones" with Richard Gere a the Bi-Polar guy.......you can find it online......you can watch it first.....watch it together and ask him what he thinks after he watches it......I thought the guy was great personally!! Funny too!! As long as you can control yourself, know your triggers...I would think it's like any other issue in a relationship.....you work it out....but why do people always say "everything is great...it's been 3 months/4 months....dating". It's such a short time. I dated a woman a few years back and it took me a couple of months to find out she had a mental hospital visit in her past, but another couple of years to find out there were 3 more in her past!! In my opinion....you still don't know anyone for awhile....he may be Bi-Polar II for all you know or something worse and then the tide will change........life is stranger than fiction

leavinglasvegas

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You'll never learn or understand until.... Posted: 11/25/2009 10:50:58 PM
Let her go, if you don't love her and don't want to move forward. Women find men easy and if she's that good of a catch, she won't be on the market long, she'll get over you. She'll be married and living a happy life over you sooner than you might think. You are replaceable, no matter what you think. You'll move on in life too, more than likely never finding another person like her.....but then you've learned the value of what you once had...and maybe you will have another chance somewhere down the line or not.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

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Harry Palm Posted: 11/25/2009 10:46:01 PM
Well, he needs counseling, he's still living in the past and the past is something you can never change, so it's a futile process to remain there. I've dated someone who did that, but you really need to chalk it up as someone who is emotionally unavailable, but I don't think you'll see that clearly until you keep your pants zipped up. You think you're feeling love while making whoopee......if you could hear what his mind was saying when you're doing "it"....you might see things more clearly. If you feel like dragging it out, then drag it out, but 2003 is 6 going on 7 years ago.....proooooobleemmmmsss!! Issssuuuuueeeesss!! Get it right for your own well being!

leavinglasvegas

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I'm Young...I know, but even so.....love hurts... Posted: 11/25/2009 10:22:28 PM
Look closely in the mirror and say to yourself "why am I thinking so deeply about all this? I'm only 21......if this doesn't work out...that's life as a young person in love......when I get older and know better, I can look back at these times and laugh and sing....when I was young, making love was just for fun...those days are gone....don't wanna be....all by myself.....anymore!" Be young, be yourself, you can't be what you expect yourself to be until you're old enough to know better...and when you're old enough to know better, you'll wish you were young again not knowing any better because those times my child.....are when love was the most exciting, fun, wide open and unexplored...it had so much more potential...

leavinglasvegas

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Shop Smart....shop S mart!! Posted: 11/25/2009 10:08:01 PM
......Yeah, like in the deal..see!" Well, getting back in is overrated....."it's not the door to love...it's the door to hell"-S. Kinison

leavinglasvegas

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Guys that want no strings attached Posted: 11/25/2009 10:02:04 PM
I think it's being an arrogant way of saying they're reallly a dik. If you meet someone and you don't know anything about them, it should still be innocent until proven guilty. If I were you, I'd tell your friends to just respond...."that's fine....I like to take things really slow anyway...I consider sex a string...so I like no strings attached either...but we can hang out"......Good luck either way....it's a tough crowd out there nowdays.....nobody really knows what they really want....the t-shirt business said it best....."I'm confused....no wait, maybe I'm not"....

leavinglasvegas

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I appreciate the High 5..... Posted: 11/23/2009 8:58:37 PM
It's a tough crowd out there, so it's intimidating to post sometimes. I appreciate the kudos.....but truly...babies don't come out laughing...everything was just fine a moment ago! What happened?? Says the baby! Seriously after I saw a few movies where blurred vision was involved....and saw how humans can look with only shadows and shapes.....then the Aliens abducted stories, then remember my son being born......I have no doubt in my mind. Anyway, a newscaster in Aliens vs. Monsters said it best......"Aliens have landed in the U.S........the only place in the world they seem to land (sarcastically speaking) )

leavinglasvegas

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Alien abductions? Yeah, that's how babies see it. Posted: 11/22/2009 10:07:34 PM
I think at least the view is better coming out from that side....lol

leavinglasvegas

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Alien abductions? Yeah, that's how babies see it. Posted: 11/22/2009 8:28:24 PM
If you've ever seen what they put a baby through at birth......they are being abducted!! They are taken from their home (Mom)...put in the hands of Aliens! Have things stuck up their nose, have their eyes messed with, blood drawn, prodded, poked, at least one or two things cut off them that were there before....and they can't do anything about it. It's said that babies can only see general shapes/shadows......imagine what the Aliens eye sockets look like and bodies.....Aliens! So is there any wonder some people have that Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome when they are put under hypnosis?? How much more proof do you need? Aliens do exist and we've all seen them when we first came into this world!! I've heard all the Alien Abuduction stories I need to and have seen a birth only once to know how terrifying it really must be....and it did happen and it was real......I know! So yes, I do believe the terror for some it must have been.

leavinglasvegas

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What do I do? Posted: 11/19/2009 10:07:04 PM
Everybody likes something and perhaps you haven't found the true thing you really enjoy yet. If you have hobbies you haven't given much attention to lately that require less emotions and more concentration.....hit them back up. I've surfed for 26 years, and spent time in the ocean 12 years longer than that....so a total of about 38 years with the ocean. Be that as it may, I've still had up and down years, some years I barely surfed a couple of times and those were years I really could have used that inner peaceful soul feeling. When I'm lost, always returning to it has made me find my way back to something I let slip through the cracks that I've always loved. I take in all aspects of it, the sounds, the smells, the feelings, walking on the beach, walking on the boardwalk, riding my bike on the boardwalk, having a coffee drink and watching it...and of course the best of them all is being part of it, duck diving through waves, riding on vessel on the power that came many miles to break only once. I could go on and on about how deep surfing is, but I won't. I just want to throw that out there, go hiking, go to the movies alone, you don't always have to be in a group setting. I go to most of my concerts alone, to the movies alone, take long drives alone....sometimes you have to learn to be a spirit that can stand alone to truly find out what you are. There's always one person who can lift you up or bring you down....and that's the guy in the mirror, so do him a favor and work on him.....getting involved with a girl when you don't know who that guy is will only double your problems in the long run. It sounds like you need to change your scenery to change up your mental state....and trust me, effort is your first step to any recovery.

leavinglasvegas

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Born in the wrong era.... Posted: 11/18/2009 11:44:43 AM
You would have loved the 60's.......probably a lot of people too. I love sex just as much as the next person who really loves sex, but I've taken it out of the equation as being the center of any goal.....You tend to focus more on the human aspect of a person and not the self-centeredness of what's in it for yourself. Best advice, stay away from watching anything pornographic, stay away from others who center their lives on sex and have a bigger appreciation for spanking the monkey, it really makes you a whole lot more relaxed in the end and clears your mind.

leavinglasvegas

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For clarification and mis-interpretation Posted: 11/18/2009 1:56:30 AM
.....when I tell a woman "gimme some sugar baby"....that doesn't mean I love you....it just means exactly what it sounds like. You see part of the problem is mis-interpretation. Men are animals and live in caves....women are from the giant blue gassy dreamy looking planet....

leavinglasvegas

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Is the number of acceptable places to approach women offline shrinking? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:53:53 AM
Yeah, it's tough approaching anyone for a future meeting or dating let alone a brief conversation, but my hairstylist and my dental assitant both molest me frequently when I visit with them.....I feel so violated sometimes!! In a good way.....I hope it's as good for them as it was for me......but I never ask.....women can get away with so much more!!

leavinglasvegas

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Are there women/men who wait as long as 6 mos. before sex? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:50:18 AM
One of my girlfriends was like that....I wish I never gave in to my manly desires....I would have been better off, but nevertheless as some women say "everything happens for a reason"....my reponse to that cliche is this....."...and that reason may be because you were stupid"

leavinglasvegas

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Would you message someone if you knew they weren't going to respond? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:44:55 AM
I don't tend to email attractive women, just average, well, what I consider average, they might consider themselves a beauty queen...I consider myself average. Anyway, sometimes I feel like a nut and sometimes I don't. You'll never know what you can do, until you try. I think a lot of women these days think they are it, even if they are just an average run of the mill looking person with a below average personality....I think it comes from too much sex and body worshiping in our society, if you minus that factor, I think you'd find a lot more women back down on earth....but nevertheless it isn't the world we live in. I find the women that treat me the nicest are the ones in real life....the bank, the cofffee shop...etc...etc..the ones that I ignore and could care less about for the most part except to say hi and small talk because that's life. It's only here where you put more time and attention into the "dating" thoughts and what surrounds them. This isn't the real world, it's a sub-culture of a world. I don't expect to find my bride here, let alone in the real world, but the chances here for that are far less. So take this all with a grain of salt, try to make a friend if that's even possible because half the time you're being sized up as a mate and if you don't meet their criteria or say the right things they want to hear, they disappear. I just about answer every one who writes me except some of the older perverted ladies who want me to come drive up and meet them some 5 hour town away....yeah right!

leavinglasvegas

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If you could change one day in your past, what... Posted: 11/18/2009 12:31:08 AM
Before I flipped my car over and crashed...I would have zigged instead of zagged.

leavinglasvegas

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Do you ever think about how much time you have left? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:29:19 AM
Op: Yes, I agree, it's a good post. I filtered (with the majority of the help coming from God) out through jobs that were taking life away from me. I have come full circle with what I did again for a career almost 10 years ago and it's almost like a second wind without all of the politics and pressures I had to deal with the first time around. The pay is higher, the work is less and the freedom is greater. Work wise I couldn't be happier, sometimes I work 10 days straight, but it's always outside in the fresh out, out in the wilderness watching the animals and plants, discovering new ones and more. Sometimes I work 2 or 3 days out of a week, sometimes I work one day out of a week, sometimes I work for 2 weeks, sometimes it can be for a month.....but the answer is yes, it can still pay the bills. My last job was in a building 10-12 hours a day and never being out amongst the plants, air, animals, fresh air and more, so I feel I am living everyday I'm out working and when I'm off...I go swimming, surfing, a nice walk around a lake, my son and I go on adventures, resorts, amusement parks, play mini-golf, dave and busters, baseball games.....my life couldn't be any better and I couldn't ask for more. I know the next 10 years will be even better than my last 10 and this is the 1st year of those 10 and that's good enough to know. I don't want any serial dating situation, that's why I filter out people pretty good when I speak with them in person, they may not know it, but as long as you really listen to what potential dates are saying, you will find out soon enough. I see myself being healthier and healthier as I get older, you just have to change up routine....swimming, walking, surfing, tennis, keep a mix of everything, stretching, dancing in the mirror (or out and about), singing.....I think it's best to do as much as you can to help your body be comfortable with as many things as you can get comfortable with as long as you don't abuse it with toxins. I still do the worm every now and then too.

leavinglasvegas

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Complicated Girl Question Posted: 11/18/2009 12:16:29 AM
Use the oldest form of self-defense on her!! RUN!!!

leavinglasvegas

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Has your Adult ADD ruined/sabotaged relationships? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:12:52 AM
Wait! What was that??! Wait! Hold on just a second, I'll be right back!!

leavinglasvegas

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She is confusing me Posted: 11/18/2009 12:11:09 AM
Run!! Before your heart is pulled in and out of your chest....sliced, diced and salted, blended and malted.....Sam Kinison said it best "you're being her emotional tampon"......I'm sure most men have been there at least once or twice.

leavinglasvegas

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Why do men seem distant? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:07:52 AM
I'm always honest after a woman shows me the Dirty Harry.....I never say anything.....and they ask and wonder why I was so quiet.......words are cheap, but can turn out to be so expensive.

leavinglasvegas

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Is being yourself really good advice? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:04:10 AM
Ever since I stopped being and doing what the voices told me to be and do.......I haven't been myself at all!

leavinglasvegas

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Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 11/17/2009 5:13:41 AM
No they don't. Every so often I drive though to grab some fast food......and I see 80 percent of the people in line are women....whether young or old, married or not, I hear them ordering for a whole family.......I feel bad for them. If I were their boyfriend/husband I would cook for them instead of letting them go run off for some fast food. I explained this crazy thing to my mom, she said she thinks it's because there are more single women in San Diego......not!! Anyway, I don't mind cooking if it's her going to some fast food and grab us something or nothing. I'm not the greatest cook, but I do alright and I'm more than able and willing.

leavinglasvegas

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cheated Posted: 11/17/2009 5:06:39 AM
I think in my 20's, but I don't give a damn now. If she wanted to be with the other person, she would still be there I imagine, if you didn't tickle her fancy, I'm sure she would find or would have found someone else. It's better that people have at least dated a few people and people always make mistakes, maybe somewhere down the line you will make a big one and this whole situation will seem like nothing. If you can't get over, just be friends, she'll move on a date someone else, women can always find someone to date really easy, then see how you feel then. Perhaps you would realize you would have rather have just thought of it as nothing than be alone spanking the monkey at home.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 88 (view)

Prove Me Wrong, PLEASE Posted: 11/17/2009 5:00:20 AM
Stop reading "Swank" magazine and you'll be better off. ...those magazines are only good for use as pictures and not the articles. I used to think sex was part of the package, but I could care less now. I enjoy my peaceful times alone, especially when most women have used sex as some type of leverage in the relationship, but nevertheless, my last girlfriend never said no, she was great that way, but with the crazy sex usually comes a crazy mind...10 times out of 10, even those women who were crazy in the past have admitted this themselves.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 269 (view)

YOu never know... Posted: 11/17/2009 4:52:54 AM
We were behind a person on a scooter yesterday while driving...my grandmother asks "is that a woman or a man?" I had initially thought it was a woman, but then I re-examined them and the legs could have went either way, the sweater too, the medium blonde hair too......but finally alas......the pink helmet!! I told my grandmother "I don't think a man would be wearing a pink helmet, it's got to be a woman!.....but then again!!"...lol!

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 76 (view)

He's banged his open-relationship roomie.... Posted: 11/17/2009 4:47:02 AM
You're fighting a losing battle and will only continue to stir up your emotions as long as he lives there, she lives there, you visit there. If that doesn't bother you, then continue dealing with him, otherwise you're setting yourself up for a pain in the ass situation.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

on-again, off-again Posted: 11/17/2009 4:40:24 AM
I'd say find out what the true experts have to say if you're asking here.....ask Cosmo!!

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

honest answer... Posted: 11/17/2009 4:33:22 AM
Sounds like a perfect situation to me. If it isn't broken, don't fix it. I had a couple of relationships like those......I'm sad they ended! It's been studied and found that people who FWB it, end up remaining friends after such said situation is over....so there's your upside!!

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

No-one likes him except me Posted: 11/17/2009 4:10:52 AM
Hey! If you have the goldmine, you might as well let it be dug into....if you like your situation, keep on trucking.....as long as there is some value in the relationship, maybe it's security of a person being around. If that's the case, why not? Do what you want to do. Everybody has an opinion in this world, just look at these forums, so many completely different opinions.....if you feel good, then feeling good is good enough.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 13 (view)

A question for you all... Posted: 11/17/2009 4:01:17 AM
Sounds like a question for the magazines.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 153 (view)

Hope this helps..... Posted: 11/15/2009 10:07:16 PM
Q. What is an economic stimulus payment? A. It is money the federal government will send to taxpayers. Q. Where will the government get this money? A. From taxpayers. Q. So the government is giving me back my own money? A. Only a smidgen. Q. What is the purpose of this payment? A. The plan is for you to use the money to purchase a high-definition TV set, thus stimulating the economy. Q. But isn't that stimulating the economy of China ? A. Shut up. Now, some helpful advice on how best to help the U.S. economy by spending your stimulus check wisely: If you spend the stimulus money at Wal-Mart, your money will go to China . If you spend it on gasoline, your money will go to the Arabs. If you purchase a computer, it will go to India . If you purchase fruit and vegetables, it will go to Mexico , Honduras and Guatemala . If you buy a car, it will go to Japan or Korea . If you purchase useless stuff, it will go to Taiwan . If you pay off your credit cards off or buy stock, it will go to management bonuses and be hidden offshore. Instead, keep the money in America by: 1. spending it at yard sales; 2. going to ball games; 3. spending it on prostitutes; 4. buying beer; or 5. getting tattoos. These are the only American businesses still operating in the U.S. Conclusion: Go to a ball game with a tattooed prostitute you met at a yard sale and drink beer all day.

leavinglasvegas

Joined: 5/13/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

You can quote me on that ... Posted: 11/15/2009 7:21:04 PM
Woman: "I've seen you somewhere before" Steve Martin: "I've been somewhere before"-Dead Men Don't Wear Plaid

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