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brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Big Girls ridin ?!? Posted: 2/15/2007 1:43:17 AM
ha ha i just realized i said up and back motion...i meant up and down lol

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Big Girls ridin ?!? Posted: 2/15/2007 1:42:29 AM
wjh 55- are you kidding? how big was the woman? i can understand if she did nothing but sit with all her weight on your lap and have a 10 min convorsation then ya....your lower half would go numb lol but usually there is rocking or an up and back down motion which gives ample opportunity for your blood to pump to your legs and um....member without interuption. just because you had a bad experiance dont go deflating her. It works just fine( more than fine at times) for tons of people . plus if she is 20 im sure he would be around the same age and at that age god help you if you try to stop the blood from reaching his love stick hahahahaha. just my 2 cents you ride on girl and im sorry to hear it didnt work out but at least now you know you can whip out the cowboy hat for the next guy in your life :)

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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how do u decide what song is you and ur partners special song? Posted: 2/15/2007 12:27:13 AM
i agree with the first kiss or first dance ideas but it got me thinking. say your sitting with that person talking or driving in the car etc and they say something or do something and at that moment you realize you like this person as more than a friend. i found that the song that was playing at that time stuck in my head......i guess im sappy like that lol

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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She will track me down and KILL ME! Posted: 1/30/2007 3:41:55 AM
well i read the responses and thanks so much for the advice. Just to answer a few questions i wasnt friends with her we worked together but i knew him before they dated. He and i were friends then. He didnt know what a ding bat she was until they had been dating for a while and no she didnt assault anyone during the relationship. yes she would get mad and cause scenes but no violence. this was all before him. I am fully aware that he is on the rebound right now which is why were still friends at this stage and i know we will be for a while because broken hearts take time to heal. i was more inquiring down the road so to speak. I am trying to be considerate of her because even though she is phsyco i know she too is hurting and does have a heart in there somewhere. i am hoping that she will eventually find someone and then the situation will be different. By the time she let him see her craziness they had already been together a while and by then he was in the whole " love forgives all " stage i guess. he regrets the relationship and knows she treated him like trash and considers it a wasted year. if we ever do decide to date or she does ask i may take the advice and be honest in saying we are aquaintances and my stance on it and hopefully her messed up mind will be calm in that moment lol. The self defence tips and legal advice i am going to take to heart ...so thanks:) and no i was not drunkenly flirting with him and thank you for sticking up for me :) ill keep you posted

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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She will track me down and KILL ME! Posted: 1/30/2007 3:25:44 AM
well arcticmermaid she hasnt warned me. others have in a way. not me but " whoever he dates next better watch out" sorta thing.

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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She will track me down and KILL ME! Posted: 1/30/2007 3:24:34 AM
wow she hit her??? thats exaxctly what im worried about! how did that all turn out?

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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She will track me down and KILL ME! Posted: 1/28/2007 5:04:19 PM
steve-I have never seen her fight anyone. but have heard stories from her, others, him etc. i have however seen her loose it on people ie. yelling and swearing in public, name calling etc so i wouldnt put it past her. she is starting to go on dates but he dumped her so i think him dating would be another story. my worry is if she does something before the letter is written,. also we know alot of the same people so they would all talk but thanks i have never heard of the letter as an option

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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She will track me down and KILL ME! Posted: 1/28/2007 5:00:09 PM
well and thats my worry. I can deal with her being pissed off or saying shit to me but she is a scrapper and if she decides to take out her agression on me ill loose. i was hoping she may one day be rational or start dating someone else and get over it but i dont know if i can see that happening. i feel that me and her werent friends we were aquaintances( sorry i cant spell lol ) but i doubt she sees it that way. i would look for another one except this one is a real catch. for me im in limbo . if i wasnt worried about my safty there would be no question.

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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She will track me down and KILL ME! Posted: 1/28/2007 4:47:44 PM
Hey fishies i need some advice. i like this guy but he has a really angry obsessed ex who thinks we are friends just because we worked together and saw each other at a pub a few times. We dont call each other or hang out or anything. she is the kind of woman that if we do ever date and she finds out ....lets just say id worry about my safty in parking lots!!! He is such a catch though and we have been friends for a while( me and him ) we like talking and lately hes been calling( last three days) to hang out or just talk. sometimes he talks about the pain of their break up ( 2 months ago) and sometimes just to talk . he is charasmatic, funny and good looking and i like spending time with him. i could see us dating down the road . lately hes been telling me how much he loves talking to me and spending time with me( friend stage right now) but i dont know what to do if i want to ever pursue more down the road. shes psyco literally and dont know if she would ever be ok with it no matter how much time passes. but i also dont want to let this one get away if something does happen with us. what do i do? thanks for reading and your responses

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Pure sex appeal Posted: 7/27/2006 8:38:18 PM
Deffinatly had that experiance. I was a waitress at a pub and it was a boyfriend of one of the bartenders( i know ....bad!!!) nothin ever happened while they were together but everytime he walked in it was butterflies. Then he would come up to me and ask for a drink close to my ear and put his hand on my low back...OH MY GOD!!! then there is always the eye contact thats so intense you eventually have to look away. He ended up tellin me couple moths later he had a thing for me and wanted to know if he was the only one feelin the sexual tension?! Hell No he wasnt alone! Gotta Love the pure sex appeal and Sexual tension that goes with it.

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 8:31:23 PM
UPDATE!!!! I ASKED HIM ABOUT IT. I took some of your guys advice and casually brought it up. I asked him " you and ______ werent married were you ?" he said no why do you ask? I told him about how i look for peoples names on the internet etc etc and i found his old buisness listed on a website. He was surprised they were on one. I checked the name of the buisness etc and he said yep that was it. I said the funny thing is though is that it gives the impression that you guys were married ie. Jane and John Smith. He said that they were common law and together for over 2 years( which i knew) No they never married but it looked more credible and was easier to represent themselves that way or not correct people when that assumed so.. The buisness was in his name and she later worked with him when they got together so people assumed this was his wife and he let them do so. I told him i wouldnt care or change my opinion of him if he had been married twice. He said that was good to know but he was still only married once. He said he assumed since i was ok with one divorce if he had been twice i would be ok with it.( smiling). He was very relaxed and didnt get jittery or display any of the" shit ive been caught in a lie what do i say.... or how did she find out" responses. I believe him. Also he was divorced( him and his ex seperated 5 years ago and has had 2 serious long term relationships since...one 2 and a half years and one 1 year with some time inbetween. therefore wouldnt really have had time to Date/engaged/married/divorced etc etc. I feel better since i have asked him about it. It was just going to eat away at me. Someone pointed out that it doesnt look like a have a trusting relationship otherwise i wouldnt have done this post. see- everything was great full of trust untiul this website i found. I am not jelouse, i trust him etc but seeing this website makes you question it because its such a shock...out of left feild ya know? Thank you all so much for your advice/ opinions...it really helped. I would have done the private investigator or checking the reccords thing if i had at all been doubtful of his response to my inquiry. but in doing so now when i believe him and behind his back shows secrecy and a lie by omission on my part. And i dont feel good with that based on the way things panned out. Thanks Again

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 1:43:39 PM
I am so happy people are responding to my post!!! this is really helping. Guitarman- That has unfortunatly crossed my mind ....lets just hope the other shoe doesnt drop! Femalegirlwoman- Thats Rough!!!!!! Did you stay with him after he " left out" a son? OpieDopey - I was wondering if there was such a site....do you know what its called???does anyone??? dont you have to pay money to see the records? thanks guys

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 1:33:05 PM
Hey Bryantinfl ....that is an awesome idea. He comes over to look on the computor for camping sites we wanna go to . so i can do that next time he is here if i loose the nerve to bring it up on my own.

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 3:18:08 AM
Capn/ what do you mean a misspell? its like " sarah and scott peters". isnt that the same though as Mr and Mrs smith? maybe they could have forgot her last name but that would be a pretty big oversight.

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 3:12:31 AM
I agree cassidy. If he feels accused it will just escalate an already tense conversation. I'll take your advice on bringing it up that way I just hope he didnt lie. we'll see though right? lol thanks

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 2:49:38 AM
hey capn' Thank you . Thats why i posted this thread. I would never have thought about the legal ramifications if it were a lie. I may be grasping here but is it possible that the buisness was in his name ( he always refered to it as his buisness) therefore all the legal documents were in his name. She could have then been an employee? maybe for the website they just used the same name to give them more credibility( being married i guess) but had seperate ones on the legal documents??? i know im grasping but i dont want to jump to conclusions and start accusing him of things that may be false.

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 2:44:40 AM
I do plan on being in a long term relationship with him. Other than this we are doin great . Lots of love and trust. He very readily open and honest and has never seemed secretive at all. I am usually a good judge of character and can pick up on this stuff with my friends boyfriends. He is 37. I 100% dont think i am a charm on his arm for a while. He is very comitted and our conversations are all long term centered with him initiating them. I can deffinatly see how it could look that way though. i was even sceptical in the beginning. He has told me that his intentions are to marry me later down the road. thanks so much for your opinion

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Possibly Married TWICE???!!! Posted: 7/26/2006 2:15:41 AM
I found myself in a weird situation today and i need some advice/opinions. I find it funny to look up my/friends/families names on the internet to see who people are and what their doing that have the same name as you. So i typed in my boyfriends name. we'll call him " Scott Peters ".He used to own a carpet cleaning buisness that did quite well so a website for it came up. Now i know he was married once for 11 years and im ok with this.He says he has only been married once. I also know the name of an ex he had after his divorce for 2 years...we'll call her "Sarah". What struck me was that it read OWNERS: Scott and Sarah Peters! would this not imply that they were married as well??? Now they could have used the same last name because it was less complicated for the buisness and they were common-law right? Or am i making excuses? I know i need to ask him but i dont want to insult him if im being stupid. He has told me alot about her and their relationship and i think would have mentioned if they were married.But what if he has been married twice and is lying,,,how do i know. side note: his dad is on his 6th wife- but he says thats not how he wants to be....still the family history makes me nervous with this situation please dont delete this thread....i need advice. Thanks so much

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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MEN: do you find younger women to be more 'trustworthy'? Posted: 7/25/2006 6:07:04 PM
being " young " i can see both sides with people my age. However to generalize one way or another is unfair to the person. Some women my age are compleetly untrustworthy. they cheat and have a " whatever " approach to their superficial relationships. Others are very mature for their age and do very well in " adult" relationships. My boyfriend is 37 and we are very well matched for eachother with no maturity issues. He has also said however, that being younger he finds i am less jaded than his exes his age. I am also less jealous and not only more trustworthy but also more trusting of him!

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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How long after you start daing someone, should you still be active on a dating site? Posted: 7/18/2006 8:17:34 PM
The same thing happened to a buddy of mine with his girlfriend he met on this site. How do you know he is looking for dates? does his status say single or has he changed it to dating? What is he lookin for " friends" or "Dating"? Is there any mention of him being attatched in his profile. I think you should talk to him about it. tell him it bothers you and ask him why he is on the site still...you never know what his reason is and its so easy to jump to conclusions. if its been a few months id say he should be off this site and if he is " single " and lookin for " dating" on his profile then i would seriously question the relationship. he has you...theres no need for that. hope that helped a bit

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Favorite Quotes Posted: 3/16/2006 2:22:23 AM
I havnt had a chance to look thru all the quote on here so if you guys have heard these already sorry. " I no doubt i deserved my enemies but i dont believe i deserved my friends" Walt Whitman " No man, for any considerable period, can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude without finally getting bewildered as to which may be true" Nathaniel Hawthorne...the scarlet letter. "All castles made of sand melt into the sea...eventually" Unknown " I am as bad as the worst but thank god i am as good as the best" W. Whitman The last one is from my mom :) " One tree can not grow in another trees shadow"

brighteyes20

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Do I have the right to be jealous? Posted: 12/31/2005 4:51:44 PM
I think that the people commenting that she is " screwing some other guy, and your blind" are being really insensitive and speaking of things they know NOTHING about. The dont KNOW her....you do and if you think she has better morals than that then thats all you need to know. So IGNORE THOSE KIND OF COMMENTS! I think it is normal that you would be jelouse and you have the right because those are your feelings. no one can tell you not to feel them. She should be making time for you YES but shes not maybe she is really really busy, his family is here too right and i think you said she was busy with them as well? I know im replying after christmas so i hope she did make some time for you . I think that even if it was 20 mins she could have made the time and the matter at hand is not " is she screwing him" but are you getting as much from her in this relationship as you are putting in? She is not being as considerate of your feelings as she should be and thats the bottom line. Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel! hope everything goes or went well:)

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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Why do women who have it all cheat and distroy everything? Posted: 12/13/2005 10:55:09 PM
I think that if a woman has it all( good marriage, kids, housem golen retriever etc) and still manages to ** it up its because there are deeper issues there. 1. The marriage is only great on the surface, sometimes not matter how close you are to someone you just cant tell them how bad things are....its easier to put up a front...even to your friends! 2. She is insecure or really and need to know shes still" got it" . that other men still want her. And for those reasons has an affair. 3. Its forbidden, greener pasture syndrome 4. she is miserable and doesnt feel she can leave he relationship, or didnt wanna hurt him with divorce papers so she lied. feel inlove with this other guy and now had to tell him. 5. She is a ** and think s of no one but herself....what she wants and when she wants it with no regard to anyone elses feelings cause she is and always will be the center of her own universe. no one else!!! i have never cheated and think it is soooo wrong. These reasons do not in anyway justify her actions, I just think these may be some off the reasons women cheat when things seem to be so good. i am really sorry your frind is goin through that. and about your feelings for him. patience is a virtue....hes so hurt right now he cant see past the end of his own nose( you ).time heals and then he may sing a different song:)

brighteyes20

Joined: 8/16/2005

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What TV character would be your perfect match? Posted: 11/12/2005 9:33:14 PM
I would have to say Logan from gilmore girls. He is hot, has drive( ie going somewhere in life), suave, can be a bad boy but also a good boy( with rory awww). Funny, very whitty! I love that in a guy. If they are mentaly stimulating, keep me guessing and also funny. IM set. he would deffinatly be my 1st pic. Luke danes a second if i were older.:)

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