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Joined: 5/16/2008

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Hi guys! Need some advice please! Posted: 11/16/2008 12:54:42 PM
I think we men in general are different in the way we think ,or assume some things...I have read your situation,and I don't get any feeling that you are really pressuring the guy...It's nice that a woman does take the lead or control..I feel it makes things more easier for a guy at times..now,on to you and this guy..Maybe he thinks you are moving too fast,or want some commitment from him..As I said,I don't see this,but maybe he feels or thinks differently.. I think you have made a couple of moves already,and now it's his turn..If he truly likes you,or want's to be with you,or see you at the very least,then he is going to make the next move..I feel if he does not make any move,then you should move on..As this would show that he is not interested..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Can I get men's opinions on my profile? Posted: 11/11/2008 6:34:34 PM
Well,I don't know about your other profile...However,the one you have now seems pretty good..It is fun,seems honest and very direct as what you want..The pics are nice also...The problem is,maybe there aren't enough men in the North Bay area,that are here on POF..Not sure if there are nor not..Other than that,profile seems cool..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Favorites List????? Posted: 11/10/2008 4:28:50 PM
Speaking of favourites list..I don't know about how this works..I mean,I see some scary looking doods(unkempt also)and they seem to have hundreds of girls on their favourites list..Then I see,nerdy type guys,and they also have tons of women adding them ..The reason why I know this is,one of the guys is my neighbour,and the other guy works at our company,and he brags to us..Yet this guy looks like a creepy scary man..Then there is other guys,and they have no ladies adding them..Ever it seems..Yes,I am one of them:(

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Is this guy intersted or not? Posted: 11/9/2008 7:23:30 AM
Exactly..He wants his cake and eat it too..Feeling used is not a good thing..You should try and really think about where you headed with this guy...In my oppinion..this won't work...

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Not sure how to react to this, what's going on? Posted: 11/9/2008 7:06:23 AM
Let's see...Ok,I think the guy wants or wanted a little something more with you,but you were distant and wanted no part in things as talking about sex and so on..He was probably to a point where,he wanted your attention,and this is why he was making remarks towards other women..Actually,this seems to be bothering you,even though You are the one who wanted nothing from this guy,other than friendship..Is he being disrespectfull?Somewhat..If he makes these comments almost each and every time you guys go out,then yea,he is..Is it possible that you are starting to get comfortable with this guy,but you are afraid to admit it?Do you want to remain friends with him?Can you see yourself dating him,if not more?Maybe you should take a step back,and see this guy from a distance..this way,you can visualize what you want from this man..Friendship,or possibly more..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Confused ?? Posted: 11/9/2008 6:45:52 AM
We don't know for a fact if he's really seeing ,or interesting in someone else..He could also be confused with things..Probably thinking,he's going way too fast...I think though,he may not want to get involved with you at this point,and he's making excuses to try to cover up his real feelings towards you..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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So not really having much luck. Posted: 11/9/2008 6:37:54 AM
Hey,most guys on here are on the same boat..By what I understand ,you really are a nice guy,and very caring...Sometimes though,women need just a little something extra..There are millions of guys on here..Lot's of competition..You have to ask yourself,why should a woman be with you..what do you have to offer,other than being a really caring guy?

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Greatest footballer (soccer) Pele or Maradona? Or any other you decide. Posted: 11/9/2008 12:15:17 AM
I think what the question should have been is,if Pele or Maradona were better than Yohan Cruyff..For those who don't know,or have seen him,He was far and away the greatest player in Europe for many years..He always competed against the best,and proved that he was the best..Period..His Holland team were favourites to win the world cup a few times..They lost in the finals to Argentina in 1978,and again losing to West Germany in 1974..Even though,they did not win the cup being in the finals for two world cups in a row,they were still considered the best team between 1974 to 1978.. As for who I think is better between Pele or Maradonna?Very difficult,but you have to give the edge to Pele..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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COLLEGE FOOTBALL SEASON Posted: 11/8/2008 10:45:58 PM
Problem with USC is that the pac 10 does not have a championship..Still,this seems to be one of the best one lose teams to be voted into a national championship game.. USC is a sexy matchup in any BCS bowl..For arguments sake..Let's say Texas Tech and Alabama go undefeated,and play for the the tile..I would (as most would )prefer seeing USC vs Florida,than the actually championship game..Or USC vs Texas or Oklahoma..No disrespect to those undefeated teams..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Dumped for Answering Honestly! LOL Posted: 11/8/2008 9:48:53 PM
I think when you gave him your answer,he became defensive..It probably made him think that he had to compete with the other guy..Maybe not compete,but compared too..Oh I bet he would surely ask you as some point,if he was better than the other guy..I wonder if being truthfull with him(again)would make him really lose it..Unless,you would tell him that he was better than the former guy..You do deserve better..

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Profile and plenty of fish Posted: 11/8/2008 9:35:55 PM
The (about me) imfo was foward and direct..you are indicating who you are,and who you're looking for.. You lost me in the (first date)segment..I can't begin to tell you how often I read the same things over and over on what women would want to do on a first date.. The about me and first date don't add up..You seem to like adventure by what you are describing in your profile..Yet,when you start talking about your first date, it seems scripted..You're risky one moment,and then you are in control and say something that that has been said time and time again..Which one really fits your criteria?

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Simply seeking input really Posted: 11/8/2008 9:18:12 PM
Not sure..I read it a couple of times..It seems that you are in a hurry to meet someone and get it over with..As to see if you match up I mean..I agree with some points you make,as wasting 6 months of your time e-mailing each other..I think you want results quick..Maybe in the area where you live,there are not as many guys out there.. On this site I mean..Try slowing down a bit..Other than that,you do seem like a cool mom:)

Joined: 5/16/2008

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deleted..... Posted: 11/8/2008 9:06:02 PM
Nothing in your profile really sticks out..You are probably a good guy..Maybe if you change some words around,things may improve..You need to get more attention..Start with new photos,and then you can work on your imfo,and other insterests..The majority on here, have problems with one thing or another with their profile..It's not easy..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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Help meee Posted: 11/8/2008 8:50:02 PM
I read what some of the other members had to say..I guess I can add my own input..I thought your profile was fine..You are actually saying what type of person you are,and what type of guy you would want to be with..The problem is,your profile sounds like a lot of other women's descriptions..I guess you may want to tinker with some of the phrases,and get more attention..You won't scare anyone away as the way you say things,and with your photos..However,you need to attract more attention with your expressions..

Joined: 5/16/2008

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COLLEGE FOOTBALL SEASON Posted: 11/8/2008 8:16:24 PM
Not sure about Alabama staying #1 ..Even though they won on the road,they struggled against LSU who is not as good this year(as previous years)..Texas Tech should be #1,cause they have beaten two quality teams in Texas and Oklahoma state... However,both teams as of right now,would be playing for the national championship...

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