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Cleverkitten

Joined: 5/17/2008

Msg: 29 (view)

Advice on getting dates? Posted: 8/31/2012 12:07:28 PM
I have no problems with someone not having a public photo as I have set my filters that they must have a photo to contact me. They can't use the usual pathtic excuses for not having one and I can always use Tineye if they look too much like a movie star.

Cleverkitten

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80's Disco Night at the White Crow pub Brighton 6 Oct 2012 Posted: 8/28/2012 3:21:06 PM
Signed up to help your numbers as good times have always been had on the south coast but can't be there, sorry x

Cleverkitten

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Advice need please! Posted: 8/28/2012 3:16:37 PM
Having looked at your posting history perhaps you need to put the bottle down and step away from the PC. The problems are not your friends. We all have to take responsibility for our own actions.

Cleverkitten

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would you date a person who dd not get Shakespeare? Posted: 8/28/2012 3:11:50 PM
verily, i giveth not a damn about ye olde bard :O) Only 'cos you misread this as being about the beard (which you cannot grow) and not about the bard who you cannot hear because you have a leek stuck in each ear.

Cleverkitten

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Swapping from Fish to cats? Posted: 8/28/2012 3:07:02 PM
Wait a couple of years and all the youngsters wanting a MILF will contact you ................. seems you have to be OLDER than their mum's lol

Cleverkitten

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Bald or shaven headed ladies.. styleeeeeee Posted: 8/28/2012 3:03:11 PM
I'd never find a bald woman attractive. I know this is a bit insensitive but I associate female baldness with cancer / chemotherapy. Then god (whichever one you do or don't believe in) forbid that any woman you ever fall in love with ever gets stricken with cancer. It's interesting to note in this thread that generally the view is that the younger woman with less hair has done so by choice and must be a 'dyke' (or is an actress and been paid to do it) and the older lady must have cancer.

Cleverkitten

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Nightmare Dates Posted: 8/22/2012 4:24:30 PM
Yes the good old webcam that most women on here do not do.. I wonder why... Probably because many times when we have done so, all we've seen is a guy all too willing to show us so much more than his face. Which reminds me of the time I agreed to accept a guy's cam request, he was off to see the Rocky Horror Show and wanted me to see his costume. He was sat back in his lovely leather computer chair in stockings, suspenders and a hard on .................... nothing else!!!!!! Sadly his pot belly added nothing to the view and I terminated that and all future conversation.

Cleverkitten

Joined: 5/17/2008

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Paintings & pictures ? Posted: 8/21/2012 1:25:34 AM
Ck see you have got the doll out! many pins left? lol I made an observation on a roadtripper ................ don't see any dolls or pins.

Cleverkitten

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status bar Posted: 8/19/2012 4:33:22 AM
I pretty much hate lookin at this site. The next train leaving for Basefook is that way >>>>>>>>>>>> Enjoy :-)

Cleverkitten

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Bad spelling Posted: 8/17/2012 12:37:48 PM
I've had the 'Hi Sweaty' greeting before and have replied in a jovial manner accepting that it was a typo but remarking that I wasn't sweating as I used a good deodorant .............. only to receive a torrent of abuse from the knuckle dragging neanderthal who couldn't tell a joke if it punched him in the face. Note to self ............ No reply IS a reply ;)

Cleverkitten

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Why is it so hard to tell if you messaged someone before? Posted: 8/17/2012 9:53:05 AM
Thirdly, the site wants users who can't remember who they've contacted, to send users a second email and then be blocked for being a nuisnace in not taking a non reply as a rejection - speculation on my part. I thought that was pretty funny :-) ................... but then we find a lot of stuff funny this side of the pond lol

Cleverkitten

Joined: 5/17/2008

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Paintings & pictures ? Posted: 8/15/2012 4:36:58 PM
Slow news day was it in Florida that you bumped a UK thread that died a natural death four years ago?

Cleverkitten

Joined: 5/17/2008

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Have you done it with your best friend? Posted: 8/14/2012 1:55:26 PM
Just wondering ladies if you go through pof profiles on your own or do you go through profiles with a fellow girl friend (best friend) sharing a glass of wine and a giggle? No. ..... ladies often seem to be more social and tend to have a best friend or friends that they take everywhere and share ABSOLUTELY everything with so do you share and get them to check out possible dates? No. Any more questions?

Cleverkitten

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Playing devil's advocate vs trolling Posted: 8/10/2012 4:43:44 PM
You see, Canadians and Australians and Britains post in the US forums all the time without issue, so I did not realize that international participation was prohibited. You might want to check with a moderator regarding the rules then so they can put you (and those transgressors) straight as to what is a 'local' forum.

Cleverkitten

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Playing devil's advocate vs trolling Posted: 8/10/2012 2:36:48 PM
I would distinguish between trolls and "devils advocates," one the basis of one thing: honesty. And what is your view on 'road tripping? Just asking ;)

Cleverkitten

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a nice lad or a car? Posted: 8/10/2012 1:59:34 PM
Are people viewing 'Doesn't have a car' as 'Can't afford a car'? There are many reasons why people don't have cars, or don't drive cars. I would never assume that the reason is financial. My first serious ex picked me up on our first date in his works van ................... by the time we divorced he had his own business and a Mercedes sports. At both stages he 'technically' had a car, neither were owned by him personally.

Cleverkitten

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a nice lad or a car? Posted: 8/10/2012 1:01:35 PM
POF introduced the 'Do you have a car?' question into the profiles, about the same time as they introduced the 'How much do you earn?' question. For me, neither of those questions are important at the first point of contact/interest. I don't drive and am perfectly happy with public transport or taxi's. Why should I expect someone else to have a car when I don't? For some people it may be an issue ............. if they have the car, and assume that they will be expected to drive; but why not live a little ............... and leave the car at home ;)

Cleverkitten

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How do you cahnge someone's mind?? Posted: 8/4/2012 4:09:14 AM
it’s a bit like 50 Shades of Gary I nominate that for Title of the Week :-) Re the OP, the moral of the story is don't start 'FUN' threads when you are the wrong side of a bottle of wine ;)

Cleverkitten

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Shallow preferences. Posted: 8/2/2012 1:06:08 PM
i dont like people who think i'm shallow just because i exercise my right to make choices... does that make me shallow? Joins Nx at the shallow end of the pond.

Cleverkitten

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Just want to send a flirt? Posted: 7/27/2012 7:15:58 PM
I sent a 'flirt' to a guy tonight ................. he viewed my profile and didn't respond. Now was he out of my league? Or just wasn't interested? Should I start a 'pity me' look at my profile and tell me what's wrong and what should I change thread? Or do what I usually do ............................. forget about it?

Cleverkitten

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wants to date but nothing serious???? Posted: 7/27/2012 6:18:28 PM
Who are you to question others experience?. You make a statement ................... someone can question it, asking for clarification. That's what the handy little symbol '?' denotes.

Cleverkitten

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Olympics Opening Ceremony Posted: 7/27/2012 5:54:18 PM
I liked it until all the flag waving by people in track suits ................. don't they have fashion designers?

Cleverkitten

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wants to date but nothing serious???? Posted: 7/27/2012 5:47:18 PM
< You know that nibbling popcorn is against forum rules, please refrain from doing it in public ........................... in private is fine as the mods can't see you ;)

Cleverkitten

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wants to date but nothing serious???? Posted: 7/27/2012 5:04:53 PM
Not looked at your profile msg 94 just responding to your post on this thread ...................... questioning 'your experience' read what it is written, not what you think is written ;)

Cleverkitten

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wants to date but nothing serious???? Posted: 7/27/2012 4:34:55 PM
Wants to date but nothing serious.........In my experience it means they are in a relationship already and are Looking for bit of fun on the side SIMPLY!!! Have you experience of women saying that? Or just men? So if a man says it you might think one thing ......................... and a woman might mean something else? Or do they think the same?

Cleverkitten

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Have the courts gone mad? Posted: 7/27/2012 3:47:48 PM
OK have my cynical beatch head on .................... is the OP his Mum by any chance? Apologies if a woman not looking for any involvement on a dating site 'cos she has found a chap, starts her first thread about a guy way out of her area that isn't a topic generally available unless on Basefook.

Cleverkitten

Joined: 5/17/2008

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Profile records. Posted: 7/27/2012 3:12:29 PM
If my lawyer was able to get a court order could I then get the records on a deleted account? I doubt it if you just wanted a date............... But if the guy was a danger to you or the general public ................ I'd tell the police first and save money ;)

Cleverkitten

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Open to dating from another country Posted: 7/27/2012 3:05:41 PM
Join a different site ;) I get offers from all over the world on another site ............... I usually think they are just after a passport, so block them.

Cleverkitten

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Wanting Christian Grey..... Posted: 7/24/2012 3:03:58 PM
How many women would get in contact with a bloke who stated 'looking for a woman with Kelly Brooks tits' I bought a bra endorsed by her, didn't try it out with the dress I wanted to wear before the event, suffice it to say .................. it attracted a lot of attention off line and on lol

Cleverkitten

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Timewasters Posted: 7/24/2012 2:58:35 PM
Just suggesting, not stopping.. Just asking ....................... do you ever contact anyone? .......................... or just keep passing by with an opinion?

Cleverkitten

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Wanting Christian Grey..... Posted: 7/24/2012 11:19:22 AM
Christian Grey sounds like the most boring colour on the Dulux colour chart. Someone mentioned Jordan earlier ............... maybe if you add a splash of Katie Price (aka Tango Orange) it might work. No, it's not for me thanks.

Cleverkitten

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Blank Description ? Posted: 7/22/2012 5:24:51 PM
you know that you must tie your scarf to the end of a knights lance I think that's only if I have a favourite ........................... this is POF so I'm probably keeping my options open ;)

Cleverkitten

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Blank Description ? Posted: 7/22/2012 5:00:55 PM
Are you two going to have a joust? If so have I got to find a glove or a scarf or something to drop or wave? Not used to this level of attention ................. ........... goes back to looking at dust motes ;)

Cleverkitten

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The dating game! Posted: 7/22/2012 4:56:55 PM
I think he's looking for the 'definitive texting rules' Who should send the last text? Do you look needy/desperate if it's you? Do you seem rude if it's not you? I respond if I need to and if I don't feel I need to I don't, but if I want to make contact later I will. It's hardly rocket science ................ is it?

Cleverkitten

Joined: 5/17/2008

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Blank Description ? Posted: 7/22/2012 4:39:17 PM
and the box was empty.....what would you think? That they wanted me to think outside the box.

Cleverkitten

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wants to date but nothing serious???? Posted: 7/20/2012 5:02:04 AM
Must be a female thing 'cos I don't get why you wouldn't just change it. Change it to what? 1 wants casual / no committment 2. wants to date but nothing serious 3. Wants a relationship 4. putting serious effort into meeting someone 5. wants to find someone for marriage I DON'T want nos 1,3,4 or 5 .............. at the present time. I don't see anything to be misconstrued or misleading about my 'intent' and being female doesn't enter into it.

Cleverkitten

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Circumcision. Is this a barbaric practice.>? Posted: 7/19/2012 3:30:57 PM
I don't think It's a major issue that need addressing,those kids will probably grow up to be very successful unlike a large portion of the uncircumcised populace .A small price for success ? Are you actually suggesting that mutilating a child makes it 'more successful' than an un-mutilated one?

Cleverkitten

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wants to date but nothing serious???? Posted: 7/19/2012 3:17:03 PM
I have "wants to date but nothing serious" on my profile .......................... loving that many posters think that it means I just want a meaningless sh@g, or am a brainless bimbo that thinks I will be used for sex and then cry that I didn't get a relationship out of it. No one has an insight into my head and my reasons ........................ unless I tell them.

Cleverkitten

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women hate short men Posted: 7/19/2012 3:10:49 PM
OP you posted the same topic in 2009 stating you were having the operation in August of that year. No posting history since then on this site ....................... but allegedly now ALL women hate short men, do you have some evidence to back that up? I'm vertically challenged and HATE very little ................. oops was that a pun? I see a lot of short men in my locality with a woman, kids and a staffy ................. do you have a dog by any chance?

Cleverkitten

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Small Cocks Posted: 7/16/2012 4:08:52 PM
Bantams have never had a problem with small c0cks. But allegedly this post is too small, so we may have to discuss the merits of other small birds and their relative appendages. I saw some very small hummingbirds in Peru but didn't discuss their****ize with them. They seemed happy enough though ;)

Cleverkitten

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Photo won't fit Posted: 7/16/2012 1:38:27 PM
as I've had a few approaches and it's better the ladies know what I look like. As he's left the building I guess they liked what they saw OR shot him down in flames and he's crawled back under his rock. C'est la vie in the POF goldfish bowl.

Cleverkitten

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First thing that catches the eyes Posted: 7/16/2012 1:17:04 PM
The fish they are holding ........... If it's one they throw back after taking the picture forget it, if it's the one they are going to throw on the barbie washed down with a good bottle of dry white then ............... Game on :-) Not seen anyone holding a pic of them with a swordfish yet ................. more's the pity.

Cleverkitten

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is it that hard to believe a younger lad wants a relationship Posted: 7/16/2012 1:07:16 PM
(Hypothetically) at 25 you want the 40 year old 'hot' older woman ........... at 40 is the 65 year old still doing it for you or are you going to exchange her for a younger model?

Cleverkitten

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Mr Right? Posted: 7/16/2012 1:00:11 PM
One woman's Mr Right is another woman's Mr.Wrong. And you can change the gender and that statement still works. This is NOT a 'one size fits all' world .................. we all like different things and that goes for what we like in people.

Cleverkitten

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Too old for clubbing? Posted: 7/12/2012 12:59:12 PM
^^^^^^^^^ Is this now an advert for clubs in Manchester? Too old for clubbing? I imagine the seals are delirious with joy when they are too old for clubbing ;)

Cleverkitten

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not so green travel mileage from the taxman? Posted: 7/12/2012 12:35:47 PM
I'm bewildered by the allowance for cyclists......lycra's not that expensive. But they have to eat more buns to provide the pedal power .............. or the excuse to have to cycle to work ;)

Cleverkitten

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Do I contact him? Posted: 7/9/2012 10:54:32 AM
the famous "I'm off on a 2 week holiday" routine Which will be followed by ........ "I was in a car accident, and my phone was destroyed"

Cleverkitten

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How long before you leave or stop looking? Posted: 7/8/2012 2:37:04 AM
well now we all know what your thinking! Would that be .........."that you suffered from complete sense of humour failure?"

Cleverkitten

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Fifty Shades of Bleh! Posted: 7/7/2012 3:20:03 PM
The main guy is somebody who doesnt like to be touched or hugged. I knew a woman like that ............ hated the idea when a group of us went for Pamper days at the spa that she might have to endure a facial or a massage. Couldn't work out for the life of me how she had four children ............... then I remembered her husband was a doctor ;) ............. Drugs or a turkey baster would be my thought.

Cleverkitten

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Do Woman Start Chat Requests? Posted: 7/7/2012 3:15:37 PM
I'd wager the concentration between two people just on each other on here is rare. Yep, it's rare on here because they had the sense to take it off site ;) ................ or is that just me?

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