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 Author Thread: today's TV shows totally SUCK
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
today's TV shows totally SUCK
Posted: 9/6/2007 11:19:27 PM
I just love Boston Legal and I've started getting a bit hooked on Brother's And Sister's.. Other than that I love old movies like Dean Martin and Doris Day..But, I have to admit I love Family Guy, it's so stupid....
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Are there any men that go to church anymore?
Posted: 9/6/2007 11:06:21 PM
Yes, there are alot of men around my part of the country that go to church every Sunday..Guess what? About half of them are hung over from the night before from the little slutty tavern that's not much bigger than the Church entrance...
There are some men and women that don't attend church and have alot more morals and values than the one's that do...
I'm a woman and I don't go to Church as often as I used to, I don't believe we should judge each other but it just gripes me to go and see alot of these people walk in with their spouse on their arm acting like saint's...I know 1 man was cheating on his wife and they called on him to close the service, his wife sat there so proud...
I think that's why alot of people don't go anymore, you just look around and want to get up and sing Harper Valley PTA instead of Amazing Grace......
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Why do people wear sunglasses in clubs????
Posted: 9/6/2007 10:45:53 PM
I've even saw men wearing them in the mall at night, women too...Their high as a kite, and I'd rather not see those squinty little glassy eye's glearing right thru me...I saw those enough from my ex......
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 187 (view)
 
How many women suck their own nipples?
Posted: 9/6/2007 10:28:10 PM
The more I read all these post, the more thought I put into it...I like to think I can do anything but this is just another thing I have found I can't do....Guess that's 1 lil trick I'll never get to see the reaction to....
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Cowboy hats
Posted: 9/4/2007 11:31:24 PM
I love cowboy hat's...There's nothing sexier than one on a real cowboy, and they go great with wrangler's.. I have 3 of my own--- dark purple, black and a brown...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 251 (view)
 
Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair
Posted: 9/4/2007 11:18:59 PM
I have always had long hair, it used to almost touch my butt..It's now lil over halfway down my back...I have it that way because "I" like it that way...I once got so mad at my ex that I had it cut, before I got up out of the chair I told her to cut it shorter..Yes, I have been quite childish yrs ago..I pretended I just loved it to everyone, then I'd go to the bathroom and cry! That was 1 lesson I learned and I have never had it that short ever ever again..It is alot of hassle and I see women with these great short cut's and wish they would look good on me..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Yes... your bum does look fat in those jeans...
Posted: 9/3/2007 10:32:29 PM
If I wanna know if my jeans make my butt look big I look for myself..They have tall mirror's, ya can even buy them at the Dollar Store...haha.. But, if I do happen to ask I'd rather hear the truth...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Is she crazy?
Posted: 9/3/2007 9:55:02 PM
Yes, she's crazy..Do you really want to lose your virginity to some wacked out chic that you know doesn't give a damn about you?? You may want to but think about it, years from now wouldn't you like to look back and have at least some sort of emotional connection with your 1st time? The 1st time should be special not like 2 dog's humpin in the font yard...Guess that's a country girl's point of view..
Guess it all boils down to which head ya listen too??
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 155 (view)
 
Are you scared of seeing a weiner?
Posted: 8/18/2007 2:11:52 PM
When I first started getting online and chatting to people, this one I had talked to a few times asked if he could turn his cam on..I said sure, it'd be nice to actually see who I'm talking to..After about 5 minutes he asked me hang on a sec...When he came back he stuck his "weiner" right in the cam..It didn't scare me to see it, I just told him if he didn't have anymore than that to show he should put it back up...The expression on his face was worth it...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
A serious question for all the ladies out there?
Posted: 7/20/2007 9:29:23 PM
My son just turned 18 and I'm so proud of the relationship I have with him..We are close and he confides in me about bad and good thing's in his life. He is still living at home, but he has his own life and I have my own life.. He goes with friend's for a weekend every once in a bit.. And if I want to go for short a trip then that's fine too...

We don't share every lil detail but we are close for a mother and son..Something tell's me she's not as bad as your making her about to be..
The last man I dated seemed to be so jealous of our relationship that it was just stupid. He started out being jealous of my best friend.. There's a different kind of love you have for your children than for your lover..And NO, at this point and time I would never consider moving far away from my son..Most of us women and men know that your taking a big chance for thing's to actually work out anyway..

If she is actually as bad as the 24/7 , won't do anything without him..Then they both have alot of issues and it isn't normal..But I believe your kid's come 1st, lover's come and go, they cheat, they lie and we all know that's true or we wouln't be on this site trying to find someone..That someone may not last forever, but your child's your child forever....
PS: I also have the upmost respect for any man that say's his kid's come 1st..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Are you a complainer or a judger?
Posted: 7/18/2007 12:32:21 AM
I try my best not to complain because I can't stand to be around people who are lil whiner's..And I don't believe anyone has the right to judge anyone else..Where 1 person does 1 thing the person judging probably does worse..I guess that's a judgement..lol..I once had a disagreement with a preacher over that matter, he overheard me say I didn't worry about what anyone thought of me..He thought that was wrong, so I guess he decided to judge me..I thought about asking him about all the gas, food and cigars he bought from my store and put on the bottom of the check "tobacco tax deductable"..I don't feel like I'm any better than anyone else but I don't feel anyone else is better than me either...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 30 (view)
 
What kind of candies do you have in your candy dish??
Posted: 7/18/2007 12:17:16 AM
I don't keep one out all the time but when I know I'm having company over I sometimes fill a pretty one..hershey's kisses, etc..Now, when it's special company, I just love those little gummy peach rings..Sorry, when I 1st read the post I wasn't think Grandma's candy dish..But, I can't believe a guy wouldn't date a girl just cause she's got a candy dish..OP, you may have missed a goody suprise..lol
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 741 (view)
 
Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 7/17/2007 11:55:09 PM
Yes, with time I could forgive..BUT, I would never ever forget..It would be over and done because the trust would be broken for me..I wouldn't want to be alway's wondering if it would happen again and it probably would..Same with liar's, you just can't trust them once their caught up with...The way I see it if they cared about you enough for you to even consider giving them another chance then they wouldn't have cheated to start with....Not worth the BS.
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 7/17/2007 11:36:19 PM
I think it's always been important..Some though think it's more important to recieve than to give..That's where it changes when you get older..I love to give forplay but heck if I'm gonna give more times than I get it..like setting the mood, candles, wine, bubble bath's, you'd think that'd lead to foreplay but some just wanna rush and then rollover.....Foreplay is half the fun, it builds up the anticipation, and it can come in different way's.. If ya have the time foreplay can last as long as you make it last and then, well that's when it's the best sex ever...So, yeah as I've gotten older it's a requirement or I'm not wasting my time for a wam bam......
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Women and makeup
Posted: 7/16/2007 10:31:42 PM
I don't like alot at all, makes me feel so fake because it makes me look so fake..I will always remember this lady that drew her eyebrow's on, I can remember her when I was little and how scary she looked to me..I do admit I don't feel right without just a hint of black eyeliner and the smallest amount of blush..I let them do a merle norman makeover once {it was free}, anyway I felt like a stupid looking clown..I just turned 40 and I'm still not gonna pile a inch of fake looking smuck on my face...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 73 (view)
 
were you ever embarrassed to buy condoms?
Posted: 7/16/2007 10:05:43 PM
I've never been embarrassed to buy them..I was a bit embarrassed after buying them one time..Small town, wally world around 11:30 {can't buy booze after 12}...I got a pack of condoms, a bunch of candles, bacardi mixers, tequila and to be extra safe a pack of encare inserts..They had 1 line open and the cashier was an older lady that I had known from childhood..I thought, who cares?? But every time I see her now, talk about some funny look's from her...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Sexy Dancing
Posted: 7/16/2007 9:21:51 PM
I live in tennessee and around here the owner would just be hoping they'd become regulars..My best friend and I used to go alot just for a few drink's, music and dancing..We were not looking to pick up a man, not in a bar around here anyway.lol..Just to have a night out and we danced to just about every song. never heard any complaints..Sounds like a stupid bar and an fool bartender...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/15/2007 8:39:54 PM
I think if you chat a few times and then speak on the phone you'll have a feeling if you really want to meet or not..Why would you even waste the time if you really wasn't planning on meeting in the 1st place..BUT, be as honest as possible..The 1st man I met, we had talked and talked on the phone and I believed every word he said about himself..When I walked up to him, he gave me a big smile, nice to meet you..He had about 3 teeth..I can't imagine how I looked..Now, I'm not saying he couldn't help it but he sure could have bought some dentures after the way he described himself. I was very nice, I didn't run but I did walk faster than normal..After that I should be afraid, but I'm not..If it's in a public place then I don't think there's any danger..If you've talked for a bit and they say they want to meet but keep puting you off then ya probably been lied to...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 580 (view)
 
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/15/2007 7:31:28 PM
YES...If your in a relationship then any kind of sex is cheating..You wonder about the majority of women, what about the majority of men?? If your partner let another man "give" her oral would you still not consider her cheating? Hell yes you'd say she cheated..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
ladies!!!!! Whos your ideal man????
Posted: 7/12/2007 10:23:48 PM
I think I'm weird, but Sam Elliot just does something for me..I think it's the voice and the attitude..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 1587 (view)
 
Your Favorite Music Lyrics
Posted: 11/4/2006 10:30:51 AM
I have climbed so moutains
Just to reach the other side
I near drowned myself in freedom
Just to feed my foolish pride
On my journey through the darkness
I have finally seen the light
I know no one's ever loved me
Like your loving me tonight

There is something I must tell you
I wonder if you'll understand
How I found such wordly pleasures
in the arms of other men
You should never try to judge me
We have both been wrong and right
But I know no one's ever loved me
Like your loving me tonight

God will save his fallen angels
and their broken wing's he'll mend
When he draws their hearts together
and they learn to love again
All theri sins will be forgiven
In the twinkle of an eye
All the saints regoice in heaven
When the fallen angels fly

God will save his fallen angels
and their broken wings he'll mend
When he draws their hearts together
and they learn to love again
All theri sins will be forgiven
in the twinkle of an eye
All the saints regoice in heaven
When the fallen angels fly
When the fallen angels fly
When the fallen angels fly
All the saints regoice in heaven
When the fallen angels fly

Patty Loveless
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 1586 (view)
 
Your Favorite Music Lyrics
Posted: 11/4/2006 10:10:40 AM
Last night I dreamed of loving you
your skin so soft, your eye's so blue
then when I woke, you were not there
and I was left alone to care
and I was left alone to love

Just like the stars that shine above
they shine so high, so far away
I die for you each passing day

it cannot be, it cannot be
I cannot live in misery
When will I hold you in my arms
and lie with you beneath the stars

I wish I was a shining star
I'd catch your eye, I'd touch your heart
and there I'd live until I die
fall like a tear from your blue eye

last night I dreamed of loving you
your skin so soft, your eye's so blue
Then when I woke you were not there
and I was left alone to care

Last Night I Dreamed Of Loving You

Kathy Mattea

 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
men flashing money???
Posted: 11/3/2006 5:16:20 PM
I would think that's all he has to flash...I wouldn't waste my time reading his profile...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Would you have a relationship with a guy who's living paycheck by paycheck?
Posted: 11/3/2006 5:06:00 PM
YES...I would be dating him for who he is and what he stand's for NOT how much money he has...With the RIGHT man I could be happy at McDonald's with a happy meal..Just because someone lives paycheck to paycheck doesn't mean they don't have plan's for their future..And just think how much fun in the ballpit after dinner....
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
do you fellow your gut or heart?
Posted: 10/28/2006 1:22:40 PM
I follow my heart even when my gut's telling me turn around and run!! You'd think as I get older I'd learn....Then my gut finally kicks in and I'd like to kick my own A**...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
i need to know
Posted: 10/28/2006 1:06:47 PM
I had been dating this guy and a couple of days before his birthday we split..I had already bought the gift, a really nice watch...I just went by and gave it to him anyway..I told him I had picked it out for him and I still wanted him to have it...I mean that's material junk, I just don't believe in taking back thing's that you give someone..IF they ask for their gift's back, it's a different story..I once had a girlfriend of my ex's ask for a gift back that he had gave me..I told her I'd swallow before I'd give it back...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
The bad customer
Posted: 10/12/2006 6:50:22 AM
I would have told him if he wanted to keep his f*ucking job he'd better change his attitude..You should have said something, I mean that's what they get paid for...I made a scene at the local walmart, there was a lady that was so rude to my son.. He was small but had his money...It may have been childish of me but I still get mad at that B*tch just thinking about it...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Sunglasses, Ladys Gone to Far?
Posted: 10/12/2006 6:36:48 AM
I hate those big old sunglasses even if they are in style..Some wear them for protection but that many women all together, Maybe they were high..When I see people with sunglasses on when the sun's not even out I think they are either high as a kite or stupid...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
why do girls stay on the dating sites if they are taken
Posted: 10/12/2006 6:28:45 AM
I recently starting seeing someone and I hid my profile..I want to see where it goes and he's very special to me..I agree that when your in a relationship or just starting a new one you owe it to yourself and the other person to not be always tring to find "something better"...That's the best way I know to put it but ya know what I mean....That doesn't mean we can't get on here for the forum's or to chat with friends we made..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
would this be creepy?
Posted: 10/12/2006 6:22:20 AM
She could jump on anyone's computer long enough to leave you a message....But, if you feel like there could be something there and I think you do, then go for it!! What have ya got lose?? Don't worry what anyone think's of you, DO IT!!
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Returning gifts when the relationship ends
Posted: 10/12/2006 6:05:11 AM
Didn't you "look" at him when he gave you the tickets??? Give the man back the tickets!!!
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 85 (view)
 
She said she's in love with me. Oh, Christ. What now?
Posted: 10/3/2006 11:24:36 PM
1st of all, be honest with her and be honest with yourself..If you think you could love her then take the time to find out..You really don't sound like your ready for that..2nd, Just what makes you think the big city would chew this lil country girl up?? I don't think your giving this woman enough credit..I mean that was a quick I love you from her but at least she's got the gut's to just say what she feel's..So, why don't you tell her how you feel??
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Do you still think about your ex?
Posted: 9/21/2006 1:07:30 PM
If it wasn't worth fighting for then it's probably not worth pining over now...I think about my ex every time I open my credit card bill's he ran up...Bad, Bad thought's!!!
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
where are friends when you need them !!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 9/21/2006 12:19:29 PM
Your very best friend comes 1st...When lovers come and go who's left to turn to?? Your best friend's still there..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Nashville singles meetup September 16, 2006 7 PM
Posted: 9/9/2006 11:20:14 AM
This sounds great..Can't wait
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Trying to understand the eyes
Posted: 8/5/2006 2:39:45 PM
I look everyone in the eye when speaking to them..Even strangers, doesn't mean I have a romantic interest in them..If someone doesn't or can't look me in the eye I tend to think their sneaky in some way..Maybe just shy...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 117 (view)
 
Ladies do you like it when a man tells you what to do?
Posted: 8/4/2006 9:14:02 PM
If he asked me nicely i would have done it for him..But NO way in hell would I do anything if he thuoght that was my purpose..He's very lucky she ignored him..I couldn't have ignored him..And just because he makes alot of money doesn't mean he can treat a woman that way..He could stick it up his Azz...It would give me a sense of direction, guidance----To tell him where he could go...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 50 (view)
 
How do I tell someone I'm NOT interested?
Posted: 8/4/2006 8:36:15 PM
Just tell him what you said. He's a nice person, your flattered but he's just not your type..Tell him the truth, he'll respect you for it...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
The Mayo Clinic Diet?
Posted: 8/4/2006 11:16:56 AM
I went on this diet a few yrs after my son was born...Lost all the weight I wanted..It say's you'll lose 5 lbs in the 1st 5 day's, then 1 1/2lbs every 3 days...I don't have a clue how they know this but it was true for me..Actually lost a bit more..After you lose what you want just keep a watch on the carbs..Also, if I drink soft drinks I make sure their caff/calorie free...I can't even remember how many people I have gave this diet to...PS, you will feel a bit sluggish about the 3rd day..Around the 5th day you'll feel great, all the sugar's and carb's have flushed from your system AND you'll be 5lbs lighter..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
When it feels so good to do something even though it's immature....
Posted: 7/26/2006 8:06:05 PM
Do it!! And do it with a bang, go all out...Make sure you look like your having the time of your life..Ignore your ex, don't even glance her way...God, the thought of this even makes me feel good...Guess it's my inner child...Does us all good to be a bit childish sometimes...It's all in fun...and a lil sweet revenge.
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
men who pay child support
Posted: 7/26/2006 7:19:01 PM
I respect any man that pay's child support..If women run from that, then their probably looking more at your bank account than you...There are some that feel it takes away from what you could provide for them..Be glad those kind run, you don't need them anyway....I do believe a man should try to make sure it's their child that their money is spent on..I see so many men that pay and the ex does well to spend 20% on the children..Now that does gripe's me...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
If you have a crush that is seamingly unreachable do you reach for it anyway?
Posted: 7/26/2006 3:06:57 PM
Go For It!! I just turned 39 and made up my mind..If I see someone that catches my eye I'm going to make sure they know it..If you really like him and don't tell him, then you'll always wonder and regret...You seem really nice, chances are he'll be more than glad....
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 76 (view)
 
What would you do if the sex was really bad!
Posted: 7/23/2006 1:04:05 AM
You suggested some thing's and he said no...When he wanted to have sex, I'd say NO..Why even waste your time when he won't even attemt to fill your need's...Walk Away!!!!
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Do women date single dad's who live with there kids
Posted: 7/22/2006 9:17:08 PM
I would... I did, and he was the most wonderful man I ever dated..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Offbeat habits..........inspired by the one sock thread.
Posted: 7/8/2006 1:23:47 AM
The very corner of sock's, the one next to my little toe has to be just exactly right or I can not stand it..I heat potato salad and some puddings, can't stand it cold..Grocery baggers hate me, raw meat's have to bagged seperate from anything else..I won't let meat touch anything in the cart..The biggest 1, when in a public restroom I always use a paper towel to open the door handle..If no towels, then the bottom of my shirt..I have seen ppl come out of the stall, go right for that door handle. No way am I touching it..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
need advice from anyone who knows about the laws or from any cops..etc
Posted: 7/8/2006 1:00:45 AM
I lived in your State for a bit and this sound's crazy to me..Your porch is your's, your home is your's..It so tick's me off when something like that happens..Your kid's were safe at "their" home with you, they were not roaming the neighborhood doing drug's..That's exactly what I'd tell the cheif of police..I think you should check your State's law's and know your right's 1st of course..Also, Do any neighbors have anything against you? Ex-husband maybe? Sound's to me like someone is trying really hard to get you in trouble..Ask if there has been any call's reporting you..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 42 (view)
 
what would b a good reason to not want to date someone
Posted: 7/6/2006 11:48:08 PM
Drug user, materialistic, Jealous, needy, self-centered..Gay or gay tendencies, abuser of or toward anything...
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 53 (view)
 
SIGNS YOU WERE RAISED IN A SMALL TOWN...
Posted: 7/4/2006 11:55:26 PM
Wensday is Newspaper day...Old men whittle under the court house tree. There's still horse Doodoo on the 1 main strip..When I go to the grocery for milk at least 5 people will yell "How's yee Momma doing hun"..I love this place.......
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
The one-liner that killed all hope for a second chance.
Posted: 7/4/2006 9:11:39 PM
Abought a year ago at a really nice night club the guy I had been eyeing asked me to dance...Very slow dance, then he looked me in the eye's and asked "Do Ya Feel It?" The worse thing was, I did...If only he could have kept his mouth shut..
 southernlight
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
I always wonder!
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:08:44 PM
That night it was mushrooms, what was it the night before and the night before that?? It's 1 thing if you are willing to allow someone like that in your life, BUT it's another thing to allow him to treat "your" son different from his and your daughter..Think of the tension and hurtfull feeling's your son must be going thru..If he doesn't change TODAY, and if you don't have the money for a good lawyer..Start stashing money back, hide a tape or better yet a video recorder and start a daily journal, write every hurtfull remark and gesture down..Get prepared to stand up for yourself and your children...
 
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