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 Author Thread: Do women mind single dads with kids
 foreverarden2
Joined: 5/20/2008
Msg: 673 (view)
 
Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/9/2009 1:33:50 PM
I have to tell you I posted on another forum that I don't date men with small children. I didn't explain this because it didn't call for it there.... I don't because I am overwhelmed enough without adding more. I think that you just have to look at where you are and know who you are and how much you can handle. If the girl split after finding out, she did you a favor. She didn't let you get your heart into it before she decided she really couldn't handle it. I have one child my girlfriend has 4. I can only stay at her house for short periods of time. I love them all, but I stress easily. I just know what I can and cannot handle in life. I know that I cannot be responsible for raising more than the one child I have. I already work six days a week to do that. I barely have time to myself, I don't like to leave him when I'm not working because I'm gone so much as it is. I also have to say I don't date men who make all outings without my Son. He is a big part of my life. You will find someone who can handle all of your children and do it wonderfully. Don't loose hope, there are alot more women out there in your situation who have found men who accept their children as the gifts that they are.;
 foreverarden2
Joined: 5/20/2008
Msg: 283 (view)
 
Does anyone like being alone better? Can you take or leave having a relationship?
Posted: 5/9/2009 1:17:56 PM
OMG! I thought something was wrong with me. I have been single since 1994. I would like to meet someone I can spend real time with but usually I can't wait to get ride of them because they cause such total chaos in my life. I recently tried to get back with my Son's Father and it was like..."Oh hell no you didn't". I just can't deal with all of the wants and needs and demands. I work full time, run a house, care for my Son. I don't want to babysit or support someone else or their kids (no offense-I didn't date people with kids when I was single without kids either) I'd rather hang out with my girlfriends, at least they get it. I have never met any man who wanted to just get to know me over time. Become friends, they all want to just jump into bed and work the rest out later. It just doesn't work that way. If that is what I wanted, I would be in a bar or a club, not on a dating site trying to find someone.
 
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