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Joined: 8/19/2005

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Do you believe in Astrology? Posted: 8/26/2005 8:17:43 AM
Hello , i want to start off by saying i do enjoy astrology. I am a double cancer- with a heavy sag. moon. I just recently met a sagitarious. I never was involved with a sag. i guess i was never interested. so- to my suprise i have been enjoying this person so much - it is so clear we must have the same sun, or moon sign ,or something. i WAS TOLD SAG, IS NOT FOR ME ROMANTICALLY - but i have to say , i am involved 6 months now and i am still interested. i most certainly am enjoying his restless nature, animal side- the horse, and fire within him. Only communication is somewhat alittle bit hard sometimes. i know i am the 8th astrological house to him which means i represent mystery - sexual , and otherwise . ( this is really true , because we have not met in person- we only communicate on here and i do see him through a webcam, and i must say he does have sagitarious fire in his eyes. ( like i said this is the very first sag i have ever had anything with ) maybe that is why i never felt i was with the right person. we are alike, yet i feel the opposite in our personalities. i am wondering if we compliment eachother as friends or lovers, what is the upside, and down side of SAGITARIOUS, AND CANCER- i do think my moon in sag. helps us .also ,ARENT SAGITARIOUS,AND AQUARIOUS ALIKE ? I WANT TO ADD - i can appreciate astology , but i do not take it above what we share in our dreams , goals , and pasts. (i dont mind including it ) cancarian

Joined: 8/19/2005

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woman and abusive relationships / codependency Posted: 8/23/2005 12:23:03 PM
Hello, Thankyou for for reply , By all means please speak to me , especially if your wisdom comes from experience . I came here for help, not to pull any ones leg. My heart is involved , and my life. I am going to have to disagree with you on something if u do not mind. I do beleive people could change from being emotionaly crippled _ to _ emotionally healthy JAIL TIME , ANGER -,MANGMENT, THEREPY, YES i think theses are all helpful tools. Anything that could help a person to change his negative, repeated thinking, reactions, and behavior problems. There are plenty of people who go to the therepists to become emotionally healthy . or go to church , self help eduacation classes, ect. PEOPLE COULD LEARN, to change the way they react to every circumstance, situation, and person. (am i wrong ?) Maybe the women in his past were not so emotional well themselves.. maybe he had nothing but drama. The thing i have in my mind , is that , -i truly beleive he is done with that lifestyle . (THEN AGAIN , THAT IS WHY I AM HERE,) iM NOT SURE I dont want to caretake or fix this man . (We bonded emotional , mentally,and aspiritually in a way i never had before.) This is why i am fighting for this love !! I will admit i am intense when it comes to love. i am still learning him, and he had just recently showed this side of himself .. SO I WILL SAY , (i am very hurt ), and i am worried my emotions may be clouding my logic. thankyou ,

Joined: 8/19/2005

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woman and abusive relationships / codependency Posted: 8/23/2005 8:35:14 AM
Hello, i think i didnt want to give up hope, but u do have a point - an abusive man doesnt have the biggest heart . , (I DO NOT ALLOW ABUSE ), i DO however have sympathy for people who are abusive- - it is because I do realize somewhear down the line something went terribly wrong . I also beleive this person hasnt been given the tools to change his abusive patterns . He has not been given the chance to be in a relationship without the abuse ! I beleive people are capable of changing there ways, or atleast controlling there behavior. SO, IF i choose to stay because i have a heart, and i beleive in love, it is because i feel love is helping that other person realize they can change there ways, and helping them work through the changes they so desperatly want to change but do not know how. and to answer your question, yes it does matter how much time i invested in this relationship- because in that time i had a chance to learn the reasons why he is the way he is , and what would be helpful for us both to have a healthy relationship !!!!!!! I think right now he is just testing me , to see if i wil put up with it - not because he wants to be this way , but because he hasnt learned a different way . ( i have patience, and a very strong desire to manifest into reality what i know is possible for the both of us, a non-abusive relationship ) who ever said love is easy ? love is many different things to different people - , for some love is an anger ! . , iI do appreciate your responce very much , it is just that - i feel you judged me to quickly . I reread my last message , and i know i sounded rather weak , and dumb- (I am neither !-) i was vulnerable- I am kind , not weak ! thankyou - ?

Joined: 8/19/2005

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woman and abusive relationships / codependency Posted: 8/22/2005 8:42:32 AM
Hello , I AM NEW HERE. I am completely lost , so i think i need advice. I actually met someone on here ,( only spoke on instant messenger , and webcam, 0 we have been doing this for 6 months. So strange , (i fell inlove) with the person- not the idea of the person. ! We spent countless hours on here communicating , and enjoying eachothers inteligence. It was clear i had found a match - we bonded quickly, there was passion,attraction, mentally physically, spiritualy ! (i just wanted more and more) HE LIVES VERY FAR -COULDNT MEET JUST YET. I NEVER FELT CONNECTED TO ANYONE LIKE THIS mentally and emotionally. It started off beautiful- we were so right , nice to eachother . WE ALL HAVE OUR GOOD AND BAD SIDES - it was only recently that i learned his bad side. He does drink often- but i am convinced his abusive nature comes from something eles that had caused him pain. (WHICH DOES MAKE ME MORE SENSITIVE TO HIS BEHAVIOR, AND FORGIVING.) ANYWAY - RESPECT IS IMPORTANT TO ME, AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW. !!!!!!!!! i know he stil loves me , but all i get is abused mentally- and emotionally- i havent met him in person, i wanted to , but now i am afraid that he is probably violent also. (cannot handle abuse) i was an abused child - but i do not seek abuse, or see it as love, i am the opposite, I RUN FROM IT FAST. i KEEP COMMING BACK TO HIM- because i am inlove , i am worried about him, but he is abusing still for a couple of weeks now. I dont kinow what to do , i started to tel him it is over, its so hard to let go , (i dont want him to think he could get away with it. i noticed he is very controlling, just wants me to kinda be quiet , not ask questions , accept whatever he does. oh god, i keep thinking this will change . i really cant let go , we shared for months hours straight, i feel i have no choice but to ignore him for a while , IS THIS HOW I MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND THAT I AM NOT COMMING BACK FOR ABUSE. ( i come back in hopes he will change !!!!! somebody help me, i fell in love with a very controlling abusive man, who also has the most beautiful heart in the world , what do i do ??????????????????help!keep in mind , i fell inlove . we had plans to be together , he stil does, only i am alittle confused now. and frightenend. HELP PLEASE

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