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 smilingiii
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 617 (view)
 
boobs
Posted: 7/2/2009 10:08:56 AM
I can't help but agree with the above post, as well as all the others trying to dissuade you from getting fake boobs, esp at your age. Aside from everything else, I know someone who had a boob job went from a beautiful normal b cup to a d cup - looked awful, totally out of proportion and felt fake!

I've rarely been w/ a woman who had fake boobs that felt good.

I prefer smaller breasts to begin with, not at all interested in D cups,etc. Just doesn't do it for me. You'll find someone who likes you for you - not your mammary glands. Besides - as you age, you'll look a heck of a lot better having naturally small breasts - trust me on that!

good luck - and don't do it!
 smilingiii
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Should I have just kept my mouth shut?
Posted: 7/2/2009 9:50:58 AM
Miss Di, a guy here... I look at it a couple of ways, of course it's good you brought it up, but no matter how gentle you think you have made it, it's still not easy to say or to hear. Perhaps, if you tried showing him what you wanted, while getting into the act itself, you might have had more luck - then again, perhaps you wouldn't have either.

I know that women like to talk things over and many men do too - but this might be a topic to write to him about in a way in which you try to remove pressure from him... kind of let him know how much you enjoyed his company and that you'd really like to see if you could get back together. Then go on to explain, gently, why you brought up the topic in the first place - not to complain, but to make it more of a lovemaking session for both of you ...

Yes, some will chastise me for asking you to approach him because it's really his problem, BUT, since you really seem to like him, what harm would it do to try to rekindle. Don't expect too much though - for sometimes a bruised ego cannot get over certain issues.

Best of luck to you - you sound like someone I'd have enjoyed meeting!

PS to all the annoyed readers - yes, I know how important good communication is and can be - but it takes time to build a relationship and it takes time to deal with egos in a way that helps sustain a relationship for both sides.
 
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