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Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

Always been single and still am at the age of 31 Posted: 8/31/2009 11:21:06 PM
I don´t think you should have all those mail blocks....... whats wrong with women looking for friendship or they just want to email and talk?? A possible relationship could very well blossum from what starts as a friendship. I suggest you loose all the email blocks you have........ good luck

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 197 (view)

How come we all get so picky after 30? Posted: 8/31/2009 10:28:46 PM
Im picky because I know what will work for me and what won´t, Lord knows Ive had enough trial and error. Im tired and Im not taking any more crap from anybody....... Plain and simple as that......... lol

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

Bi- Curious???? Posted: 7/16/2008 12:39:26 AM
You got to think of it this way........You have to find another woman visually stimulating. You have to be aroused by just looking at her beauty............... There is nothing more beautiful than a naked nurse........I mean woman.......

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 69 (view)

Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around? Posted: 7/9/2008 10:55:15 PM
I would hang out with my kitchen crew coworkers and a couple of girlfriends after work or a saturday night.........Guys all got together to watch porn, always 4 to 6 guys. You hear a lot of DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYUM!!!!!!!!!!!! OR OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH SH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!T........... mainly talking trash about the slut and how she was getting gang banged or how the hell could she take that big arz d!ck down her throat...........etc etc etc........... straight males watching porn together.......................Its a bond.........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 13 (view)

Ladies I need help BAD (Dinning Downtown) Posted: 7/9/2008 5:27:23 PM
Try munching instead of licking................... Play with her breasts.............rub and pinch her nipples............stick some fingers in her........turn her over, put her on all fours.......suck her from behind. geeeeez...........try different things....... if not.........get a new girl.........she´s thinking more about cumming than the pleasure she´s getting from it........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

Is it uncomfortable for women to have sex during their period? Posted: 7/9/2008 5:19:03 PM
It is such a sloppy mess........................... ugg But its all good in the shower................

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 215 (view)

Is exotic dancing prostitution? Posted: 7/9/2008 3:49:43 PM
ref. post 213 Selling their dignitiy and self respect????????? Have you seen the men crawling at their feet throwing money at them?????????????? And that last paragraph seems a like a hoochie bar in some bad part of town....... Ladies...................Ya´ll get Paid, and stay ahead of the game!!!!!!!!!!

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 214 (view)

Is exotic dancing prostitution? Posted: 7/9/2008 3:27:54 PM
Ya either like watching a woman dance and strip...................or ya don´t.........Period!! I would have thought it best to tell your friend to shut up and change the subject....... everyone is entitled to their beliefs. Now about you being a prude.........well, let me just say that their ain´t nothing hotter than some fine lookin female shakin what her mama gave her.............. And getting paid!!!!!!!! And since when is dancing a sexual activity?????? Am I missing out on something good here?????? I´m always late for everything.........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

Which is worse? Posted: 7/9/2008 2:58:04 PM
Neither one are bad as long as the woman is in charge and knows what she´s getting herself into and is enjoying the hellz out of it................... Your friend quit her nurse job to do this full time????????? Dayyyyyyyum she must be getting paid!!!!!! There is so much demand in the sex industry, that it is the smart ladies that know how to milk it!!!!! no pun intended.........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 37 (view)

Effort Vs Results Posted: 7/7/2008 7:37:14 PM
As long as you told me that some guy at work got dumped and gave you those things cause he thought your girl would like em.......... thats cool with me. your not trying to take credit for something you didn´t think of yourself..........are you???????? LOL Bring the glasses..............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?. Posted: 7/7/2008 7:32:37 PM
HAHA........ I am sooo busted......... Please.........do NOT wear dark pants or jeans with dark shoes and WHITE sport socks That just makes me ill............... Your going to go out.........to a club, a bar, and your going to wear your scruffy sneakers?????????? Buy a pair of dress shoes for pete´s sake!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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Social Anxiety? or normal? Posted: 7/7/2008 7:12:02 PM
My suggestion to you is to focus on just one woman you really think you might hit it off with..............if you ever find the courage, talk to her. Don´t hop around the class trying to pick one then the other.........the ladies will label you a loser for sure. Or just way too desperate. You know how girls gossip.........LOL maybe the anxiety is cause you don´t know which one to talk to first..........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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Just a little advice please. Posted: 7/7/2008 6:16:57 PM
If your lovin the cars more than the ladies.........then that might be a problem....... if its a hobby, you should let them know. If its an obsession, they you HAVE to let them know..........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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when being approached Posted: 7/7/2008 12:00:28 AM
A killer confident smile.............A great cologne........ And eye contact...............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

girl gives number then doesn't answer Posted: 7/6/2008 11:49:33 PM
You said you were planning on asking a friend of hers at the bar??????????? Don´t do that if you have any self esteem...........that is going to make you look so childish, needy, and unsure. Well, you are obviously very unsure, don´t let her know it...... LOL .........Just ask her to her face.....leave a message with your name. Grow up some!!!!!!!! And I totally agree with WackMC...........are you also buying her alot of drinks??????

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

Am i really screwing with their heads?? Posted: 7/4/2008 11:47:38 PM
What an idiot................... He tried, He failed, He cried and yelled like a little beotch and made a scene................. If everything you said is the way it went down.......then I think your straight.

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 59 (view)

Is concealing or exposing the body more provocative? Posted: 7/4/2008 10:53:25 PM
Hmm........lets see........ a. The woman with a black, long sleeve turtleneck or b. Woman wearing a black see thru top with lace flowers covering her nipples. hands down..........B.........will get me staring........... not to say that woman A doesn´t have a provocative smile...........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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Sexual Toys Posted: 7/4/2008 9:09:46 PM
Leaving some mystery to the honesty doesn´t hurt yanno???????? You can´t mention sex toys and how much you love them.............and not expect the guy to get all excited about the conversation. That´s probably all he´ll talk about now...........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

going to cinema on own Posted: 7/4/2008 9:03:19 PM
I don´t think its weird to go alone at all.......but I would rather go with my man...... sitting in a dark corner............hands rubbing up the legs........flicking popcorn....... oh wait,........the movie........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

Learning about a new guys genital piercings. Posted: 7/4/2008 12:34:38 PM
You should probably bring up the subject of piercings and start talking about it. If she´s totally against it, tell her you have one...........her curiostity might just come out. If it were me..............Id want to seeeeeeee it right then and there.......

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 74 (view)

It's all been done........... Posted: 7/3/2008 8:39:12 PM
The couple goes back to his or her place after a night out........she says...........I´m not having sex with you but you can eat me out................. Like he´s really gonna say NO???????????

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

Things that can distract you from lack of sex life Posted: 7/3/2008 8:20:49 PM
Blow up dolls work for some men...........they name them, dress em.......cuddle with em eating popcorn watching a movie together. She doesn´t nag and is always ready........ Paradise............ or do those 6,000,000 piece 3-D puzzles..........those take up a lot of time.........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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condoms Posted: 7/3/2008 7:17:58 PM
I will not have sex if he refuses to use a condom..........that is so childish. Losing sensativity...........PFFT!!!!!! nonsence. Like someone above said......its all in the brain. I put the condom on with my mouth during forplay. And the play continues......he will stay hard if the mood is right and the feelings are good......... I don´t see why anyone would want to risk an unwanted pregnancy or an STD........ Its about making it fun................and HOTT!!!!!!!

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

Nipple colour Posted: 7/3/2008 6:44:23 PM
.......I just wanted to look at myself.............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 95 (view)

Nipple colour Posted: 7/3/2008 6:20:48 PM
We´re doing labia color too??????? ****runs to get mirror*****

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 70 (view)

Nipple colour Posted: 7/2/2008 8:13:13 PM
Takes a minute to look at nipples........................

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 1167 (view)

Cheating- can you forgive? Posted: 7/1/2008 12:39:03 AM
I would never forgive someone that cheated on me...........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

my relationship story Posted: 7/1/2008 12:27:58 AM
Pamper........... The exwife is playing with the man.......the man is too kind hearted to see her game of getting close to him using the daughter in the middle.......there has to be some lines drawn and people need to be called out and have a few things clarified. I would not do this behind my mans back. communication is the key here. and I like armbar´s answer...............she is involved in the daughters life and she should be invited to the dinner party and golfplaying. But she shouldn´t be having to ask to tag along.............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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what constitutes a creepy guy? Posted: 7/1/2008 12:04:53 AM
Confidence is the key word............or the lack of so if your staring and walking around her and not saying anything.........then your just acting creepy........ like I said...........to me a person "acts" creepy.........I don´t judge looks or emailing with someone. I wouldn´t describe someone I´m emailing with as creepy........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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what constitutes a creepy guy? Posted: 6/30/2008 11:54:37 PM
Oh Ricky.........your so creepy......... naw.....just kidding....... I don´t know any "creepy" online men........... Ive seen men act creepy......standing at the end of the bar.......staring......walking back and forth, you know.......creepy

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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my relationship story Posted: 6/30/2008 11:43:56 PM
You should go over there and have a little talk with the ex wife................... ask her what are her intentions of inviting your man over for a "family date", when she should be telling him to take his girl to play minigolf............. something is noooooooot right............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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What would you do? Posted: 6/30/2008 11:36:22 PM
Why the hellz you fall in love to begin with????????? thats crazy. what´s left??............stick around and see him get more and more distant, probably get depressed when she has the baby. He´ll probably want to be the godfather......... His heart is not with you...........he would have gotten that divorce already and started a new life with you. Pack it up sister..........and GO!!!!!!!

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

On A Bus - A Two Part Question Posted: 6/30/2008 11:02:13 PM
Don´t know why she sat next to you. She can´t look at you unless she turns, thats really uncomfortable if she wanted to flirt........... better would have been to sit across from you and play stare down......... Thats what I would have done..............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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Can love really be bought? Posted: 6/30/2008 10:36:24 PM
$500,000.00 Wow............She´s expensive......... but thats smart..........she doesn´t want a sugar daddy..........she wants her OWN bank account............... And she gets callers????................AMEN SISTER.........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 67 (view)

Is it prostitution when... Posted: 6/30/2008 9:24:02 PM
100 bucks for a feel??...........Dayum!!!!! I want to know exactly what he got for the 100...... I mean...... Was there nipple pulling at all?? If there was no nipple pulling, I don´t think he got his money´s worth.......... You must have some nice boobs................

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Why it sucks to be single Posted: 6/30/2008 12:03:59 AM
Go to a pottery class..........take singing lessons.........try your hand at cooking........ come on!!!!!!!!!! Get out there and shake what yo mama gave ya........ Don´t worry..................Be Happy...........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

So is my friend cheating? Posted: 6/29/2008 8:30:05 PM
This is just your friends way of permitting his little guilt free side dish. And if she´s tagging along without defining the relationship...........well,.........she´s a sucker....... .......... unless she´s onboard with it and each are doing their own thing on the side. so it all depends on whats going on with their relationship......yanno??????

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 166 (view)

having sex with 2 guys at the same time!! Posted: 6/29/2008 6:40:21 PM
Me and my boyfriend had a mmf but it was akward........the guys didn´t even want to be close to eachother.....strange my boyfriend at the time brough it up. my ffm was a hoot, 2 girls together know how to kick it.......... and I´ve never had an all female........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

The smell of her perfume Posted: 6/28/2008 6:34:03 PM
A man that smells great is sooooooo sexy. I haven´t been in the US in many years but I remember Prefered Stock smelled great or those ocean scents......... I wear Musk myself........I love it.............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

Really difficult topic-Disclose truth or lie? Posted: 6/28/2008 6:19:04 PM
Just say "no, I´ve never been in a serious relationship, I´ve just had casual dates, and nothing ever turned serious." So you paid for sex instead of a dinner/movie..............So what????????? Just know that the women that are not in this line of work that you are used to dating are not going to automatically like you...............so your gonna have to put forth some effort. Cheers.......... good luck ........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

Telling someone you love them.... Posted: 6/28/2008 5:51:37 PM
I would wait and feel her out a bit.........see where she is in the relationship. You telling someone you love them might make them feel burdened with your feelings when she is not feeling the same.................... then she might distance herself because she is not ready.......... JMO.................. and good luck

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Def Leppard Posted: 6/26/2008 9:57:24 PM
I love Photograph.............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 101 (view)

ok ladies how many like long haired guys? Posted: 6/26/2008 4:01:01 PM
All one length.........tied in a ponytail........then let loose in bed............ Love running my fingers through it............... No bangs.......mullets.......or layers......... ponytails??????? that can be discussed later...........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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Should I break up with him? Posted: 6/25/2008 7:49:26 PM
If I am having dinner with my BF and my ex calls with a problem.........being that we are still friends.........I would tell him that I would call him back, and that he was interupting me......... As for the issue at hand........... I wouldn´t even bother talking to him........I don´t want to change anybody, people should do things because its what they´re feeling. If you correct him now......you´ll be correcting him always..............and you´ll always be complaining about how inconsiderate he is........... forget that!!!!!!!!!!!!

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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What to think if no response to pic request Posted: 6/25/2008 6:56:54 PM
I like having a face to associate with the emails..................... If you show yourself and the other doesn´t respond to a request............then something is going on....... Gotta send them on the NEEEEEXT Bus...........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 37 (view)

lipstick lesbians??? Posted: 6/25/2008 6:13:37 PM
********Raises Hand********* That would be me.............

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

guys that listen to heavy metal: are they dateable? Posted: 6/25/2008 5:31:32 PM
I´m open to all styles of music........... But if your dating someone and all your blasting on your car stereo is metal, that might be a turn off. Everything has its moments.......

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

what would your reply have been.... Posted: 6/25/2008 3:25:54 PM
I would not have lowered my shirt, that was an invite for him to continue the conversation............. I might have said......"old man..............mind your own business" and maybe talked to his manager. There has to be customer respect.

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

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Are all women paranoid or am i a sociopath? Posted: 6/25/2008 2:51:53 PM
Someone´s asking me for my phone number....??? MY PHONE NUMBER??????? Now if that doesn´t call for mace in the face, then I don´t know what does?????? Have you been maced yet??.......you better watch out.......... Don´t worry..........women are not all crazy........

Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008

Msg: 50 (view)

Is it considered whussy for a guy to have a fear of bugs? Posted: 6/25/2008 2:41:43 PM
OMG.............. we can both freak out together then..............

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