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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/25/2008 8:15:55 PM | I'm with you, I stumbled on this thread from your profile, but have strong feelings about this subject.
First of all, any sexual act should be completely consensual. If she doesn't want to do it, then by God find something else that works for both of you. A good handjob with the right lotion is pretty friggin spectacular and there's no issue of swallowing or "getting it on you."
Same the other way, gals, if he doesn't want to pleasure you for whatever reason, find something that works great for both of you!
That being said, if she wants to and he is into it, then there should be absolutely NO boundaries. Swallow, roll around in it, do whatever you want. And yes I'll be old fashioned, but love really has something to do with it. Sex for just sex's sake always brings up control issues. The "I got mine, who cares if you got yours" thing. When you truly love someone, and both of you enjoy something, then do it, do it, do it!! But when you don't love the other person, then you will try to control their actions, try to force them to do things they don't want to, etc.
So I'm thinking all the gals posted here that don't like oral and can't understand why their guy keeps wanting it, maybe have a good old chat with him and see if he really cares about you, or really just cares about his next orgasm. Just a thought. If my gal said, no, it makes me gag, then so be it and we grab the book and try something else.
And all the guys, yeah, it's great, but if you need a BJ more than you need her to be happy, then it might be time to move on.
my two cents. | | | |
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