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Joined: 8/21/2005

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Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 10/18/2007 12:24:07 PM
Well that depends if its your birthday and a large cake gets rolled out in front of you and a playboy bunny pops out in her birthday suit.

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Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 10/18/2007 12:13:51 PM
For a woman...a wedding dress and for a guy a tux! HaHa!

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 1/10/2007 8:54:47 AM
Ok here goes...im 54...i've been asked out by guys from lets say 19 to 35 on a continous basis. I find a vast majority of younger men think they are doing the older woman a favour by asking them out. A lot of them think that older women are needy. So its a sure thing. They dont understand about relationships in general because they havent had enough experience. On countless occasions i have been asked ...but dont you want to be with a guy who can go all night long? My experience has told me that all night long really relates to the point that they think about it all day long and when the night comes they last all the way through until they are finished. Which is about 3 minutes from my recollection on a good day and on a bad day the numbers on the digital clock doesnt change before its over. That constitutes all night long in a lot of cases. I have a 24 year old son and he has a lot of friends that are over all the time. No i dont see any of them, but i do note their behaviour. I perceive these guys as extended family like sons. I can't relate to them in any other way because i'm a mom. Most 19 year olds cant afford to buy a 40 for themselves let alone one for the older woman..hahha...ya thats primo for sure. Wanna go to the art gallery or a museum...forget it..they just did that on a field trip from school. I am always flattered and appreciative that someone of any age takes the time to read my profile and has the grace to ask me out however i decline of course. I try to explain to them that a younger man for me is like 35. Plus i let them know that Pimp Daddy with the Caddy (my son) probably wouldnt appreciate me bringing home another sibling for him to deal with. On a serious note...what if..what if you did go out with this 19 year old and your someone like me in they're 50s (and this does not interest me believe me) but you do fall for them and for a few months they are so cute and nice....and then of course they move on. Who wants to put themselves in a totally vulnerable situation of the heart with a frigging 19 year old. It doesnt make sense. Getting dumped by a 19 year old would be the epitomy of embarrassment. Cause we all know that when we are involved with someone who is age related how devastating a divorce or separation can be for some. If your a mature younger man and you find younger girls are just not there yet...then show your maturity and make it your job to educate them by introducing to them what they might want instead of zeroing on on what you perceive as a sure thing because the line is classic....i like older women because they know what they want....ya right...they just know what they dont want. You may find younger women are not any different than older women. Younger men like to live out their fantasies...which is what it is. Just relax about older women and concentrate on age related people that you can share common interests with and enjoy some of the same things and learn new things together instead of having some old sage telling you like it is and probably treating you more like a kid than a significant other.

Joined: 8/21/2005

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What is with the head games? Posted: 1/3/2007 4:18:07 AM
This is not head games this is life. Some things never change. Take it from an old sage. Think of it this way....he's acting high school...why don't you act university. In other words you're finished with high school. Whats this guys age anyway? Red signal flashing loud and clear hear....the mother of his baby. He's not done with this and he won't be. Its a forever thing. Until he severes with the baby's mother he's lost. This may take a long time or it may never happen. The bond of a child can be stronger than anything even for guys. The mother doesnt want to do it alone. Would you? My advice ...run, run as fast as you can! You have enough facts. You may have some insight but use judgement. Judgement is a purse science. MJ

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