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If you're independant, why R U here?
Posted: 6/11/2008 3:01:29 AM | Being "INDEPENDANT" in a relationship means that I am self-sufficient, and self-reliant. I don't need a man to solve all my problems, most of the time I have answers to situations and all I truely need is a listener. I don't need a man to "take care" of any/all ex-partners for me, I get tired of hearing "if I ever meet your ex some where", while he treats me worse than the last one did, and again, all I truely need is a listener, I don't need a man to take control of my life--as if I do not know how to do all this myself.
I grew up and I am an adult now. I can feed myself and walk and talk all on my own.
I want a companion in my life, someone who knows how to talk about feelings--other than anger. I want someone in my life that I can talk to about anything I want and know that he may not understand everything I say but is willing to listen none the less.
A man and a woman can quite comfortably be independant as well as dependant on each other in a relationship. I am independant and also dependable, but not interferring where I was not asked to go.
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