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 corrosivefire
Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 118 (view)
 
How to treat a lady
Posted: 10/12/2008 8:25:36 PM
[/OP, you are a rare one.
I have had only a few men act like gentlemen and most of them have been good friends.]

LOL exactly the point. Most of the of the few men she knew that acted like gentlemen were her FRIENDS.

Case closed.

Confident men don't do this chivalry BS. They act in a manner in which they want to act. They don't try to sugarcoat themselves for a woman. If you do you're going to be one lonely guy.

So go ahead and be delusional that this whole chivalry thing will pay off. Good Luck.
Act confident and treat everyone around you decently and that's it.
Bending over backwards for anyone is subservient behavior. Most chicks don't dig that.
Sure you'll make a great friend,and then when their car breaks down or if they need a shoulder to cry on, they'll call on you. Congrats you're a life-size tissue.
 corrosivefire
Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 191 (view)
 
Cave man days, bring'em back
Posted: 6/29/2008 7:46:05 PM
Shrug, you're yet again missing the point.
I used that one point as an example.
Quite frankly I do not know the older woman's mindset. Being only 27 my interactions are exclusively with woman my age or younger.
But from what I have read and heard many times over and over again older woman have same similar desires the younger ones do. Except successful independent older woman tend to have a good idea of what they already do not want. While after being successful find it increasingly difficult to find a man to be their "equal".

The whole idea of this Real man, is bogus. There is no such thing. It is an idea man need to amount to, to appease woman. It is the equivalent of me saying I want a REAL woman.
Then I shall insert whatever fantasy ideals I have that equates to my ideal woman and belittle those that cannot conform to my specifications.

That is exactly what that is.
 corrosivefire
Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Cave man days, bring'em back
Posted: 6/29/2008 6:05:50 PM
Personally I believe the OP and Smuggler to be correct.

You want an alpha male is like what has been said before is someone you defer to.
The leader of the pack.
Some woman do enjoy being controlled to a certain degree. I know after all of these years of movement towards equality the idea of a woman having her decisions being made by a man seems like a 180.
It seems like the woman can't understand what he is saying, most of them are focused on the clubbing aspect. Which is silly.
Woman want a man to be able to take control, take charge and take action.
What do many woman want on this site for a first day? Who plans it? Men do.
Planning for the date is controlling the event of the first date. Those are the actions that men do that woman enjoy that the OP is getting at.
Do you understand now?
 corrosivefire
Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Does a ring make a difference?
Posted: 6/7/2008 7:36:51 PM
It seems like she was just looking for a guy to take care of her and it seems like it didn't matter who it was. She just wanted to be done with dated and move on to the next phase of her life. Probably something she was imagining for a long time.

That is still extremely messed up. Well there is a reason why the divorce rate is like 60%.
 
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