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 Author Thread: MARCH HARE BAND @ BLVD CASINO - FRIDAY, NOV.6th
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
MARCH HARE BAND @ BLVD CASINO - FRIDAY, NOV.6th
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:54:08 PM
OH, I also play guitar and have a few friends that play and are POFers. Maybe a JAM night would be a riot. I'm never god with dates so I'll be a maybe. Peace ;o) Mark
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Do you ever not repond when they have a ton of favorites?
Posted: 8/21/2009 8:59:40 PM
I put people on "Faves" if they respond. When they are done with me, as in a "pass" I don't hang on to their Profile.
If they delete my message without reading ....
You get the drift?
I can't imagine someone investing soo much time "collecting faves"
Aren't "we" looking for that special someONE.????

 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Your brain - the sex organ
Posted: 8/20/2009 6:26:45 PM
Brains are nice, I'd like to shag my brains OUT !!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 74 (view)
 
What is Your Order of Building Relationships?
Posted: 8/20/2009 6:23:30 PM
Seems more like a revolving door and, "oh, hi there, (nope), oh, hi there, (nope), ....
I'm still hoping for that, "OH, THERE YOU ARE."
There's not a large line-up at the door either ....
Patience


 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 154 (view)
 
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 8/20/2009 6:16:54 PM
Large NOSEs,
Obesity,
Arrogance,
Omni-dependence.

STANK
Beards on women.

I'm not superficial, just honest. Attraction is everything. (at first)

 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 217 (view)
 
Spelling and Grammar, does it count?
Posted: 8/20/2009 5:30:35 PM
My view on this is, schooling yourself to write correctly, helps communication and understanding to flourish. Understanding those garbled grammaticaly pooched conjegations, and such, is your way of showing your intelligents.
We are all on the same learning curve, however, all of us learn at different speeds. This is especially true when hurdling the language barrier.

Just putting that out there.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 46 (view)
 
United Church Declares War on Israel
Posted: 8/20/2009 5:23:03 PM
NOT YOU *

The Church and War... interesting concept.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 45 (view)
 
United Church Declares War on Israel
Posted: 8/20/2009 5:19:03 PM
FINE ! Then send ALL the UC Priests over to fight the F%%$ing War. See who's laughing now BOZO. ( and I mean the "Royal BOZO") not you. United My A$$.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Do public schools = Fairy Tales?
Posted: 8/20/2009 5:14:49 PM
Overcoming a diability is a way of expressing freedom.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Guys - Top 5 Date Don’ts
Posted: 8/9/2009 5:29:51 PM
Do you eat chivalry in a salad? or is it one of those ruhbarb type of things??
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Guys - Top 5 Date Don’ts
Posted: 8/9/2009 5:24:59 PM
I'm with YOU RITA!


Sounds more to me like "creative venting" publicly, after a less than ideal date.

Just let it go and say to yourself.... NEXT.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Counterpart or fantasy partner?
Posted: 8/9/2009 5:17:55 PM
Personally I'm not looking for "barbie", she's a bit vacuous,

Well YA, and if you ever try to pry her legs appart, One comes off!!!! Make a wish!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Do we really know what we are asking for,,,when we ask?????
Posted: 8/9/2009 5:13:26 PM
Sane! Is that safe? I want a woman who is SANE. It's not much to ask is it?
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Pedestals and other places you can fall from
Posted: 8/9/2009 5:06:04 PM
Some people put you on a pedestal just to watch you fall. Jus' putin' that out there.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
The BC Family Thread
Posted: 8/9/2009 5:03:47 PM
this week-end I tried to shake my loneliness, but to no avail. Death is lookin' good about now.
How can anyone survive in this world Alone. It just plain sucks.
Especially when, after four years on this site, no-one writes to say hello.
Can't wait for MONDAY.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Best Places in Vancouver
Posted: 8/3/2009 7:17:06 PM
grouse
cloud nine
white rock
wreck beach (for the free of spirit)
the kings head in Kits
ambleside park


sumphn like dat


pizza
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Fruits, vegetables and lovers
Posted: 8/3/2009 7:07:57 PM
This is one of those TEST questions. Like , "does my bum look fat in this"
A woman wants to see that a man can take care of the plants to see if he'd be a good dad.
However, If he's WAY too into his rododendrons, well then he might bark up the wrong tree. (if you now what I mean)

 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
A 'Cold' World..
Posted: 8/3/2009 7:00:31 PM
downloaded the Skype deal. thanx for the hint doll.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Tic Tic...Boom
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:53:57 PM
Would an electric alarm-clock be such a far stretch? One might forget to wind the damn thing or forgot to switch that little toggle to set the alarum!! Barring an electrical storm I'd put my money on electronics.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 93 (view)
 
What's wrong with looking, thinking, and acting your age?
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:50:13 PM
I think it's like this. Some folks age quickly. Usually smokers or highly stressed people. Sometimes it's genetic. Other-wise the new fad of working out, has built up the looks of the average person. I think women are generally getting prettier.
MAYBE it's the beer!! M
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
oh hey there
Posted: 8/2/2009 3:01:15 PM
They're getting the jump on the competition. Be fruitful and multiply....
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Why Would He Try To Make ME Jealous?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:59:30 PM
It sounds more like YOU are a player. But it's no crime being a free spirit.
Sex is a good thing, but you should reconsider the fairy-tale thang. Love does come along eventually and being true ( not fooling around) is a good start to keeping that great catch. Get into someone's world. Pick wisely, you're bright, just not very experienced.
Good luck honey
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Do girls have backups?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:50:27 PM
Yes they DO! and it's in their purse, so you better not look!!!!

So, now, inquiring minds want to know... Which Game was it!!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
greenlight redlight.
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:45:08 PM
Sounds like she's just looking for Ranch hand.
Affection is important, but it's no basis for a relationship.
Oh God fight them off with a stick!! It's always sex sex sex!!! poor fellow!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 119 (view)
 
Why are there so many attractive women on POF?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:37:13 PM
women are players and were put on earth by Satan" Mister logic" you should know that!!
they are collecting data for aliens. Especially the pretty ones. Run and hide while you still can!!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Who wants a happy ending?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:31:17 PM
Warning tap during fellatio and breakfast after.

Whoooops! I'll just move along...
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
How big is too big of an age difference?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:21:00 PM
Okay, I have some perspective on this. I am now 45. That means the lower limit is figured half my age plus 7. (oops, a math question) well that's 23 plus 7, hence 30. Yhat would be a 15 year difference. Fair enough. I dated a girl once 19 years my junior and because I'm childish @ heart it worked out for about three years but when I turned fourty she dumped me stating that I've become too old. It scarred me emotionally. I though she loved me.
Well, there you have it, a women's feelings can change overnight and be justified if you risk such a difference in age.
Live and learn.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Is he Just not that Into Me?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:10:48 PM
OMG, you'd think sex was illegal or something. Bone the poor fellow and if he bolts after, there you have it. Cuddling???? the poor fellow probably rolled over with a diamond cutter and wondered what's wrong with me, that this girl won't put out. It's obvious that he likes you and wants to include you in his life.
Sharing a bed in a hotel and nothing really happens? What a missed opportunity. Live a little.
Sex is not the end of the world.
Take the next step and see, don't string the poor guy along.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
peer pressure to stay single
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:58:28 PM
Totally!!! Can Ink is right. Your mistake. Maybe you should pick someone that lives a tad closer, hm?
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
What to do next?
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:46:06 PM
Now her friend has told me to be careful as she is always like this with men,

The friend gave you the answer already. Set an ultimatum. if she opts out, you've saved yourself a lot of grief. It's no fun being her whore is it? Or is it. You are where you want to be. Make a choice and go with it.

I hope I wasn't too Brash!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 195 (view)
 
What's the latest nice thing you did for someone?
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:21:06 PM
Warning tap during fellatio and breakfast after
Viper6996 that's a good hint! lmao
I'll have to try that next time. he he he
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 194 (view)
 
What's the latest nice thing you did for someone?
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:18:25 PM
Well, I went to see my friend play live @ the commodore in his Band "the TVees" and ended up selling their CDs instead of being in the crowd. I was on the guest list but I paid anyways. Local Bands need support!!! I didn't get to hang around, 'cause it was a school night so I couldn't congradulate him for a super performance even. Who was that masked man!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
A 'Cold' World..
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:11:57 PM
I agree, I'd like to mention that this site rocks!!! Thanx Fishers!!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
CREEPY
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:00:31 PM
Okay, Meeting in the middle of the night is a little crass. But a nice no thanx is always appreciated.
Meeting in general is completely okay. It beats plunking away at a computer. Socializing is a dying art now-a-days.
I can see the risk for ladies... lot of weirdos out there.
However, after the preliminary questions you should be confident to go out and share a little of your time with a potential date.
Uhm... am I making sense?
Nothing personal ( I'm not pointing YOU out )
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 131 (view)
 
POF Lessons
Posted: 8/1/2009 6:37:49 PM
What happened to being honest about who you are. When did we throw that one out? I'm far too trusting I suppose.
YES, I seek someone who is sleek, smart, and doesn't have a big nose. Sue me. I'm being realistic. I want to stay with this person the rest of my superficial life. Be true to yourself. you won't go wrong.( no guarantee on that) M
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 130 (view)
 
POF Lessons
Posted: 8/1/2009 6:37:35 PM
What happened to being honest about who you are. When did we throw that one out? I'm far too trusting I suppose.
YES, I seek someone who is sleek, smart, and doesn't have a big nose. Sue me. I'm being realistic. I want to stay with this person the rest of my superficial life. Be true to yourself. you won't go wrong.( no guarantee on that) M
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 120 (view)
 
First date etiquette: Should men pay?
Posted: 8/1/2009 6:24:26 PM
Ofcourse I Will pay on the first date. I expect to. I pick the restaurant. Come dressed in FORMAL/wacky attire. ;o) M
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Hot enough for ya?
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:29:00 PM
Hot weather extends love-making time. Hot weather is SEXY!!!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Vancouver Scenery
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:22:39 PM
White Rock has some lovely scenery (bathing suits included) as well as Cresent beach. Nice small town type shots. It's close to the border and Peace Arch Park.
There are millions of spots, you know, Location, location, location. Timing is also important. (sun light-wise)
Have fun!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Is This A Deal Breaker? If Not, then what now?
Posted: 7/27/2009 12:06:08 AM
What ever happened to being true to oneself? If you are secure in your own skin and he's not interested, Dump him. Try to expect that all consuming love to come along. You know, the kind of love that in the beginning is a bit stalker-ish. Like the guy who can't go to sleep without saying good night to you.
As for flabbiness, get active, eat a controlled diet (try the ZONE diet)
As you get more active and healthy you may be able to involve him in these activities and you'll both be trim again. In love again.
Be a living Example of the best you the world has known. If he doesn't notice, give him his walking papers.
There are plenty of Fish in the sea. ;o) M
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Sickness and in Health
Posted: 7/26/2009 11:55:34 PM
My Parent are still together and caring for each other. Dad is 78 and mom is 39. At least, that's what she told me. NO, she's 6 years younger. I never was great at Math
The point is they stuck together through sickness and health. That kind of love MUST exist!!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Sickness and in Health
Posted: 7/26/2009 11:49:03 PM
GoodwitchBet h, Sorry to hear of your most recent lost. My Father is fighting Lukemia and It's not promising. My condolences!!
My mother is still taking care of him. They've been together for ever. So I does exist.That BOND.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Question for all the older dudes
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:49:35 AM
What was that? .... 15 will get you 20???
What IS age if you're both adults? WELL !! Let me tell you SOMETHIN"!! .....uhm well maybe not just now.
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 283 (view)
 
How important is chivalry in an relationship to you?
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:44:10 AM
CHIVARY!! Ah, ya. Let me just get my horse!!
 4fingersHigh
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
relationship people/solo people
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:36:03 AM
Maybe it's just not natural to you. Celibacy is a defence mechanism to keep us safe. It consequently keeps our conscience clear as well.
As for Relationships, per say, The great magnetizm of the love we feel for each other in a NEW relationship is the feeling MOST seek.
The needs of each partner change as they age and grow on their journey. Sharing the trek with someone who wants to share it with YOU, no matter where it may lead, makes the path all that much greater. That "magnetizm" grows stronger only through TRUST.
Now, trust is thwarted by infidelity.

In the matter of the fall of the Newly Dumped transition, I feel,is likened to a fall down the rabbit hole. Or entering a GIANT maze and wondering how I'll make it out a whole self-confident single ME. (The way out is as differing as snowflakes) It's up to you, and you alone, to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again.(everyone muddles through it somehow) We never totally forget the people we meet in life. We all influence each other. Welcome to being HUMAN.
 djpapparitchey
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Ever wake up with a hang over and be really horney ?
Posted: 1/11/2009 8:59:34 PM
Yes I have and am!
 djpapparitchey
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Inviting POF fish you've never met for Christmas Dinner?
Posted: 12/25/2008 9:27:49 AM
You know , It is amazing how I can feel alone when my family gets together on this day.
Being single in these times brings out a deep depression in me.
A shared holiday is not always comforting unless you can share it with someone you love. ( I don't mean like Family) I mean that person you hold in your heart and look in their eyes and know the world is alright.

At any rate
 djpapparitchey
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Cabin in the Woods & Home made Christmas Gifts
Posted: 12/25/2008 9:20:56 AM
I've never had a Handmaid for Christmas.... Must be nice though.
 djpapparitchey
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
psychic confusion
Posted: 12/25/2008 9:15:31 AM
I went to visit an apartment where "Psycic Readings" was posted on the door.
I asked her first why I was here. She didn't know I had lived in the same apartment a few years ago. She didn't get a vibe or say anything to prove tome she could "see".
I saw that she had a small son so I bought a set of tarot cards, then left.
I knew it was crap... instinct?
On the other hand, there was a lady in burnaby who could tell you your name before you told her, as you came in. She sadly passed before I could visit. My Aunt and my Mother visited her and told me. Now, who wouldn't believe their Mother???
 djpapparitchey
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Merry Christmas!
Posted: 12/25/2008 9:01:23 AM
YES! A Merry Very Very to all
hope you all recieve what you've asked Santa for.
If not, I'm still available
 
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