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dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 139 (view)

Breaking the secret man code shhhh! Posted: 5/5/2009 10:59:41 AM
True man....Nature or God made men that way to be horny, in other words men are "programmed" for sex. And danger, adventure, excitement....Being nurturing, caring and similar "stuff" is for women. Yet women want men to be like them. Well, they just can not have it that way. What makes them bitter and miserable. What I hate most when a woman tells me:" Be a Man!" as if she knows how it is to be a man. Only men know that.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 66 (view)

How can someone just give up on a good thing without reason? Posted: 4/11/2009 11:41:08 AM
A friend of mine who is 42 and married for the forth time said to me:"Do not take women seriously....." You obviously did. Women are like the weather - today it's sunny, but tomorrow - who knows. So, enjoy the sunny days and run for the shelter when it's rainy.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 280 (view)

Is divorce like mourning a death? Posted: 4/11/2009 11:35:00 AM
Not for me. I have been married for only 2 years. At first, my ex-wife (before we got married) seemed to be interested in everything I did. But when we got married, all she wanted was either to stay at home and watch TV or to visit her mother. It was boring to me. So, I spent more time with my buddies. She grew angrier and angrier. Not to mention that she was very jealous. Those 2 years for me were very long and when I divorced her I felt great to be free again.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 135 (view)

Breaking the secret man code shhhh! Posted: 4/11/2009 11:25:43 AM
I am not interested in a caregiver. I can take care of myself. I met some women who want to "mother" a man. I do not want to feel like I am a child. I read some profiles: "I want to spoil a man". Annoying. That type of women are boring. I dated a 42 year old woman twice divorced. Very nice and caring, but a lazy lover - that is why 2 of her husbands did not stay for long. No Mother Teresa for me! I prefer a woman that knows how to be a great lover. A fun-loving type is never boring.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

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paying for his mistakes Posted: 4/11/2009 11:12:06 AM
That is why younger women are better. A friend of mine is 62 married to a woman 20 years younger. He was 57, she 37 when they got married. Another friend of mine was 47 when he married a 18 year old student of his. Why go after bitter mature women, when there are many pretty easy-going, fun-loving younger women/girls who are interested in older mature men???????

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 130 (view)

Honesty - does it really matter? Posted: 4/11/2009 11:00:39 AM
Men should not be honest with women, because women will never understand men. If a man is in a relationship it does not mean that he is and will be attracted to that woman. In fact, a man can be in a relationship with a woman he is not attracted to. Just not to be lonely. During that time he will fall in love with a number of women who are not interested in him. So, he will stay with the same woman. But if another woman he is attracted to becomes interested in him, he will leave the first one. That is why he should never be honest with women. Women want devotion to them, men can not give them that.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

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Women & Sex Posted: 3/26/2009 2:50:34 PM
I noticed that women who are looking for a good man are not good when it comes to sex. They have some problems. Either they were raped, or molested or had a bad first sexual experience........

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 192 (view)

Why do Strong, Independant, and Outspoken MEN scare the hell out of the modern-day woman? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:23:51 PM
Why do Strong, Independent, and Outspoken MEN scare the hell out of the modern-day woman? They don't . Such men annoy women. Women do not know what exactly they want. In their mind, a real man is like a good father, that would take care of her and protect her, best friend and a great lover, someone who would never argue with her, support her in everything, be loyal, blah, blah, blah, anyway, such men do not exist. So, they go from one man to another disappointed and getting bitter the older they get. They would tell a man:" Be a man!" But men can tell her:" Be a woman, not a ****!"

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 299 (view)

older guys younger women Posted: 1/23/2009 10:56:41 AM
A lot of women, as they get older, convert "life experience" to bitterness, anger, controlling behavior, and suspicion. A lot of the well balanced women over 40, who are attractive, sane, and reasonable are still married. After all, half of first marriages survive, and 75% or so of people get married before 30. There are some attractive women over 40, who have the normal amount of baggage, that anyone, who was married and has children will have, but who aren't "damaged", but what is the percentage of 40+ women, who I would find physically attractive, unmarried, and with a positive attitude....5% of the total, maybe. Those women are highly sought after, and can be difficult to find. I've found some, and I've dated them, but they tend to be pretty demanding, being well aware of their market value, and often set in their ways. Younger women, who are "into" older men, are somewhere around 25% of the total. A higher percentage of younger women are naturally attractive, and are often much more open sexually, naturally expecting it to be part of things. The older/younger dynamic, in and of itself, is unlikely to lead to "power struggles", and more naturally assumes a dynamic with the older man caring what will ultimately be good for her in life, and wanting to guide her to fulfilling her dreams, while being a constant source of affirmation and validation, as she tries to be all she can be. The "perversion" argument, while common, is contradicted throughout history, going back to the bible, and other literature. It was very common for an older man to take a younger wife, since men are very visual the looks are very important. Many men do not care if a woman is nice as long as she is attractive and preferably young. Young is beautiful. Obviously, it's not the norm, nor right for everyone. However, it is not so rare as to be an aberration. POF is a dating site, and so long as like minded people find each other, it isn't open for judgment.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

Monogomy is it important anymore? Posted: 7/22/2008 4:49:48 PM
A man fell in love with a woman and he wants her, desires her. He thinks it will last. But after some period of time he loses sexual interest in her. And then what? She would tell him that he got a problem, that he is impotent and need some help. The only solution to this situation is another woman. To a man a woman is like a book. Some women like thick books, other thin - meaning some women can excite a man for long, others only for a short period of time. And NOTHING wrong with the man. If a man is not sexually satisfy he will look around or stay miserable with a woman. Does it make sense to stay in an unhappy relationship? Monogamy is mostly for women. And not for all women.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 164 (view)

Why do MEN love BITCHES ? Posted: 7/21/2008 5:55:16 PM
Most nice girls are boring. Naughty, aggressive, bad girls are sexually exciting. Sex is a dirty game, not sorry, excuse me, what else can I do for you. Men will be men, what they want , why they want that - ask the CREATOR, not men.......

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 413 (view)

18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/11/2008 11:27:31 AM
Many young girls who grew up without a dad or their father was controling and disapproving of their ways, when meeting older men who seem to be nice, caring, loving and supportive, fall for such men. They need approval from an adult male - an authority. Especially, when such girls were not popular in high-school and did not have a boyfriend. They fall in love with high-school teachers who showed them some attention. They are grateful for being chosen. Others feel power over a grown-up male. This girl, perhaps, wanted to get married and have a special wedding and this man could offer her all that. Or she could hate living at home with her parents and wanted a family of her own with a man who can provide a comfortable lifestyle she needed unlike many boys of her age......For many older men it is A DREAM COME TRUE.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 2850 (view)

GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 7/10/2008 5:28:43 PM
Most women want marriage (to have a special wedding), most men want sex. What if after the wedding the man discovers that his wife is not interested in sex or they are not compatible, then it is her who won, he lost. Is is very selfish for women to demand this.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 373 (view)

What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 7/8/2008 11:59:06 AM
To men it is just having sex, to women - making love.

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 358 (view)

Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they? Posted: 6/30/2008 12:05:03 PM
There are women who pretend to be a sex kitten, teasing you, as if promising a good unforgettable sex, but before she will tell you that her ex-boyfriend brought her to good restaurants. I met such player. And I tried to impress her too the same way. I ordered fine wine - she prefered only very good wine. The sixth visit ended up badly. She got drunk and accused me in getting her drunk. She wanted nothing to do with me anymore. We did not get to become lovers. Perhaps she decided it was time to move on to another candidate without getting sexually involved with me. I guess it makes her feel good being pampered without giving anything in return. Or maybe she thought that she was making him a favour - after all she is beautiful and he was seen with her, so he must pay......

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 357 (view)

Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they? Posted: 6/30/2008 11:40:27 AM
There are about 10% of the whole male population that about 90% of women are after. A man who would take care of her and protect her , be patient, considerate, loving, generous, agreeable, a good listener, a good girlfriend-like. A man who would not be interested in sex unless she wants it, who would not even look at other women, not to mention think about them. In other words she wants someone who would look like a man, but be like a woman. And she would tell you:"Be a man!" As if she knows better what a real man should be like. After all she knows better than you! I hate women who write in their profile ''looking for a man, must not be interested in sex". It is all about HER, what she wants and needs. And his needs are not important......

dangerbird07

Joined: 5/28/2008

Msg: 281 (view)

Middle Aged Cheap Skates.... Posted: 6/16/2008 12:08:29 PM
Is it just me or this posting is very stupid? If a man has reached 45 and is neither rich nor handsome, he should not desire gorgeous, sexy, smart women? What man wants to date ugly, not sexy, stupid women? Every man would love to date a model. You sound like a golddigger, even though you are not gorgeous, sexy woman.

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