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tamzin01

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Msg: 22 (view)

when someone of age hasn't had a relationship Posted: 11/23/2009 9:38:48 AM
Helen0426: You say "fortunately for all of us, that does not affect me." How very selfish and self satisfied you sound. I'm surprised you have the audacity to call yourself a friend to these people, whom you obviously class as the poor rejects of society. Do they know you think there is "something wrong with them"? Have your heard of the expression 'There, but for the grace of God, go I'? Your post astounds me....still, I guess it portrays the sort of person you are for all to see and, clearly, your beneficiaries must be down on their luck to have you as a "friend" in the first place, because friendship involves mutual respect.

tamzin01

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Is being yourself really good advice? Posted: 11/18/2009 4:47:07 AM
Of course you need to be yourself. To "get tail" as you put it, you are going to have to meet them, and anyone with half a brain will soon put 2 and 2 together if you start creating a false image of yourself, and you will look a right dumbass. If you want anything lasting you need to be honest, otherwise you will get dumped as soon as you are found out.

tamzin01

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She is confusing me Posted: 11/18/2009 4:43:21 AM
I think she likes you, but only as a friend. She's feeling lonely and often wants someone to talk to. Don't be despondent though...friends are precious and some friendships last longer than relationships.

tamzin01

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What does he mean? Does it even mean anything at all? Posted: 11/18/2009 4:40:08 AM
The guy sounds like he's fallen in love with you. If you don't feel the same, I think you need to be upfront with him. I think he was trying to test you to see if you felt anything in a romantic way for him, without coming right out and saying it.

tamzin01

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Hurt a friend - need advice Posted: 10/17/2009 5:48:41 AM
It won't heal in a day, a week, even a year maybe. You have to prove by your actions that you genuinely mean what you say - that it's not just words. I am very unhappy because my boyfriend always seems to take out how he feels on me. I have been in tears several times recently because he's had arguments with other people, and as a result he's made my life hell. Each time he's flippantly said he's sorry, but I don't feel I can go on like this. Everyone has problems of one sort or another, but we have to learn to cope with them. By all means talk about them (though I've been told I'm a pain in the ass when I'm on a downer), so mention it but don't bore people to tears. It's better to have friends than no friends at the end of the day, and you have to control your moods. Get therapy if that helps so you have someone to talk to.

tamzin01

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Childless regrets? Posted: 10/17/2009 5:36:02 AM
Sure you guessed: I meant "I'd want to make sure I was bringing them into a stable environment."

tamzin01

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Childless regrets? Posted: 10/17/2009 5:33:30 AM
I am 42 and have not had children. I do like children and had I met the right guy and seen a long term, stable future with him, I would have had them. I don't have a burning maternal urge where I would just go out with someone I didn't feel I had a long term future with and get pregnant. I was with an ex for 9 years, but out of respect for him I wouldn't have got pregnant knowing he didn't want them, nor would I want several children with different fathers as some people have. The main thing is finances, becuase if I was rich enough to provide everything a child would want and be with him or her as well, I would go ahead. I feel sad in a way, but people can't have everything they want, and if I had a child I'd want to be sure I was not bringing them into a stable environment.

tamzin01

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is he a womanizer? Posted: 10/17/2009 5:26:07 AM
Hmmm....I think a lot of guys lust over younger women, but some are wise enough not to admit to that when they're with their partners. Does he make offensive comments when you're out in company, which would be humiliating. How does he treat you besides this? When I was 19 I went out with a guy of 30 who was similar...I dumped him in the end, although I had strong feelings for him, because I didn't feel special (like you, just the prettiest girl he could get) and he wanted me to dress up as a school girl as well.

tamzin01

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What do you think of this? Posted: 10/17/2009 5:20:14 AM
Concerto, you asked what keeps me there. Basically, he's not always been this way. He can be really sweet and affectionate at times, and hellish at other times. Let's say I love Mr Nice and hate Mr Nasty. I keep thinking maybe this is a temporary blip he's going through, but it seems recently that if ever he has bad day he takes it out on me. I read on another post about how some men withdraw emotionally if they want to end a relationship, and I feel that may be what he's doing with me.

tamzin01

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What do you think of this? Posted: 10/17/2009 4:58:06 AM
motown gowgirl, you're 49 and divorced, so I hardly think you're an expert on relationships either, so please retract your claws! You don't know me....maybe I am going on, but it's a fact that if someone is upset and troubled they may have a tendency to do that. Please do me a favour and take your digs elsewhere

tamzin01

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What do you think of this? Posted: 10/17/2009 4:52:17 AM
upstate, I agree. I am typing this on a computer where the return key has jammed, and when I try to use it I lose everything I have typed, hence the solid block of text. Therefore, I'd be grateful if anyone reading this could ignore the fact that this text is devoid of paragraphs.

tamzin01

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I can't understand this woman and her actions HELP!! Posted: 10/17/2009 4:45:21 AM
Actually, I didn't read the post properly but the others are right. You should have confirmed, and shown some interest and reliability.

tamzin01

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What do you think of this? Posted: 10/17/2009 4:32:15 AM
I was talking to my boyfriend the other night while he was walking down the street on his way to work when the line went dead, no explanation or anything. When he rang back a bit later I asked him why he just cut me off, and he said he bumped into a female "friend" who works with. I asked why he hadn't just said there was someone he'd seen who he needed to talk to. This is not the first time he's done this, and I feel really upset about it. I told him I hate him doing that and it shows a lack of respect towards me. I now find that this girl's boyfriend has told him to keep away from her. When I asked him why that is, he just said the boyfriend is very possessive and wouldn't really discuss it any further. I've been going out with him for over 2 years but he lives over an hour from me in a differene, and we don't see each other that much because we are both pretty short of cash. He can be really nice at times, but other times is rude and dismissive, even yells at me. I am noticing more of the latter lately, and yet he says he wants to move in with me. I am very suspicious of his behaviour, and he also told me not to turn up at his house unannounced. I am torn....he can be so nice sometimes, but I have difficulty communicating with him over important issues, and just clams up. My best friends think it's because he knows he's a bad liar and to dump him, but I do have feelings for him, cos he's not like this all the time. I don't want to be two timed either, if this is what is happening. Any thoughts?

tamzin01

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Virginity keep it or blow it??? Posted: 10/17/2009 2:15:58 AM
I don't see why there is all this fuss about virginity. I lost mine to someone who was special to me at the time and we were together for a year. It's not that big a deal though ...the important thing is who you're with long term and whether they treat you with love and respect.

tamzin01

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i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT................... Posted: 10/17/2009 2:11:37 AM
Come on....of course he wants sex. You might have valid feelings for him, but he is showing lack of respect for you, and before you've even met him. If you want your own room, he should let you have that and not be hassling you. I would be very careful.

tamzin01

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Is being clingy a personality type or a flaw to be corrected? Posted: 10/16/2009 6:38:41 AM
Personally I think you have every right to have your needs met, just not with him. You can't change someone into how you want them to be, no matter how hard you try. I was in a similr relationship to this,and the guy is till a friend but we didn't really work a as boyfriend and girlfriend. I wanted him to be a bit more affectionate, hold my hand when we were out and stuff, but it was not his style. I think the very sense of feeling this incompatability where you want more contact makes you miserable. You do want to feel loved ...that's natural but maybe he is not the man for the job. There's a huge difference between a friendly catch up call evey now and to not letting someone breathe or stalking. Just because he's a great guy and you're a great girl doesn't mean you're great for each other.

tamzin01

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What do I do? Posted: 10/15/2009 9:15:30 AM
I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years (he lives about an hour and a half away), and he now wants to move into my one bedroom flat, practically immediately, as he is having problems in the shared house he lives in at the moment and his lease is due to run out very soon. This is causing me a lot of worry, as sometimes he is very distracted, and goes into a world of his own where he snaps at me if he has had a bad day becuase of other people and acts really weird. When he is nice, he is very affectionate, but I feel I will have no respite if things go wrong, and I am quite sensitive and get upset easily if shouted at etc. My flat is very cramped, even for my stuff, let alone his, and he has piles of stuff. I would like to see what happens hereon,but I am in a stressful job and enjoy the sanctuary of my flat. He is saying if I don't let him move in there's no point in us continuing our relationship, and I dread it ending as well. I am finding work really stressful as well at the moment and I can't think straight for worrying about this. The other thing is my best male friend is also saying he won't be there for me as much if I go ahead with this, and he is my main confidant. Please can someone advise me what to do.

tamzin01

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is this just a womans thing or men do it also? Posted: 10/15/2009 8:56:55 AM
It wouldn't bother me. It's not incestuous, and at least they all get on.

tamzin01

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Should People in a Comitted Relationship Share there things with each other Posted: 10/15/2009 8:51:12 AM
Acually, I was out with an ex boyfriend a few years ago and he asked to drive my car, but I didn't realise quite how bad a driver he was. He went round a corner on one wheel or so it seemed and the car careered into the opposite carriageway. We were extremely lucky nothing was coming or we could have both been injured, and as the insurance didn't cover him I would have been banned from driving. I think too many here are letting sentiment get in the way of common sense. Maybe she isn't too hot a driver and he just doesn't want to risk it, and at least then he's not going to blame her.

tamzin01

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Should People in a Comitted Relationship Share there things with each other Posted: 10/15/2009 8:40:58 AM
I think it depends on the car. If the car is a sports car which cost loads and is his pride and joy, then maybe he's right. What about the insurance? I doubt he's got his girlfriend listed as a named driver, so who will end up paying dearly if she crashes it? Yes, him. If it's just an old banger, then maybe she should be put on the insurance as a named driver and be allowed to drive it. I can understand this though. My Dad didn't have a really expensive car, but he still felt edgy about me driving his car, and would only allow it in a dire emergency. I don't think it should be a dead cert and it's better him be assertive upfront if this is way he feels.

tamzin01

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Is it ever okay to resort to violence? Posted: 10/12/2009 9:01:57 AM
Violence is never acceptable. The minute you feel like slapping, kicking or punching someone you should end the relationship and seek the help of a good counsellor. Too many people have relationships with Dr Jekyll/ Mr Hyde personalities. When everything's going well they convince themselves it's not going to happen again....and who knows, the next time you may be so badly injured you won't be able to walk away.

tamzin01

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Dating a 27 yo girl for several months but she won't have sex Posted: 10/12/2009 8:56:24 AM
You'll only find out why if you ask her. It could be she's been sexually abused or has strong religious beliefs. It could even be that she's a carrier of a sexual infection, or is scared of contracting something from you. Maybe she thinks you are into sex more than you are into her as a person. As has been said, you have an active profile on her. Maybe she wants the relationship to be exlusive if you're going to have sex.

tamzin01

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She's Too Into You! Posted: 10/8/2009 4:23:32 AM
I think it's all down to our individual needs, but do think (male or female) you would be pleased to hear from someone who ignites you, so to speak. If you're always desperate to get off the phone and are constantly trying to avoid who you're dating, then why are you with them? Why not just opt out of a relationship that doesn't really cut it for you and look for someone who does light your fire? I think "neediness" is borne in the person on the receiving end feeling a bit bewildered by this behaviour and wanting to be reassured, while their other half gets more frustrated because they are just "making do" whilst not being that into the person they're with and don't really feel much inclined to pay them attention. They want to have a date for plus one functons whilst officially able to keep their eyes out for the Angel(ina) fish. And you only have to look at the sorry state that is Brad Pitt these days to see that some guys are never happy, even when they've got what they thought they wanted! Of course this applies to women too, but you get the picture.

tamzin01

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The girl I was seeing, wont talk to me after the party at her house, any advice? Posted: 10/8/2009 2:00:00 AM
To be fair, I'd do the same as the girl. You arrive late, pay her no attention and then get hammered. You chose to do all of these things. Use it as a learning experience to treat the next girl you're with better, but I think this girl has done right. It shows she respects herself, and you obviously didn't respect her.

tamzin01

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Staying with someone you're with because you dont want to expend the enegy getting to know another.. Posted: 10/2/2009 7:13:57 AM
I agree - I am quite shy and don't particularly enjoy getting to know new people, and you have to be quite tough to cope with rejection. I am in a relationship and not particularly happy at the moment and my boyfriend can be very moody. As I write this, we are not speaking. I do think it shows more strength to get out there, be strong and survive the ups and downs of dating rather than settle for less. However, you have to be quite tough. On a site like this, it's all down to how your profile sounds and how you look, so it takes a lot of emotional resiliance to cope with the knock backs, pick yourself up and start all over again.

tamzin01

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Emotionally Unavailable = Scared Posted: 10/2/2009 7:01:08 AM
Being in a relationship with someone emotionally unavailable is hard - my boyfriend constantly tell me he loves me, yet his actions don''t match up. He snaps at me for no reason and acts like he is there in body only, but his mind is seemingly miles away. I am not sure whether to carry on - not sure if the good times outweigh all the times when I feel a wall would be better company. In case you're wondering, we are not currently speaking. I would urge anyone in a new relationship to think carefully; I always thought it was lonelier to be alone, but it hurts when you're in a relationship and the person who is supposed to be most special to you won't confide in you and is on another plane.

tamzin01

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How do you cut the ties...when the ex is your best freinds sister? Posted: 10/1/2009 9:08:53 AM
Well, a friend of mine's best friend is her ex husband's sister. They were friends before the relationship with him started and they are still friends now. She hasn't seen him in over 4 years, since the day he told her he didn't love her any more and walked out. His sister was there for her, helped her pick up the pieces and is still there. Some friends are very loyal and valuable, and are there for you through thick and think regardless of whatever connection due you together in the first place. It all comes down to how strong the friendship is, but if the only reason for ending it is the connection to your ex, I'd think again.

tamzin01

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Pls help, guys and girls, did I lose him? what to do to get him back? Posted: 9/28/2009 9:23:51 AM
By the way, there is nothing wrong with your writing. I wonder if half the people who criticise you can speak and write in another language...I very much doubt it!

tamzin01

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Pls help, guys and girls, did I lose him? what to do to get him back? Posted: 9/28/2009 9:14:14 AM
Hmmm.....I think he would have realised your comment was just a joke about the missing Asian girl. There are 2 possible consclusions as I see it: 1) He thought you didn't like him as you were anxious to avoid any sort of physical contact. However, you should be true to yourself and never feel pressured to do anything that doesn't feel right for you. 2) He was hoping for a more physical relationship, i.e. sex, from the offset and it was obvious to him you didn't want that, so he didn't want to pursue you. My opinion is maybe you should email him again, and say you want to get to know him gradually, but you don't want anything too intimate too soon. If he genuinely cares, he will be pleased to know you did like him and will be happy to go at your pace. Anyone can do romantic gestures and then disappear into the night....it is over the longer term you see the real person. Good luck.

tamzin01

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Dancing With Another Man Besides Your Boyfriend/Spouse Posted: 9/28/2009 9:01:56 AM
I think this would be very disrespectful, and I wouldn't feel very happy about a partner doing this - in fact, I'd feel humiliated. The whole idea of having a boyfriend or girlfriend is that YOU are the special person in their life so if they're all over someone else, I'd tell them to stay with them.

tamzin01

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Have I fallen for a lesbian??!! Posted: 9/28/2009 8:55:03 AM
Ok, she's a lesbian, but who's to say she would be romantically or sexually compatible with you even if she wasn't. Unrequited love can happen even in heterosexual relationships, and it sounds like you might have been coming on too strong and embarrassed her. Also, I wonder if she felt it was such a good friendship as you, simply because you were not able to contact her once she left the workplace. Can you not phone her or go and see her? If you don't have her number and don't know where she lives, then she's not the friend you thought. If you do have these details, swallow your pride and make contact. Someone's sexual orientation shouldn't stop a good friendship in its tracks.

tamzin01

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Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? Posted: 9/15/2009 8:46:05 AM
I think you have to be savvy in relationships - I think it's a good idea to avoid ending up a lot worse off if anything goes wrong.

tamzin01

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Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? Posted: 9/15/2009 8:44:54 AM
Yes I would. My uncle got married and never got divorced. He hadn't seen his ex wife in years, but when he died she sprung up out of the blue and claimed everything he had. If you have nothing and have nothing to lose, then there's no point, but otherwise I think pre-nups are a good idea, and apparently abroad it is a lot more commonplace.

tamzin01

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Height/Size Contridiction? Posted: 8/21/2009 10:48:28 AM
Some men do suffer from short man syndrome...i.e. sometimes they can have a bit of a chip on their shoulder about their height, or the lack of it, or maybe I was just unlucky in going out with a guy like this once. It's down to what you find attractive, but I think women like someone tall becuase they like to feel protected.

tamzin01

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Why are woman so sensitive to rejecting their overture? Posted: 8/21/2009 10:41:06 AM
Personally, I don't think interests have to match exactly. I think it is more important to have matching values. It's important to have some sort of interests, because if you don't you may come across as a bit boring. What's far more important than having the same interests, I think, is being receptive to finding out about another person and their life and not just dismissing them straight off. Sometimes it is not the interests but the way a person comes across. Perhaps, even in an e-mail, there can be a phrase which is offputting, or maybe the interests remind us of someone in our past we disliked. If you really feel you woudn't gel with someone, then it saves wasted time to let them know upfront. Seeing as this is a dating site, it defeats the object to go out with someone you're not attracted to. Also, if you're the type of person who wants to share your interest with your partner (e.g. hiking), it would make sense to seek someone who likes the same sort of things.

tamzin01

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Where are the love-help articles for men?! Posted: 8/21/2009 10:31:57 AM
Hmmm....is it because men aren't that interested in this sort of stuff? I agree though, it takes two to make a relationship work and it shouldn't be one party putting out all the stops to please the other, while he is indifferent. Having said that, all my boyfriends have enjoyed looking at my magazines, particularly articles about sex, the fashion and the problem pages.

tamzin01

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what can i do to become more attractive Posted: 8/21/2009 10:25:18 AM
How can you be really attractive to women? With your ears...as to having them open and being attentive. When you go on a date, really pay attention to what your date, ask questions and have some opinions of your own....and note if she is reciprocating. If she's not, then move on fast.

tamzin01

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am I wrong for being mad?? Posted: 7/31/2009 3:24:33 AM
I don't think you have a right to be jealous....he never led you to believe you would go out together, and don't be off with your friend. Whatever be will be will be (trust Doris Day's wisdom). Just shrug it off and try and be happy for them. I think if you lose both their friendship you will regret it. The feelings you feel now will pass and hopefully you will find someone you're truly suited to. I

tamzin01

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In a relationship, Hanging out with Opposite sex friends makes SO feel uncomfortable Posted: 7/29/2009 2:53:51 AM
Some friendships last longer than relationships and good friendships can be hard to find, so don't be too quick to dump your friends.

tamzin01

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Male/Female Friendship Posted: 7/25/2009 2:28:18 AM
My, is this an English test or something? I don't remember the poster asking to be judged on his spelling or grammar. It is laughable that those who comment on it know know nothing about it themselves, e.g. the most basic of rules - that all sentences start with capital letters! What is wrong with you people? You really do need to engage your minds on something else. I would suggest a good night school class so that you can at least practise what you preach, otherwise you look very stupid for be-rating someone for something you can't even do yourself. I would think most 7 year olds have a better standard of English than you two.

tamzin01

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Why is going out with someone your not attracted to a waste of time? Posted: 7/24/2009 6:56:20 AM
You are absolutely right....going out with someone who doesn't light your fire can still be stimulating, entertaining and it can feel almost like the real deal. I went out with 2 guys like this (obviously not at the same time), and it felt great....until they wanted to get serious. My problem? I knew that if I settled with one of them, I would be craving who else was out there, because they although they were intelligent, made me laugh my socks off (if I wore any!) and were great to be with, the truth was I didn't really fancy them, and to be blunt I didn't really enjoy sex with them because of this. There were other complications which would have made both these relationships no-goers but lack of sexual attraction is a biggie, and it's not something you can just sweep under the carpet, and I feel remorse because I should have known better. In conclusion, this is a good reasonable idea if breaking someone's heart is something you can live with, but if it's not then maybe you should wait for someone who does set your pulses racing.

tamzin01

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is it unreasonable to ask him to pay? Posted: 7/23/2009 8:56:12 AM
Maybe, op, you should think about what you are contributing to this relationship, not what you can get from it! As many others have said you should get a job, stop being a leech and leave this guy to find a woman who deserves him!

tamzin01

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is it unreasonable to ask him to pay? Posted: 7/23/2009 8:45:50 AM
Oh, and in these credit crunchy times, let this thread be a reminder to all us penniless people out there that money doesn't buy love. I think the worst thing is to be wanted only for money so, if you haven't got any, thank your lucky stars that if you do end up with someone you can be safe in the knowledge they want you for yourself and not the cash you've got to splash!

tamzin01

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is it unreasonable to ask him to pay? Posted: 7/23/2009 8:36:49 AM
I think you are doing amzingly well out of him already....you say he has the income to fly you to anywhere in the world. I think that asking him to pay is pushing for your airport and pet care expenses is pushing it a bit, especially when once you do see him he is likely to pay for everything. He is already doing a lot for you, and I think you should appreciate that, not be expecting him to lob out even more.

tamzin01

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he never aks questions about my life Posted: 7/17/2009 4:51:58 AM
Get Company magazine this month....he got the book He's Just Not Into You free with it!

tamzin01

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Older Guy Posted: 7/14/2009 10:56:38 AM
Sorry, but I can see you getting hurt by this relationship. I don't see any harm with him showing you that he sees you as part of his life. If he can walk away that easily, then let him and find someone else (who will probably be younger and without baggage), but far more importantly, will appreciate you.

tamzin01

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Do women speak better than men? Posted: 7/14/2009 5:15:12 AM
In general, women are more descriptive in their speach, and there are some main differences. Women like to talk when they have problems; men like them to shut up, because that's their way of coping - to sit and brood and figure out a solution.lol

tamzin01

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Chris Brown Posted: 7/14/2009 5:07:26 AM
All I'd heard about Chris Brown was the allegations that he's assaulted Rhianna, but I'd never really heard him sing or seen him dance before. Then I was watching TMF at the weekend, and must admit I was bowled over - and he got a standing ovation. Must admit though, I find it hard to reconcile the fact that I loved his music and dancing with his violence towards Rhianna. Anyone else feel like this?

tamzin01

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i think its racism that they don't want to bury michael jackson at neverland Posted: 7/14/2009 5:01:32 AM
They don't want him buried there as the place held bad memories for him. He was living there when his life started to go wrong.

tamzin01

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How important is money? Posted: 7/13/2009 4:07:33 AM
At the weekend my friend wanted to buy rounds. I said I couldn't afford it and would buy my own drinks. She had difficulty accepting it. Why can't people be more accepting of your financial situation?

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