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SHOULD I INFORM HE'S WIFE SHE'S BEING CHEATED ON? Posted: 7/3/2008 11:19:34 PM
Personally, I just could not be friends with someone that put me in that type of situation because a real friend wouldn't do that. Not only that, I really do not want to be friends with someone that would be willing to betray and hurt a loved one in that manner. Honestly, what kind of person does that? Certainly not a decent one. If you don't like the relationship you are in, then get out. Why cheat? I would probably end up telling their spouse or at least sending them an anonymous message somehow about it. Maybe give them enough info so they could get the evidence themselves.

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Have you ever been together with a compulsive Liar? Posted: 7/3/2008 11:05:49 PM
The thing is that no matter what you say to them or what evidence you bring to their attention, they are going to deny it. You just have to leave and stop talking to them. My ex husband is like that. Always lying, still to this day. I cant believe a word he says anymore. I really don't talk to him, he just sends me mail through my myspace account and half the time I wonder why he still sends me stuff.

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Is this a new social phenomenon??? Posted: 7/3/2008 10:44:43 PM
I have noticed that older men seem to be doing that. I really don't see many younger guys doing it. I really don't date anymore cause it seems that most of the guys that I talk to just want sex and that is really discouraging. I am not opposed to finding the right one, however I am not actively looking. Just tired of all the B.S. I guess.

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Hi just had a date from hell....again Posted: 7/3/2008 1:53:46 AM
I think its actually sexist of women to expect men to always pay. I do not know about you all but I am not made of money and I know about the job market out there. Men are not made of money either. It is unfair for women to expect men to pay all the time. What if they are having hard times and just can't afford it? You don't think they are worthy to date then because they're broke and can't afford to spend a bunch of money on you? I personally have more pride in myself and respect for men than to do that. No man will ever be able to buy me and I am proud of that fact. Like Jennifer Lopez sings, "You Can't Buy My Love." However, I do not expect to be the one that pays all the time. I expect an equal partnership. If the guy wants to pay all the time, that is fine too, but I will remember and will get him something in return. Maybe one of those restaurant gift cards?

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Golden Compass Promotes Hate Posted: 6/9/2008 4:10:07 PM
The Christians did the same thing to the pagans in the old days, demonizing their Gods. Many still do. One author happens to swap positions where Christianities God is being demonized and all of a sudden there is an outcry? Welcome to a pagan's world. It's just a story anyway. If the Christian's are doing a good job of educating their children about their God, then they will know that this is just a story, not to be seen as a reality.

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I have a problem accepting some women as equals (can't respect them). Posted: 6/9/2008 1:12:28 PM
When I was younger I had the same problems myself except with men. Then I enlisted in the Army and lost some weight. I really wasn't that much overweight, I only lost 10lbs but it seemed to really make a difference. I had men chasing me like crazy and to be honest, it seriously confused the hell out of me and scared the shit out of me. Through out school, my entire school years, I only had two boyfriends. I began wearing real loose fitting clothes that hide my shape and the attention died down some. I'm not trying to be mean to you, but men do same thing, except with them it is all about the looks. And be honest with yourself, were you really after all of those girls cause of their "personality" or was it their looks? I have noticed that guys seem to have a double standard. They think the pretty girls should like them even when they themselves are not attractive, yet not even look at the other girls who are not attractive either. And then you guys get mad at girls who do the same shit that you do.

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