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Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Profile Up: Please Let Me Know What You Think Posted: 5/6/2009 8:19:03 PM
Well, your profile is a bit generic (not that mine is all that wonderful or anything), but you go through the same stuff everyone else does: you list hobbies, interests, and what you're interested in a woman (which apparently is anyone younger than you). At least your pics are decent.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Why do so few men take part in yoga.? Posted: 5/6/2009 8:15:23 PM
I think the issue here is that men exercise with a purpose, and that purpose is not fulfilled by yoga. Yoga is mostly about flexibility and meditation, most guys exercise to lose weight, gain muscle, or train for a specific sport. I'm also a little skeptical about how effective it is, I know girls who have taken yoga for years and still can't touch their toes

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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why do women say that? Posted: 5/6/2009 8:11:27 PM
Women don't like drama, but drama is better than boredom!!!

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 5/6/2009 8:02:27 PM
If he wanted to marry her before, this should change nothing. Assuming she hasn't caught anything, then it's not really a big deal. It's not like they still have some power over her, or one of these people might swoop in and take her back. Frankly, this guy sounds very teenager-y to me. Of course, now that he's made a big deal about it, she's going to wonder if she can trust him with the truth next time she has something to tell him.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Are US Men Obsolete? Posted: 5/6/2009 7:55:11 PM
I will never believe that men or women will become obsolete. Even if technology manages to completely replace biological reproduction, and wealth makes independence completely possible, there is a deep need in most human beings that can only be satisfied by another person. Will we ever stop having friends? We may not need any of these things physically, but we'll always want them. I'm not being naively romantic, but completely rational. We have evolved complex emotional behaviours, and nothing barring a complete genetic re-engineering of the human race will change that. We'll always need each other.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Women are awesome Posted: 5/6/2009 7:48:57 PM
Yes, they are. And men who think otherwise usually have something wrong with them ;)

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Ok Ok I get it, you're not interested in a booty call! Posted: 5/6/2009 7:47:12 PM
I totally agree; this message is used so often, and it has an incredibly negative impact. When a woman tells me that men just want to sleep with her and move on, it makes me wonder why they can't keep a guy! I'm waiting for the day a woman writes this in her profile: "If you're looking for a one night stand, be warned, after a night with me, you will be completely in love with me."

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Does internet dating work? Posted: 5/6/2009 7:42:40 PM
Yes, it does work! But it doesn't work for everyone. I think a lot of people have trouble because they don't present their selves well. A lot of the profiles I've read have been so generic, that you get no sense of the individuality of the person. Sometimes you just have to chance it and contact someone, and hope they're remotely like what you think they are. You have to really put yourself out there, or it becomes a numbers game.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 10/6/2008 4:05:49 PM
Honestly, I don't any guys who have a preference for blondes. We don't mind, but it's not really a big thing for us.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Abuse my profile! (Reviews, please?) Posted: 8/15/2007 6:30:28 AM
All right, I've made changes. Any more abuse?

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Abuse my profile! (Reviews, please?) Posted: 8/2/2007 5:38:36 PM
Reviews please? I decided to start my profile with a bit of a story, mostly because I like food. My interests came about because I was sick to death of reading the same interests in every body's profile, and let's face it, if you like someone, you'll do things with them you wouldn't normally do anyways, so it's not crucial that you have the same hobbies. (You don't watch CSI? No date for you!)

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Cutting hair boy short and the impact on attraction Posted: 4/14/2007 11:44:36 PM
I can't give my opinion on the professional side of things, but I can say a few things about guys liking long hair on a woman. First, a lot of women look boyish with short-hair. They may have an attractive face, but they may not have a very feminine face. Second, when a woman cuts her hair short, it's usually for comfort. Short hair is the sexual equivalent of wearing a washed out stretched t-shirt and baggy old jeans - not really very attractive, and when you see it, what do you think? 'What a slob! This person doesn't make an effort to be attractive, they probably don't make an effort in other aspects of their life either.' No wonder it's not popular. If you need to have short hair, you can make it attractive by making it something stylish or that requires a bit of maintenance. You see models walking down the cat-walk with short hair all the time, but never with just a bob.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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You want it? I got it... PROFILE REVIEWS! Posted: 3/20/2007 2:17:05 PM
I wouldn't mind some input on my profile either.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Whats with guys and the phone???? Posted: 3/4/2007 10:49:21 AM
Well, I don't know about the second question, but I do know the answer to the first. The 'spark' of attraction doesn't happen over email. Physical attraction requires a physical presence. I've spent weeks talking to girls over email, only to discover within a few seconds of meeting them that I wasn't physically attracted to them (and sometimes the opposite). Everything is decided at the first meeting, and if it goes well you can learn more from it then you could from months of emailing. Emailing back and forth without meeting is just pointless.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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SEX & ROMANCE TRIVIA NIGHT - FEB 13 - MARKHAM, RICHMOND HILL, SCARBOROUGH Posted: 1/26/2007 4:35:40 PM
Maybe I shouldn't try to help...if people can't find the place, they probably shouldn't be playing

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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SEX & ROMANCE TRIVIA NIGHT - FEB 13 - MARKHAM, RICHMOND HILL, SCARBOROUGH Posted: 1/26/2007 3:02:01 PM
Just to be clear, the restaurant is in a strip mall on the north side of Alden, 14th Avenue, and Hood Road, a little bit west of Warden and Alden. The intersection of Warden and Alden is a little strange - 14th Avenue becomes Alden as you travel west through the intersection at Warden, and then Hood Road turns into 14th Avenue at the next intersection west. Ah hell, check google maps before going there. I work in this area and have seen a number of people get lost

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Anyone care to explain this one? Posted: 1/3/2007 8:36:41 PM
To the OP: I've been on this site for over a year and have yet to get any really nasty emails, or even unfriendly emails, so take what I say with a grain of salt. When I was a boy, one of the girls in my class would make fun of me. I told my mom and she told me it was because the girl liked me. This woman took the time to write you. She probably wants some kind of response - most people don't send fire-and-forget emails. Maybe she wants you to offer something better, or maybe she's a **, or maybe, just maybe, she's making a joke and playing hard to get at the same time. If you stuck a smilie at the end of that email, it would be more obvious. In fact, this would be a pretty good way for her to weed out guys with no sense of humour. My recommendation: if she's a **, it doesn't matter what you do, but if not, why not have some fun flirting? For example: "I got your email. I used to go out to fine restaurants on a first date, but I found that most women couldn't afford to buy me dinner, so I thought'd I'd be nice and settle for coffee. You can afford coffee, right?" And if I'm wrong? Heh, just imagine the look on her face when she reads it!

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Review me!!! Posted: 1/2/2006 3:09:57 PM
ninirae!!! I get people sending me emails telling me 'I'm not interested, but I love your headline', so I suspect it's a winner. I used to have 'Me love you long time' and got nothing. I ran my profile through a spell checker and it only ****ed about 'humour' (which is correct in Canada) and 'internet' (which I'm pretty sure is correct).

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Review me!!! Posted: 1/2/2006 2:05:47 PM
So do I need a better photograph? Or more interests? Or more humour?

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Ok smarty pants...how smart are you? Posted: 10/6/2005 12:27:55 PM
144 This test is stupid. I had to look up who some of the writers were, question 9 has a second legitimate solution, and vocabulary is not an accurate measure of intelligence.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Where to hang out in Pickering/Durham? Posted: 10/5/2005 5:19:50 PM
I've been checking out the threads on get togethers, but I'm looking for places to hang out regularly, and I want to go out more than once a month :)

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Where to hang out in Pickering/Durham? Posted: 10/5/2005 3:22:57 PM
Hey. I recently moved to Pickering (don't laugh, it's what I can afford), and I'm looking for some place to hang out. And when I say hang out, I mean some place where 20-something women are looking to meet guys. Maybe some place where people can dance to live music. I am not looking for a sports bar, pub, or sit-down restaurant. Is there a real meat market out here somewhere, or do I have to go downtown?

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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PathlesChausen Posted: 10/3/2005 8:13:10 PM
Hey, thanks. But now I have no idea why I'm not getting any hits...

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Let ME analyze your profile for you Posted: 10/2/2005 9:27:49 AM
I know my picture is so-so, but I wouldn't mind some input on the rest of my profile as well. Thanks.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Why cant i find a man willing to commit Posted: 9/28/2005 8:26:15 PM
Dammit...this post was in relation to the bit about 40 year old men dating 26 year old secretaries.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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Why cant i find a man willing to commit Posted: 9/28/2005 8:21:03 PM
That is precisely correct, and precisely as it should be. Women are at least somewhat attracted to power and success, and men are at least somewhat attracted to youth and beauty. Men go out and get careers so that they can attract younger, hotter women. It may be 'shallow' of men to do this, but it is equally 'shallow' of women to throw themselves at rock stars and professional athletes.

Pathles Chausen

Joined: 8/23/2005

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What men want.. Posted: 9/23/2005 4:44:06 PM
Among the circle of friends I had in high school, 10% of the guys got 90% of the girls. The other 90% needed love, too. It amazes me how women set high standards, and then expect men to have low standards. Correction: DEMAND men have low standards. BTW, the majority of women are not beautiful on the inside, unless you have a completely meaningless definition of 'beautiful'. The word 'beautiful' connotes 'above average'. I've known women with truly beautiful insides, and they have no trouble finding dates, regardless of their appearances.

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